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CajunSweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

I'd do her, I wouldn't do her.... Posted: 9/17/2007 3:21:24 PM
If you're really honest with yourself sweety you'll realize that us women do the SAME thing!!! You can't say that you never look at a guy when you first meet him and decide whether or not you'd do him or not! You'd be lying to yourself... So we can't fuss over men doing it. We all do it if you're going to be honest with yourself

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 96 (view)

Would this scare you? Posted: 8/1/2007 6:01:26 PM
I wouldn't really be scared... but I'd make sure to pay attention to any other odd characteristics from this guy... Maybe he's just trying to show he's interested in you in his own way, but then again he could be kookie!!! lol

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 246 (view)

Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!! Posted: 8/1/2007 5:59:01 PM
Need I say more!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 149 (view)

I wouldn't date a pizza guy.. Posted: 8/1/2007 4:57:59 PM
I've seen so many of my friends work their butts off while there man sits at home and relaxes... And it just makes me sooooooooooooooo MAD So I'd say if a man has a job NO matter what job it is... I'd be happy with him :)

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 1046 (view)

Can men and women be friends without sex? Posted: 8/1/2007 4:04:34 PM
Men and women definitely can be friends without sex... U just need to put them in the category with your female friends... Which are OFF LIMITS!!! Definitely don't cross the line with a male friend b/c you'll never get that friendship you had before

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 110 (view)

Would you date any of your Ex's again? Posted: 8/1/2007 3:59:13 PM
Sweetie I have a saying I definitely stick to.... "If it didn't work the first time, it definitely won't work the Second time "

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 94 (view)

Swallowing - Do' & Don'ts Posted: 7/4/2007 7:41:19 AM
When it comes to swalling your semen sweety I doubt that you have any control on what your woman will do and not do.... I'm sorry but if I'm going to swalling your c*m then I better be wanting your real bad... especially if you have a bad attitude the way you're coming off on here.. lol, I wouldn't tell a woman whether or not she should swallow... b/c then I doubt you'll even get the blowjob she's giving you

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 209 (view)

boobs Posted: 7/4/2007 7:30:26 AM
Believe me, you're still young, your boobs are still growing... One day you'll have children and they will double in size. at your age I was a C cup today I'm a DD cup.. You definitely don't need a boob job, but if you feel it'll boost your confidence then go for it I can't say I wouldn't do it if I didn't have the boobs I have, b/c honestly I'd probably do it in a hearbeat

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 13 (view)

Talking to my girl makes her cum faster????? Posted: 7/4/2007 7:25:23 AM
I don't know about other women, but I like my man to talk during sex... She definitely would like to hear you telling her how she makes you feel, what you want her to do to you, what you want to do to her, moaning, screaming... just don't strike up a convo about every day stuff LMAO I promise she doesn't want to hear what you did at work that day!!! Just get into what the two of you are feeling at the moment.

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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Has this ever happened to you ladies? Posted: 7/4/2007 7:18:12 AM
I've just entered a new relationship, and for the past month it's become a very intimate one. The thing is when I'm with him and I cum it's very powerful... so much so that it's lasted 3 minutes or more. This has never happened with me with anyone else before. Not that I'm complaining b/c it is amazing the feeling, but a couple times in the end it's become painful also.... So since I'm not an expert in this happening to me lol could anyone let me know if this is normal? At first I thought maybe it was the excitement of being with him in the beginning, but this happens every time I'm with him.. and after a month I'm starting to think maybe it's a good thing to keep him in my life if he's going to make me feel like this always

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

Whenever I pleasured my ex orally Posted: 7/4/2007 7:10:59 AM
hmmm just maybe she's going comfortable enough with you yet... Some women feel if they cover their face then she won't have to face what she's doing with you is so intimate... I personally have to be comfortable with a man to get that personal, maybe covering her face is her way of blocking that out

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 131 (view)

Facial hair...do you like or not? Posted: 6/13/2007 2:01:56 PM
I definitely like a goatee on my man :) But then on other men, it all depends on the face... I do think most men look good with a goatee though

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 169 (view)

Ladies....would you wear a t-shirt, flip-flops, and shorts 1st time meeting someone? Posted: 6/13/2007 1:30:57 PM
You two were meeting for the first time! What did you expect? Did you bring her someplace special??? If I were just going to meet a guy for the first time I sure wouldn't dress up! Definitely would do the flip flops, t-shirt and shorts

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 113 (view)

What tuns u on the most? personallity or looks? Posted: 6/13/2007 1:21:28 PM
I am going to be greedy and say both...

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 110 (view)

How do I tell my date his breath is awful? Posted: 6/13/2007 1:18:40 PM
hmmm I was going to suggest you buy him a pack of gum as a gift and put a bow on top of it

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

when a women says it's moving to fast Posted: 6/13/2007 12:41:08 PM
I don't think you're dumped just b/c she's not ready to move into the bedroom with you... Maybe she's just NOT READY!!! Some women like to take things slow. Did you talk to her about how you feel? She may be able to answer your doubtful questions better than we can

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

Irresponsible behavior or unrealistic expectations? Posted: 6/13/2007 12:36:51 PM
I feel she was definitely being unfair to you... Hmmm seems to me as if she likes your friend's company more than yours? I don't know about you guys but my b/f and I work together and we still want to see each other every chance we get when we're out of work. I think you should have a talk with her about this.... To me she's pretty selfish wanting to socialize instead of helping her relationship with you

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Guys who don't want sex! Posted: 6/6/2007 4:47:32 AM
Hmmm I've never heard of a man turning down sex.... But since he does turn it down shouldn't he be making sure you're happy? By atleast pleasuring you? I don't know about this guy, sounds kind of weird. Not saying you two should hump like bunnies but atleast once or twice a week would be normal?

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

how long should I wait before sex? Posted: 6/5/2007 12:40:41 PM
No one can tell you when you'll be ready. You have to take all into consideration and figure out for yourself when you will be ready. Hell I can say you should go for it today and you may say its too soon! So you cant ask a question like that and think you're going to get the correct answer

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

Step Brother/Sister = Sexual Gratification? Is it wrong??? Posted: 6/5/2007 12:38:13 PM
hmmm to me I can't go on and say it's wrong since they are not blood related... plus I have 2 great friends that were in the same situation... Her father and his mother decided to get married after the 2 of them had already started dating... their parents then turned on them and told them to stop... Talk about your parents screwing you over LOL They did not stop seeing each other though, and they are perfectly happy together now :) and getting married at the end of this year... it's not like they are grossly blood related, then I'd have to say NO its wrong

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 98 (view)

Friends With Benefits Posted: 5/16/2007 1:16:33 PM
I don't get it either! I've gotten so many offers for these FWB encounters that it's pathetic lol... I'd like to understand it too!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 182 (view)

men in uniforms Posted: 5/16/2007 11:47:13 AM
I totally can't help myself around men in uniform lol... I have a few friends in the Army and it's just awful, they all tease and joke around about me b/c they know how I'm so in awww for men in uniforms... They always promise when I come to see them that they'll have their uniforms on LOL... It's just so sad how I can easily play into their hands just from a uniform

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

I need your help .. Posted: 5/16/2007 11:44:15 AM
If you're really serious about her then keep at her don't turn to the next woman that comes around just yet, b/c that will be the end of this other woman that you like so much... I say just have patience and if she really really likes you like you think she does then she'll break down and give u a chance eventually

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

LOOSING VIRGINITY: LADIES DID IT HURT Posted: 5/16/2007 11:42:14 AM
Yes it really did hurt... but some say it wasn't as bad as they thought it would be... definitely different for everyone

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

oral sex no no,s Posted: 5/15/2007 1:23:58 PM
If your woman is smelling bad down there I suggest you tell her something! I don't think she'd want you doing anything to her knowing she smells... definitely tell her, and if it is that bad how could she not notice?

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

Gas or charcoal Posted: 5/14/2007 1:31:22 PM
I rather charcoal for the flavor... In my opinion if you're going to use a gas grill then I could have done that myself by cooking over the stovetop

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 24 (view)

teeth? Posted: 5/14/2007 1:29:19 PM
I agree with Leeanne... It doesn't bother be about how teeth are shaped... It's if they take care of their teeth... Can't stand a guy that has black teeth

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 212 (view)

Has anyone ever been dumped via email? Posted: 5/12/2007 12:04:11 PM
Ummm yea that would be me! Seems a text message was all this little boy could come up with... lol it read like this... "Sorry to tell u this way but I'm married." MEN!!! or again shall I say LITTLE BOYS!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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The Maturing Sex Drive Posted: 5/12/2007 3:51:20 AM
Just be happy that you have what you have lol... I'm just reaching 30 and finally I have an unbearable sex drive... I always heard of women talking about it but had no idea it would be this much fun Besides, I'm sure your hubby is a pretty happy man

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 114 (view)

Are you worried about posting Posted: 5/11/2007 11:27:25 AM
hmmm well I'd have to say no! I'm not afraid of anyone seeing my posts I place on here... b/c in a way if the guy doesn't like what I have to say then he doesn't like me! I'm very honest on here so why hide it by not posting my feelings of things on forums doesn't pay to sugar coat things

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 101 (view)

dating your step sister Posted: 5/11/2007 10:10:32 AM
Believe it or not a friend of mines fiance' is her step-brother... I know eww gross lol, but the thing is she was with him as b/f and g/f before her dad married his mom so in a way I guess it's not wrong to me, b/c I can't see either one of them with anyone else. BUT they do go through some bad sh*t with their parents now b/c they now think it's wrong for the two of them to be married? Hmmm talk about your parents screwing you over lol

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

my first cousin Posted: 5/11/2007 10:00:36 AM
Personally I would get out of the relationship now if I were you... Be happy that you found out before you married him.... I know that your heart is with him and it's sad that it had to turn out this way, but in the future don't you think that you two will run into more problems than anything if you don't get out of it? It really all depends on what you want... but this is just my opinion on what I would do. I know it will hurt to let go, but in the long run you'll realize it's for the better

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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Penis Pride Posted: 5/11/2007 9:17:04 AM
LOL b/c he's one of the guys that lies about his d*ck.... wasn't going to comment but just had to

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Penis Pride Posted: 5/11/2007 3:49:40 AM
OMG LMFAO @ giving me the other half the next time.... Ok yes I do flaunt my chest in my pics, but atleast I don't say hey I got big tts and really have an A cup size!!! Again, I'm not really into the size thing what bothers me is when he says he can please a woman and promises all this but doesn't even bother lol. And I am not the one that brought up size or whether he could use his dck he is the one that talked about it first... I just wanted opinions on this and I see I have many to go guy

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 159 (view)

Why did you divorce/split? Posted: 5/10/2007 2:20:56 PM
Caught my x with Child P*rn... Definitely turns your feelings cold when u find this

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 212 (view)

Most girls lie on this site! Posted: 5/10/2007 1:05:58 PM
I want a nice guy and someone that will treat me right... lol but for some reason I attract the opposite.. but then again I hear this a lot from friends and on here that everything attracts the wrong men!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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Penis Pride Posted: 5/10/2007 1:00:27 PM
I'm not saying that I would have turned away from him if he'd have said his d*ck was small, b/c I agree size isn't everything... but as much as he bragged that he knew how to please a woman with it... he sure failed in that dept. I felt like I was with a teenage boy having his first time it was so fast I wonder if he thought I'd forget all the hussling he'd done to get me to the point of actually doing anything with him

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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Do you prefer to be on top or bottom Posted: 5/10/2007 11:14:46 AM
I like to switch up... Sorry but one position isn't enough... it's variety that's the spice of life sweetie

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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Penis Pride Posted: 5/10/2007 10:18:50 AM
But the thing is why does he ask afterwards, "So did I disappoint you?" Well HELLO yeah!!! When you're expecting one thing and then get half of it what does he expect?

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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HELP! Posted: 5/10/2007 9:28:45 AM
LOL go for it... I had never had a one night stand and after 15 months without any... I'm telling you it was worth it... only thing is don't let the guy fool you about how big is d*ck is b/c you'll only be disappointed if he's lying

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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Penis Pride Posted: 5/10/2007 9:24:28 AM
I'd like to know this... how come men do this? Why do men talk about how big their penis is and how good they know how to use it when the fact always remains that once a woman gets a hold of it it's always way smaller than he let on... and the next fact is that he doesn't know very much about how to use it? The last guy I was dating did this, and now all I think about is how full of sh*t he is... So why does a guy do this when he knows once the woman see's it she'll know he's a liar

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 659 (view)

guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 5/10/2007 8:25:45 AM
I have to say the last guy I was with didn't like oral either! What a disappointment... hmmm but then again, the whole package ended up a disappointment lol

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 29 (view)

Question for the girls! Posted: 5/2/2007 3:11:16 PM
uhhmmmm no nuh uh! sorry I don't think so... There is no way!!!! Sorry but your g/f has a few loose screws in her head sweetie time to move on!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

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Dating Anxieties Posted: 5/2/2007 4:30:28 AM
You have to go with the idea that these guys contacted you in the first place.. They've seen your pic... They must like something about you!!! If they don't like you once they meet you then it probably will not be b/c of the way you look sweetie, usually it's the personality thing when you finally meet in person that has to seal the deal

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 70 (view)

F*%K Buddy Question Posted: 5/2/2007 4:14:40 AM
Oh dear what a confusing man you have there... I'd say that he's trying to make you feel like you're in control with the situation.. I also say that he wants more, and thinks he will get more out of this relationship if he threatens his competition... Every man wants a woman that just wants sex from him... LOL he has you, and now he wants to make sure that no one else gets you also! If it's just sex you want I'd be careful of this one! Meeting his mum (!) is kind of odd for a FB don't ya think? I don't think you're just a FB for him sweetie!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

Thoughts on a man picking his date's meal... Posted: 5/1/2007 2:02:49 PM
Ummm if he's picking what food I'm eating he had better know me good enough to do so! b/c if I don't like it he's eating it!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 53 (view)

Trends and attraction Posted: 5/1/2007 1:48:48 PM
Sweetie pamper yourself sometime!!! you definitely need to do this for yourself so you feel good about yourself... Go get a haircut, new color, do a manicure & pedicure, I promise you'll say you wish you'd done it sooner!! Men love a woman that takes care of herself... As for men and fashion give me a guy with a goatee any day but it has to be your preference about what you'd like in your man!!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

question on sex and first date? Posted: 5/1/2007 1:43:12 PM
I think it could be made into a relationship only if you are both upfront about what you want before the sex happens!

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 86 (view)

Do women really get wet panties without getting physical? Posted: 5/1/2007 1:40:43 PM
Definitely!!! Can't believe you've never found out for yourself lol! Have you never been with a woman that u haven't even touched yet and she's wet? it's definitely true sweetie! we do get excited like men sometimes

cajunsweety30

Joined: 3/7/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

Sex and Heartache Posted: 5/1/2007 12:59:39 PM
I don't think you should have been called a wh*ore... I mean he knew you wanted sex at the beginning and he still went with you... to me it's kind of his fault too since he "wined and dined" you shall I say? You need to let this loser go... sweetie there are plenty fish in the sea! Toss him out! You'll find a new one soon enough. Just sum it up as your first fling after a bad marriage...

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