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wtf am i doing wrong? Posted: 2/25/2008 4:32:04 PM
I respect your opinion and observation on those two points... I concur with what you said.... I definitely would not want/nor expect anyone to say something that you are not. I also agree to say that one should express their pasttime habits so that compatibility will not be compromised. I just urge that how you express your values does have an impact on whether you find a partner or a long term partner. I'm not saying that you have to marry anyone tomorrow. But let me note that you said in your above statement that you had several relationships with non-religious women. This MAY just be a sign that ones that you stick with for LONGEVITY PURPOSES may just have that spiritual respect.... Just an observation. I'm not saying you got to be holy rolly, or go to church all the time, but what long-term woman wants to judge the basis of a possible relationship, if you can't respect or observe VOWS or COMMITTMENT. Again, just a small observation. Women of substance look for these small things... I wish you all the best and again. This is merely my opinion.......

Joined: 3/8/2007

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wtf am i doing wrong? Posted: 2/24/2008 10:10:38 AM
Hey Bro, I was just curious checking out these threads and ran across yours... I thought i could give a bit of advice to really change your results... This advice may go for women also. I do get several dates, emails, and people saving me as their favorites, so i'm not just talking, i get real results. So here we go: First it is up to you to do these things i suggest but remember you are on here to find a TRUE and compatible mate. So first thing is keep it real. Number one, if you want to attract the opposite sex don't put lame lines or use verbage that is immature, no slang, and make sure you proofread. Ex: Lame soon to be changed. What the hell does that mean!! Change it immediately. You should just describe in eloquent detail what you are looking for, and how you compliment those things in which you are seeking. Number two: Change your title IMMEDIATELY! It should be romantic, manly, and an advertisement that entices the opposite sex to want to view your page.. You are not running in a campaign! You are looking for a beautiful, intelligent woman. Next you need versatile, well dressed, BODY shots and smiling in all of them.. No serious looks. People are more receptive to joy, positiveness, etc.. People are already disappointed and lonely. You gotta show that you are different and fun-loving. Make sure the pics are clear and no beer in your hand. Last, and importantly you have NON-RELIGIOUS!! Long-term women don't want someone without a spiritual respect about them. You can put christian or other. Never atheist or non-religious. And last don't glorify drinking and partying... You can do it when you meet that person and learn their personality, but long term relationships are not built on drinking habits and partying. These are only pastimes.... Change it IMMEDIATELY. Look at my profile or others that have attracted you to them. Look at other men's profiles... There is no harm in that. I hope this helps. I wish everyone all the luck online. I can attest it is truly a great forum to be picky and find you an awesome mate, or at least some great dates.................

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