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lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Don't look back!!!!!!!! Posted: 1/5/2009 6:47:49 AM
I haven't been on this forum for quite a long time. I thought I had finally reached a healing point in my life. I have not seen my ex since Dec 21st, 2007. Well, I do know her MySpace name and occasionally look at it, but she rarely does anything with it as she uses it to monitor her daughters site. So today I thought i would take a look since it's the new year. She posted a picture of herself holding her new Grandson. My heart stopped. She looks so incredibly beautiful! Those eyes that always melted me in my tracks can still do it, even in a picture. Now all the old feelings have rushed back in and I'm sitting here with once again a broken heart. Do Not Go Back!!!!!!!! It Only Hurts!!!

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Crying Posted: 10/17/2007 10:51:15 AM
Waidh, First of all, know that you are not alone. There are so many men and women who are right now going thru the same pain as you, and many are worse off than you. Secondly, don't fight the pain. It is part of a natural process and you need to let it happen. Don't focus on when will it stop or when will I feel better because that will just get you on a manic path. Instead just let the tears come. Sob till your eyes are swollen and when the sobbing stops, wipe your eyes, blow your nose and put one foot in front of the other. You have to spend your time doing something, so why not spend it moving forward? I know how much it hurts but don't let yourself continue to fall down the dark spiral, it will only be that much harder to climb back up. My best wishes to you.

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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And then karma kicked in ... Posted: 10/11/2007 8:13:45 AM
I've been waiting quite a while for karma to kick her in the ass. Now just recently i found out that it did, and hard!! Problem is I don't feel good about it, I feel sorry for her and my heart goes out to her. Oh well. Lifes a ** and then you die. Somewhere in between the ** part and dying try and have some fun.

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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time Posted: 10/11/2007 7:02:08 AM
I don't put any faith in time anymore. Time may make memories fainter but it does nothing for your heart. If your love was real, deep and true time may never totally heal that.

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Dreams.. Posted: 10/11/2007 6:56:57 AM
Yep. I posted a topic about this a few weeks back, look for it, titled 'She's in my dreams'. After doing some research I now realize that it is the unresolved issues in my mind that cause me to dream about her almost every night. You see she has moved on and I haven't. Until I fully accept that it is over, my dreams are going to continue to try and prove it to me. My conscious mind knows it's over but my heart will not accept that fact. In my sleep my subconscious mind is trying to send my brain a big old message that she wants nothing to do with me and I have to accept that. Now only if she hadn't started contacting me again recently.......

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Contact rule broken Posted: 10/10/2007 12:35:28 PM
Thanks Eddie, I totally forgot you can block certain addresses. I have to learn about this auto reply thing but I really like that idea. Have it say something like 'Please do not try and contact me anymore, I have a new life and I love it!'. (Even if I don't)

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Contact rule broken Posted: 10/9/2007 7:55:24 AM
Well I can change my e-mail but not my business e-mail and thats the one she has been using for some reason. I'm gonna stay strong and thanks guys for all the support and affirmation. I just don't know what I will do if she says she still loves me.....

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Porn Addiction Posted: 10/1/2007 6:32:07 AM
Porn addiction can be just as bad as gambling, drugs or alcohol addiction relative to it's effects on a relationship. A man who spends so much time viewing internet porn, magazines and movies is going to lose his intimate connection with his partner. All these images of hot, sexy and wild women will be floating in his mind. Most porn is very degrading to women, I mean do you gals really like it in the butt? Or do you really want a man shooting it in your mouth and all over you face? Porn is a fantasy world for degenerates, it corrodes your mind. If you need porn to spice up your love life you are not facing your real issues.

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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What is love? Posted: 9/27/2007 1:42:33 PM
Love is when you totally abandon your own wants and needs and feel total satisfaction in bringing happiness to that person. Love is when you could have nothing to your name, sitting in a totally empty apartment in a neighborhood you would never live in a town where you would never live, sitting on your one piece of furniture, a piece of cardboard, yet completely happy because you are holding her in your arms. Love is when you miss her even when you are with her because you can never get close enough to her, never hold her long enough, never kiss her deep enough. Love is being able to sit for hours and just watch her and never get bored. Love is hearing her name and your heart leaps. I could go on for hours.....

lostwolfeye

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Contact rule broken Posted: 9/25/2007 9:04:02 AM
Thanks folks, I appreciate your candid advise without tearing me a new butthole. Like the Bible says ' A dog returns to it's vomit'. I don't want to be that dog anymore. But it's so very hard......

lostwolfeye

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Contact rule broken Posted: 9/25/2007 7:31:13 AM
Well some of you folks are familiar with me and my past. Anyway, I have been doing much better lately except for having constant dreams about my ex. I was trying to figure out why. Now today, out of the blue she sends me an e-mail. Her life is full of problems, stress and she also (heres the big one) broke up with her boyfriend and moved out. She has made no attempt to contact me for over a year and now she does. I'm not an idiot, I think I know what she is up to. My brain says to run, stay away from her, no contact. But upon reading her e-mail my heart just opened right back up. I want to comfort her, help her and do anything I can for her. I think I need some in your face responses to make me turn away from her because I am so weak and such a sucker when it comes to her. Then again, maybe all this time that I have been waiting for her to come back to me has not been a waste after all, maybe there is such a thing as true love. I am confused.

lostwolfeye

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Why even bother to love? Posted: 9/24/2007 1:36:15 PM
I know what you mean Guy. At one time I swore I would never love anyone or anything again. I thought I could carry all the love burden for both of us. I thought no man could ever love her the way I did. There was nothing I wouldn't do for her and she knew it. I treated her like a queen, respected her, cherished her but in the end, it wasn't enough. Many things in this life we will never understand but their purpose will be revealed to us someday beyond this life. Personaly I have learned to not put my hope in any person, rather I put my hope in my eternal destination. I pray you find peace and healing.

lostwolfeye

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She's in my dreams Posted: 9/24/2007 12:02:19 PM
Cuba baby - Are you smoking crack? We are discussing dreams here, not stalker profiles.

lostwolfeye

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Breaking the Pattern Posted: 9/21/2007 1:13:13 PM
Where do you meet most men? Bars? Try church. Seriously.

lostwolfeye

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She's in my dreams Posted: 9/21/2007 10:25:03 AM
Wow, I'll tell ya' what. If you can teach me how to control my dreams I'll pay you for it!

lostwolfeye

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She's in my dreams Posted: 9/21/2007 9:39:30 AM
Well Geminimara here ya' go. The dreams have a reocurring pattern. The location, people and activities change but not the main theme. In the dreams she is there but distant. I rarely speak to her nor her to me. It's like I'm always striving to get near her or speak to her but something gets in the way. The dreams always involve a situation with many people around like at a party or work (we worked together for years). She is busy doing something, talking to someone, etc. I'm kind of there but not really there, almost invisible at times. After checking out that dream website I believe I know what it is. My mind knows she is gone and that I must get her out of my mind but my heart won't let go. There is a battle between the two. The dreams are my minds way of telling me she is gone, can't get her back, can't get close to her and she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore. In my awakened state I am still obsessing about her and in my sleep my brain is trying to cleanse itself and release these un-healthy thought patterns I have entrenched myself in, thus the dreams continue to point out to me that she is distant, can't reach her. Make sense?

lostwolfeye

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She's in my dreams Posted: 9/21/2007 7:29:56 AM
Essentials3 - I just went to that website, great info! Thank you so much. They have a section regarding reocurring dreams and I believe I have my answer.

lostwolfeye

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well i guess i got my answer Posted: 9/21/2007 6:54:13 AM
Just reading your posts makes my heart ache again. Been thru it man, still have my battles with it and it's been two years. All I can say is the heart wrenching, gut twisting, losing your mind feelings will subside. You may end up with long term heartache but this initial blast will pass. Please don't do what I did and continue contact, trust me on this one. It is true what they say, every time you have any contact with her it will restart the healing clock. I restarted mine way too many times. Message me if you need to talk.

lostwolfeye

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She's in my dreams Posted: 9/21/2007 6:42:19 AM
Thanks folks but I was actually looking for input on dreams, causes, meanings, etc. I'm not having a pity party.

lostwolfeye

Joined: 3/9/2007

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She's in my dreams. Posted: 9/20/2007 8:26:02 AM
Time. Yes, I thought 2 years and I would be perfectly fine. Seems like two days ago..... The 'I'm losing my frickin' mind' pickle.

lostwolfeye

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She's in my dreams Posted: 9/20/2007 6:54:02 AM
Well it's just a few days shy of two years since she ended our relationship. I have tried very hard to get over her and get my mind, heart and life back on track. I use many methods to do this and have heeded some good advice from you folks. My problem now is that I have dreams with her in them almost every night. They are very vivid dreams and I remember them when I wake up, so what is the first thing on my mind when I wake up? Her!! How the hell do I get her out of my head when this keeps happening? And more importantly, why is this happening?

lostwolfeye

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come on people.. Posted: 9/11/2007 12:54:05 PM
Hmmm? Title of this forum is??? Oh yeah, broken hearts! So if you don't have one, never have or feel it's stupid, stay the hell out!! Moron!

lostwolfeye

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Can you love someone forever ? Posted: 9/11/2007 8:33:29 AM
I agree with wholesomeheart. For many of us an ex may always hold a corner of our hearts. With that being said we (you) must not allow that to control your emotions and thoughts. I suffered for way too long holding on to my love for a woman that was obvioulsy gone forever. She gave me many reasons to let go and dismiss her as a bad choice but my heart would not allow it. I am finally coming to a point in my life where I realize I have wasted so much precious life over her that I am done with it. Yes I may always love her but she does not control me anymore. I see her now for what she truly is and I don't like it. Try and focus on all the negative aspects of you ex and sooner or later you will be relieved that he is gone. You can live again and much better than before, it just takes time and faith.

lostwolfeye

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How long before you move on? Posted: 8/30/2007 7:13:23 AM
Oh, and watch out for the snakebite, meaning, if this new guy isn't that great to her she may come sniffing back around looking for 'friendship' from you, talking about crap like he's not as good to her as you were, blah, blah,blah. Don't bite!! Walk away!! No, run!!!!

lostwolfeye

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How long before you move on? Posted: 8/30/2007 7:07:39 AM
I agree with previously stated. It hurts to hear this but you were her sugar daddy. I know, I was one. She started talking marraige, said she loved me more than life, etc. I was too in love to realize that she was in dire straits and I was giving her emotional and financial support. When she called it quits it took her only 3 weeks to move in with another man. Imagine my shock. 3 weeks? Like I was an old pair of jeans, thrown out for a new pair. Don't look back. Learn from this.

lostwolfeye

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I'm So Sad Today Posted: 8/29/2007 12:03:41 PM
Heres a cyber hug from one sad person to another.

lostwolfeye

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3 in the morning and all is lost Posted: 8/29/2007 6:21:45 AM
I know how you feel, believe me, you echo the exact place I have been. I went from a happy-go-lucky, outgoing, energetic, fun loving, optimistic, never been down kind of guy to severly depressed praying for death pile of crap. I still have pain but I did rebound. It took months just to be able to wake up and not want to die. Hang tough, you will make it!

lostwolfeye

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A message from God? Or not? Posted: 8/28/2007 1:51:09 PM
My ex told me God did not want us together. Go figure....

lostwolfeye

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Lower back tattoos Posted: 8/28/2007 7:56:27 AM
I dated a gal that had 3 tat's that were hidden when wearing normal clothes. I didn't know about them until we got along in our relationship and got intimate. I was very dissapointed. She looked like a porn star. I don't dig them and can find no reason for them. I hate to think what they will look like when she's older.

lostwolfeye

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fucked up Posted: 8/28/2007 7:40:55 AM
Hug!! Hug!! Hug!!

lostwolfeye

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When Does It stop hurting Posted: 8/28/2007 7:32:28 AM
Starr, few words of advice from the king of the broken hearts. Do not contact him! As hard as it is, as much as you crave it do not do it. Everytime you hear his voice, see him or make any contact at all it will just prolong the suffering. Don't demand answers to all the questions in your mind, and you must have plenty. Don't keep running replays of your years together through your mind. This is very, very hard to do but you have to find an alternate focus point when he pops into your mind which will be very often for a while. When thoughts of him enter your mind say 'No!', outloud if you can and shift to your alternate focal point, say, your daughter. Fill your mind with all the memories of her, all the little noises she makes, her smiles and giggles. You dig what I'm saying? It takes practice but after a while you will be able to train your mind to re-focus. This doesn't cause your love to go away but it helps your mind get healthy again.

lostwolfeye

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Chewing Tobacco Posted: 8/24/2007 12:09:02 PM
I'm a chewer, I also have very, very good hygiene. I often shower twice a day. I'm anal about cleanliness. I know there are risks, I accept that, same as smokers. All the gals I ever dated knew I chewed and not a one broke up with me because of it. Mainly because I wouldn't chew when with them. I don't spit in front of people nor do I expose them to it unless it's my buddy's who also chew. Can't say that for smoking. Breathing peoples cig smoke, butt's all over the ground, sparking butt's flying out of car windows and almost into yours, not being able to go to bars you would like to go because you smell like an ashtray afterwards and your lungs are tight and eyes are burning. Don't understand chewing? What is it about sucking toxic smoke into your lungs that is so appealing? The taste? What taste? Smoke? Mmmmm. I can spit out my chew, rinse my mouth and pop an Altoid and kiss you like a wild animal and you would never know I was just chewing.

lostwolfeye

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Why won't she talk to me? Posted: 8/23/2007 12:42:33 PM
I tend to agree with you there. I did ask her, via e-mail, twice in the last year to please tell me that she doesn't love me anymore, to tell me she has no hope for us, but she didn't. She has never told me that she loves the guy she is living with and even her best friend told me she wouldn't tell her that either. I guess the one main reason I am hanging on so long is that we never had closure and I truly believe she still loves me and therefore takes the easy way out (for her) by not responding because if she did she would face the choice of lying to me or telling the truth and starting things back up all over again. Thanks again ladies for your input. Unfortunately I feel like more of creepy freak than I ever did.

lostwolfeye

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Girls...would you date a guy that wears diapers? Posted: 8/23/2007 9:54:44 AM
Interesting... sounds like a form of Paruresis, which in fact, 7% of all Americans have to varying degrees. A close friend of mine just told me he has had this condition since he was a teenager. I never knew. It's called 'shy bladder' or 'stage fright' for us guys. It can be as simple as not being able to urinate in front of others or as severe as not being able to urinate anywhere other than your home. I feel bad for him cause now I know why he always had reasons he couldn't go on long trips, or go to football games, etc. I am now his 'pee buddy' and trying to help him to relax and overcome this. And yes it can effect relationships with a woman because it has. He is still a bachelor at 40 years old.

lostwolfeye

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Why won't she talk to me? Posted: 8/23/2007 8:49:38 AM
No she wasn't seeing him behind my back. We had broken up, she went on a few dates, compared all of them to me, told me all about them, never had a second date with any of them. We continued being friends and doing the 'sleeping together' thing every other week or so for months. Then I said something stupid that made her upset. I went out of town on a trip and while gone one of her friends did the 'set her up' thing with this guy. When I came back a week later she informed me that she was 'seeing someone'. She did this because she was mad at me and wanted to make me jealous. It worked. She half-heartedly dated him for a month and then promptly dumped him to take me back. It was after we broke up again that she called him up and gave him the sob story about me and how broke she was and how sorry she was for treating him the way she did. He promptly asked her to move in with him. He's a pathetic loser with the ladies, short, fat, bald hadn't had a date in years. He saw an opportunity to exploit her situation and took it. He got himself a woman much younger than him, a cook, maid and whore and all he has to do is pay the bills like he had been. Convenient for both of them. Breaks my heart to see a side of someone you thought was so not like that, to see someone you love lose all self respect and dignity. I still love her though, wish I didn't.......

lostwolfeye

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Why won't she talk to me? Posted: 8/23/2007 8:11:55 AM
Thanks for the replies Ladies, and guys, butt out, I'm asking for a womans perspective, I've had enough from my friends. I have a few thoughts on this and thats why I needed some input. It could be a few things. A. She still loves me and contact with me just brings up old feelings and heartache. B. She still cares about me but not the way she used to and knowing that I still love her so much she doesn't want to get my hopes up and hurt me anymore so she shuts me out, not by being mean but just by ignoring me. I do wonder why she has not changed her e-mail or simply blocked me? Would that not be the easiest way? I realize it's over, I'm not a complete moron. But, she told me many times that we began as friends, and no matter what happened, we would always be friends. I cherished her friendship over everything else and still want so much to be just that. I guess just chock it up to a lie and let it be.

lostwolfeye

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Why won't she talk to me? Posted: 8/23/2007 6:42:46 AM
Ladies I really need your perspective. It has been almost two years since my relationship ended with my ex girlfriend. The details are very long so I won't get into that other than our break-up was not volatile. She did end up moving in with a man she barely knew only 3 weeks after our break-up. She said she did it because it was the only way she could stay away from me. That may be partly true but I also believe it was because she couldn't support herself financially and didn't want to lose custody of her daughter. Anyway, over the last few years I have seen her where she works as I have to go there for supplies now and then. She has always been very friendly and would talk with me like old friends. I hav e-mailed her many, many times and only a few times did I recieve a response and those responses were very brief and fragmented sentences. I just e-mailed her again just telling her about whats been going on in my life, etc. What I can't understand is why she won't e-mail me back when all I want to do is be friends? I just asked some simple questions about what she has been doing, how her daughter is, etc. I mean I'm not calling her, not asking to meet her. What gives???

lostwolfeye

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she killed my baby Posted: 8/23/2007 6:30:30 AM
All I want to say is 'Birth Control'. It's easy, cheap and if you are soooo poor you can't afford it, well Planned Parenthood will give you it for free. I know so many couples who have tried for years to have children and can't, then you hear of these gals who get knocked up from some fling or one night stand and go have an abortion because they are too stupid, lazy or drunk to use birth control. Same goes for the guy who gets them pregnant, thinking with the lower brain when the one on his shoulders is already severely lacking. Good grief, get a vibrator or use your hand if your animal desires are so strong you can't control them like a mature, intelligent adult.

lostwolfeye

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Wow! It really does hurt! Posted: 8/22/2007 1:42:39 PM
No, that would be on the 'Broken Farts' forum.

lostwolfeye

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fucked up Posted: 8/22/2007 10:29:41 AM
Does someone need a hug?

lostwolfeye

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First Step To Your Journey TO healing IS! Posted: 8/22/2007 10:08:02 AM
I don't think your age has anything to do with this. What, does the human heart grow shallow and hard with age? Please! One month from now it will be 2 years for me. Do I realize its over? Yes. Have I 'moved on' with my life? Well yes in a sense. Do I still think about her at least 20 times a day? You betcha. And I'm still in love with her. I tried everything and I mean everything and nothing helped. Peoples words are like rubber arrows against a brick wall. Useless. So young man, don't feel like a freak or any of that. Join the club and pray that enough time will go by to eventually remove the pain and sense of loss. Go through the motions like I do, live life, whoop it up, start new hobbies, hang out with friends and date a bunch of women all the while trying to stuff your broken heart in your pocket.

lostwolfeye

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Should I call her? Posted: 8/20/2007 11:37:51 AM
I think it depends on how you feel about her. I mean if you really, deeply love her how can you just walk away? maybe she needed to know that you were going to be there for her, support her career moves and value your relationship. Our society is such a disposable society, I just don't get it. You invested a year of your life with her, that is at least worth asking for a face to face. She probably avoided the in person break-up because she feared her emotions which would indicate to me that she still loves you. Try to look at it from both sides and not jump to conclusions. I for one could not just leave it at this with so many unanswered questions.

lostwolfeye

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Does love hurt? Posted: 7/6/2007 1:17:03 PM
True. I guess when I look at things from my angle only I can't understand how others deal with the loss of a love. I shouldn't expect her to act/feel the same way I do. Still doesn't make it any easier to understand. Urgghh!

lostwolfeye

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Does love hurt? Posted: 7/6/2007 11:53:08 AM
Gooday - It would sure be nice if we could do that. I believe there are people who can, because she did. I guess I would qualify people like that as shallow, cold or just not capable of deep love. Look at post traumatic syndromes. Those folks are truly hurting, suffering but you can't just tell them to move on or get over it. I think heartaches are just the same.

lostwolfeye

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Still broken Posted: 7/6/2007 7:26:42 AM
Moonsister - words of wisdom. Thank you, this is a new perspective and I will take it to heart.

lostwolfeye

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Still broken Posted: 7/6/2007 7:24:29 AM
Not a stalker but thank you for your kind words and support. Gotta love this site, any freak with a computer can spew out babble.

lostwolfeye

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Still broken Posted: 7/6/2007 7:16:28 AM
Thanks Tuka, I do and have done so. I work with Boy Scouts and am involved at church. The problem is that whatever I am doing she creeps into my mind. It's like she ruins everything I do without even being there. Like the saying goes ' She left and took my heart with her'. I used to love music, had it on constantly. Now I rarely listen to any music, most songs are about love in one way or another. Kinda shows you what is most important in life, doesn't it?

lostwolfeye

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Still broken Posted: 7/6/2007 6:29:22 AM
Hi folks, I just need to vent a little since I have no one else to talk to anymore. My friends are all completely tired of me and could care less anymore. I work alone every day and I guess that is one of my problems because all I do is think. It has been 21 months since she ended our relationship. It has been 7 months since the last time I saw and spoke to her. I have faithfully stuck to the 'No contact' rule since then and have been trying so very hard to re-focus my mind on things I like to do. I already 'Love myself' so that suggestion won't work. I just can't get her out of my mind. I think about her constantly, probably 30 times a day. I still love her as much as I ever did. And being away from her hurts so bad, even after all this time. The worst part is that now after this no contact period I feel worse then I ever did. I would cut off a limb just to look into her eyes for 5 seconds. I have lost interest in basically everything in life. Everyday is a struggle to just get from morning to night. I am not suicidal, been there, didn't do it, won't go back. Just wondering if anyone else has been here, taken an extraordinary amount of time to heal. Why do we love so deeply? Why does the heart control the mind so much? How can people say they love you more than life then just walk away without blinking an eye?

lostwolfeye

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How do you get over someone? How long does it take?! Posted: 6/28/2007 8:56:09 AM
Some people you never get over. Ever.

lostwolfeye

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Help please! Posted: 6/5/2007 6:37:07 AM
Cyber- I want to echo what Simeon said. I think your biggest hurdle here is forgiveness. You won't get over your anger until you forgive her. Forgive does not mean forget. I won't write a lesson on forgiveness but there are many resources that you can use that will explain how to do it. It helped me get past my anger which was eating me up. Don't sweat the two years either, even if you get past the anger it may take alot more time to completely get her out of your head. Good luck to you.

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