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mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 16 (view)

Is the tough love the remedy for a mate that has made a mistake Posted: 8/20/2008 1:44:19 PM
The bill situation has been a on going problem in our realtionship. We have been on needles since I started a this profle here on plenty of (gold diggers) I ment to say fish. My opportunites are open if I find the right women that has more to offer then the mate I have excess baggage with the loans . I know I can do better single 33 yr old family oriented guy with no kids.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

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Is the tough love the remedy for a mate that has made a mistake Posted: 8/20/2008 1:29:02 PM
We have a seperate account none of her bills or in a joint account with mine. I have never shared bills with her unless it was me helping her pay off her sh--t she created. She sees I have money in my saving account to help her with her bill but I refuse. The last bill I helped her pay off was for $8,500 dollars she only paid about $3,000 to the entire bill and left me with $5,500 dollars of the remainder. Marriage or boyfriend/ girlfriend does not include creating unnessary dept purposely for you mate to correct and then having a attitude when your mate acts as if the bill does not exist

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

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Is the tough love the remedy for a mate that has made a mistake Posted: 8/20/2008 1:06:10 PM
Everthing went pretty good with our relationship until independently she learned from creditors she had credit to take out loans. I did'nt have a problem with have credit I had a problem with her independently taking out loans that we are over extended on paying back. The way I see it I should not be responsible for loans that she created on her own without consulting me in regard to them. I feel taking out a loan for $5,000- $10,000 $15,000 makes no since just for extra cash for spending money. Her family including her mother spends this money up then once the payment starts rolling end she looks for me to help her pay a loan I had absolutely nothing to do with not even accept anything she paid with the money. I go ahead and pay rent and lights and water , cable, auto insurance and grocerys and sit back and watch her struggle paying the bill she independently created without me. She is catching pure hell on her part because she is going paycheck to pay her loans. I refuse to pay any of her bills that she went out and created for no reason. I feel like the mate should not have to be dragged into the poor decision making. The outcome of the situation is she treats me very cold . No sex, No cooked meals, No hugging, No kisses or anything. I must admit it hurts but I refuse to correct her bad choices with the spending sprees and loans she created. I have have done this several time before and I refuse to do it again . I have seperated myself from her and I don't call her on the phone at all. She has not called me or apologized with how she has been treating me and what she is going to do to correct her situation she created. I feel being a man means showing tough love without falling weak to someone who his already in the wrong.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

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Is the tough love the remedy for a mate that has made a mistake Posted: 8/20/2008 12:15:00 PM
I just wanted to get a opinion on how do you feel about tough love. I am in a relationship where the romance has kind of died due to the excess loans and bills my mate has created and now she has us in dept. Since we are both stressed sex life meaning romance has gone down hill she argues and fuss all the time. It is to the point we both sleep in the bed apart without touching caressing and touching eaching other like we use to. She does not cook or do the things she use to she also mentioned if I wanted a hot meal to cook it myself. When I get home from work she would greet me at the door doesnt even do that. Lately she his been saying what she wants to say to me and not caring if it hurt my feelings or not due to her being stressed about something she created. I have tried to sit her down and talk with her about trying to sit her down and come up with a plan to correct the mess she created with the bills it goes in on eear and out the other. I have come to me decision she is taking my kindness for granted and decided to give her some space. I would like to know giving a person who is stressed to the point they are aggravated about everthing around them and not wanting to be bothered with anyone would it be a great idea to give them space so they can have a reality check. When I say reality check I mean don't call or see each other in efforts for her to see where she has gone wrong. I feel I should not have to call her to apologize for her wrong doing.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 164 (view)

Anyone got back with their EX before?? Posted: 8/16/2008 3:24:23 PM
I never get back with a ex before because it seems like when they have sex with someone else they are no longer desired and it kills things. I like fresh un-picked fruit.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 91 (view)

Is it ok to use baby oil as a lube??? Posted: 8/12/2008 4:03:00 PM
NO LUBE JUST A LITTLE MORE 4-play I AM A GUN-O-COLO-GIST doctor I would recommend more for play and make sure you cut the fan off during sex if will dry you worse then a dessert.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

Tongue Piercings Posted: 8/12/2008 3:35:47 PM
Sexy tongue pierced mom or working mom I think as long as your tungue is pierced you are going to have people wonder up and tell you things that are not consistant with your personality of the reason your tongue is pierced. People are quick to come up with their own assumptions of what they feel people that get their tongue pierced are good for. People minds have a tendency of going to the gutter the moment they see one. I will be honest with you my mind wonders to the gutter also when I see a sexy lady with a long tongue with her tongue pierced I simply don't tell the person know what is on my mind and just be respecful to her and keep my sexual fetishes of what I like to myself.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 58 (view)

Tongue Piercings Posted: 8/12/2008 3:28:13 PM
Sexy tongue pierced mom or working mom I think as long as your tungue is pierced you are going to have people wonder up and tell you things that are not consistant with your personality of the reason your tongue is pierced. People are quick to come up with their own assumptions of what they feel people that get their tongue pierced are good for. People minds have a tendency of going to the gutter the moment they see one. I will be honest with you my mind wonders to the gutter also when I see a sexy lady with a long tongue with her tongue pierced I simply don't tell the person know what is on my mind and just be respecful to her and keep my sexual fetishes of what I like to myself.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

Sexual Silence? Posted: 8/12/2008 3:08:24 PM
I get dissapointed having sex with someone who acts like their parents are standing at the foot of the bed watching them have sex.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

Sexual Silence? Posted: 8/12/2008 2:51:07 PM
DEPENDS ON MY MOOD AND HOW AROUSE YOU MAKE ME Normally during sex I would talk major sh---t I guess you can say I have been watching too many porn movies with the police officer arresting the registered nurse. It is weird but I get more aroused having sex with a women outside my race. I had a women that loved for me to pound it doggy style for over an hour but she always stayed cool and collect even talking to kids when they knock on the door and ask her questions while we are having sex. EXAMPLE ( MOMA WILL BE WILL BE OUT IN A MINUTE OK JUST GO WATCH TV)

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 219 (view)

McCain and Age Posted: 8/10/2008 9:38:48 PM
I disagree if you vote McCain you should just go ahead an re-elect Bush and get prepared to start walking to work. Gas and Oil has been so expensive your great grandkids wouldnt be able to afford it when they get old enough to drive. Maybe all McCain supporter can start a donation of your hard earned money for the gas and oil Republican investors.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 91 (view)

Peeing in the sink. Posted: 8/10/2008 10:03:37 AM
Dude it sound like to me you need a stand up mens stall toilet built in your bathroom,

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 181 (view)

Would you pay for sex ? Posted: 8/9/2008 10:31:14 PM
You are responsibly paying and it's not child support LOL...........

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 141 (view)

Masterbation...How much is Too Much??? Posted: 8/9/2008 10:18:46 PM
I would say you masturbate too much when you wear a tank top and people notice one of your are arms is extremely large and the other is tiny and kids tell their parents he must have a birth defect like the kids that ride on the short school bus. I would say when you go to the gym to work out people tell you the steroids pills must had been defective to oneside of your body. I would say when your sexual partner.... ask why when you cum during sex its only one drop. instead of a load.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 858 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/9/2008 9:42:43 PM
Could you please refer the guy to this forum doctors office I am phyciatric doctor I can prescribe him some medication for his problem and NO I AM NOT GAY

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 856 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/9/2008 9:32:51 PM
I have never heard of a guy not liking blow jobs all you have to say to me is can I give you a BLOW and before you finish the word blow job I am fully erect and I have already let the recliner back and whiped it out. Blowjob stimulate and relax me mentally even when I am having a fck up day.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 101 (view)

Using teeth during oral sex Posted: 8/9/2008 10:43:24 AM
Teeth are good if a person keeps their mouth loosely and very lightly use the teeth I had a white lady that had perfected it. I had a women that was so rough with teeth I woke up the next morning with teeth rub rash marks on my st--ck. I took a good soak in the tub and said to myself I want mess with that tiger again. I love a women who know hot twurl a long tungue.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 56 (view)

Oral sex and the taste of ejaculate Posted: 8/9/2008 10:22:51 AM
MAKE IT TASTE SWEET EXERCISE, DRINK PLENTY OF WATER AND EAT PLENTY PINEAPPLE AND FRUITS.................... I feel it really depends on what the person eats and how physically active in exercise. I drink plenty of water and work out alot this includes running. I love fruits that increase my energy level so therefore I eat plenty fruits such as strawberrys, grapes, apples ect. Most men don't understand when they don't eat healthy and excercise the texture of how the ejaculation looks and smell will not be correct. If you want a women to have this sweet taste like a creamy shake exercise and drink plenty water eat all the pineapple you can eat also drink 100% apple juice, pineapple juice take a centrum vitamins once a day with a ginseng pill. If you don't want to do the things I explained and would like to take the easy route out go to a adult sex store and buy flavor tablets you can take to make it taste sweet.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

Oral sex and the taste of ejaculate Posted: 8/9/2008 9:59:46 AM
Would taste mind I eat alot of pineapple and have been to its taste very sweet?

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 225 (view)

35, No Kids, Never Married Posted: 8/9/2008 1:56:36 AM
Don't fall into that guilt trip women play that who already have kids and feel since you are single and 35 yrs old there must be something wrong with you. I was involved with a women that often told me the same thing and she almost had me believing what she said was true. Women often say these things when their kids are very young because they are hoping you will be a good step father for there kids until they get big.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 56 (view)

Guys that don't get off from Oral sex Posted: 8/8/2008 8:20:45 PM
I have got off a few time by ONE women that was very experienced. I was in complete shock to know that she had a trick to getting me off. I must admit I have had some Blow jobs so horrible I just decided to call for a time out before I say you are fired. I am like a kid in a candy store if a women knows how to do that extremely well. I am going to give a list of things that I like when a women is giving oral sex. #1 Make sure you wear a provacative lipstick that is very wet and glossy #2 Have your hair done nicely in a innocent way on purpose for the occasion #3 wear a sweet smelling perfume #4 When giving oral sex make sure you sit in a submissive position #5 Leave the lights on #6 Make sure your hands are smooth and your nails are manicured #7 Eye shadow your eyes If you have beautiful colored eyes that is a plus #8 Every so often make eye contact with your mate #9 Ask questions while doing it like Eric , Sweetie ,Honey do you like that? Is it good to you ? # 10 Make eye contact briefly when you ask these questions #11 Be very passionate and submissive (nothing more dissapointing then a square women. #12 If you are in the medical field and have a uniform for example Registered Nurse that is a plus wear it if not wear something sexy . #13 Keep a motion that is consistant no breaks or stops then start back again that will kill the moods it not hurt to be great with your tungue. #14 Make sure you have nice straight pearly white teeth.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 8/8/2008 7:03:40 PM
Hi, My name is Eric I am a 33 yr single male no kids residing in the Florida state capital Tallahassee Florida. I just decided to give this whole internet thing a try. I am on here seeking good friends to have a great time with. I go to work and come home so therefore my life needs more excitement in it with just having some trustworthy friends to kick it with eat crab legs maybe have some wine crank up the big screen plasma tv and watch sports on the surround and just have fun. If you have any friends husband, wife ect bring them over there is enough crab legs and hot boiled peanut for everyone lol. I am seeking a good women to develop a friendship with possibly something long-term. I enjoy fishing hunting I also have a passion for restoring old cars to cruise to the beach on the weekend with the top down. I have a very diverse personality so I believe in talking to many ethnic groups of people I don't care what race you are. You can bring your pet dog over to my house he or she can kick it with us also LOL with exception to reptiles. I learned sometimes when you meet friends sometimes they introduce you to more friends sometimes your friend are the ones who hook you up with that special someone you get married to. When I say friends I am regarding to male and female friends. Please NO BI-SEXUAL MALE actor friends that have bi-tendencys in mind. If you are a BI-FEMALE I HAVE NO PROBLEM LOL. Just cool guy and female friends just have fun and do the things you do in a sports bar.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 193 (view)

Is U.S.America Rasist? Obama is White Posted: 8/8/2008 5:02:00 PM
AMERICA NEEDS TO BECOME MORE SELLERS NOT BUYERS We have almost nothing manufactured here in the USA we can be proud about selling except for beef and that is becoming something that is not 100 percent a demand Well you are absolutely right Obama can't do no more than what Bill Clinton did as democrat. You have to understand this is the first time in history someone who has any kind African in them has a good shot at becoming a president. However going down in history is one thing actions are a another. I feel with his career being such a important event in history I don't think he would risk being put in the books (Genis book of world records) as being the worse African American president in history to bring little or no change. With all this at stake he would work harder then the avarage silver spoon Republican to make sure things are on point. I disagree with you on black people feeling Obama is Superman and he will rescue everybody including lazy people that try to manipulate the welfare system. I do feel hard workers and college students and disabled and retired black whites that are working a long hours could use a Democrats help with enconomic issues here in the US. America needs to stop relying on other countrys for everything we need. We are getting the point we have almost nothing here to offer other countrys be food.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 173 (view)

Would you pay for sex ? Posted: 8/7/2008 5:32:13 PM
WHY IS IT BRAD PITT DOESNT HAVE TO PAY FOR SEX?

mr_joy_st1ck

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Msg: 172 (view)

Would you pay for sex ? Posted: 8/7/2008 5:31:06 PM
IF YOU HAVE A LAZY ALBUNDY ATTITUDE YOU MUST PAY MOST OF THE TIME UNLESS YOU HAVE THIS BRAD PITT CHARMING PERSONALITY THAT MAKES FEMALES INFATUATED BY YOU. Well paying for sex is the last resort if the person on the other end is not interested in a sexual relationship with the other. I have learned just because you think someone is hot and you would like to be involved with them sexually dont mean they feel the same way about you. Basically what Im trying to say is just because you think you are hot does not nessarily mean the person on the opposite sees what you see or feel about yourself.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 191 (view)

Is U.S.America Rasist? Obama is White Posted: 8/7/2008 8:55:05 AM
I WOULD RATHER DO BUISINESS WITH A POOR SALESMAN WHO HAS A OLD RAGEDY SUITE THAN WITH A CORPORATE SALESMAN WITH A NEW SUITE. I think we could use a change of race when it comes to a president not because I am black. The reason I feel we need a change is because people abroad see president Bush in there eyes as a crooked blue collar corporate buisiness worker in a suit in countrys overseas for the sole purpose of benefits for the wealthy here in the United States and buisiness purposes for investors. Ask yourself if you where poor and you had just a little money to start a buisiness would you trust investing your buisiness with someone who already has plenty of money and absolutely nothing to lose not to mention long history of Greed and ego or would you invest your money with a poor mixed black and white guy who was not born with spoon in his mouth in the same boat with just a little money also to invest . Well I just painted picture for you so you can see how people view American presidents in suites.. Just because a American presidents shakes hands with a leader in another country and smiles for a picture in front of the camera does not mean the leader of that country does not know of forgot our greed tendencys in history over power. Lets not forget we dropped a nuke on China years ago when nukes was not allowed in war disputes. Now the US has turned the table wanting to be for peace and is afraid of Iran building a nuke. I can understand why US feels the way they do about Iran making nukes but in order to get respect you have to have a history of giving respect and practicing what you preach to develop better relationship with other countrys abroad that goes further than just shaking hands and taking pictures. The US fearS the Irans could possibly make a nuke and use nukes on the US but the US used nukes on China during a war when the US was not suppose to use them. I just painted another picture how some countrys feel about us.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 190 (view)

Is U.S.America Rasist? Obama is White Posted: 8/6/2008 10:19:00 PM
WOULD PEOPLE THINK DIFFERENT OF OBAMA IF HIS FATHER WAS WHITE AND HIS MOTHER BLACK? DO YOU THINK IF OBAMA WAS MIXED WHITE/ CHEROKEE INDIAN WOULD THINGS BE WORSE DUE TO THE HOW AMERICA WAS FOUND IN HISTORY? Why is everyone trying to tie him to his pastor. Every pastor in there career at some point made a mistake or mistakes of saying things that are not completely accurate. If you believe it look at what this new pope said he had to go back and correct it due to some offended people. You don't have to cast them out as being bad. What you do is disagree and agree to the things that are agreeable. People always try to cause divisions withthe race card. The fact are Obama is not BLACK or WHITE he is what you call MIX. Being MIX is no different than a LATINO/ASIAN or INDIAN/WHITE or FRENCH/MEXICAN or BLACK/ ASIAN the list goes on. Mix happens to be one of the search picks on this personals site. Some people teach there kids at a early age to classify them selfs as being MIX out of respect for eachs race heritage instead of making it a White or Black pick issue between both race. However people have the right to identify themselves with which they feel may fit there personality type preferance. Obama choose black due to the fact he feels that race fits his personality and taste better. If you notice who he is married to you will see why.......... Michelle happens to be black. If I was to guess I would say Obama is more like his mother due to the fact she persuede a relationship with a black guy Obama persued a black lady. If I was Obama I would have classified myself as being Mixed and let the media figure what my personality is more like to identify myself more as. I ask myself I wonder if people would think different of Obama if his father was white and his mother was black.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 109 (view)

Lactation sex Posted: 8/6/2008 9:37:03 PM
SOME MEN ARE A BUNCH OF BABYS WOULD YOU SHARE BREAST FEEDING WITH THE NEWBORN BABY OR BECOME JELOUS OF THE BABY AND DRINK ALL THE BREST MILK?

mr_joy_st1ck

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Msg: 108 (view)

Lactation sex Posted: 8/6/2008 9:35:08 PM
WOULD YOU SHARE BREAST FEEDING WITH THE NEWBORN BABY OR BECOME JELOUS OF THE BABY AND DRINK ALL THE BREST MILK?

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 107 (view)

Lactation sex Posted: 8/6/2008 9:26:40 PM
I had a female friend that had a child and had some in her breast 5 months after having her child and by suprice she pulled her tits out and sprayed it on me. It went right into my mouth. Believe it or not it does not taste good. If you want to know what it taste like simply buy a carton of powder milk and mix it slighty watered down. Try drinking it a room temperature that is what breast milk taste like. It is no exciting taste and it does not taste like the store bought cows milk either.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

Msg: 21 (view)

Baggage vs Life Experiences ??? Posted: 8/5/2008 10:59:57 AM
BAGGAGE/ VERSES SOMEONE WHO HAS NOTHING TO OFFER AT ALL Would you rather have someone with baggage or nothing to show at all?

mr_joy_st1ck

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Baggage vs Life Experiences ??? Posted: 8/5/2008 10:48:12 AM
KIDS ARE NOT BAGGAGE BUT THEY ARE RESPONSIBLITY I will classify kids as being responsiblity rather then baggage because it sounds more respectful. Some people in this world take the Persuit of Happiness very seriously. Anytime you get involved in a relationship when dating you are basically interviewing the person and you are the interviewer. It is up to the partys that are interviewing each other to deside will they be a great investment or will it be too much a liability. Will the liablity of having too much baggage out weigh my persuit for happiness? If a person does not like all the baggage and see it as something that could set them back a month a couple of months or years then 9 times out 10 one party will tell the other I would rather us just be friends and that person is placed in the friends category not the (VIP) very important person category. Just because you are willing to accept only friendship does not mean the person on the other end will accept it. In some cases people find rejection of being just a friend as a dissapointment when in they heart they wanted more and you feel they are not worthy to meet your expection because of too much baggage. I feel sad to see people beat them self up with dissapointment due to the fact they are good hearted people but they was rejected by someone who just want accept the baggage and mistakes they made when they was younger. The sad part about it is when you look in the mirror there can only be one person to blame I will say two due to the fact cheating spouses create it also when relationships end in divorce.

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

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Do you do squats on your guy/froggy style? Posted: 8/5/2008 10:08:49 AM
WHO DOES FROGGY BEST PLUS SIZE WOMEN OR SKINNY WOMEN I like always assist women with doing this position because it does burn quick in the leg area if you dont have any help. It pays for a man to be well endowed for this position because if you are too small the level of difficulty will be that much harder for the women trying to keep a balance act so it want slip out due to the fact it is too small. This can be extremely hard on the knees due to fact a women has to go down lower and maintain the more closer stance. I feel like some adult toy store needs to build some type of bungee style think a women can strap on while doing the froggy so she can spring like a frog while I drink a beer. My luck the anchors would give away from the ceiling she is supported from and pull throught sheet rock and she will laying in my lap .

mr_joy_st1ck

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Msg: 170 (view)

Would you pay for sex ? Posted: 8/5/2008 9:27:06 AM
I DECIDED TO GIVE MY EX WIFES PLATINUM INGAGEMENT AWAY AS AS FORM OF PAYMENT FOR SEX

mr_joy_st1ck

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Do you do squats on your guy/froggy style? Posted: 8/5/2008 8:56:40 AM
I have asked a few women that I was involved with other the years to try this position most slender athletic women do fairly wellfar as length of time goes keeping a steady motion. However most plus size women do it for a while then start getting sloppy then lazy then they bomb out and just sit on it. The position is not designed for people who dont have strong endurance with leg muscles.

mr_joy_st1ck

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Msg: 167 (view)

Would you pay for sex ? Posted: 8/4/2008 9:30:01 AM
MY EX WIFES PLATINUM RING AS PAYMENT FOR SEX WAS I WRONG FOR IT OR RIGHT? I think paying for sex is morally wrong when it suppose to be with the one you are are married to within wed-lock. If you ask if I have paid for sex I would tell yes not with cash.I know it was wrong but for some reason I was involved with a women who I was sexually attracted to but mentally and emotionally she was not worthy of being the women of giving my heart to. She liked me also but for some odd reason she was very complicated and sophistacted to figure out and not submissive enough for me. If anyone of you had a very popular celebrity actor , musician or athlete you where sexually attracted but could'nt have sex with well this is how I felt about this lady. I decided to cut the rat chase with going to the movies out to eat long talk sessions and other baggage that she wanted me to go though pay for it and be done with it. I bet you are wondering how much did you pay? I purchased a nice platinum ring for my EX wife . When we went through our divorce she told me I don't want your ring anymore and gave it back to me. I took the ring and placed it in the dresser and that is where it stayed for 3 yrs. The women i liked liked me but only as a buddy to talk to with NO SEX. She came to my house we sat and talked like we have done before with no hugging or kissing just a simple conversation. I told here about how i loved my EX-Wife and decided to go get out the dresser to show her the ring I bout my ex wife. I came back in the living room with the black velvet jewery box she opened it up and her eyes got big. She put the ring on her finger and it fit perfectly . She feel in love with the ring and asked if I would please give it to her. I told her with a smile you and I could possibly negotiate a trade. I could not believe she was more in love with the ring then she was with me and hving sex.....

mr_joy_st1ck

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Msg: 174 (view)

Is U.S.America Rasist? Obama is White Posted: 8/3/2008 9:42:20 PM
A MIX PERSON PICKS WHAT RACE THAT FITS THERE PERSONALITY BEST I don't see what the big deal is on the race issue Obama has a White mother and a Black father he is what you call (MIXED) Some people wish to choose a specific race they are some like to classify them self as simply MIXED. If Obama was married to white women he would probably be more likely to classify his self as white just depends on his personality and style.

mr_joy_st1ck

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Msg: 88 (view)

Peeing in the sink. Posted: 8/3/2008 2:20:03 PM
The way I see it anytime you un-zip your pants to expose your pubic area and hair when taking a piss needs to be in areas that are designed for that to be done . Common since tells me that the sink in the kitchen is not a good place due to the fact that is where food plates and glasses are stored and the place where people must eat from. Ask you self would you be PISSED if someone at a restraunt gave you a plate of food or glass of tea washed from a sink employees use to piss out of . What if the person pissing in the sink has a terrible disease thats not to mention crabs and pubic hair in or on your nice marble or stainless counter top. Common since tells me not to piss in the bath room sink due to the fact that is where hygene items like tooth brush and other facial towel are usually kept which makes it not sanitary place for that. Common since tell me to pick the lid up on the toilet and aim for the bullseyes when I am done flushing the toilet and retun lid down for any women that might have to use the rest room. I prefer a bathroom sink that has a automatic turn on so there is no knobs to touch grab soap and wash hands dry and you are done. This is a long tradition of how I have been taught to potty. If my mother or father caught me trying to take a piss in the sink they would beat my AZZ and make me buy them a new sink. By the way I am 33 yrs old.....

mr_joy_st1ck

Joined: 3/2/2007

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Baggage vs Life Experiences ??? Posted: 8/1/2008 9:26:04 AM
ANYTHING THAT IS A LIABILITY VERSES BENEFIT I feel Baggage is anything that is a liability short or long-term that would not benfit the person on the opposite end. People sometimes make mistakes when they are younger that could possibly have a affect on that person for the rest of there life. Most people feel like people who already have kids from a past relationship will be extra baggage especially if they have always wanted kids of their own or did'nt want any at all. #2 People bring baggage with financial problems and drugs/ alcohol that are excess. I feel if you want person to look at you in away that can be of benefit make sure you don't create baggage that will follow you everywhere you go for the rest of your life. I feel sometimes people are good people but had to create baggage along the way to learn lifes hard experiences. I feel some people with Baggage are sometimes in a better position then people with nothing to show at all. I feel it just really depends on how you look at the entire picture. It seems funny to me when people are young and wild don't care anything about being in a devoted relationship with a caring gentleman but time they get pregnant and have a couple of kids then they want to settle down with the gentleman who they never gave the time of the day. You have more people who have created baggage over the years now finally ready to settle down with a good man who a great career with no kids.

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Baggage vs Life Experiences ??? Posted: 8/1/2008 9:19:37 AM
ANYTHING THAT IS A LIABILITY VERSES BENEFIT I feel Baggage is anything that is a liability short or long-term that would not benfit the person on the opposite end. People sometimes make mistakes when they are younger that could possibly have a affect on that person for the rest of there life. Most people feel like people who already have kids from a past relationship will be extra baggage especially if they have always wanted kids of their own or did'nt want any at all. #2 People bring baggage with financial problems and drugs/ alcohol that are excess. I feel if you want person to look at you in away that can be of benefit make sure you don't create baggage that will follow you everywhere you go for the rest of your life. I feel sometimes people are good people but had to create baggage along the way to learn lifes hard experiences. I feel some people with Baggage are sometimes in a better position then people with nothing to show at all. I feel it just really depends on how you look at the entire picture. It seems funny to me when people are young and wild don't care anything about being in a devoted relationship with a caring gentleman but time they get pregnant and have a couple of kids then they want to settle down with the gentleman who they never gave the time of the day. You have more people who have created baggage over the years now finally ready to settle down with a good man who a great career with no kids.

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