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 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
need advice!
Posted: 4/5/2013 3:46:11 AM
Haha go read the thread 'when to kiss'...

Your not by chance dating him are you ? Sounds like you two have a similar problem...

But to me he seems interested, just wants to take things slow maybe


 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 40 (view)
 
I think I have doen something rather stupid
Posted: 4/5/2013 3:26:54 AM
So did he reply?
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Criticism
Posted: 4/5/2013 3:10:02 AM
I haven't read all the responses so maybe this has been said but at first you say they think your too critical, then at the end of your story you say they are critical.

I think one big thing your afraid of is people in general judging your or being critical about your health issues.

I think you are emitting these fears to your partners.

Usually the thing we focus so hard on not being, seems to find us.

More than trying to find a man not so critical, try looking at yourself first, maybe that's where the problem really is.

Also, if someone was saying to lower our voices, I'd take that as a bit patronizing. Sounds like a mom disciplining her child.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Time to move on?
Posted: 4/1/2013 6:38:23 AM
She is definaty not interested.

Because if she was, you would not have needed to post this thread.

It would be very clear.


 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 31 (view)
 
How POF found me a nice woman… after being stood up!
Posted: 4/1/2013 5:05:22 AM
It's nice to hear something positive for a change.

Ignore the flamers.

Glad it was a positive experience for you op...


 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Ladies - do you ever make that first move, or wait for the guy?
Posted: 3/30/2013 6:07:19 AM
On POF I have no problems with initiating the first contact but in real life, no way.

Come to think of it, I can't even remember the last time I ever really wanted to meet a man enough to want to make the first move.

 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 19 (view)
 
What questions would you add?
Posted: 3/30/2013 2:49:45 AM
How long since your last relationship?

I don't need someone who is still getting over an ex.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Women, your opinion of guys that dont drink?
Posted: 3/28/2013 12:57:41 PM
It wouldn't bother per say....but I'd much prefer being with a guy who at least drank a little bit. I do like to go out for a drink every once in a while, but it isn't so fun if I'm drinking a beer and he's sipping on a latte....

Everything in moderation is much healthier then cutting cold turkey.

Funny, apparently most people on this thread don't drink....where are all the drinkers? Lol
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 61 (view)
 
how come some women are man magnets and others perpetually single?
Posted: 3/28/2013 12:40:25 PM
Wish I knew, I can't seem to hold a relationship past a year....longest relationship i had was 11 months...
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Bedtime rule Question for men
Posted: 3/27/2013 9:05:54 AM
OpenHorizons27

I loved your post..lol

OP

When I was with my ex, it was me who always wanted to go to bed before him, but it was so difficult for me to sleep alone....I would curl up on the couch with him and fall asleep while he was watching tv...the arrangement worked and I was willing to compromise.

There is always compromise somewhere, you guys just gotta find yours.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 15 (view)
 
At a loss, guy from gym, advice needed
Posted: 3/26/2013 3:49:44 PM
Expect nothing and you'll get heaps in return.

Never actively persue something that isn't being returned.

Basically, he knows how you feel. If he chooses to return the feeling great, if not, then you didnt loose much to begin with.

just don't put all your eggs in one basket.

I Know you think because you've known him for 8 years, and now you have feelings for him, those feelings might actually be stronger than if you just met him.....but actually they are not.

Think of him as someone you just met. Don't give him the benefit of the doubt just because you know him for a long time. If he is ignoring you, he's ignoring you, if you know him for a day or 8 years....it's still the same...

I guess my point is, don't let the 8 year thing stand in the way of how he is treating you....because that is the bottom line, how he treats you.

And if he is ignoring you, he clearly isn't interested....8 years (shyness, excuses) or not....
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
That annoying question but I want to know
Posted: 3/26/2013 9:10:13 AM
To me a hug sounds very promising...I certinaly wouldn't be wanting to kiss him on the first date, so a hug is a great way to show your interested.

When I'm not interested and I met someone for the first rime, I'd never hug them.

So my advice, which is probally the same as everyone else's, is to just be patient.

If he is interested, he'll come to you and if he isn't, then he won't.

Don't get your hopes up and take everything with a grain of salt.

At the end of the day, he's just another fish in the sea.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Soo..I'm a gf, now what?
Posted: 3/26/2013 8:49:00 AM
You do everything you did before....but now you can do it all with your best friend :)

To me, one great thing about being in a relationship is learning new things.

Not only do you have company to do things you like, but you now have someone who can teach you about things they like.

Besides that, enjoy going to bed with someone and waking up with them.

Enjoy having a mate to talk to.

Just enjoy.

That's the role of a gf; enjoy, support and learn.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Differences.
Posted: 3/25/2013 3:03:06 PM
First thing...two different backgrounds doesn't mean any cards are stakes against you....does he live in romainia? Or your country? If he lives in Romania, then I'd stay away from him...

And he asked you out after 5 minutes? Yes big red flag.

But you say yes because you don't want to be prejudice or rasist? What if he was British? Would you worry about being prejudice or racsist then?

No one can tell you the best way to go about this but in my experience, with Romanians especially, if they have had a lot of international experience, then thats ok....but if they have just left their country, or still live in their country then I'd watch out if I were you....

Now I realise my post may indeed sound prejiduce or rasist but I've been abroad for many years and have interacted a lot with Romanians ...great people, they truly are...just be careful....especially if he just recently left his country...I'd be very careful....
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Can I ask him out?
Posted: 3/25/2013 2:46:18 PM
Don't see that in the dating manual anywhere...sorry its not permitted :p

Jk...go out and have some fun with it!

Email, call, just show up at his house! Whichever works :)

But in this day and age, it's perfectly acceptable to ask men out.

I've never actually tried though...wish I had your guts! Maybe then wouldn't be single....
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Losing attraction to your other half
Posted: 3/25/2013 10:15:40 AM
My longest relationship was like that. I think I stayed so long because of the passion...fighting was worse then I've ever experienced, but our good times were also better than I've ever experienced.

Eventually it just got too bad though...we would fight because I ordered him the wrong coffee, we would fight because the meal wasn't all ready at the same time, we would fight because I turned on a program he didn't like...he soon began ripping doors off their hinges, smashing mirrors, and throwing dinner accoss the room.

I tried to make it work, I wanted too...but then I realised he was borderline bi polar...so I took care of the situation rather quickly ... I moved to Afghanistan ..... Told him I was leaving a single lady, and I never looked back... He never did forgive me for that one though...lol

But Funny, today we are good friends....we make better friends then bf/gf.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 22 (view)
 
Chatting with a man that says he has been stalked a few times.
Posted: 3/24/2013 8:35:54 AM
When guys talk like that, from my experience, it's because they themselves do it....and it's almost like they are trying to get peoples pity because they know they are wrong.

Im not saying he is a stalker, but I would bet a load of money that he himself has stalker-like tendencies...or at least he is a 'poor me' type personality who likes unhealthy types of attention from women.

Either way, it's a red flag for me.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Does he really love me and does he want to commit to me???
Posted: 3/24/2013 8:23:54 AM
Seems to me your already working at finding an extra partner for your threesome.

Because im assuming that must be why your on here looking for men.

You guys sound perfect for each other.

I actually do believe he truly loves you.

I mean, even if you cheated on him, he'd think that shitte is sexy!

He's a keeper ;)
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 37 (view)
 
i cheated on my girlfriend once but i apologized and promised to change but she wouldn't come back
Posted: 3/24/2013 8:08:48 AM
But you apologised ? And she didn't come running back?

Damn...she sounds like one craZy assed mental case

Why would you want her back anyways? Seems like she may have a few too many morals...
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Don't know
Posted: 3/8/2013 9:45:27 AM
I'd say that you defiantly should tell him upfront.

What if he was a blind fat man and didn't tell you?

I think a hearing aid and your weight are for sure subjects that need to be addressed before you even meet.



 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Emotional men
Posted: 3/8/2013 8:48:46 AM
I don't get bothered by breakups either. I've realised long ago men don't take relationships serious, so I now tend to see relationships the same.

Probally why I've been single the last year and a half.

I actually do want to feel more, I just don't know how to.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Do hot guys get sex all of time?
Posted: 2/10/2013 11:22:22 AM

I don't consider myself a hot guy but i do get it when ever i want. I have a lot of girls who are on standby for it and wait till I get time.


Ya???

Women love muscles.

Your a lucky man.

Keep those muscles, because once you loose them, i'm sure you'll lose your 'standbys'.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
How Do I Get Over Her?
Posted: 2/9/2013 7:25:47 AM
(She's obviously one of those chicks that plays games with innocent guys. If she has a bf, why is she sorta flirting with you? The state she's got you in now is only the tip of the ice berg. If you don't try to forget about this girl now, she might make your life a living hell. Girls like her are dangerous.)


That isn't always true

Sometimes shy girls react this way.

Doesn't mean she Is playing you.

Could mean she Is shy and needs time.


I wouldn't write her off so quickly
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Should there be fighting in a relationship
Posted: 2/8/2013 11:21:55 AM
Stubidooo

What on earth could possibly cause two people who love each other to truly 'fight' ?

To me 'fighting' means to have strong feelings against someone and to act on those feelings in a negative way.

Period.

To have differences in opinion, Yes, everyone will...but to have 'negative hurtful feelings' toward someone who you supposedly 'love' ...doesn't ,make sense.sorry.

I mean honestly, what kinds of stupid stuff justifies any argument in the first place? Coming home late from work? Playing too much x box? Wanting to go out for a drink with the boys?

There is always two sides to every story, and we as 'partners' need to have 'empathy' for the ones we are sleeping with.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Should there be fighting in a relationship
Posted: 2/8/2013 8:54:46 AM
My ex told me it was perfectly normal.
He loved to fight.


For me....I just can't accept it.


If I love someone I will always try to see his point of virw....disagree, debate, yes...


But outright argue, never ....

To me arguing isn't healthy, and doesn't build strong relationships.

Disagreeing yes, arguing no.

There's a difference.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Passionate Friendship
Posted: 1/31/2013 2:16:39 PM
It would definatly not be for me.

In this situation you really need to look deep into yourself and decide what makes you happy.

If that does, then great.

If it doesn't (and I mean TRULY happy) then leave it.

You'll always be able to find someone single who you will probaly feel the same about, if not more for.....just be patient and don't settle.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
 
What kind of relationship are you looking for here?
Posted: 1/31/2013 2:08:55 PM
I remember when I was 17..

I met a guy at a chruch camp from arizona..we really fell for each other..wrote each other (email) every day. For a few years, i loved him...but never really saw him again..

For this, this has taught me alot about online dating....

No matter how much you think you are 'in love' you aren't. Your just in love with the idea.

So now, if I were to date online, i'd meet up quickly..

But since i'm abroad, dating is non-exsistant for me..so i'm jus there for forums unfortuantly, i'd really love to play the game...
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Would you take in in your ex in a time of need?
Posted: 1/31/2013 1:33:18 PM
As long as I had no feelings toward him, then it's not a problem at all.

I'd definatly take him in.

...if he's the father of my child!

Anyone who says anything is just an idiot and very immature.

Forget them and make him feel welcomed and loved in his time of need.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Definition of financially secure
Posted: 1/30/2013 11:24:06 AM

what is the definition for financially secure


Means one can support his or her's lifestyle.

For example, if your ok with living in a trailor in the middle of the desert, then fine, maybe $1,000 USD is enough for a month. AND that would mean your financialy secure because your 'living withing your means'.

But on the other hand there are people who need more. For example a high life in NY, so their 'means' is different than the guys who live in the trailor.




and also generous [/qoute]

Irrelevant.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Original suggestions for erotic sex? My ideas are !!!
Posted: 1/30/2013 10:59:34 AM

once, a L-O-N-G time ago, my husband and I video taped our love making session.


My ex of three years ago, video taped a session of us.

I remember him telling me he'd never go on video ever, and three years later after countless girlfriends he still says he has our copy on his computer (and so do I)

I must say...when I look back on it, it IS hot...very erotic...

..and more so, because we felt so strongly for each other...
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Original suggestions for erotic sex? My ideas are !!!
Posted: 1/30/2013 9:16:33 AM

It might sound good if I didn't want to see my fat a$$ on camera. :o



I totally agree.

If I wanted to see an ass i'd sleep with women.

BUT, I don't think the picture of my ass (or anyone elses for that matter) would turn me on.

For me, its all 'feeling'. All of it.

My eyes are closed and I 'feel'. Nothing else.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 7 (view)
 
after you mis
Posted: 1/30/2013 7:21:28 AM

seems i have been misunderstood or something


You havent been misunderstood. Your just not hot enough for them.

...and you probally dont have lots of money.

Tall is also a good characteristic to have.

As well as a dog.

..and big muscles.

Good luck.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 62 (view)
 
Do hot guys get sex all of time?
Posted: 1/30/2013 5:55:40 AM
Anyone can have sex all the time.

Just be sure to aim for someone uglier then you.

I was just talking to my friend about this today and we came up with this:


Hot men will usually go for ugly women and hot women will probally end up with an ugly guy.

So, bottom line..anyone can get anyone as long as you aim for someone uglier then you.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 26 (view)
 
unconventional request...
Posted: 1/28/2013 7:06:49 AM
That's the lamest break up line ever.

I usually say things like 'I feel your not happy', 'I feel this is what you want'.

But that:


i would like him to look me up in TWELVE years


...takes the cake

LOL

I suggest you just be honest and say you don't want to be with him anymore.

A five year old son doesn't cut it, because if you really wanted to be with him, you would.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Curiosity....
Posted: 1/28/2013 6:14:29 AM
I was on POF a couple years ago. Went out with maybe five or 6 people within a few months.

Since i've been back on, i've not been out with anyone because i'm living abroad.

My past experiences were fine:

- had my first ever one-nite stand,
- met a guy who showed mega interest (took me to his house, and he even knew my friend) then never contacted me again and deleted his profile
- met two guys who later travelled abroad and met me overseas (with the one guy we spent two weeks travelling in Indonesia, Malaysia an Singapore and the other guy we travelled two weeks around europe)
- set up a meeting with a guy I found out is an old school mate, we decided to head to a local bar, and if we felt comfortable after watching each other from afar, we'd then 'bump' into each other. My mom came with me on that one, because I was more interested in hanging with her that nite then him. We did 'bump' into each other, say hi and moved on.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How long did you wait for him or her?
Posted: 1/28/2013 5:39:03 AM
I met a guy 3 years ago who I fell madly in love with.

We tried for 8 months, long distance, but realized the distance was a problem for him. I could only see him every two months.

So we broke up.

Its now three years later and i've had boyfriends and he's had girlfriends; we've both lived our lives and acheived the things we wouldnt have been able to acheive if we would have been together at that time.

I'm now coming home for good, and we are both single. We've started talking agian..we realized that we still love each so much, which was why all our other relationships failed.

I'd love to say we 'waited' for each other...we did in a way, because we always knew how we felt about one another...

But to 'Wait' for someone is a mistake I think, you shouldnt put your life on hold, but I think you both should just continue to live your lives and in the future if your meant to be together, you'll both come back around and find each other at a time in your lives which is right.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Help from a woman's point of view:
Posted: 1/26/2013 10:21:16 PM

Can a person be to open?


Yes, a person CAN be too open and in my opinion people dont always need to bring up stuff from the past delibrately when you know it'll just create problems.



Can a guy truthfully speak from his heart and be believed?


Yes, for sure. A man SHOULD be truthful always. But as I said above, there are things in everyones life that doesn't need to be revisited, doesn't mean you should lie about it, but unless asked directly some things can stay in the past.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Decent girls out there?
Posted: 1/26/2013 1:09:29 PM
Poor thing you..

...and to think, I actually had a second of pity towards you.


Decent girls out there?


There are NO decent girls out there, so just stop thinking otherwise.

It also might help to have a photo...sheesh.


All u girls want "good guys" but yet u don't give us good guys a chance


..and here I thought we all wanted 'bad boys'...dammit, I missed that memo :s
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 13 (view)
 
was i so wrong?
Posted: 1/26/2013 1:02:46 PM
Wow, that is one big game your playing...


yes i kicked him out, but to me that's no bad enough to throw a 2 year relationship away.


You basically DID throw away your 2 year relationship just then.

He's not some doormat you can just use when you feel the need and kick him out the next.


now im giving him the cold shoulder because i was tired of him giving me the cold shoulder


Games, games, games..I think you need to grow up.

He was right I think..you need space, you need to get some experience first before you get into a serious relationship.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Being 29!!!!
Posted: 1/26/2013 12:49:48 PM
I'm 30 and if I died tomorrow, i'd be happy the way I lived my life.

Maybe you need to re-evalute yours.

Stop looking for women to fulfil you.

Go experience this big wide world.

And experience alone for a while..its the best way sometimes.

I don't have a man; the longest relationship was under a year...

As pathetic as I sound, I experienced more than I would have ever been able to experience if I was in a relationship.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Why am I having NO luck at all?
Posted: 1/24/2013 8:01:30 AM
POF is all about looks.

Are you hitting up the 8s and 9s???

It doesn't matter how many kids you have, or how much money you make, as long as you are hot.

I suggest to put up some pictures of Brad Pitt, that might help your numbers increase.

And you know us girls on here will fall for it too!

"chi ching, i'm fu#king talk to Brad Pitt! I wonder if Ange is ok with this? But fu#k that, i'm gonna shagg his brains out!"

lol..thats what goes on in our minds.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Self Esteem Boost?
Posted: 1/24/2013 5:43:47 AM

Scam artists everywere...in the space of two weeks I had two major Con Artists stalking me...and that's not counting the Russians...

Oh...the Russians...


Do you also see unicorns and have invisible friends??? :p

 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Living together for the kids.
Posted: 1/23/2013 7:32:59 AM
I disagree with staying together 'for the kids'.

In the long run, it doesn't make things better for them or you or your wife.

You need to be honest with all parties involved, even if they are your children.

Children can see right through you both, they will know something changed, don't underestimate them.

When my parents broke up it was hard and difficult..my brothers were small and didn't know what was happening at the time.

A few years later my dad found the love of his life, and truely that was the best thing 'for the kids' ; to see their parents truely happy.

You both need to end this and move on. Find someone who makes you truely happy, so you in turn can be the best parents you can be to your children....only when YOUR happy, will they be happy too, especially when they are young...

Good luck
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 29 (view)
 
How would you react?
Posted: 1/22/2013 10:42:20 AM

What would be your reaction to your dates announcement to you?


Nothing.

His sexual past is none of my business.

So, i'd react accordling.

I'd say nothing and continue to shag his brains out. Until his finishes with me of course, and finds another young sucker...(pun intended)
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Should I just leave her alone?
Posted: 1/22/2013 9:31:20 AM
Just do what another asian forum poster did:

Take her on 5 dates and pay for everything. He never landed sex, but who knows, it might work for you :)

But in all seriousness, this..


During our online chat session, she said she would love to join me. Then, during the meet up she replied "maybe". Then, two days before the day, she just replied me that she was not sure. I then called her the next day, and she told me she might have a party with her friends in the evening.


..tells you she is not interested.

and this...


Few days after, she called me and texted me sometimes. She also asked if I could give her rides to somewhere


...tells you she is only using you.

So, I think you have a pretty good idea what you should do.

One other thing caught my attention..


I would help her as a friend because I know for sure I'm not wasting my time and energy on this girl.


She is not your friend and you are wasting your time.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Self Esteem Boost?
Posted: 1/22/2013 8:52:13 AM
She was lying to you.

Ok I know i'm not the most attractive person, dont have blonde hair but I get maybe 1 or 2 emails a day, sometimes none..sometimes I go days without one.

I understand in my profile I say i'm only on here for forums, but still, if I wasnt then I could safely double my numbers from 1 or 2 a day to 2 or 4 a day..still not great.

I hate when people think us girls have men coming out of our ears on here, because we don't. I am sure my standards have not raised because of these 1 or 2 emails I get a day.

You are a goodlooking guy, if you have problems on a free site, it must be you. Alot of men (who in my opinion have much less good looks then you) can get girls easily. It's how they intereact with the girls, they know what to say to get their attention.

In my opinion, you dont need a pay site, but you need to evaluate yourself and figure out why you're repelling these girls....maybe your just too negative, I dont know..
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 37 (view)
 
Are my hurt feelings justified?
Posted: 1/22/2013 12:18:06 AM
What would that 'wink' even mean?? - 'We got intimate and now I feel better' ??? only thing I can think of...

She sounds like a total idiot.

Sounds like something my cousin would do, and she did it because she had the lowest self esteem ever.

She needed the attention to prove she was worth something.

Sounds like your girlfriend might have similar issues; bascially, low self esteem, and uses it to hurt others in order to make herself feel good.

I vote to ditch her, because she wont change.


I will not date anyone who still wants to be friends with her Ex... End of story...


I wouldnt date someone who is enemies with all their exs. I'm friends with all my exs except one. But not friends to the extent of contacting them regularly and hanging out with them.
Theres a difference....It's fine to be friends still, but i dont agree with using them as an emotional crutch when your seeing someone else.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Perfect in every way apart from physical .....
Posted: 1/20/2013 11:13:18 AM
Most men I date or have relationships with, i'm not physically attracted to.

The last one was old, short, bald and fat.

I find if i'm attracted to them, I get intimidated by them.

So for me, its easy when i'm not attracted to them.

For others, it may be a problem.

You need to find out for yourself if its a problem or not. No one else can tell you that.
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Wondering if anyone else has felt this way
Posted: 1/20/2013 11:03:48 AM
I think you are definatly probally the only one.

I'm sorry to tell you.

No one else on here has ever felt this i'm sure.

Sorry for being sarcastic but if you've done a thread search you will have realized that most everyone on here feels the same way.

I swear I think its in the fine print somewhere and we agreed to it.

Pretty standard.

Forget online dating...get back into the 'real world'
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Should I let an 8 year difference be a factor?
Posted: 1/20/2013 10:40:02 AM
I think 8 years is not a big difference at all.

The only concern i'd have is your profile.

Maybe it's better for you both in the long run if you just add in there that you are dating someone already....you know, to ward off those mounds of girls who i'm sure are busting your inbox.
 
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