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irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

Having Your Cake and Eating It Too or Hedging Your Bets Posted: 9/26/2008 2:41:36 PM
This is a joke right? The guy is using you and you are allowing it. GREAT Guy? He's a creap. He is waiting to find Ms. right before leaving his wife. Now doesn't that sound a bit strange to you? You can't be this desperate for a guy. He is NOT a catch.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 91 (view)

~Honey Bee Dance @ Holiday Inn ~ Sat. Aug 23, 2008~7 PM till ?~Crawfordsville, IN ~ Posted: 8/19/2008 4:37:58 PM
I am going to go to this party early enough to get in the place LOL Anyone want to share a room?

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Indianapolis - Wiggles and Giggles at 'That Place' Sat Aug 16, 2008 ~~7 PM till Close~~ Posted: 7/23/2008 3:06:33 AM
Count me in!! It sounds like a great way to meet people. I will be coming alone but it soundes like a great time to me.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Me Being Unfair or Him..... Posted: 7/21/2008 2:46:38 PM
Sounds like you are stringing him along until you see if you can find someone better. Let the guy get on with his life.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 370 (view)

How can men stop having feelings so quickly? Posted: 7/2/2008 3:57:04 AM
Men or women who do that did not care in the first place. Some use the word love way too casually.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 9 (view)

How do I help him? Posted: 6/29/2008 12:27:18 PM
If he "really" wants her to leave him alone, he will tell her.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 137 (view)

WTH Breakup by text??? Posted: 6/29/2008 11:36:03 AM
A friend of mine's fiance broke off their engagement by text. Only cowards would do it in my opinion.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

How do I make a connection with my ex? Posted: 6/28/2008 8:19:50 AM
Where is your self-respect? He kicked you out for another woman and you think he misses you? Get real and get some pride. Why would you want this creep?

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Is this cheating? Posted: 6/27/2008 7:37:58 PM
Yes it is cheating. He eventually will find someone online desperate enough to take it to real time. You'd be a fool to even consider taking him back.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Dating a Separated Guy Posted: 6/21/2008 2:56:18 PM
You have only heard "his side" of this so called separation. He is married. It does not take a year and a half to get a divorce. You should stay away from his kids while he is married. He does not sound like a prize to me.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

Am I correct to assume bruised ego? Posted: 6/21/2008 10:42:17 AM
He wanted you for sex 0nly in my opinion and when you turned him down, it made him angry. Don't let his nastiness hurt your feelings. He sounds like a loser. I would put him on ignore.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 153 (view)

Falling in love.... online????? Posted: 6/21/2008 9:46:51 AM
Anyone who says they are in love without meeting in person and spending time with them are "in love with being love"...and have never been in love.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 280 (view)

Why do women who show cleavage get upset when a guy stares at their breasts? Posted: 6/20/2008 4:47:04 AM
If they are showing cleavage, they want you to look. They can say they "just like the clothes" but that is the point in wearing clothes that show cleavage. If they say they don't, they are playing games.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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If a guy offered to take you Posted: 6/20/2008 4:31:05 AM
I love museums but not all women do.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

The Abortion Ultimatum - dealbreaker? Posted: 6/19/2008 5:18:05 AM
If what your friend says is true, he's slime in my book. Find out if it was true or gossip.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 347 (view)

Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 6/18/2008 7:42:29 AM
If you are here to date, why waste time on a bunch of e-mails. Meet for coffee and see if there is any chemistry?

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

Wife has a friend - help :-( Posted: 6/18/2008 5:50:15 AM
It is inapropriate for her to be spending this time and phone calls with him. I would be a bit suspicious about his intentions.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 42 (view)

I am magnetically attracted to a man I cant have...advice? Posted: 6/18/2008 4:50:30 AM
What would you think if he was your boyfriend and she went after him? Sounds to me you like the chase, but if you had him you wouldn't want him. You sound sleazy to me and he is no prize either. You are a lousy friend. It will backfire on you.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

Internet cheating responsible for break-ups? Posted: 6/17/2008 6:23:12 PM
There are just more people for them to cheat with. A cheat is a cheat. Doesn't have to be on the net.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

Alternative lifestyles Posted: 6/17/2008 2:14:56 PM
Not as long as you don't do it around her. Kids are smart though and before she will catch on. What are you going to tell her if at age 12 she starts doiing it?

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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What’s the best way to tell a married woman no? Posted: 6/17/2008 7:32:06 AM
Tell them separated is married in your book and put them on ignore. You do not need to justify your morals to anyone.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 1936 (view)

Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 6/17/2008 6:37:16 AM
yes and he turned out to be married. Lots of pilots stray.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

No sympathy for breaking up over a married guy Posted: 6/15/2008 9:47:56 AM
separated is still "married". That is no excuse. You knew what you were doing from the start and didn't care about his wife and kids. You should feel ashamed.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

No sympathy for breaking up over a married guy Posted: 6/15/2008 9:40:13 AM
You knew going in that he was married...The sympathy should go to the slime's wife.. There is a saying.."reap what you sow" It says a lot about you that you think you deserve sympathy. How would you feel if you were the wife and he was having an affair with another woman?

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 351 (view)

Why Do So Many Women Require That I Must Love God? Posted: 6/14/2008 6:19:09 AM
I've never met a "good man" who did not believe in God.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 440 (view)

wat if she lied about age....... do you continue anyway? Posted: 6/12/2008 6:24:07 PM
If she lied about her age she is most likely telling you lies about a lot of things! I would run if I were you.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

question for anyone Posted: 6/12/2008 5:30:18 PM
You are just as bad as he is. Why hurt the girl she will realize soon enough what a slime both of you are.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

He's just not that into me? Posted: 6/4/2008 12:27:51 PM
What do you want from this guy? Your insecurities are going to drive him away. Give him some time girl. I think you are waiting for some declaration of love. He sounds like a sensible guy who also has a life outside of you. There is nothing wrong with that. Talk to him about the texts if that bothers you but you seem to be looking for there to be something wrong. If he took his profile off, why haven't you? He sounds into you to me but won't stay that way with your pettiness.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

Advice on Break up Posted: 5/31/2008 6:46:15 AM
Do you realize she could give you some kind of disease with all her sleeping around? I hope you do not have or have not had unprotected sex with her. She's a user and you are a nice guy she feeds her ego with. Lose all contact if you are smart.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Disappearing Posted: 5/25/2008 4:38:58 AM
I met one here like that and then over a weekend saw him with his wife!

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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So she says she loves me Posted: 5/25/2008 4:00:18 AM
If she loved you she wouldn't have cheated.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 49 (view)

He doesn't want to date, but I REALLY like him Posted: 5/20/2008 7:07:48 PM
You are good enough for sex but not to kiss? You obviouslyhave no self-esteem. He is using you. When the right one comes along, you will be a "long lost friend"..

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

can i get your honest oppinion? Posted: 5/20/2008 3:52:35 AM
If I were you I'd not chase him. If this is his decision than move on. I don't understand why you would want a man who has told you he doesn't want you. He changed his mind. Don't show up at his farm. That is considered stalking and harrassment. He is using excuses instead of just telling you the truth. Stop with the gifts, you can't buy love. If he truly cares he will call you. Don't let him use you.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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help advice needed Posted: 5/18/2008 1:18:18 PM
Maybe your boyfriend has done something to this baby to make him cry when he is around. You need to put your baby first or have him adopted by someone who is ready to be a mother. You obviously are not if you put your boyfriend over this precious child. .

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 987 (view)

Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 5/17/2008 3:23:34 PM
They believe that is all they have going for them. They want attention, whether it is positive or negative.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Cant be in a relationship because I see my son. Posted: 2/18/2008 9:08:03 AM
You need to leave her alone. She obviously has a problem with your son. If she truly loved you she would have wanted your son around. Find a woman who really loves kids and they will welcome him with loving arms. I was a single mom when my kids were small and if a man didn't want my kids around, they were kicked to the curb.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 73 (view)

Do you read the profile before you reply? Posted: 12/11/2007 4:04:05 AM
I agree with you LOL

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 867 (view)

Why do women post pictures of their breasts in thier profile? Posted: 12/3/2007 4:04:37 AM
Because unfortunately there are insecure women out there and they think breasts are all they have going for them. Women with any type of morals or security aen't going to post pics like that.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 221 (view)

why do men say they love you? Posted: 11/6/2007 9:15:05 AM
I know a woman who says it to every man she dates. She has said it to at least 3 men on plenty of fish just this year. She is in her 40's. I even told her that men say it back because they think that is what she wants to hear. Love takes time.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 295 (view)

Must not do drugs....? Posted: 11/5/2007 7:32:08 PM
I personally don't do drugs, but I'd like those who posted that pot is a dangerous drug if they take mood altering drugs such as Prozac? Yes it's legal but it also can be dangerous. I know many who are addicted to pain relief drugs. Those types are druggies too...but they don't see that because they are "prescription". How many do Zanax to "get by"..hmmmmmmmmmmmm I think many are hypocritical about this issue.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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Dating your Best Friends Ex? Posted: 10/11/2007 2:59:31 PM
Don't do that to your friend. If he was any kind of guy he wouldn't have ventured to you and what kind of friend are you? Think about it.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

Why do wives/husbands cheat? Posted: 9/30/2007 7:02:32 PM
Those who cheat are liars and are not worth giving a second chance to. A cheat is a cheat.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 348 (view)

Why do young men think older women are interested in them? Posted: 9/30/2007 7:29:29 AM
I am 53 and get messages from some in 20's and 30's. I find it flattering but I am not interested in that age group. Just be kind and tell them you are not interested.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 391 (view)

she killed my baby Posted: 9/22/2007 3:49:33 PM
Yo are so right. Abortion is murder!

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 130 (view)

Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date? Posted: 9/5/2007 3:42:36 AM
I have a great body, especially for a lady my age. I would not lower myself to showing it off on cam. I guess some women have no respect for themselves.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 129 (view)

Does a woman sending nude pictures or getting naked on a webcam before meeting means sex on the first date? Posted: 9/5/2007 3:41:08 AM
I would say she is cheap and no class. Now if you want just sex, she's the type to go for. If she is showing you those pictures of herself, she is showing others.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

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She doesn't want him, but I do! Posted: 9/5/2007 3:39:14 AM
Hey go for it. I think you might as well. I do hope you are smarter than your sister. She could have gotten herself in a mess going out for the first time with a man and then getting drunk. If he had not been a good man, bad things could have happened.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

I got myself in a pickle... Posted: 9/4/2007 5:14:13 PM
Look, if you were the guy of her dreams as she says...she would have made time for you. There are many online who like the chase, but when it comes to actually meeting they balk. I also think she may be seeing someone else and holding onto you to see what happens. You need to move on to someone who is interested. I'd tell her just that. If she cared she would not put you off. You said she sounds like she's 12, maybe she is. Move on.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

I helped him financially and then he diasappeared... Posted: 9/4/2007 5:04:52 PM
3 months is not very long. Why give him keys? Are you not afraid he might now just rip you off? Change your locks and forget the money.

irishmckenna

Joined: 2/27/2007

Msg: 66 (view)

I helped him financially and then he diasappeared... Posted: 9/4/2007 5:01:55 PM
I hope it taught you something. A guy like him is a leach. A guy who would take money from you like that shows what a louse he is. Don't loan money to someone like that EVER.

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