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fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Long story, don't know what to do anymore. Posted: 8/3/2009 2:15:38 PM
Sounds like your kinda stalking her,or is it just me?You better watch out you can go to jail for that hun!!

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

I lost my soulmate my friend and my lover:( Posted: 8/3/2009 2:05:37 PM
he logged onto the website,you have to think why was HE on that same website??Maybe it was one he used as well.I have kids and a lot of men I have dated don't get along with them but they are my baby's and they will be here forever.Everyone has someone out there you just have to find them,I went through hell the first time I got married,I thought he was the one but I see now he wasn't but it doesn't mean I don't think about him still but I had to move on.You only need someone in your life if they need you in there's.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 21 (view)

Happiness in relationships and life Posted: 8/3/2009 12:15:10 PM
Go to the liquor store and get you a bottle,the biggest one they have and some xanax that always helps me!!

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

Can't have a future when you are stuck in the past-- Posted: 8/3/2009 11:51:32 AM
Trying to understand the pass only complicates the future.That's why they call it the past you cant do anything about it,its behind you leave it there.People are don't wrong everyday and all you can do is smile and walk away,or bi*ch about it....

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

Too much baggage to start a new relationship ??? Posted: 8/3/2009 11:40:03 AM
Sounds to me that he is already in a relationship but its not with you!Have you ever been to his house or seen his family??

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 153 (view)

can you stay friends with an ex? Posted: 8/1/2009 5:37:50 PM
All people are different,Im friends with some of my exs but others want to talk to me because they want more.You know what and why your ex talks to you so the best way to know if its a good idea is to realize what he is saying to you.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 109 (view)

10 yrs and 50 pounds Posted: 6/7/2009 12:21:59 PM
I was talking to this guy for about 3 months that I met on pof.I finally got to meet him and he turned out to be SHE!!!!!!So feel lucky atleast she wasnt a GUY!!

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 153 (view)

What if the love of your life has genital herpes? Posted: 6/7/2009 12:11:25 PM
Dont think so.I believe in true love but I also believe in not having genital herpes.There are millions of guys out there that are as good or better than him.Alot of guys use the quote,I was drunk and didnt know what I was doing.Bull sh*t.I have been really drunk but I have aways known what I was doing!Also think if you get with him and it doesnt work then you have herpes.So think really hard about this.Herpes last a life time,some men dont.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 390 (view)

18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/5/2008 1:14:00 AM
Well i wold have to say I think it would be fine,if she wants to be with him then its her choice.I am 21 and the man Im with is 39 and its has worked out for me.I dont have to deal with childish men either.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

Does family opinion really matter? Posted: 6/4/2008 3:43:01 PM
If you would have read all the thread Im not married to the gay guy anymore.the best friends thing was for my sister I could not give her the answer she wanted so i posted it and she still didnt get the answer she wanted,which was it was ok for her to do that.That has been my name since I have had the internet so I stuck with it.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Does family opinion really matter? Posted: 6/4/2008 3:35:59 PM
Yes beause he has told me there is a problem with me and his family but he never tells me why.I have went to the family get togethers and treated them with respect but there is still a problem.Now he tells them we are not together anymore because his dad says Im the wrong choice for him.He is 39 why would it even matter who he is with?

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Does family opinion really matter? Posted: 6/4/2008 3:13:39 PM
I have been in a relationship with this guy for awhile.We even talked about getting married.Now he is wanting to live in two diffrent houses,not let his family know we are together anymore,and not telling his family he comes over here anymore.I know his dad doesnt like me,well I think his whole family .I think its because Im 21 and he is 39.i guess what Im asking is if your family doesnt like who your with does it change your mind about being with them?sorry if stated poorly.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

How did you cope? Posted: 6/4/2008 10:15:35 AM
Well I have I admit I didnt cope well,I went down the wrong roads but now that I have realized that Im better than all of that Im alot better.Now I focuse on my kids and me.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

Wanting to date ex boyfriends best friend? Posted: 5/30/2008 6:23:50 AM
yes people do have there own opinions but when it comes to says something about my schooling and breeding and calling alabama a hick town that is another thin.I think if you are going to coment on something,stick to the question and dnt be rude about it.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 14 (view)

Wanting to date ex boyfriends best friend? Posted: 5/30/2008 6:02:26 AM
Well yes all of these statements are true so i guess it would be a bad idea.I really dont know what I was thinking.I can always be friends with him still and chill with him so thats good.Thanks snuggle and everyone else other than wowsad.Oh and wowsad come on down to alabama Ill show yall how backwoods hicks do it to rude people

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Wanting to date ex boyfriends best friend? Posted: 5/30/2008 5:42:13 AM
My profile doesnt say I went to college or I didnt.I dont think I should tell my whole life story on here.We all hung out together.Im not looking for someoe to say its ok.Plus I never even slept with the guy,so why even think of that?I have had no problems with my exs dating my friends,hell if they are happy together then fine.I have always thought the guy was cool but never looked at him in this way.I dont want trouble but if two people like eachother then I guess we should talk it out with the ex and see if there will be drama and if so then i would be wise to stay friends.I just needed advise on how to hadle this not about my college or breeding!

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Wanting to date ex boyfriends best friend? Posted: 5/30/2008 5:15:22 AM
The friend and I have always hung out,more than me and my ex.I think he is a good person I just never thought of him in this way till last night.People break up everyday because they dont get along.Just because we didnt doesnt meant that me and the friend wouldnt.It was just something I was thinking about this morning and ask for advise.Wowsad,how do you know I didnt go to college?Hick town as you call it is my home so you can kiss it where the sun dont shine!Breed with,do I look like a dog to you.If you wanted to say anything like this,why say anything at all.Its guys like you that give guys a bad rap!!

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Wanting to date ex boyfriends best friend? Posted: 5/30/2008 4:50:22 AM
I broke up with my boyfriend because there was alot of things that we didnt see eye to eye with.But now his best friend is calling me and asking me to come over and hang out.I thought that was ok,so I did.Then the friend ask if we could go farther with the relationship!I like the guy but I dont really think my ex would be to happy and I dont want the ex to think we broke up because of the friend.I dont want anyone mad but I dont know anyway around it.What should I do?

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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My teenage daughter's heart was broken.... Posted: 5/19/2008 2:28:43 AM
i wouldnt think a break up party would help at all.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Is this normal? Posted: 5/19/2008 1:32:20 AM
OMG this sound just like someone tat I use to date.Run far far away,change your number,and tell everyone to tell him your dead.Well thats what I did and it worked for me.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 56 (view)

I married a gay guy! Posted: 5/17/2008 11:32:08 PM
it takes 60 days for divorce to be final here and the 60 days are up sunday,which is today.He knew nothing about the divorce in the first place so I didnt want to say anything about it.I got a divorce through running it in the news paper and if there was no reply to it then it didnt cost that much but if he found out before 60 days was up it would have cost me a arm and a leg

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

I married a gay guy! Posted: 5/17/2008 9:28:03 PM
Well I dont think I was doing anything wrong.Thanks for all the replys,it has helped me to understand alot about him.No this is not a made up story.My profile says Im single becuase my divorce is final.No I did not let him in the "pooper shooter".I dont think that would make a guy go gay anyways.but anyways thanks to all of you that gave insight on this.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

I married a gay guy! Posted: 5/17/2008 8:58:14 PM
Well no I didnt let him do that,I dont really think that would be a reason for a guy to go gay anyways?

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

What would you do? Posted: 5/15/2008 2:51:44 AM
I had the same thing to happen to me and I ask the same question but it didnt make me feel any better.you look like a smart man,so why even both with a girl like that.You always think the truth will make you feel better,well it wont.Its always better just to move on and let things go.

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 93 (view)

men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle Posted: 5/15/2008 2:21:14 AM
well I have to say I married a guy that is gay,dont really know if he like both men and chicks now but I think if a man wants to then its ok,its there life.I just say dont cover it if you are.hey some chicks like a guy like that..

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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I married a gay guy! Posted: 5/15/2008 1:06:22 AM
Well now that I have had time to think about this since he has been gone there was lots of thing but I just didnt realize it till I found out he was really gay.He would tell me that guys would tell him he was cute and we would be in the mall and he would say a guy was cute but I say that about girls so I didnt think to much about it.How did he convince me to marry him,well I ask myself that everyday!!

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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I married a gay guy! Posted: 5/15/2008 12:56:07 AM
I really dont know if he likes chicks anymore?Maybe I should ask him,well maybe not!I think I would be afraid of the answer....

fingerliokinguud

Joined: 2/27/2007

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I married a gay guy! Posted: 5/15/2008 12:25:45 AM
I was with this guy for 4 years and we got married last year,we are still married but he movd to Florida 9 months ago and no I just found out that he is gay.he is living with his boyfriend and I really dont know how I missed him being gay?Is that just something that hits a guy or did I make him go gay somehow??

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