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Thread: daniel boone rod & gun club 2nd annual singles pig roast
Funluvrnpa
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daniel boone rod & gun club 2nd annual singles pig roast
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8/11/2008 9:15:08 AM
YES!!!!!!!!!! YES!!!!!!!!!!!! YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!..........I will definately be there......will be just super great to see you all again.......Do I have to wear a coon skin cap? LOL.........
Funluvrnpa
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makes no sense
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8/9/2007 11:16:58 AM
Mslimerick.....
First of all you are a very pretty young 22 year old woman. You have experienced one thing in life that is heart wrenching. This sounds like he is a married man.
"Can anyone tell me how someone can say he loves you and then still break up with you?" This may not be the answer you are looking for, but here goes. I was married to a woman for 17 years, that told me she loved me, all the while she was having one affair after another. So your plight is not unusual. At least you didn't make the mistake to go meeting him somewhere.
Another scenario could be is that he is a player. It is like the cat with the mouse. The cat will play with the mouse till it gets tired, and merely walk away. He sounds like he is playing with you, and now that he has you where he wants you, the game is over. The best to you, you have many good years before you, make the best of them.
Funluvrnpa
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Advice wanted regarding a date i had last week
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8/8/2007 1:55:17 PM
Sounds to me like you have been watching to much........Jerry Springer.....Usually one doesn't discuss any type of sexual encounter on the first communication nor at the first meeting. Apparently you both had preconceived notions about sex. If you weren't about sex, why discuss it with the first communication? I think you both have to step back, way back, and evaluate the situation.
Funluvrnpa
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How many times have you heard this people?
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8/8/2007 5:48:18 AM
Perhaps it is the 9 piercings and 3 to 5 tattoos. There is nothing wrong with ears, or naval piercing, but 9!! Nor is there anything wrong with tattoos, but 3 to 5? Most guys would look at this as a woman being lose, or one who likes to play around .
Funluvrnpa
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love stinks
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8/7/2007 9:56:36 AM
Very good advice Pnayplayr. But Phybz, have you considered the fact that perhaps she wants to be sure, that this for real and not a passing fancy? To some giving up one's body, which by the way is the only thing we have that is truly ours, is a very sacred thing. Maybe some, as I have read in these forums, think sex is the solution to everything, only to find out it ended in disaster. If things are as you say they are, then give her the time and space. If it was meant to ber, it will happen.
Funluvrnpa
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does honesty work?
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8/6/2007 9:46:45 AM
Does honesty work? The answer is simple. NO NO NO
The more honest a person is, the less chance he has in this dating game. You send an email to someone, and try to be as upbeat, honest, and humorous as possible, and then? SILENCE......guess I am the only one with a reply button on their email. But that is another subject. Most women want a guy that is straight out of the Mr America contest, and can't even pronounce the word honesty, much less knows what it means.
Funluvrnpa
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She never call me
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8/5/2007 8:22:46 PM
Janet.....
In this one respect guys and gitrls are the same. If you meet a guy you are interested in, don't you like it when he calls? Well us guys are no different. If we have met someone, and have been dating for a time, we like to be called once in a while. Call it an ego thjing, a guy thing, or anything you like. But we like to be chased a little too.
Funluvrnpa
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Unbelievable
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8/4/2007 4:40:47 AM
Musical......according to your profile you seem to be an attractive, fairly intelligent woman. Emphasis on woman not girl. You are 32 years of age, not a teeny bopper. Have you ever heard of "BLOCK USER?" Or I known for a facft that MSN has a notify clause. Use your intelligence and report and block the loser.
FunluvrnPA
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Why not take advantage of the POF meet and greets?
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7/23/2007 12:47:46 PM
DawnMarie........
Have been to several M?G's in this area. Most are at lwast one hour away, but it is well worth the drive. They are hosted by good people, meeting good people, and having a great time. I urge anyone that is within one hour of a meet and greet, GO.......GO......GO..... You can bypass the bar type atmosphere. You are there to meet people, not stand at the bar all night.
FunluvrnPA
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Its like shopping for a pair of shoes!!!!!!!!!!!
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7/22/2007 8:13:52 AM
Mogrl42...
Some women do have a new guy every week........BTW.......nice kitty....Cat person here.
FunluvrnPA
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So what does YOUR book state as the definition of dating
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7/21/2007 9:55:40 AM
Soberkitty....
Webster's dictionary states, "An appointment to meet at a specific time....a social engagement between two persons that often has a romantic character." But do these meanings have a specific thing to do with this site? I think not. Dating in my opinion is that you are seeing a person or persons, over a period of time, and see if there is a romantic connection. This could be one date, or a year's worth of dating. There is no specific amount of time or dates.
FunluvrnPA
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You know you screwed up the first date and want to try again
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7/20/2007 5:29:03 PM
Armybabe.....
I am not one to judge, but i think you made a major faus paus.(spelling doesn't count). So what if you were in your scrubs, if he was that interested in you, what you were wearing would make no difference. Yes I can understand that you didn't feel like you just stepped out of glamor magazine. He would have eventually have seen you in your scrubs. If he means that much to you, call him, email him, write him, send the mafia hit men. In other words do what you have to do. But it seems like he may not have the same level of interest as you do.
FunluvrnPA
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Pictures from Happy Hour Party July 12th
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7/20/2007 1:06:03 PM
Pony......
Yes we did.....likewise for Hunter & Babs....
We all missed you too......and thanks for the kind words...looking forward to seeing you soon......
FunluvrnPA
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What I have learned at 49 about to turn 50!!
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7/20/2007 6:17:16 AM
Honestisi......
Most of what you say is good advice. With the exception of the following:
7. Be cautious if someone comes on "too strong" or has too many "sweet" words flowing from their mouth!!!! especially in the beginning.
Perhaps the person is a hopeless romantic, and is not afraid to express themselves, and state how they see things.
9. Lying is not acceptable.
So true, there is no excuse for lying. But how do you determine that the person is or is not lying? Since you do not know this person, it is difficult.
FunluvrnPA
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What is it...you say you want a long term relationship...
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7/18/2007 10:09:22 AM
Andrea....
This seems to be a universal problem. Right away people judge you by a few words in a profile, or a pic that doesn't do you justice. Meeting someone can turn into something great, and if not at least give you a night out.
I have been trying to figure out the difference between dating and a long term relationship. if a person is looking for a long term relationship, how can one find it if they refuse to meet?
FunluvrnPA
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Women should just be themselves.....correct?
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7/18/2007 8:10:59 AM
Keeping it real....
"When really all you want is for someone to understand and hopefully meet a man who will complete you when you are just naturally yourself, free from the world and leaves only two smiles." I agree with The rest of your statement, except for this clause. I have...do...and always will accept people as they are. When that man does come along , he is most of the time rejected. You talk of "The sprinkles on the cake." I see women doing the same thing. If he isn't a "hunk", has muscles, whatever, he doesn't stand a chance. Women also put undue pressure on men.
funluvrnpa
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Is one hour too long to travel so u can meet someone?
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7/15/2007 5:23:07 AM
Robbie......An hour is not at all a long distance or time to go to meet someone. The male should drive the first time and maybe a time or two, if there is to be more than one date. If it has been established that there is going to be a relationship, then the driving arrangements should be discussed. Also then it would be a good thing if you went to visit him.
funluvrnpa
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Am I Asking Too Much???
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7/15/2007 5:19:13 AM
Mz......Us guys go through the same thing.
Marjatta...you and the kitty are pretty.......
funluvrnpa
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Bored with myself and the same old record I keep playing in my mind
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7/14/2007 10:46:30 AM
Holly....
If I may be bold, you are a very pretty lady. You are only 33 years young, you have a good part of your lifer ahead of you.
"How do you just let go of that because the person let go of you?" I will tell you how I did it. After 17 years of marriage, to a woman that I did everything for, she decided that a truck driver was better than an educated, caring, compassionate, loving man. It did take me a while, then one day I said to myself, "Self, what in the world is wrong with you? You did nothing wrong." That was the day I decided to move on. Let her have what she has, because I am the better person for what happened.
It is not easy, but you just have to get your knickers out of the not you have them in, and get going girl. The best to you.......
funluvrnpa
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Pictures from Happy Hour Party July 12th
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7/14/2007 9:53:26 AM
Romanticgal......
Thank you, thank you....Thanks to Hunter......Joy and everyone that made it a memorable evening. And yes I am a believer, met some wonderful people, especially one. WINK...WINK...HINT........
funluvrnpa
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What is up with people not calling?
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7/10/2007 8:48:48 AM
YES!!!!! I think a lot of us have had the same experience, male and female both. Some are just collectors, they collect phone numbers and pics. I call once wait a short period, and if no return call, call again, then if no return call, blow them off.
funluvrnpa
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In Dating...wherever point you're at NOW..what would make you smile, at THIS MOMENT
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7/6/2007 3:52:11 PM
anenigma...The thing that would make me happy at the moment is that the lovely lady (
), I have been in communication with, would accept me into her life. Oh and to have Ford win the Pepsi 400, at Daytona.
funluvrnpa
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Happy Hour Party Barnaby's West Chester July 12th
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6/27/2007 3:38:12 PM
Romanticgal.......
Looking forward to it....be nice to see you again and to meet some new people.......
funluvrnpa
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I'm losing my man help
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6/27/2007 7:14:03 AM
Sweet........
My oh my...here we go again...you are 29 years old...not a teeny bopper. GROW UP!! The only thing he was honest about is that he is married and still in love with the cheater. That should have told you right off and the red flag should have been raised, that he is a loser. And congratulations to you, you have lived up to the old adage, "Why buy the cow when the milk is free!" He has the world by the bum. He not only has all the physical needs he wants, but has others willing to supply what other needs he has. It is sad when to thjink that there are others out there that want to find true happiness and then there are situations like yours. You do what you want, but I have no sympathy for you.
funluvrnpa
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Angry and Frustrated, Confused
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6/21/2007 6:41:41 PM
godzgqril.....
Here we go again. Boy meets girl, girl gets infatuated, sleeps with boy, boy gets what he wants, and guess what? DUH!!! Gee I wonder what happened. I wonder. Well you have no one to blame but yourself. So get on with your life. And that should have taught you a lesson. Sorry if I have no sympathy for you. Good luck.
funluvrnpa
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I still love her
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6/20/2007 6:58:41 AM
How about getting on with your life, forget her, and move on.
funluvrnpa
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Well crafted sentences and why it's important
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6/17/2007 4:25:13 PM
Namakao...
Get Mozilla Firefox, they have all those things built in. BTW...pretty cats...
funluvrnpa
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making a first meeting date
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6/17/2007 4:21:59 PM
Love...
Forget it!!! He wasn't that interested. Personally I would embrace the concept of a woman calling me to help arrange, the first meeting.
funluvrnpa
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What do you think of computer software that lets your spy on your boyfriend/girlfriend?
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6/17/2007 4:17:34 PM
Carolann...You said...
"If you do not trust the person you are with they either have given you a damn good reason or you trust no one."
Although I may partially agree with the first part of your post, I definitely agree with your last part. Not all that think their partner is cheating has been given a reason. Perhaps they themselves are cheating, and to compensate blame the other. And there are those that believe in the Fox Mulder philosophy, "Trust no one"
funluvrnpa
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Some advice on how the male mind works
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6/15/2007 9:38:55 PM
Suzi or Ali....or whomever you might be....since you are such an expert on the male mind, you must realize that his mind is working like a lot of women's minds. I just wish you people that allow yourselves to be used and manipulated, would QUIT lumping all males into one category. I for one am sick and tired of it......
funluvrnpa
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Break Up Advice.
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6/15/2007 6:02:51 AM
Cornish....
The first step is to look at the relationship, and evaluate what went wrong. Then you have to evaluate who did what to end the relationship. If you are in the self blame mode, reject that immediately. A relationship is like a marriage, it is hard to find the inner peace when it is over. As to how long it will take to get over it, only you can decide that. We are all scared of facing the unknown, but that is what life is all about. Sometimes you are the dog, and sometimes you are the hydrant. From what I saw of your profile, you are a very pretty woman, focus on yourself, build up your self worth. You are the most important person you know..................The best to you.........
funluvrnpa
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what do i do i'm tired of it
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6/8/2007 6:22:46 PM
Just what we need another post of male bashing. There are good guys as well as good fems out there. Perhaps if some of you women that don't take the time to answer an email, and find out about the guy, you might be surprised. I for one am sick and tired of all the bashing by both sexes. For a site that promotes finding that one person that may fulfill your life, all you can do is drive the good ones away. There are just as many, if not more, women that play the mind games, and LIE, as men. So wise up, at least take a few moments, and answer that email, chat with the other person, get to know them. Again you might be surprised.
Funluvrnpa
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is a woman's world
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5/31/2007 5:18:13 AM
It is definitely a woman's world. You can see it everywhere. On the telly, in the adverts, in public, etc. But, Frosty, what you said made no sense at all. It appeared to me that what you meant is that if you see an attractive woman, and you approach her, and all you want is sex, then she has the right to tell you to piss off. So the first part is true, it is a woman's world, and what a beautiful world it is...........
Funluvrnpa
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dating the unemployed
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5/28/2007 6:13:46 PM
"What if he had lots of other good qualities like good looks, smarts, charm, and skill in the sack? Would women give a guy like that a chance?"
With all those excellent qualities......you should have women beating down your door to take care of you.
But one thing on your side........people become unemployed for a number of reasons...how about downsizing? Shipping processes overseas? A particular job is phased out?
Funluvrnpa
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dating men that have been divorced
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5/28/2007 4:29:31 PM
Brateymee....
Two things you did not address.
One..what if the guy is asked about his EX and what happened?
Two...What about the female that continues to belittle her EX, and is the one that always brings it up?
My point is, it is not only the guys, and personally, I see it run about 85% TO 15%, ANTI MALE.
As it says on my profile..."RIGHT UNDERSTANDING OCCURS WHEN ONE SEES THINGS SIMPLY, AS THEY ARE. EVERYTHING ALREADY IS". Also...Yesterday was...today is...tomorrow will be........
Funluvrnpa
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bring your own bottle (b.y.o.b) & pigroast
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5/27/2007 1:16:48 PM
I will be there!!!!
Funluvrnpa
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A date who brings me chocolate EVERY DATE
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5/23/2007 11:28:18 AM
ellie.....
Be thankful for what you got.
Curlygrl......Try looking closer to you.....you might be surprised, at what and who you might find.
Funluvrnpa
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Responding to emails from people you're not interested in
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5/21/2007 5:44:34 PM
Bbooandkitty2.....
Yes it would be better to just delete emails that you are not interested in. To read one and just let it hang is extremely bad manners. The person receiving the email has no clue as to whether you are interested or not. They sit and wait and wait for a response. However long it takes to read an email....It only takes a few seconds more to hit the reply, and say thanks but no thanks, or something similar.
Velvetkitten...
If I may say so, you have the most alluring eyes. That is meant as the sincerest compliment.
Funluvrnpa
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What happens next
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5/21/2007 9:57:23 AM
Swtladie...
If your luck is better than mine, the next logical step is to meet. There is no time limit as to how long it is supposed to take.
Funluvrnpa
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
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5/20/2007 7:22:53 PM
Companionship, friendship, someone there to laugh with you, cry with you, share everyday things. Someone to say, "I care," someone to cuddle with by the fire om a cold winter's night. To be silly with, to do crazy things and laugh about them. And someone to give you those secret looks that only you two know what they mean. Someone to share love with, and to make love with.
Funluvrnpa
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When a connection doesn't work out
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5/19/2007 6:51:05 AM
Just........like the old saying goes......it takes two to make or break a relationship. As we do not know, and really do not have to know, what it was, can't help you much. Perhaps after meeting something about you may have turned him off, and he used whatever it was as an excuse. But you should change your profile from...Found someone, not dating, to available. Best to you
Funluvrnpa
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Is this a bad question?
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5/17/2007 8:41:55 AM
Reegan...
Albeit the question is not a bad one, why would you want to delve into what was. We all love for our own reasons. Especially when it comes to people. How many times have you heard, "What does she/him see in him or her?" So just be happy that your BF sees something in you that he loves, and vice versa. Besides the answer is something you may not want to know.
Remember this:
Without darkness there can be no light,
without error there can be no path to the truth!
Funluvrnpa
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Help!!!! My Best Friend's Son Just Asked Me Out
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5/16/2007 4:54:19 PM
OK where is the hidden camera? This is one of those things you see on TV where they set people up right? Or is it a Jerry Springer take off? If he is under 18, girl you are in big trouble. In two words....FORGET IT!!!!!
Funluvrnpa
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hangover cures wanted!!
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5/15/2007 5:45:33 AM
Becsan69...
The best hangover cure there ever was, and still is the best. It has never failed to work. When you are tipping a tinny or two...stop there....Don't get PISSED, and you won't have the problem in the first place!!!
funluvrnpa
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What Changes in the male mind after sex
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5/11/2007 7:49:25 AM
Heidi....
And yet another gender buster. It may come as a shock to you, but NOT ALL males are interested in just sex. There are those, like me, that actually like to romance a woman. Go through the steps, and if the relationship leads tom a physical encounter, it is a beautiful thing. And one more thing, NOT ALL OF US, AFTER MAKING LOVE, FALL ASLEEP. We enjoy the cuddling, holding, and intimacy of it all. And our minds DO NOT shut off.
funluvrnpa
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Perfect guy....except....
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5/8/2007 2:05:27 PM
Fun.........looks like you looked past what he was. All you saw was his looks, materialistic things, and his money. Didn't take time to see the person. Although I feel sorry for you, you walked in with your eyes open. But not open to the right things.
funluvrnpa
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Is it just me?????
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5/7/2007 10:59:45 AM
I agree with the general populace. It seems like at least, 80 to 85% of the posts anymore are negative. Most dealing with the bashing of male and females. Can't we all stop this bickering and bashing? Venting is good, sometimes. But the continual gender bashing, does nothing, but turn people off, and against those of us who are genuinely looking for something real.
So enough already. I only wish ADMIN would do something.
funluvrnpa
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why do men only care about sex???
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5/5/2007 11:26:37 AM
Faithfully....
FLASH !!!
...This may come as a surprise....But NOT....repeat NOT all men are only interested in SEX. I myself and am sure that there is a significant number of others, are looking for a meaningful relationship. Looking to take the steps and the progression. That is meeting, if things are good, a date, and a continuance to date, and if feelings develop, and it progresses to the point that the relationship turns to the physical aspect, then making love is the result, NOT SEX!!!
funluvrnpa
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Plentyoffish Compatibility Test.
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5/5/2007 5:42:50 AM
Having taken the test, I am tending to agree with the majority. Although it was fun and entertaining, the results seemed to be an exact reverse of what I am.
funluvrnpa
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Why do men get a pat on the back but women get labelled?
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5/3/2007 2:47:49 PM
I think I have had enough of this #%#%$@#%. Here we go again with the male bashing. Loveableangel01...there are just as many women that do the very same thing that you mention in your post. I am going to contact whomever it takes to get these bashing posts eliminated. What happened to the, "Try and meet your mate", purpose of this site?
I have and I am sure, that there are quite a number of males that have been played, told lies to, and cheated to get what they want.
Enough is enough.
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