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tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 429 (view)

Men who arrive for the 1st date with a rose.....do women like it? Posted: 3/30/2009 7:47:10 PM
i never try hard the first date, keep it casual, under sell. what if you meet and she's not what you want at all. I would feel akward brining flowers, ill just bring a good sence of humor and keep it light.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 1073 (view)

Whats an instant turn on for you Posted: 3/30/2009 7:43:21 PM
a classy woman, who's an amazing mom...so sexy!!

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 167 (view)

How many women fantasize watching their man with another man? Posted: 3/30/2009 7:42:24 PM
bustin ane....= gross

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 91 (view)

What is the most times you have orgasmed in one session???? Posted: 3/30/2009 7:32:26 PM
50 and it smelled like burning rubber, and she needed surgery....what kind of question is this???

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Ex Moving On Posted: 3/30/2009 7:24:02 PM
When you love someone it hurts to see them make poor choices, no gettign round that. She will have to take the consequenes that come with her poor choices, get out of her way and allow her choices to bring consequences, dont enable her. You will hurt, thats normal. Focus on your children, they will need a parent to show them stability.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 93 (view)

Is this really what the dating scene is like? Posted: 3/30/2009 7:19:53 PM
No your not exclusive. If you havent discussed this and mutually consented, its not a relationship. Who cares if she dates other people? If Im dating a person, not exclusive, I dont care if they date other people, Im very confident and will make sure we have a lot of fun when were together and thats all I care about. If she likes someone else more than me, thats ok, we werent meant to be...no biggy. Why do people want to rush in to a relationship with people they dont even know??? How about taking it slow and seeing if you like the person your dating, makes sence to me. I think people who want to hurry up and be committed are insecure of themself and what they bring to the table. Girls will always like a confident, humble guy who they enjoy being with, the second you start the jealousy, controlling thing...they will run, I would too.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 3015 (view)

GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 11/2/2008 5:12:14 PM
I could, sex is not the top priority for me, its something to be enjoyed with a specilial person. spending time togteher building the friendship would be sufficient to me.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

If you were dating someone that your child/children did not like would you break up, or would you stay???? Posted: 11/2/2008 5:10:25 PM
since my kids came first, they will maintain that postition with me. I couldnt have feelings for someone if they didnt fit in to my family.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 69 (view)

the reason why so many relationships fail theses days Posted: 11/2/2008 5:06:41 PM
Everything in life is subject to a natural order, gods law, or "natural Law". We have destroyed our society through immorality, divorce, custody disputes, no fault divorce. This has been pumped in to our society now for years and its really evedent now. So we have become a society where noone trusts anyone, the first sign of trouble....pooof, gone in a flash. I am like this too, I am scared to get caught up with a girl who "changes" her mind, or just "doesnt" love me anymore. I have dated so many that tell me thats what they did to thier husbands. So i think hmmm....... she will like me until she is bored. If our society respected and honored marriage, actually meant till death do us part and had severe consequences for adultery, I think it would be much easier to get in to relationships because we could trust people and know we can give our hearts without serious consequences. It seems people want the bennefits of a relationship without the commitment, and so far I havent seen it work for anyone, sustainable anyway.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 68 (view)

Why have your child call your new boyfriend or girlfriend mommy or daddy? Posted: 10/21/2008 5:40:08 PM
my ex did this with the guy she left me for and then cheated on him and did it immediatley with the guy she moved in with, my kids dont respect thier mom now and dont trust anything she says. I didnt take it personal, it hurt but I blew it off, one day she will need to answer my kids when they ask her why she did this.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

Venting about DeadBeat Parents Posted: 10/21/2008 5:36:07 PM
people should make better choices who they make kids with. this is advice to myself as well.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 95 (view)

What to Think... The Ex has a sleepover boyfriend Posted: 10/21/2008 5:33:59 PM
i feel sorry for the kids. I also think its a poor choice to end one relationship and go right in to another one. How about dont date at all, focus on healing and spending time with your children, then date when you have had time to adjust.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 103 (view)

Why do men only get visitation??? Posted: 10/21/2008 5:31:38 PM
I just posted this on another thread but here you go. First, the government has no authority to intervene. My ex wife and I are natural parents, this is a God given natural fundamental right, self evident. We both have a natural right to parent our children, as it is from our body our children became real natural people, it took both parents to make the child, and both parents are needed for a healthy children to be raised. If a state is to intervene, then I ask, by what authority?? Did the state help create these children? Does the constitution say…all children are property of the state; ARE ALL CHILDREN WARDS OF THE STATE?? The Declaration of independence lays it out so clearly “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights , that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” Why did our founding fathers speak these words of truth??? They understood natural law, the laws governing this universe. This is the foundation needed for a society to be healthy, happy and prosperous and SUSTAINABLE. It’s impossible to sustain a nation for a long period of time if the people are oppressed, history has proven this. Lets for a moment imagine….a builder is very successful at building large city buildings. As this builder is building he see’s the framing of the building is far to expensive, so he goes to the legislature and says “I need a law that doesn’t take in to account gravity, so I can build less expensive buildings and pass the savings on to the people” The legislature agrees and passes a law, Gravity will not be considered in the construction of these large buildings. Will gravity listen to man made law??? Or will God’s law, the laws of this universe prevail and mass destruction to come???? I ask… how is it any different to take children and peoples money, turning them in to a slave to the other parent, Give me your money and your children or I will punish you by taking away your right to travel and even throw you in jail!! Government has interfered with Universal laws, passing statues/court rules in contrast to natural law oppressing the people destroying the pillar of our society…the family. Our current solution after taking away everything a natural person holds dear to them is....Anger Management Classes!!!!!! This is an outrage!!! The Framers of our constitution feared the strong arm of government, they had suffered greatly under the rule of King George, who oppressed them, doing many of the same things our government is doing now against us, the difference is King George lived across the ocean; our government is in our homes, our businesses, our schools. What can we do that government isn’t involved with???? It was never set out to be this way. Government grew like a weed and started getting in to peoples lives when they had no right or authority to do so. Government was instituted to serve people. The Preamble to the Constitution States: We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence,[1] promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America. Notice it states WE THE PEOPLE as the authority. These decisions to take away natural people right to be a parent are being made by elected officials who have no authority. This is kidnapping and slavery!! Where is the jury??? I ask again, by what authority can any government employee say to a Natural person ( WE THE PEOPLE)- YOU DON’T GET YOUR KIDS, OR YOUR MONEY???? This is serious stuff. Recommending kidnapping children and turning the parent in to a slave to the other parent, throwing them in jail if they don’t, or can’t comply will have drastic consequences on the harmony of future society. This defies the laws of the universe. It is a natural right for a parent to love and care for his/her children. As evidence we are here today and many more people are rising up to these crimes. These policies/statutes promote hatred, resentment and if not addressed and remedied will result in severe destruction of society. America became great because we were a nation of liberty; as a father I would argue one of the most important liberties is to care for your own flesh and blood, a right to be a parent. A right to give love and affection and raise my children without government interferences. There are universal laws; these laws will always remain superior to mans law. If we pass statutes/court rules that violate these superior laws, the people will suffer and society will crumble. If we will respect these superior laws and live in balance we can SUSTAIN living in peace and prosperity. “Everything Hitler did was legal; everything the freedom fighters did in Afghanistan was illegal” Martin Luther King-

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

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What means more, child support or an emotionally stability child? Posted: 10/21/2008 5:30:48 PM
I wote this to a study group here debating wheather or not joint custody should be recommended..... First, the government has no authority to intervene. My ex wife and I are natural parents, this is a God given natural fundamental right, self evident. We both have a natural right to parent our children, as it is from our body our children became real natural people, it took both parents to make the child, and both parents are needed for a healthy children to be raised. If a state is to intervene, then I ask, by what authority?? Did the state help create these children? Does the constitution say…all children are property of the state; ARE ALL CHILDREN WARDS OF THE STATE?? The Declaration of independence lays it out so clearly “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights , that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” Why did our founding fathers speak these words of truth??? They understood natural law, the laws governing this universe. This is the foundation needed for a society to be healthy, happy and prosperous and SUSTAINABLE. It’s impossible to sustain a nation for a long period of time if the people are oppressed, history has proven this. Lets for a moment imagine….a builder is very successful at building large city buildings. As this builder is building he see’s the framing of the building is far to expensive, so he goes to the legislature and says “I need a law that doesn’t take in to account gravity, so I can build less expensive buildings and pass the savings on to the people” The legislature agrees and passes a law, Gravity will not be considered in the construction of these large buildings. Will gravity listen to man made law??? Or will God’s law, the laws of this universe prevail and mass destruction to come???? I ask… how is it any different to take children and peoples money, turning them in to a slave to the other parent, Give me your money and your children or I will punish you by taking away your right to travel and even throw you in jail!! Government has interfered with Universal laws, passing statues/court rules in contrast to natural law oppressing the people destroying the pillar of our society…the family. Our current solution after taking away everything a natural person holds dear to them is....Anger Management Classes!!!!!! This is an outrage!!! The Framers of our constitution feared the strong arm of government, they had suffered greatly under the rule of King George, who oppressed them, doing many of the same things our government is doing now against us, the difference is King George lived across the ocean; our government is in our homes, our businesses, our schools. What can we do that government isn’t involved with???? It was never set out to be this way. Government grew like a weed and started getting in to peoples lives when they had no right or authority to do so. Government was instituted to serve people. The Preamble to the Constitution States: We the People of the United States, in Order to form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence,[1] promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America. Notice it states WE THE PEOPLE as the authority. These decisions to take away natural people right to be a parent are being made by elected officials who have no authority. This is kidnapping and slavery!! Where is the jury??? I ask again, by what authority can any government employee say to a Natural person ( WE THE PEOPLE)- YOU DON’T GET YOUR KIDS, OR YOUR MONEY???? This is serious stuff. Recommending kidnapping children and turning the parent in to a slave to the other parent, throwing them in jail if they don’t, or can’t comply will have drastic consequences on the harmony of future society. This defies the laws of the universe. It is a natural right for a parent to love and care for his/her children. As evidence we are here today and many more people are rising up to these crimes. These policies/statutes promote hatred, resentment and if not addressed and remedied will result in severe destruction of society. America became great because we were a nation of liberty; as a father I would argue one of the most important liberties is to care for your own flesh and blood, a right to be a parent. A right to give love and affection and raise my children without government interferences. There are universal laws; these laws will always remain superior to mans law. If we pass statutes/court rules that violate these superior laws, the people will suffer and society will crumble. If we will respect these superior laws and live in balance we can SUSTAIN living in peace and prosperity. “Everything Hitler did was legal; everything the freedom fighters did in Afghanistan was illegal” Martin Luther King-

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 19 (view)

Single Father Who Is Being Aliented From His Daughter By His Ex Posted: 10/21/2008 5:21:19 PM
sorry to hear that. Since your from another country im not sure what to tell you.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 61 (view)

Would you give up custody of your kids and move away just to be with a new partner? Posted: 10/21/2008 5:19:35 PM
I would never walk away from my kids, I choose to have children, they didnt choose to be born. If I met a woman who was willing to leave her kids, I wouldnt date her. If she isnt loyal to her own kids why would she be loyal to me. A woman who loves her children is the biggest turn on.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 151 (view)

Dinner then a HOTEL? Does this happen a lot? Posted: 7/13/2008 5:51:35 PM
i usually just tell the girls to meet me in the bathroom, why go to a hotel.......

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

I'm glad I'm not a man! Posted: 7/13/2008 5:43:15 PM
whats rejection?? i heard some other dorks mention it but i cant say Ive ever expirienced it myself.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 84 (view)

Dating a guy who is 5'3 Posted: 7/13/2008 5:39:29 PM
prince looked good in 6 inch heals, give it a shot.

tonycash

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Crazy First Date! Posted: 7/13/2008 5:38:32 PM
I use that line all the time, "hey sexy, want to get to know each other and get married and have a family, I will give up my player lifestyle for you" works like a charm......Its kinda like a one night stand but involves marriage.....

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 602 (view)

Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 1/28/2008 12:30:24 PM
If this is passed they better start building a lot of prisons- I have been the victum of many young and beautiful women dishonestly tricking me into sex. Telling me they want a relationship, and that I am so special, they connect with me, they want to have a family, saying all the right things, only to find out it was just to get in my pants. this type of behavior is criminal and should be punished to the full extent of the law.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 159 (view)

Would you date a guy who wore a costume to a date Posted: 1/28/2008 12:24:43 PM
This is hillarious- definatley yes!! The dating game. Recipe POF membership 5 guys 5 costumes then you all come up with catch phrase that if you say on the date you get points and topics if you can get her to talk about you get points. have one of the guys secretly video tape the date, hidden microphone and your set for some entertianment!! Imagine if you do meet a nice girl and at your wedding talked about your first date....and the video=priceless. and dont tell her that your wearing a costume, try to see if you can get a second date and dress up again.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 54 (view)

This one confused me utterly Posted: 1/28/2008 12:07:54 PM
she came she saw and she conquered!!! nuff said

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

girlfriend that doesnt drive Posted: 1/28/2008 12:05:34 PM
Ideally you shoud try to get in good with her parents and possibly move in with her and maybe you could quit your job and live off her parents too....

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 378 (view)

Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 1/28/2008 11:26:48 AM
WOMEN PROBALLY DONT STAY WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU BORE THEM, I DONT HAVE THIS PROBLEM. MAYBE YOU COULD SPEND SOMETIME TRYING TO LEARN HOW TO BE MORE INTERESTING. NEXT TIME YOUR AT DINNER WITH A GIRL AND SHE FALLS ASLEEP, TAKE THIS AS A HINT YOUR WAY TO BORING.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 144 (view)

What are the deal breakers for you? Posted: 1/28/2008 11:23:46 AM
ADJOINED TWINS, EVERYTIME I DATE THEM IT SEEMS ONE HAS AN ATTITUDE

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Is it common? Posted: 1/28/2008 11:20:39 AM
P.O.F DATING HELP GUIDE 1) SEND FLIRTING EMAIL 2) HE RESPONDS FLIRTING 3) EMAIL BACK AND FOURTH AND TALK ABOUT SEX AND HOW YOU BOTH LIKE IT 4) NOW YOUR READY TO SEND EACH OTHER NAKED PICTURES 5) TALK DIRTY ON MESSENGER, MOSTLY ABOUT SEX 6) SEND MORE NAKED PICTURES 7) NOW YOUR READY FOR YOUR FIRST DATE TO SEE IF YOU HAVE ANYTHING IN COMMON AND HAVE ANY CHEMISTRY

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 5 (view)

Women: Would you continue to date him if... Posted: 1/28/2008 11:08:05 AM
I dont see any issues with this senario unless 2 of the other women you are dating are the dates only 2 sisters......

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 6 (view)

when a guys says he still cares about you what does it mean ????? Posted: 1/20/2008 8:23:51 PM
means he will still bang you

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

What if your daughter brought home her BF who is 25 years older than her? Posted: 1/20/2008 8:15:46 PM
I would ask him how many grandchildren he has

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 88 (view)

Boyfriend writes to girls on POF Posted: 1/20/2008 8:12:06 PM
yep email some guys and go on dates with them and try to get pregnant then tell him this is what can happen and he needs to stop.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 270 (view)

Has anyone ever used ice cubes for sex? Posted: 12/19/2007 10:06:06 PM
yes all the women use it when im done with them because of all the vaginal swelling

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

Small Town Swinging Posted: 12/18/2007 7:55:14 PM
is there sheep involved

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

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Define, One Night Stand Posted: 12/18/2007 7:53:23 PM
first time meeting and sexing and never seeing again.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 189 (view)

Being Choked while having sex Posted: 12/18/2007 7:52:11 PM
so hey babay why dont we go back to my place and have some crazy sex while I choke and eat pizza, or dont you like pizza??

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 56 (view)

Forced fondling Posted: 12/18/2007 7:50:10 PM
yes when ever i am on dates I feel like i am back in karate class practicing self defense.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 71 (view)

He can't make me 'come' Posted: 12/18/2007 7:44:45 PM
DUDE: how do you make a girl come everytime? DAWG: who cares?

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 161 (view)

On swallowing Posted: 12/18/2007 7:40:48 PM
if your doing a taste test I would like to help you out, ill voleteer and sacrifice my body.....

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 440 (view)

The one thing you miss most when you are single Posted: 12/18/2007 7:21:50 PM
nothing- i love it!!

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

Part-timers and sharing Posted: 12/18/2007 7:19:45 PM
try stalking her and pressuring her. wear her down untill she will commit

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

Heck with dating Posted: 12/11/2007 7:48:45 PM
no i love dating and meeting new people, but I am a people person. I am picky at who I meet though!!

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Curvy Vs Slim Posted: 12/11/2007 7:06:28 PM
36-24-36 "only if shes 5'3" I like bug butts......

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 102 (view)

Do men like it in the morning? Posted: 12/11/2007 7:05:11 PM
most likley he thought you were a terrible lay, or not attractive in the morning.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

My boyfriend doesn't want sex often enough. Posted: 12/11/2007 6:59:38 PM
maybe hes bored with you, or gay or both.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 78 (view)

empowered women and casual sex... Posted: 12/11/2007 6:57:10 PM
I think sleeping around is gross. I would rather get to know someone and feel comfotable with them as a person than a wham bam deal. When women have tried to come onto me strong i get grossed out and wonder how many men have they been with.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 814 (view)

so, why are you still single? Posted: 12/8/2007 10:16:09 PM
i think its better to be single than in a relatuionship and misserable!! Wait for the right one.

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 1272 (view)

what is everyones opin on tattoos? Posted: 12/8/2007 10:14:46 PM
Its a huge turn off to me too. Tramp stamps wont look attractive at 50!! Maybe i should get into tatoo removal its gonna be big buisness!!!

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 504 (view)

What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 12/8/2007 10:12:51 PM
plastic surgery, i have seen extreme make overs make some real hotties

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 177 (view)

Potential Stalker. Advice needed Posted: 12/8/2007 10:11:05 PM
get a ninja suit and stalk him when he comes out here first be pro active

TONYCASH

Joined: 3/9/2007

Msg: 179 (view)

No sex before marriage Posted: 12/8/2007 10:07:51 PM
i usually wait untill atleast a good hour into the first date.

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