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for_u_mite

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Is there really a Santa Claus Posted: 11/12/2009 4:24:39 PM
lalalalalallalallalallalallallalallallalalaaallalalallallaaaallalalallala I'm not listening to anything that any of you have to say. I believed in Father Christmas And I looked at the sky with excited eyes.................................

for_u_mite

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THREAD PREFERENCE Posted: 11/3/2009 5:32:27 PM
Fings just ain't wot vey used to beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Listing your dislikes Posted: 11/3/2009 4:38:03 PM
My profile has ranged from informative, chatty, jokes, to the masterpiece that it now is. I certainly have less emails to wade through, but it has been a blessing in disguise. Now, the people who write to me, at least have a modicum of intelligence.

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Is it possible to love an ex & have a healthy new relationship? Posted: 11/3/2009 3:29:58 PM
^^^^^ Thanks for clarifying that :-) I would probably pay to have him "rubbed out". A rubber large enough to use on a human male? Now there's a novel concept...........

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Is it possible to love an ex & have a healthy new relationship? Posted: 11/3/2009 2:47:20 PM
not my x no,,id rather have me nuts waxed Me, too! Can you wax Walnuts?

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Leeds Singles Party - Thursday 12th November Posted: 11/3/2009 1:46:10 PM
Hi, thinking of signing up to come to this, but not sure whereabouts it is...........

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THREAD PREFERENCE Posted: 11/3/2009 11:06:27 AM
I prefer the Friday/Saturday night after/with alcohol threads. I haven't had a good belly laugh in absolutely ages and I certainly could do with one, especially now that the even colder, wetter weather is upon us. As some of you may have noticed, I haven't posted for a while and then, only rarely. It just goes to show..............

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~ Hallowe'en Nighter ~ Saturday 31th October 2009 ~ 10pm till 5am ~ The Babylon Lounge ~ Posted: 10/28/2009 12:03:31 AM
I'll be in Stratford that night, but signed up to try and help the OP achieve the numbers required for a mass email. Same as .... Hope it goes well for you ... Ditto only I'll be in Yorkshire

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facebook whats the deal? Posted: 9/9/2009 5:07:50 PM
My daughter set up a FB account for me. Initially, I hated it. Eventually, I became accustomed to it. One work colleague uses Status Shuffle. Some of them are hilarious, others, simply inane. I have 250+ friends. Some are fellow poffers, some 50+ are relatives from near and far, 50+ are work colleagues, some are family friends. I collected the others, through playing a game called The Dot Game and more recently, through playing Scrabble. If you wish to play someone specific, you need to add them as a friend first, before you can challenge them. If you no longer wish to have someone as a friend, delete them. If they are a nuisance, delete and block. Simples.

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No more Big Brother Posted: 8/26/2009 5:57:18 PM
At last! Hip hip hoo flipping ray!

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Why daren't I share my opinion? Posted: 8/26/2009 5:39:38 PM
Is it necessarily that one does not have freedom of speech, or is it that one is worried about offending others? Then again, when one doesn't speak openly about one's feelings, the 'offending others' could be secondary to their reaction towards the speaker. Hope you can understand what I'm trying to say.

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Single women prefer married men! (It's true) Posted: 8/15/2009 11:11:16 AM
and hopefully, those that knowingly do it, will have it done unto them! So endeth the lesson.

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secret fancy Posted: 8/15/2009 6:52:52 AM
I had an almost secret crush on someone, but although it was sort of reciprocated, they ventured elsewhere...................story of my life, lol.

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revenge is sweet Posted: 7/30/2009 2:12:00 AM
isnuttinfree You mean you understood the post? I got the gist, that a mobile was found and another sim card inserted, but other to that, it was all gobbledegook. For instance, what on earth are the eggs and beans all about? Breakfast?

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Repercussions of a suicide Posted: 7/28/2009 4:30:59 AM
Some suicides, do smack of a selfish attitude, i.e. the ones who are punishing others by 'getting them back'. The ones who can't go on living without their partner, when there are young children in the picture. Or, the ones who go out with a dramatic bang, in front of an audience. However, I don't think that all of them are so. Some, I believe, truly feel that they are helping those around them, by slipping out of this existence. After many years of depressive illness and something which we now deem as a treatable, curable, illness (gastric and duodenal ulcers), my father took his own life, when I was fourteen and a half years old. He did it quietly on his bed, in our empty home, by analgesia overdose. Initially I was in shock, then I was angry that he'd left us. For years I suffered guilt, because I had had an urge that day, to go home, during schooltime, but let a friend talk me out of it. I know my dad felt like he was making us all suffer, through his illness. I know he felt worthless and that we would be better off without him. In these circumtances, I don't think that when they are feeling so low, they consider how badly others will feel when they're gone. I believe that they only see how much easier life will be for their loved ones, without them there. Of course, we could tell them otherwise, if they asked us. However, if they were able to be lucid enough to ask us, they probably wouldn't be committing suicide.............

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Personality clashes Posted: 7/19/2009 1:27:18 PM
I tend to tolerate people. In the work environment, it has to be ongoing. Out of work, I tend to give as much leeway as I can, without cracking up. Eventually, though, ignoring is a wise choice.

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Teenagers Fighting Cancer Posted: 7/7/2009 2:50:17 PM
I watched this thought provoking, heart wrenching programme with my teenage son. We were both very moved and I couldn't help but shed a few tears. Thankfully, I don't have any teens or young children in the family with cancer, although I have two cousins and three friends with different types of the disease. I work in Pharmacy Aseptics, in a hospital cancer unit, where we make the intravenous drugs and feeds for immune suppressed individuals, including young children and teens. Not a day goes by without me thinking about them and their families. As the mother of a 19 year old boy, I send my condolences to you sugra66, for the loss of your son

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Why are women so hard to read? Posted: 7/3/2009 1:55:59 PM
After they have finished the washing up of course Right, washing up finished................is it time to start? Honest to Nora, they should put a whole new section in on this forum for these threads. The: Spitting dummy out Throwing toys out of pram I've been here all of FIVE* days* Forum? Good idea! Now toddle off sonny and have a few or . The world may just begin to look like a nicer place

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wish i had wrote that song Posted: 6/27/2009 3:55:16 PM
I wish I had written Baker Street by Gerry Rafferty. £110,000 royalties a year would come in quite handy.

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I am confused Posted: 6/26/2009 2:58:17 PM
If I were you, I would begin by proof reading my profile and making it easier to read and comprehend. I wonder if you put any more thought and care into your correspondence? Life is not a quick fix. You have to use patience and make an effort. You have been on this site since February, which equates to 17 weeks and have sent about 60 emails. That's approximately 3.5 emails a week. In the grand scheme of things, it's not really an excessive amount. Good luck and happy

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Michael Jackson Has Died? Posted: 6/25/2009 5:00:01 PM
Three celeb deaths now. Kind of p1ssed on my birthday celebrations................

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Michael Jackson Has Died? Posted: 6/25/2009 3:12:31 PM
Not yet confirmed, but it has been confirmed that Farrah Fawcett has lost her battle with cancer. RIP

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The Nolans Are Back! Posted: 6/25/2009 2:17:30 PM
I liked: Soft Cell; UB40; Duran Duran; Depeche Mode; Go West; Beautiful South; The Housemartins; Culture Club; Adam and the Ants; Kajagoo; Yazoo; Fairground Attraction; Simple Minds; Haircut 100; ABC; Eurythmics; Terence Trent D'Arby; Steve Miller Band; Frankie Goes to Hollywood; Thomas Dolby; Shalimar; Simply Red; Paul Young; George Benson; Luther Vandross; The Cure; The Stranglers; Dire Straits; Elvis Costello; Boomtown Rats; The Clash; Blancmange; Tears for Fears; Flock of Seagulls; Devo; Dead or Alive; Madness; Fun Boy Three; Wham; George Michael; T'Pau; The Jam; The Style Council; Bon Jovi; Def Leppard; Guns n Roses etc but NOT the Nolans Did I tell you I loved the 80's?

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Forum culture / dating Posted: 6/25/2009 1:28:53 PM
Think I might have to take kath, fairy-ellen and forumite of your hands too mate! hehe Aww, thanks. That's just made my day Joint profile? WTF? Why would you want one of them? It has happened, twice or thrice, believe me and it was quite entertaining, if a little sad in the end.

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Forum culture / dating Posted: 6/25/2009 10:25:07 AM
Announcing your luuuuurve in the forum appears to be the kiss of death. Awww, so I can't announce my luuuuurve for you then, Hula? Once the joint profile appears it's only a matter of time before it's a crash and burn situation. Ah, now I understand why you wouldn't let us have a joint profile................ OP - If you want to approach someone on the forums, I'm sure they'd be discreet. You could always read their posting history to get an idea of what they are like. Good luck!

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How long before you give up on looking Posted: 6/23/2009 5:19:23 PM
If your not looking lifestyle is one that simply does not encounter new people then you are not going to find anyone are you? That's me, that's me! Now I'm utterly confused! I thought I was sjxx, but I must be Maudeath, too! Just how many multiple profiles does a girl have to have on here?

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How long before you give up on looking Posted: 6/23/2009 3:58:04 PM
I have been told many times that you find love when you are not looking for it. I have certainly given up hope of it being here. So now i intend to just juggle as many men as i can get away with. And i will call them all hun to make it less likely i will be caught out Freaky! I had the very same thought (only when I thought it, it had capital I's and there wasn't a full stop before 'and' ). Ah, yes, I nearly forgot. I am sjxx

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Kids And Their Basic Self Care !! Posted: 6/21/2009 2:58:43 PM
Bitty. Bitty! BITTY! Do you think that would be mummy bitty, or grandma bitty? Edit vvvv Hahaha

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Father's Day - Memories of Dads No Longer With Us Posted: 6/21/2009 2:09:14 PM
Sorry for all your losses and for those who cannot see their children/fathers, for whatever reason. Thursday 09-01-1975 Having always been a 'miss goody two-shoes', I went to school dressed totally in black and although I was reprimanded for not wearing full uniform, I wasn't sent home to change. At morning break I told my friend that I had to go home because my dad needed me. She asked how I knew and I said that I just sensed him. She dissuaded me, telling me that I would get in serious trouble. After school, I tried to phone home but, the only 'reply' was what I took to be the Operator, saying that there was no one to answer the phone. I went to an aunt's house, whom I disliked with a passion! She arrived shortly after me and whilst I made her a drink, she asked why I was dressed in black. I said I didn't know. She asked me if I recalled what was said to me the preceding summer, by someone who had read my cards. I said I didn't, although my stomach was lurching. She asked why I had come to visit her instead of going home. I relayed my tale. She told me that there had been people at home at that time and that the phone never rang. Apparently, my dad had died before lunchtime. My mum, in her wisdom, told me to break the news to my younger brother, who promptly kicked me down the stairs and hurled all his vocal anger at me. For some reason, relatives and friends gave sympathy to my three brothers 'who would be missing their dad' and to my mum and kept telling me to 'be strong' for them. I was 14 and a 1/2. R.I.P. dad. I'll never forget you and will always love you.

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The Stig - Outed Posted: 6/21/2009 12:46:34 PM
Who would have believed that The Stig was Michael Schumacker? Do you believe that he is The Stig in ALL the episodes? I think I'm lost for words...............

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Kids And Their Basic Self Care !! Posted: 6/21/2009 4:23:55 AM
It would be of great assistance to teachers/nursery assistants if a child has some personal hygeine skills prior to attendance. Either your friend's sister has a problem letting her little boy grow up, or she is a cleanliness freak and can't abide the thought that her son may leave a little soiling in his pants, or she's just a drudge who panders to ALL the needs of any male in her life. Moderation and/or a little counselling may be the key.

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Does Married but separated mean women see you as married Posted: 6/21/2009 2:16:00 AM
Oh the irony. Within a short space of time of a polarized thread asking men only, now here is a "girls" only thread, and one of the main complainers in that thread didn't feel the need to point it out. As if by magic.................. Actually, I can't point it out because I don't see that it's polarised. I suspect that's why nobody else saw fit to do so, either. Only the third question, actually, directly asks girls for their thoughts. The rest of the queries can technically be directed at either sex. HTH OT Separated and living separately, with a view to finalising the divorce (I'm told it's relatively cheap on the internet), is acceptable. Dragging your heels sends out warning signals, as does living with the ex. As innocent as it may be to you, we don't live inside your head.

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One liners you regret Posted: 6/20/2009 1:15:36 PM
"I do!" What a shame the priest didn't tell me that messages this short could not be uttered

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What one thing will always put you off someone? Posted: 6/18/2009 1:01:33 PM
Msg 211 - Jats_99 Not too fussy, then?

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new ban for smokers Posted: 6/17/2009 11:49:58 AM
I would like to see a ban come in. I cringe whenever I see someone smoking in a car, when there are children present! As for children of 16 and under, smoking, some do and some don't, but it shouldn't be happening.

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condoms.? Posted: 6/16/2009 2:14:30 PM
I wonder what the devorce rate is between married army couples or white coller workers or workers in general as opposed army ? Comparing couples in the forces, to others, whose jobs do not cause long, enforced separations, isn't practical. It's like chalk and cheese.

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meeting potentials in pubs and clubs.. Posted: 6/16/2009 12:58:16 PM
I met both of my exes in the Polish Club in my city. In each case, we were all part of a crowd who met up there to have a laugh. Sometimes we even went en masse to the local nightclub. I can't say that I have thought about a preferential place to meet someone. Chance would be a fine thing.................

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condoms.? Posted: 6/15/2009 12:47:22 PM
I can honestly say i have never had sex useing a condom in my life, i have always thought there a bit of a passion killer i mean how can you go through the process of leading up to the job then suddenly say hang on a min while i shove his thing on? not the most romantic of inventions are they Well, if what you've been saying about your ex wife is the truth, you're going to have to learn to use them with any new partner you may have. There's no telling what legacy you have been left with.

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Type?? Posted: 6/15/2009 12:11:35 PM
but if there party animals then pass i couldnt handle that type I'm interested to know what you would class as a 'party animal'. and at our AGE we really should just be devoting our time and love etc to one another and trying to help others etc The 'trying to help others', is very commendable but, am I to understand that you also mean that people of 46 and above, should be staying in all the time? Or did you mean that, as a couple, they can attend functions and go to the pub, etc? What if, one half of the couple has a work's leaving do to attend, in a pub? Would you be okay with that?

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Gentlemen prefer Miss Average? Posted: 6/14/2009 3:50:01 PM
real as in not someone who has made up a profile or used a pic from 20 years ago and all them sort of tricks. Oh, the irony!

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Type?? Posted: 6/14/2009 3:09:01 PM
I gave up having a 'type' a while ago, although we have to be able to converse and I'd prefer to kiss, without them having to wear a paper bag on their head.

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If we don't get 'onto the box', we don't need to 'think oitside of the box'. Posted: 6/14/2009 1:39:55 PM
Maybe they were born in a box? I know they end up in a box, when they die

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Help me get it Posted: 6/14/2009 6:58:17 AM
Or he had another girlfriend that he thought he could leave, but actually he couldn't.............

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Obsolete Words Posted: 6/13/2009 2:11:22 PM
Their Honesty Fidelity Love Retirement

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whats your tipple on a saturday night Posted: 6/13/2009 12:40:11 PM
I have a choice of: Bitter and Twisted; Snecklifter, or Hobgoblin but I'm sitting here with a cup of tea, because I don't like to drink alone...........

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What makes you smile inside? Posted: 6/7/2009 6:40:59 AM
Having my son run his Maths A level revision past me, as if I'd know what he was talking about Getting an email from my first foster child, who's now a young lady of almost 20

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Why Do The Nice Ones Always Live So Far Away ? Posted: 6/7/2009 4:35:53 AM
"Why Do The Nice Ones Always Live So Far Away ?" I didn't know you cared that much I have some nice, long distance, penfriends with whom I get along well. Some of the locals are munters, some liars, others just want a quickie with no strings (which I'm not prepared to give). Reasonably local would be easier to build a loving relationship, in every sense, but it seems to be like panning for gold in iron pyrite.

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Big Brother 10.....2009....... Posted: 6/6/2009 12:11:50 PM
Who? What? Where? How? Why????????????????????????? Hell's bells..........not again!

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Did you vote today? Posted: 6/4/2009 2:05:38 PM
I voted, but not in person. A few years ago, I opted for a postal vote, as it was more convenient. This year, my son was eligible to vote for the first time and he, too, voted by post.

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Ever had a cyber crush? Posted: 6/3/2009 4:52:30 PM
Yeah but no but yeah but no but yeah but no but Well, alright then........................mayyyyyyyyyyyyyybe

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