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 Author Thread: Why a virgin?
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 405 (view)
 
Why a virgin?
Posted: 9/28/2008 10:13:39 AM
Well I think someone saying they want to marry a virgin probably means that are insecure and don't want to think about who you slept with in the past if involved in a marriage relationship. If the guy isnt insecure it wouldn't matter.

btw I was dating a girl who was a virgin for a minute and when I broke up with her. My guy friends were like. Oh you should have stayed with that. Prabably a lot of guys would like to bed virgin because they would think she would have to think they are good in bed. lol
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
She brings her friend on the date.
Posted: 9/28/2008 8:51:00 AM
Thanks rustmouse, that was the kind of response I needed--someone to really explain to me what was going on here. I don't buy the "she just didn't like you" like everyone else said. People are so quick to say that stuff when a date doesn't work out. I think there was some attraction there and both of them seemed to like my company for the time being before I said I wanted to ditch the friend. I guess I should have just gone bowling with both of them.

Another reason why I thought it might have been a threesome is because the bouncer
( who knows both of the girls really well since they are regulars at the bar)
came up to me and said "Hey your a lucky guy going on a date with two girls, If things work out take lots of pictures for me." I wasn't that interested in the friend but I don't think I would have protested it.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
She brings her friend on the date.
Posted: 9/28/2008 6:14:20 AM
She only mentioned not having a good time when I mentioned ditching the friend. In fact I had just asked her immediately before that if she was ready to go to the bowling alley and she responded yes with a smile on her face.

And my only clues for her wanting to have a threesome is that her friend had just gone up to a girl while we were at the bar started a conversation with her and came back bragging that she had gotten the girls phone number. Also I had met the girl on one of those adult dating sites.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
She brings her friend on the date.
Posted: 9/28/2008 6:03:00 AM
I left out part of the story because we hadn't gone to the bowling alley yet we were at a bar instead.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
She brings her friend on the date.
Posted: 9/28/2008 5:41:53 AM
Ok, so I went out with a girl over the weekend. She lives 60 miles from me and I had met her on another site. After I drive to her house, she drives us to the bar (since I don't know the area) we made plans to go bowling that night but not until 11 because the bowling alley is crowded early in the night . so when we get there everything is going well.

Out of the blue she mentions that her friend might show up tonight. I was guessing this ment her friend would be with another group of people and might just say hello but when the friend gets there she is by herself. She sits right down at the table and orders a drink. Ok, so I am pretty flexible, I don't mind if she hangs out for a little while and hopefully she is just killing time until her other plans open up later this evening. So I am friendly and having conversations with both my date and her friend buying drinks for them and so on.

After a couple of hours I mention bowling again since we had planned on doing that and she agrees next I ask if we could spend time at the bowling alley alone. So she comes back with, "Your not having a good time?" I say, "Yes, I am having a good time with you. Are you?" And her reply was pretty much a no. Ok so obviously she ditched me for her friend. Does anyone else think it was extremely rude of her to bring her friend anyways?

I remembered something about her friend saying earlier in the night that she got a girls phone number. Could the friend have been bi and my date too? Did they want to have a threesome or something? Either way I missed out with this girl because she was really cute and we had a lot in common. except for the friend.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 91 (view)
 
What was the point of this?
Posted: 9/26/2008 9:13:47 AM
I think this just boils down to the issue of texting vs not texting. You guys just weren't compatable with your veiws on texting.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 350 (view)
 
Why would anyone want to date you?
Posted: 9/26/2008 9:00:10 AM
Maybe because I have a job
I'm independent
have no bagage

..... can't think of anything else, DAMN!!
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
What happened?
Posted: 9/24/2008 7:46:23 PM
and yes I would have let her change in the bathroom.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 19 (view)
 
What happened?
Posted: 9/24/2008 7:43:52 PM
Ok, so whomever said I should have stuck it out is right. I just couldn't sleep with her in my rubbing up against me all night. A guy can get a medical condition.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
What happened?
Posted: 9/24/2008 3:30:52 PM
So I met this girl on here a few weeks ago. I think I emailed her once or twice before she gave me her number. I asked her out of course and she told me on the phone that she was interested in going to my place off the git go. I told her first I wanted to go someplace public and we went to a go cart track first. On the date she was very flirtatious and when the go carting and air hockey was over she said she was ready to go to my place and watch a movie and she asked me if I wanted to get some alcohol first. I didn't even have to ask her any of this, nothing like this has ever happened to me and seemed to good to be true. FF we are watching the movie ( I can't remember if we were making out before the following happened or not) somehow catch her arm while I am getting up and manage to spill her beer on her which is in her hand. The next thing I know she is taking her shirt and jeans off right in front of me (OMG IS THIS REALLY HAPPENING) and wants to barrow a shirt of mine to wear ( I should have picked a very small, tight shirt to give to her but I didn't ). Anyways soon after this leads to more making out she is planning on spending the night and another thing she likes to do is cuddle, and by cuddle I mean spoon in my bed. At this point I am going for home plate since we are only a few inches and a very thin piece of fabric from already having intercouse, when she says I'M SORRY I DON'T DO THAT ON THE FIRST DATE. I ended up politely taking her home at this point. What the hell is she doing? Why? I know she either just really liked messing with my head or maybe I did something wrong.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Seriously Guys..what do you look 4N a potential wife
Posted: 9/24/2008 2:16:33 PM
NO OFFENCE but the bmw fund thing makes you sound like a golddigger or atleast too high maintainance
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 170 (view)
 
What keeps a guy from asking for a second date?
Posted: 9/24/2008 9:05:51 AM
I think the reason could have been because he really wasn't into you and you thought he was enjoying himself when in actuality he could have just been making the best of the situation. Just a thought there are many possible answers to this question.

also I would just like to add that there are differences in the way men and women are attracted to eachother and this can cause misunderstandings from both sides. Mens attraction is usually dominated by looks, where women are more attracted to social status, body language and sort of unseen characteristics.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 115 (view)
 
this site doesn't work for me
Posted: 9/24/2008 6:49:54 AM
Honestly I have had limited deminishing success here. It seems like the longer I stay the less responses I get. A while back I asked for advice with my profile and I was pretty much told that 85%percent of it was crap. I've never been good at writing. If these are my direct thoughts and feelings on the subject and its all crap then I guess I really need help. But I also think that the competition it very stiff here and maybe the ratio of men to women a little mismatched. That maybe a possibility.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Why do women sleep with men who they are not really attracted to?
Posted: 9/24/2008 6:23:41 AM
My question is: There are many women that seem unresponsive/not attracted to me. How do I get them to sleep with me?
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
opinions on my profile anyone?
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:25:27 PM
I was trying not to be too brutal but I'm really just not too good at writing about myself so I was trying to fill it up as much as possible. Please tell me your honest opinion about anything good or bad.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
If you aren't extremely outgoing is it ok to admitit?
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:13:26 PM
Thanks all for replying to my post. I see the reaction is mixed but atleast I know I can be a little shy and it not be totally hopeless for me. I like this forum thing. I feel like I've had more interaction on here than I have sometimes had looking at profiles and sending emails, thanks again.
 parteovahere
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
If you aren't extremely outgoing is it ok to admitit?
Posted: 9/21/2008 5:21:02 PM
I'm not the type of person that starts up conversations with random strangers everywhere I go, but I'm not a complete stiff either. I have been called shy before eventhough I don't concider myself shy and think I do fine with people a lot one on one. I'm just wondering if women see this as unexceptable dating someone thats not the spark in everyones social coffee.
 
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