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Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Regretfully didn't give him my number!!!! Now what?? Posted: 11/18/2009 11:42:14 PM
I say no way to going by someone house...not for any reason. Now what might work...Do you have a dog or can you borrow one? Walk a dog in his nabourhood and hope for a chance meeting...

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Have to agree Posted: 11/18/2009 10:49:05 AM
Thanks Tips, this is totally helpful to those of us who don't speak Hungarian. According to the online translator I found, your penis is 5-8 cm (or for my American cousins 2- 3 1/2 inches)....I hope for your sake the translator is wrong. OMG that was funny

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Would you message someone if you knew they weren't going to respond? Posted: 11/18/2009 10:33:11 AM
landra2 probably 20 guys will message in a day that's an urban myth. It never happens. Mythbusters...Not an Urban Myth! ^^^ urban myth for ugly chicks maybe.... I seen it with my own eyes... 150 mails accumulated in less than 2 days... and got another 7-8 mails when she logged on to show them to me.... See true...believe me I know. OP: You never know unless you try...and I say GO FOR IT!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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after 40 it is really hard to find a date Posted: 11/17/2009 10:27:27 PM
I will tell you after Dec 3... so far it's true for me.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/17/2009 2:32:42 PM
^^^Damn good thought!!!

Cynderella

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Msg: 151 (view)

Has your Adult ADD ruined/sabotaged relationships? Posted: 11/17/2009 12:33:38 PM
Well sheit! I before E except after C "Oh Shiet" there goes my ADD We all should help "ourselves" if we know we're ruining our's and other's lives and relationships.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Liking someone for who they are rather than what they offer Posted: 11/15/2009 7:37:59 PM
you dont have the fortune to express your trueself.. No way I can ever believe this...ppl who truly love with their hearts are the richest of all. fat girls are LOYAL I musta been fat in my past life... ("Jaded" ) All can be loyal if they honor their hearts.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Looking to move in with my GF but family doesn't agree Posted: 11/15/2009 7:12:36 PM
I think it is honorable that you respect both these important ladies in your life... Be up front less damage later. Good luck.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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In case your a serial killer in a profile Posted: 11/15/2009 7:02:02 PM
Perhaps this comes from a bad past experence...Fare Warning.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/15/2009 6:55:03 PM
Maybe one day we will all land the great catch. Thats why we all keep on fishin' for hopes even after rejection that we will find the "ONE".

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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cheating, how prevalent is it? Posted: 11/15/2009 6:33:13 PM
This is a game show right? What..."Guess my profession" I vote "Cat House"

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

time to delete your POF account Posted: 11/15/2009 6:04:42 PM
My son...now I feel old

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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38 and thinking its too late Posted: 11/15/2009 6:00:59 PM
I have a sneakie feelin' this could be true...

Cynderella

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Msg: 127 (view)

What someone does that really turns you on? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:55:36 PM
Nibbles on my ears and neck...sold!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:48:36 PM
Happened to me but not on a date...a friend of a friend drove me home part way there, over a bridge, he has his pants down and ladies panties on...was I freaked out! Not Cool for any Reason!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 11/15/2009 5:38:41 PM
There is no better way to attract men than to stay slim and fit. That still doesn't work!!!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal Posted: 11/15/2009 5:30:37 PM
I get tired of men getting the shaft for wanting to have sex with a woman when it's our animal instinct to mate. I thought they already had the "Shaft"...lol Some don't even want to wine and dine...they just want sex... As women dress to kill...

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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My wife left me for my brother after 15 years of marriage. Posted: 11/15/2009 4:39:56 PM
I love old threads that come around like an "Acid-Flash Back"

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Deleting past relationships, any regrets? Posted: 11/11/2009 9:56:30 PM
I never throw away fond momentoes of my past...but outta respect of any partner in my life, I would put them in safe keeping.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Do relationships go in a straight line anymore? Posted: 11/11/2009 9:53:23 PM
I think people feel like they are losing a part of themselves...not realizing what they really gain in a partnership...lots of chaos!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

What's the difference between affectionate and clingy? Posted: 11/11/2009 9:48:53 PM
I use Bounce...cling free

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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seriously need some help on helping my friend of 30 years Posted: 11/8/2009 10:45:57 AM
Now we have a form of abuse on here...it strats with words. a bit nomadic, Now you are dramatizing....... And...cut the personal stuff or I will have to report you. You are making judgements on me personally and not on topic I think you had better sit down and collect your common sense from somewhere. Do you see me denigrating your career skills over this thread? There is putdowns, threats, belittling... Belle you have picked apart everything this lady has said...yet others share the same view...Why? OP; The stuff I wrote in my post # 64 are right from a women shelter pamphlet... As for the dogs...SPCA should be called!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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seriously need some help on helping my friend of 30 years Posted: 11/8/2009 3:24:55 AM
Can't compare a serious criminal act to domestic abuse. Not the same but equally serious...women are killed everyday in these kinda situations. At one time the police didn't come for hours after a call if at all...things have changed because it is serious! A black eye, and people seeing him/her punch someone out is as good as anything. Most abuser don't show this side to anyone outside their home...so no witnesses.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Forum usage effecting your dating? Posted: 11/8/2009 2:58:07 AM
No...most ask what are the Forums. Yes...for the forums opened up more opportunities to meet ppl from different places and similar interest. Maybe...Lots of confusion when they were on the pofiles (Last 5 postings) As for effecting my dating...nope...dating is the sh*ts no matter what lol

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Shoud i lower my standereds? Posted: 11/8/2009 2:10:45 AM
^^^Spelling not much of an issue now lol OP: Never change what you believe in.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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seriously need some help on helping my friend of 30 years Posted: 11/8/2009 1:56:18 AM
^^^Very true... Just more desire to BLAME the victim? Some think there is such a simple answer...there isn't. COMPASSION

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Shoud i lower my standereds? Posted: 11/8/2009 1:52:05 AM
There is a lot of ppl who don't drink, do drugs or smoke... NEVER

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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seriously need some help on helping my friend of 30 years Posted: 11/7/2009 11:57:41 PM
OMG ppl do some of you have no hearts...? ABUSE is wrong...plain and simple! Everyone has a role to play in preventing violence against women, children and men. Why does she stay: -she loves him and hopes he will change -she believes her child needs her father -she has no means of supporting herself and her daughter -she is isolated...thank god she has you! -she feels ashamed -she may not be aware of services available -she may believe he will kill her if she leaves Why does he do it: -violence against women is a learned behaviour... -his way of expressing anger or frustration -he chooses to do it: he doesn't assault his boss when he gets angry, but he assaults his wife -it works for him: he gets his way -he gets away with it Points of Concern... ppl feel it's none of your business...It could be a matter of life or death Some ppl think it is a private matter...It isn't when someone is being hurt! VIOLENCE IS EVERYONE'S BUSINESS! Good luck and I hope your friends gets the help she needs and the respect she deserves!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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He lied about his age...only by two years....should i be concerned? Posted: 11/7/2009 10:36:38 PM
Age has such a bad name...Lying is just plain bad. But together...the perfect storm. Most feel at an age of muture nature, it is not in their favor...so much depends on selling yourself and like a car a lower mileage better results, as is age...sad but true. Ask a man... 2 cars everything the same but mileage...? Picks Less mileage. Age is nothing but having more wisdom as we grow.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 11/7/2009 9:27:44 PM
Long hair is a bonus here, short is not a deal breaker either... I am not sure why long is so attractive to me...maybe cuz I am a hairdresser.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Impatient in meeting Posted: 11/7/2009 5:07:03 PM
It must be the water down there...or desperation Its taken some on here a year to meet me... Rush me and it's your loss

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Sleep (yes, just sleep) with someone and your souls touch Posted: 11/7/2009 12:13:55 PM
I have to believe... 12 years ago I had twins (fraternal twins) one past 4 days before, one little miracle was born at 1 lb 11oz... At the age of 4.5 through signing he was talk (signing) away in he room...when I asked who he was talking to he said his brother. I mentioned his brother is in school. He says "Not that brother the one I slept with when I was a baby"...he never was told he was a twin. I once wrote in one of the forums "What you miss most about being in a relationship" Sleeping beside someone...The Spirtual Bond I always knew I felt it...thanks op...great thoughts from this thread.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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lonley Posted: 11/7/2009 11:41:03 AM
Lonely people are all around you. You have a lot more company than you know. I would say True to that... You can stand in the middle of 100s of people and still feel alone... but you are not alone. Life is a gift and when we suffer pain from our hearts we forget to enjoy our gift... Lonley and happiness come fom the same place...Within

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Creepy Posted: 11/6/2009 7:37:38 PM
First mistake...never drive such a distance for the first date... Even half way is better. No one should do something that makes them feel uncomfortable and it seems to me like he was being honest. I guess thats why it's called dating...you have to go threw a few weeds to find the flower. Better luck next time.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Pinocchio Posted: 11/6/2009 7:25:51 PM
All's fair in Love and War...you kick butt!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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is it wrong to want revenge?? Posted: 11/5/2009 6:17:48 PM
I didn't go outta my way but things do come back to bite you in the a$$... I am flying off to Florida for Bike Week...the very same thing he did to me only difference... I won't LIE about going... Revenge is sweet!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Is it still cheating...with no sex? Posted: 11/5/2009 5:58:14 PM
First of all...past tense...you were..involved...so why should you care...unless you have MORON tattood on your forhead....ohh...and you keep believing " i do know there was no sex..or even the thought of it ".....you need to get a clue...quickly....but perhaps...you feel safe in your ..."fantasy world ".... Nope no "MORON" sign tattooed...but I could wonder the same... I wrote if one cares to read: His ex remarried and her husband was included in the event as was his adult daughter...everyone knew about this trip but me. When ask why he didn't take me? "You and my ex have animosty towards eachother". I tried to be this women's friend as I excepted their friendship right from the start. It wasn't till she started playing games...she was losing his attention, it bothered her (all before her husband). I could see what was going on and voiced my opinion...thus being left out. He didn't have sex with this women...(sounds like Billy C...I know) He is a liar and by this thread a cheater but he is not an adulter. Still nothing excuses "Bad Behaviour" if it is done outta lack of "Respect"

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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He says he loves her... Posted: 11/5/2009 5:45:56 PM
Sounds like your both perfect for one another.....Lucky you~~ Sometimes when we don't have nothing nice to say to someone, we shouldn't say anything at all... OP: Sorry to hear about your pain...I went threw a Lying relationship and those words "I LOVE YOU" are that just words!!! If this man, a husband, a father cared and Loved you he would not do such things to you...it's called "RESPECT" I live out your way...message me if you need a support friend.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Say anything you want! Posted: 11/5/2009 5:17:59 PM
Liar...Liar...sorry I set your pants on fire...

Cynderella

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The Love of My Life is Gone Forever Posted: 11/5/2009 5:02:45 PM
Shame on those who said some not very nice things to this poor man... When one is in the middle of such hurt you think its wise to badger one to feel worse...? OP: First off..."It's only you who allows yourself to be hurt"...not her. Yes you feel like she is the cause of your hurt...but really we are the one responcable for our own. You need to give her room and the choice to move on. You need to do something just for yourself...anything that makes you feel your own worth. Next remember in the middle of the storm is an "Eye" for which is like a "Center point"...a happy place somewhere you can find your peace. Get in touch with ppl who care about you...a support friend or family. Fill your time with people and things to keep your mind off of her. Most of all, remember "You are Loving, you are Loveable and deserve to be Loved. On a personal note...I would not date for a year, you need some time...date yourself. Love hurt but without all you been threw...you would not be here in this moment and this moment is all we have...Love yourself! Good Luck

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Is it still cheating...with no sex? Posted: 11/4/2009 10:35:10 PM
Thanks everyone for your kind words...Everyone deserves Respect and Lying hurts no matter how you look at it!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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COWARD ! - The Ignoring Game Posted: 10/29/2009 11:14:43 PM
He was using the "Actions Speak Louder than Words" We all hate to hurt someone or at least I know I do...but sometimes not knowing hurt worse...

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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If Your BF Joked To You About Raping A Woman, What Would You Do? Posted: 10/29/2009 10:48:00 PM
I would like to say words are meaningless...for they are just words. We at some time have use the line "Actions speak louder than words" I spent many years with a man with this kinda mouth...all said in fun, more like said, for the "Shock Factor". Hard for many to swollow this kinda humor or an attempt at humor..not so funny but again "just words". Personally I would have made a point of unmasking my dismay in the said comment.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Is this a date or a job interview? Posted: 10/29/2009 10:32:48 PM
I thought a relationship was a job...God knows it takes hard work to keep it going, as well as the long sad unemployed, for here we are all those who were fired from the last job... I say more chance of meeting the right person...if you act like yourself and let things unfold naturally.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 10/26/2009 6:34:21 PM
This is why coffee is a good first date, no money wasted if there is not a promising future... I offer to pay for my own right from the start...now if something looks promising and I couldn't help pay...I wouldn't set an evening to date...unless otherwise stated that one would pay now and perhaps a good home cooked meal to come at a later date. Things need to balance, to work long term.

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Does not understand Posted: 10/26/2009 5:50:10 PM
there were other stresses on our relationship, but nothing major. After reading your above statement...there was major things wrong. You need to find someone to treat you with "Respect" we all do!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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What to do,What to do? Posted: 10/25/2009 7:04:56 PM
I do wonder how this all ended...perhaps she is in the car still waiting unable to update us...J/K

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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Is it still cheating...with no sex? Posted: 10/25/2009 2:55:56 PM
When I thought I needed the answer to this question...I was second guessing myself. Not really who was right or wrong...I already knew the answer in my head...it's my heart that needed the answer... Forgiveness really is for ourselfs, to lift the burden off our shoulders... For me I thought I could believe Lying was like a disease. He would lie about the stupidest thing...for no reason but to lie. Not understanding himself as to why he does this. After excusing this behaviour (for way to long) I unearth the trip to his ex... I forgave, but with the only hope of the relationship surviving was professional help. His action spoke he was doing it... Then off the wagon he went...An other trip...all lies to me. Just a note or as they say alittle insight; <div class="quote">His ex remarried and her husband was included in the event as was his adult daughter...everyone knew about this trip but me. When ask why he didn't take me? "You and my ex have animosty towards eachother". I tried to be this women's friend as I excepted their friendship right from the start. It wasn't till she started playing games...she was losing his attention, it bothered her (all before her husband). I could see what was going on and voiced my opinion...thus being left out. I unearth many lies between them once my eyes were open... The part of this that nagges me is this...His Words: "Why can't you get over this, I never slepted with her". It's the emotional cheating that I can't get over...He just doesn't get it. I could have gotten past the lying with proper help...years of it I'm sure. I feel I was cheated on even if there was no sex...I can't get passed the hurt, the feeling of not being valued...DONE! I have to move on...no choice!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

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The odds stacked for ladies against men, Hmmm..Interesting! Posted: 10/24/2009 5:52:49 PM
I would go to the ends of the earth for the right man, so...YES!

Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007

Msg: 337 (view)

Why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs? Posted: 10/24/2009 3:27:43 PM
#317 If you want a dog then get a dog my Pit/Lab cross loves those little silky yapping things. Tells me they are very tasty. He has a soft spot for cats too. YUM! All I can say is *OM FCKEN G...** Where is the SPCA # in his town Note to self...get some dog pic's!

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