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ooohmiss!

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Msg: 74 (view)

Ladies, Is Walking You to Your Door Important? Posted: 8/6/2009 7:59:15 AM
I am dating a guy who always walks me to the door, opens and closes car door, pulls out my chair....I love it!

ooohmiss!

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NUCKING FUTS!! Posted: 8/6/2009 7:52:08 AM
Being a barmaid for well over 27 years, I have seen countless "NUCKING FUTS"! One that seems to stick out in my mind was this guy Michael who claimed to be an angel! He use to come into the bar on a Friday or Saturday holding a folder over his face because no one could look him in the face or he would be dammed to hell! There was also this woman Francine who would come into the bar with suit cases every time...If anyone would try to help her, she would freak out and threaten to call the cops because she thought she was getting robbed. Lord only knows what were in that suitcase!

ooohmiss!

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All time best blow offs, keep it fun Posted: 7/20/2009 10:53:42 PM
I have an "activity partner"..... My ex is pregnant (funny I thought you said you didn't have sex with her in ages!) I need to find myself...and do not want to hurt you..... I am taking a break from dating..... I don't have the time to date...then why is he active on POF????? I am not ready for a relationship.....but can we still fck???? I think of you as a sister.....

ooohmiss!

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excuses or lies? Posted: 7/19/2009 6:50:54 PM
Ever hear the saying "Excuses are lies with a reason"?

ooohmiss!

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How soon do you bring someone into your inner circle? Posted: 7/19/2009 6:33:33 PM
Great topic! I have 2 daughters who are my world and I feel who I date should not be their concern UNLESS I feel it is the right time to introduce them to him. (this also applies to the rest of my family & close friends) I feel if things do not work out, so be it & I think it is wrong to have a parade of men come into my home where I raise my daughters.

ooohmiss!

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Dating a Married Man Posted: 7/17/2009 6:21:57 PM
I would send him a letter telling him that he is BUSTED! Let him know how he deceived both you and his wife (and children) and that he is the scum of the earth. I would make him shite himself for a while before throwing his A$$ in the trash where he belongs! It is very easy to get in touch with his wife through social networking.... but he is her problem and she should deal with his A$$ the way she sees fit...oh well, sucks to be him!

ooohmiss!

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Why do men have affairs? Posted: 7/17/2009 8:45:35 AM
Both men and women have affairs and the reason (I believe) is that the marriage lost its "luster" and one partner feels unappreciated of deprived. The neglected partner usually has an affair to feel appreciated emotionally and sexually. So if you do not want your partner to stray from you, keep the sex life alive, don't be a nag & try to work out your marital issues when they first appear.

ooohmiss!

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Msg: 39 (view)

how soon for new relationship after death of partner Posted: 7/17/2009 8:14:33 AM
Before one of my Aunts passed away from cancer, she told my Uncle that she wanted him to be happy. She did not want him to stop "living" his life and encouraged him to move on within a year of her passing. They were very affectionate with each other to her last moments and it was her dying wish for him to live his life to the fullest until they meet again. Naturally, some people made their comments when he hooked up with a widow that they were friends with since high school. I think it is special that my Uncle connected with their old friend and I think my Aunt would have approved!

ooohmiss!

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How do u know when your a couple Posted: 7/3/2009 5:34:18 PM
I think you sould consider that you are a "couple" when you are introduced to his family and friends as his girl friend.....

ooohmiss!

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Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/2/2009 2:35:24 PM
I am NOT condoning cheating in a marriage or relationship, but it IS a two-way street and BOTH spouses should take measures to solve THEIR issues and problems as soon as they start to surface. The longer problems are left to linger, that is usually when the cheating & lies begin. In some cases, couples will try counseling to keep their marriage together. When sex is stopped, arguing is commonplace, and both parities start pointing the finger at each other, it is time to think about possibly moving on and dissolving the marriage. I personally think it is worse for the children to stay in a loveless marriage. This is unhealthy for EVERYONE!

ooohmiss!

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Goodbye? Posted: 6/18/2009 12:59:42 PM
1: How do you know when its time to say goodbye? It is time to say good bye when that initial spark dies...the relationship feels like a task....lies begin to come out...when your feelings start to fade for the person... 2: How do you personally deal with it when your the left? when your the leaver? If I am the one who is left, I will cry my eyes out and move on eventually.... If I am the one doing the leaving, I would try to talk to the person and tell them I do not think this will work out and it is the best for the both of us to end the relationship. 3: What do you do to "start again" using what you learned in the just ended relationship without allowing it to ruin a potential new one? I will allow myself some healing time and do some fun things with family and friends.

ooohmiss!

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Just two weeks of Ecstasy, is it worth it? Posted: 6/3/2009 2:50:55 PM
Two weeks of ecstacy is well worth it for you will look back on it years later with a sparkle in your eye and fond memories....

ooohmiss!

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Why is it so rare? Posted: 6/3/2009 10:47:52 AM
IMO..."Trophies" belong on a shelf....and all "trophies" gather dust eventually...and wind up either in a closet or trashed. I rather be with the more sincere guy who will worship me and earn my trust.....than the lying, cheating pretty boy who is always looking for someone else to "polish" his trophy that has seen many a mantel or closet!

ooohmiss!

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Easier or harder to experience heartbreak as we get older Posted: 6/3/2009 9:42:14 AM
With the exception of a loved one's death, I find heartbreak to be easier to deal with since I have gotten older. No one likes to be rejected, especially in a romantic situation, but as you get older, you are more emotionally mature to just shake it off and move on.

ooohmiss!

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Write your own Epitaph..what would you say? Posted: 5/29/2009 11:49:49 AM
Well, being a barmaid for over 27 years, mine would be....."last call!"

ooohmiss!

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Best time of day or night for sex Posted: 5/28/2009 10:48:14 PM
I think the best time for sex is whenever the occasion "arises"!

ooohmiss!

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how to take the first step Posted: 5/28/2009 10:05:47 AM
every relationship starts with a hello.....

ooohmiss!

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Made my heart skip a beat Posted: 5/24/2009 9:18:51 PM
I was out shopping for baby furniture with my daughter this weekend, and the saleslady was going into this whole conversation about her deceased husband of 40 years. I thought it was so sweet the way she said "He was the best man in my world and there will never be a replacement for him." Now in my opinion, that is true love!

ooohmiss!

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So how have you changed over the years? Posted: 5/23/2009 9:41:48 AM
I have learned to value my family and friends more now than I did 20 years ago..... I am not as rebellious as I was in my 20's, although I still march to the beat of a different drum.... I believe there is a God, but not so much what I was taught in religion class in Catholic School....I have learned to appreciate many religions.... I do not value the materialistic things that everyone else has just because I want to fit in with them...to each their own....I went from losing everything ....to what I have now ....and I appreciate things more.... My heart has been broken so many times but I was always able to pick myself up and move myself on...At the time this happened, I wanted to roll up and die....those people were not worthy of me..... I like to look back on the good things that happened in my life and pat myself on my back for my accomplishments....I also look at the bad things that happened as learning experiences.... I have watched a few family & close friends die of cancer, heart disease and AIDS and I really think that woke me up to live for today because tomorrow is never promised....

ooohmiss!

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Let's get naked Posted: 5/18/2009 12:20:34 PM
at our age.....it is what is inside the box that counts more than the wrapping...or so I am told....

ooohmiss!

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Can Marriage Survive Infidelity? Posted: 5/17/2009 11:27:25 AM
I recently had this discussion with a few friends of mine. My answer is in all reality...NO! How can a man (or woman) lay in the same bed as his/her spouse knowing just a few hours ago he /she was with someone else ? It is the cheater who has to look at themselves in the mirror every day and face what they have done to their spouse....but, then again, some people just have no consciences and will continue to cheat. IMHO.....Couples who stay in the marriage after infidelity for the sake of the children or for financial reasons are just plain crazy and unhealthy for all concerned.

ooohmiss!

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Why is the word relationship scare men away? Posted: 5/6/2009 9:07:27 AM
I been on the same road as you Speciallady28. Many men (as well as women) portray themselves as being the ultimate "catch" looking for a relationship. You contact them, you talk, you meet them....all seems to be going well, then the minute the word "relationship" or "exclusive" comes into the conversation, a huge tsunami comes and carries them away ....never to be seen or heard from again....how pathetic they are! People like this do not belong on dating sites and they make it bad for the good people out there who are truly looking for a relationship. I think these people are here just to see how many notches they can get on their bedposts and to play games....If I want to play games, I would pick Monopoly or Scrabble!

ooohmiss!

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Msg: 68 (view)

Folding Fitted Sheets--Help???? Posted: 5/6/2009 8:32:32 AM
I think at our age we would be more consumed with worrying about wrinkles on our faces than wrinkled sheets! (and it is always fun to wrinkle up your sheets with your significant other!)

ooohmiss!

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Favorite romantic movie scene Posted: 4/26/2009 8:58:11 AM
I agree with GAAL1963 with that scene in "An Officer & A Gentleman" when Richard Geer walks into the plant in full uniform to carry the love of his life (Debra Winger) out in his arms.... OMG!

ooohmiss!

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KILTS...Would you wear one? Date someone who did? Posted: 4/18/2009 9:16:32 AM
I just luv a man in a kilt with a brogue........and a windy day of course!

ooohmiss!

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Is Analingus the new Cunnilingus? Posted: 4/13/2009 9:34:18 AM
Talking about people being KISS A$$ES

ooohmiss!

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guys who love you and leave you Posted: 3/31/2009 9:24:05 AM
I think people (both men and women) who love em and leave em have some major issues...besides being rude! If they feel I am not worth keeping around, then they were just playing me all along and aren't worth my emotions. This is why a lot of people have problems with trusting in a relationship....

ooohmiss!

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Life is Too Short BS Posted: 3/30/2009 9:58:57 AM
Like most people my age, I feel I have paid my dues...I did the best I could do as a single mother....I have a nice home...The girls are both in college...I am going to be a grandmother for the first time in the Fall...this is my time to live! When I die, I want it to be said, she overcame many obstacles and tried her best, but she lived a good life and she found humor in everything both good and bad...and did it her way! (hearing Frank Sinatra in the background....)

ooohmiss!

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Stupid things people do while behind the wheel. Posted: 3/19/2009 12:02:14 AM
This may be a little off-topic, but I was in my best friend's car and we were in moving traffic. We were having a usual conversation and all of a sudden her jaw dropped and she pointed to the car next to us. I looked over to see this guy driving with a dildo making the motion of giving a hand job and looking right at us! Now that was a stupid jerk off! Now every time we pass that exit on the Taconic State Parkway we crack up laughing!

ooohmiss!

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Are old people starting to look good to you? Posted: 3/18/2009 6:27:36 PM
I think 5 years younger looks mighty fine!

ooohmiss!

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Concerning makin love.. Posted: 3/17/2009 11:11:20 PM
I would hope most of us have learned a few "tricks" compared to when we first started having sex.

ooohmiss!

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Maturity and Honesty?? Posted: 3/15/2009 2:21:15 PM
Hey Moon...Whoever I date, I tell them right up front that I will be totally honest with them and expect the same in return..Some "relationships" are meant to be, while others should never leave the "friends" category.....It does amaze me how people our age are still playing the "fading game" like they did when they were much younger...IMO it makes them look like a$$holes! I have had this happen to me also and I learned to brush it off and be thankful this "relationship" didn't go further wasting my time or causing bad feelings...As far as them deleting you from their contact list or blocking you, maybe they are showing how immature they really are...I have found on this site in particular, that huge tsunamis come into the POF pond and take away fishies....never to be heard from again!...or they get "reincarnated" with all new and improved profiles and multiple screen names....boo hoo....NOT!

ooohmiss!

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where is the weirdest place u had sex??? Posted: 3/14/2009 7:14:58 PM
this is a fairly new one for me.........on his workout bench....where else would you have a "workout"????? (and whatta workout! whew!)

ooohmiss!

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Women question a man over 50 and not been married? Posted: 3/1/2009 1:15:04 PM
IMO....I have no problem with a man who is over 50 who has never been married... maybe he never found his "Ms. Right"... I do,however, have a when I encounter a man over 50, never been married, with nothing to show for it ...still living at home with his parents who seem to live a more active life than the son!

ooohmiss!

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Living in a small community and tripping over one's ex Posted: 2/18/2009 12:08:19 PM
"all the same places he used to take you". That really shows a lack of character or at least imagination. " Oh, I agree! A few months ago, I met a nice local guy who took me to his "hang-out". I felt sooooo damn uncomfortable because I could feel the daggers of the other women because I was with "him". If you plan on courting a woman, at least use a little common sense and don't take her to the same place you know your "ex" will be frequenting.

ooohmiss!

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Pulling out the stops emotionally Posted: 2/13/2009 2:50:03 PM
I agree with most of the posters. People need to take a good look at the way they treat others. I was bought up to respect, be considerate and polite to others. I have a family and friends who love and respect me. I would only hope, if I were involved with someone, that they would be there for me during a crisis because I certainly would be there for them. I am sure we all have been hurt in one way or another in the "Love Department". I, myself, have been turned off many times...Does that mean we will never love again? I should hope not! Yes, GEBH, I am hearing what you are saying...been there too...yes, no one deserve this treatment. (I wish you a speedy recovery) I am sure these people wouldn't want to be on the other side of the coin. We are all reaching the age where health issues and family issues are a great concern for us...would be nice to have a shoulder to lean on....or a hug or two...

ooohmiss!

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Date A or B or neither??? Posted: 2/7/2009 12:13:32 PM
It is funny how you compare the men as Tony Soprano and Mr. Rodgers.... If neither "does it" for you, why are you stringing them along? I would end it now, before they run to the engagement ring counter in the local mall banging into eachother at the register!

ooohmiss!

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Talking about sex before even meeting Posted: 2/6/2009 12:37:50 PM
I am far from a prude, but if I a man I never met starts talking to me via instant message or e-mail, that would send in the red flags ... and I would block his a$$! and end all contacts with him...Flirting is harmless until it gets vulgar... There is a huge difference between "real" opposed to "internet" flirting...I would rather be flirted with in person....

ooohmiss!

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Should you message someone you've recognized in public? Posted: 2/1/2009 4:07:30 PM
I have had a few emails from local POFers saying they saw me in the area and would like to get to know me better...I see nothing wrong with it...Go for it! Good Luck!

ooohmiss!

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The habits your ex had that make you glad its over. Posted: 1/31/2009 12:47:06 PM
I do not miss the walking on egg shells in order not to upset his highness. I do not miss the beatings and name calling. I do not miss having to clean up the house after he trashed it. I do not miss spoiled holidays. I do not miss him screaming at the top of his lungs when he couldn't find something. I do not miss having to tell the kids to keep quiet about what happened. I do not miss covering bruises with make up so I could go to work to earn an honest living. I do not miss having to hear he was cheating on me. I do not miss having to pretend he was a loving husband and father. I do not miss holidays with his family. I do not miss laying in bed hoping he will not come home. I do not miss the boring sex. I do not miss going out in shame because the neighbors may have heard him yelling. what I do like now.... No more eggshells to walk on! The kids can have their friends over for sleep overs! No more beatings and name calling! A neat house that is all mine where I can have friends and family visit often. Holidays are enjoyed....no more trashed Christmas trees on Christmas morning! I don't have to hear his voice! No more bruises to cover up! Not having to deal with his family! I can sleep better at night. Sex is great! No more shame and my self esteem has never been better!

ooohmiss!

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sexual liberation...or not so much? Posted: 1/31/2009 9:49:35 AM
I have been to several of these parties and even co-hosted a few...I have to admit, my first party I was invited to I really didn't know what to expect, but once I saw all the other women being open, I fit right in! The demonstrator was really open and told you all about each product, how it is used and even passed some around so you can get a hands on approach. There was also a lingerie rack that you can try on the items to make sure you like how it fits before you make your purchase. All purchases are done in another room so no one knows what you are buying. Most women are hilarious with the games that are played! The conversations can get a little raunchy, but what the hell, you are amongst friends! I think as women get older, they tend to be more open with their sexuality amongst their peers. It is a good girl's night out with lots of laughs and giggles! Sure beats the ole Tupperware parties!

ooohmiss!

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losing a friend Posted: 1/31/2009 9:34:26 AM
There is a big difference between a silly argument and betrayal. I recently lost a friend of 27 years (more like family) due to her betrayal. If it was a silly argument, then I would consider talking it out , even laughing it off in some instances and eventually forgiving this person. The act of betrayal can hurt more than a physical injury and the emotional stress is often severe. Friends are not supposed to hurt friends in such a deceitful way just to save their own a$$. People should treat others how they want to be treated in return. Whatever happened to good ole LOYALITY? An old saying..."What goes around....comes around".

ooohmiss!

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Haiku Posted: 1/29/2009 12:26:04 PM
to give an embrace friends separated by miles held close to my heart ( hey Manny...how are you???)

ooohmiss!

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Haiku Posted: 1/29/2009 12:15:33 PM
in your darkest hour! true friends will always be there with welcoming arms ( hi everyone....been a while!)

ooohmiss!

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Toilet seats and toothpaste Posted: 1/29/2009 10:21:27 AM
Treat others as you want to be treated in return. I will rather walk away (yeah, maybe pi$$ed off) rather than to have a blowout over something silly. Eventually things will cool down so you can talk in rational tones instead of yelling. I would save the screaming matches for the more serious issues.... Treat others belongings as you would want them to treat yours. Put your belongings where they belong! No one wants to pick up dirty clothes and dishes. Maids get paid.... Family and friends do not need to know all your personal business...some things are better left private...

ooohmiss!

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How mature is 'the vanishing act'? Posted: 1/25/2009 1:22:11 PM
Sending a "not a match" email afterwards is just good manners I totally agree with you on this.

ooohmiss!

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How mature is 'the vanishing act'? Posted: 1/25/2009 11:54:34 AM
Purpletang....I am hearing what you are saying loud and clear! This has also happened to me after a few dates that seemed to go well...Seems like these people may have been taken away by the POF Tsunami Never to be heard from again....OH MY! People like this are serial daters in my opinion...They get what that can from you and without warning move on to someone else...I wouldn't spend sleepless nights over people like these...they just are not worth it...

ooohmiss!

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at what age was sex the best? Posted: 1/23/2009 7:48:50 AM
IMO Sex back then opposed to now is like comparing grape juice to fine wine.

ooohmiss!

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WHY DO MEN WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU, BUT NOT DATE YOU? Posted: 1/21/2009 10:19:30 AM
Unfortunately, you are in this "relationship" because you allowed it and he took advantage of this situation....Yes, you thought he had some feelings for you....WAKE UP!....the only feelings he has for you is in his .... MOVE ON! There are more worthy men out there looking for a real relationship and will treat you the way you should be treated... OPEN YOUR EYES! You owe it to yourself!

ooohmiss!

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Earliest childhood memory? Posted: 1/18/2009 10:30:46 AM
I remember traveling by train and bus to go to see relatives in Queens and upstate NY....sleep overs with the cousins.... getting in trouble cause we were laughing instead of sleeping.... I remember getting our first color television and watching The Flintstones in color! I remember going to Kindergarten and getting all new school clothes and a red plaid schoolbag!....having fun and coloring...the 4th Grade was a b!tch with the nuns though.... Christmas shows at Radio City when you saw the Rockette Show and a movie, too! After the show, we always went out to eat and looked at all the decorated store windows and the huge tree in Rockefeller Center...I was always amazed how Santa could be on every street corner ....the smell of chestnuts...hot pretzels.....Christmas in the City is the best! I remember summers in a rented bungalow in New Jersey on the shore...lots of family visiting...swimming all day....sand castles.....amusement park at night... My First Holy Communion....dressed like a little bride.... I have to say, I have a lot of good memories as a child!

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