Thats the great thing about the forums, the exchange of information.. I have certainly gained some valuable information based upon other's real life experiences.

Everyone knows who Dr. Drew is right? Well he has said on radio talk that it can not be learned either you do or don't it's up to your body make up

He's gay. He may not realize it. He wants his prostate tickled methinks

no 10 year old child wants a 60 year old parent.

I am just wondering why some people like to stick their tongue in other people's ears.

Does that mean he is ready to stick his tongue in other places?

I guess any orifice will do?

Any thoughts?

How many of those divorces were the result of a live together arrangement early in the relationship first?

Beware when they say they like kissing on their pro...lasts about a week

Well...some guys are experts with expressing emotions...negative emotions

My point is that the way the threads used to run was much better. Now you can't even post a new thread specific to your exact question

Men' Don't sit and wait for the women to message you. If you do you won't get much of anywhere. When you want something you get up and go get it.

Really? Men for years have been telling women they love them, so they can have sex with them; saying "I love you" to a man, for a woman, means a committment to him

So, where's the balance?

What's pulling out enough emotional stops to keep someone interested vs. too much and scaring them away?

Does it only make a difference if you're interested in the other person (i.e. so what if they're not emotionally investing in the relationship if you don't think they're long term potential anyway?

or sokay if they're moving too fast if you want an excuse to dump them anyway?)

What does it look like to 'pull out all the emotional stops'? (I'm especially interested in hearing from the men on this one)

How do you display your interest to 'catch' a fish you're really interested in?

Size has nothing to do with anyones ability to orgasm.

It's all in the brain

Our brains dont get bigger or smaller when we lose weight.

I'll put my track record against anyone's on this forum.

I've never been married/divorced so at least mine fail BEFORE I get married. I've also had 3 live in relationships, one lasting almost 6 years. I also have no kids. I'll put my track record against anyone's on this forum.

I've always felt I'd rather keep the friend as a friend and be physically intimate with someone on a much deeper level, but in hindsight I wonder if there is anything more intimate than a true friend. One more thing to add to the "This is just too complicated for me

So....sex initiates the relationship. I think thats' why relationships fail.

I think when all the cards are on table and it is very clear what is going on then you can have a FWB and not have an emotion connection to the person...if you want to consider a FWB a 'sort-of' relationship, I can understand that, but again NO CONNECTION...you both come as you go and are there if one needs the other....no jealousy...just trust...

I've read a variety of posts that suggest the majority of men can simply have sex with a woman without being emotionally connected to their sex partner,

however, the majority of women can not do the same. The presumption is that women need to be emotionally connected to the man in order to have sex with them.

My question to the ladies out there-do you need to have an emotional connection for a potential lover in order to have sexual intercourse, or do you enjoy sex for the sake of sex? Is a physical attraction enough to get down and dirty with a man whose caught your eye, or is it more important to care about him before you become intimate?

Additionally, if you can have sex just for the physical pleasure, do you feel bad after?

you have sex, you cuddle for a bit..(bleah) then its getting late so time to go home now!!
I just don't understand why people want their lovers to spend the night with them. It just seems needy to me!

How does one pleasure a man through a condom....I am not being silly...this is indeed my lack of experience...

I was just hoping for a friends with benefit thing or booty call. But he then goes and tells me that he doesn't for see anything like this happening again in the near future. Now what is that? Who turns down a **** buddy? Then he goes and gives me some crappy analogy that makes no sense to the situation. I can't understand men...i was really looking forward to having sex with him again. Can someone at least tell me or give some hint as to why?

Afterward, she asked me "is it wrong that I really liked that?". It was if she felt she had done a disservice for her fellow feminist all over the world...lol

The taste is an issue for me. Guys be careful what you eat certian foods can cause your cum to taste salty.

I am confused why you are taking what I said personally as I merely was pointing out a flaw in your judgment of a person's honesty and so was a bad example.

I am not taking it personally, merely pointing it out. Surely your self esteem could not be the issue as you are showing your shirtless self and have over 2 thousand posts, so why are you referring to me as though I jumped upon you and attacked you? Please do not answer... it is rhetoric.

thanks for the welcome to the forums old timer.

I still feel the same whether the jizz goes down her throat or in a tissue.

I think that is more some psychological thing rather than physical.

Maybe I am weird I guess, I dunno. I am still trying to figure out why this is such an important issue to my fellow male species

I am not a big fan of receiving oral anyway,

One woman I know said, "I don't count the one-night-stands and the mistakes!"...

Wait a minute. I happen to be taller then 5'7 and with a large frame and 160 pounds may seem like a lot, but when I was an athlete and did weight training I never had an ounce of fat on me and weighed a LOT more then that . That is NOT a good example and within normal range for a female non athlete.

true,, but if they have a picture and altered it,, or lied about the date when it was taken, for example, it a woman I was going to meet said she was 5'7' 130#,, and that was the picture she showed,, then when she showed up to the date and she was 160# + pounds,, I would have no issues saying see ya,, have a good night,,,

But who are you to say the next person may not fall in love with her heart and not see the extra pounds. Would he have met her if she had put extra pounds? Perhaps not. Not everyone is as judgmental as the next person and no woman actually looks like Barbie, the quintessential male fantasy figure. (look at the men calling the stars and singers who are not anorexic fat...grrrrrr)

Dishonesty with self and others will almost always come back and bite you. I would rather have honesty then a picture that lied

I have met without a picture as they are willing to give me the benefit of the doubt.

I dont recommend building your tolerance with a toothbrush, it can really hurt the back of your throat.

I need to find out what techniques other women do because for me I almost threw it up the last time I had it in my mouth (not out of disgust or anything like that, because I was not turned off...just have a strong gag reflex)...