I never go to nightclubs if I'm in a commited relationship. I would also expect the same from the person I'm seeing. As for getting together with the girls and doing other things such as seeing movies or going out to dinner that's something else. Us females still need our time just to "be girls".

Why is it that women in general automatically assume that having sex with someone means committment. Just curious, they often say they understand and are mature enough to have sex as consenting adults, yet once it happens all shit breaks loose.

To me hang out means just as is says, Hang out , watch movies eat pizza play pool, throw water balloons, hanging out . There is an option for slutting it up and thats intaite incounter. I have hang out on mine and in no way does that mean i want a man to come over and touch me . lol I am not a prude but hang out means chilling and getting to kow eachother that s it .

i put hangout on my profile but now i am a little confused about what that means...i saw it on another womans profile and evidently it might mean more than just getting to know someone...is that true?

I was not raised Catholic. That comment was relative to a Catholic gentleman that wanted to have a fling with me. He said that divorce was not approved by the Catholic church, but apparently adultery is okay?

Going out with her girlfriends is certainly not inappropriate....you just have to trust that her intentions are pure. Time apart to do things with your friends is healthy in any relationship.

Ok what about trust here people? If you truly care for someone you should trust them 100% in ANY situation...regardless of who they are with or where they are going!

I say let'em have there girls night out...This coming from a guy who was engaged to be married until she went on a girls night out and never came home...Well, she came home to get her stuff...But, seriously, I trusted her and she messed up, now she's gone...She accused me of never being jealous or protective...i.e. she was pissed that I did'nt care about her going on girls nights out

They use the phone to make plans to see someone, then once they are in the company of that person, they are right back on the phone, making plans to see someone else. They believe that the more people that they have on their list, the more important they are.

If a woman is in a relationship, she has NO BUSINESS WHAT SO EVER hanging out at a bar with her single friends. Girls night out is for single women ONLY. If she wants to hang out with her friends, there is nothing wrong with going shopping, getting hair and nails done, or a lunch.

Be very careful with this woman. Looks like she wants to have her cake and eat it too!

I think the Favourite's List is one of the negative things I personally found with this site. People put alot of emphasis and talk in it. I wish administration would give us the option whether or not we want others to see how many people are on the list. I think the information should be personal. I have rewrote my profile just to put in a paragraph telling people not to add me to their list. Personally I could care less whether people add me/delete me, or their reasons why, but I received enough hate mail because of it, that I had to start my own recycling plant!

I am 5'5 and generally wear sneakers or other flats....but my heels can be up to 6". I don't rule out men because of their height, but rather because of their SIZE.

If a man can bench 4 plates, I don't care how tall he is....I would be interested. Unfortunately, very few men of ANY height can manage that.

I am 5'2, and I let ppl know how tall I am, then the guy usually says" do you wear heels", and I do, the only time I dont is at the gym or on the beach.

Better question ... why do guys always say they're 4" taller than they really are?

OP: Have you taken into consideration alot of people are on here to "DATE".

I don't know that. In fact, that can't be true in terms of an online site such as this one. It might be true to a limited extent in real life (if the "short guy" can force you into a corner where you actually have to evaluate his personality and not simply pass your eyes over him). It seems a lot of women are only evaluating men over a certain height cutoff (usually two inches taller than the woman when she's wearing heels). That's not a preference, it's a requirement. And it's shallow.

dude it's unfortunate but a reality....hot women look for hot men for their "genes" and potential mate....

sounds like preference to me.

It's my right to wear 3" heels, and no man can take that away from me.

It's nice to be an 8, 9, or 10 because, most of the people they are attracted to, are also attracted to them. Those below 5's especially have a difficult time finding someone because most people don't find those less than average attractive and they hate to settle for those they can get.

Funny though if you've seen them on these sites all these years ? wouldn't you also be one of those faces ? ask your self why you have been using the internet that long and there's your answer.

Also, they feel emboldened by the popularity of the bad boy image, and feel that either way they have nothing to lose.

Had he been by himself, I might have stopped to chat with him briefly. However, I don't feel comfortable interfacing with an interested guy while his friends sits there right besides him. It gives me a clear disadvantage and my gut instincts told me that those eyes weren't good ones...I trust my gut before anyone else's opinion.

I can vouch for what Blast goes through. I don't have a car, and every day, it's the same. Cars beeping and stopping to "give me a ride" when I am just walking, men cornering me in groups, saying stuff to me all the time. (I use headphones for this) And on the bus, it gets worse, sitting next to me, and trying to have a conversation is fine. But they will give me a number, want to force me for mine, continuously say crap to me, so I have to move from the seat I paid for. And this is just out on the streets!

Online, I get 20-30 mails a day, with "f-me" to "let's do it" to whatever, and people I'ming me getting mad I won't just meet up with them out of the blue. I know my pics on here now might initiate some of it, but I got that when the pics were just happy face shots of me too or nothing remotely seductive. I accept the online stuff a bit cause of how I present myself, but I often tell people men are just "noise" at times to me, because there is just too much volume, and there are only a few who stand out each day that I might want to talk to. No one's perfect, and if they do complement my photos or such, I will say thank you. But to expect me to be a ho or something or whatever, that's not cool.

I can vouch for what Blast goes through. I don't have a car, and every day, it's the same. Cars beeping and stopping to "give me a ride" when I am just walking, men cornering me in groups, saying stuff to me all the time. (I use headphones for this) And on the bus, it gets worse, sitting next to me, and trying to have a conversation is fine. But they will give me a number, want to force me for mine, continuously say crap to me, so I have to move from the seat I paid for. And this is just out on the streets!

Online, I get 20-30 mails a day, with "f-me" to "let's do it" to whatever, and people I'ming me getting mad I won't just meet up with them out of the blue. I know my pics on here now might initiate some of it, but I got that when the pics were just happy face shots of me too or nothing remotely seductive. I accept the online stuff a bit cause of how I present myself, but I often tell people men are just "noise" at times to me, because there is just too much volume, and there are only a few who stand out each day that I might want to talk to. No one's perfect, and if they do complement my photos or such, I will say thank you. But to expect me to be a ho or something or whatever, that's not cool.

I will settle for no less than someone I am interested in PERIOD.

Ugh, I was at the post office the other day, oh, about a week ago.
And these two guys are in there, obviously finishing up whatever business they had, obviously close buddies.

So, as I walk in, one suddenly bolts in his tracks and looks at me stunned and says "HI!"
I said "hi" back and walked to the kiosk. It felt a bit weird since he was with a friend and I felt centered out, a bit uncomfortable.

I thought all was well, mailed my letters, as I go to leave, guess who's standing at the door with his friend? This guy!
He says "you're very beautiful miss"...and I was wondering, could I get your phone number?

I said "sorry, I have a boyfriend" and walked out.

Don't corner me at the exit point and don't freaking group up by twos to approach me. I felt intimidated, and hovered over...it was just creepy.

guys trying to pick you up at a gym is one of my biggest pet peeves. I'm there to do my thing....not start a conversation with some random guy who might end up stalking me from machine to machine.
personally...if I'm at the gym...leave me the F*** alone & let me work out in peace.