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 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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What age are woman that are looking for...
Posted: 7/20/2012 4:24:52 PM
Dammit Bobby, that boy ain't right
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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paid menbership menber show show up first always
Posted: 7/20/2012 4:09:41 PM
Paid members usually show first in the "my matches" section on the home page when you log in
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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when is it appropriate to ask to meet someone?
Posted: 7/20/2012 3:16:33 PM

the problem is what happens after i break the ice. there are no connections.


So your profile has nothing to do with this? Come on, dude.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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i need some advice from you ladies please
Posted: 7/20/2012 3:03:33 PM
Profile reviews, mate.

Go there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Hey guys, what does it mean when you repeat what we say?
Posted: 7/20/2012 1:21:31 PM
Hey guys, what does it mean when you repeat what we say?
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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when is it appropriate to ask to meet someone?
Posted: 7/20/2012 10:48:59 AM
OP, as long as you are not a really short guy, you at least have a chance on online dating sites

The rest is up to you
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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when is it appropriate to ask to meet someone?
Posted: 7/20/2012 10:11:12 AM
PROFILE REVIEWS!!!!!

Even without a job, if you have a good enough profile, you can still get dates.

Did you think about that????????

Your profile is everything.

Not enough people take POF seriously. They just think they can through up a few sentences on their profile and some crappy bathroom mirror/inside the car/webcam pics, and be done with it.

It seems like you have been here for a while, you should know better.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Sabotage a relationship on purpose?
Posted: 7/19/2012 6:45:10 PM
Women do this all the time, and turn around and say, "I'm really picky", "I never settle!!!"

Like there's something better around the corner, a more "perfect" match.

That's fine, but stop complaining that you're single!

ugh
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Broadcasting
Posted: 7/19/2012 5:15:05 PM
OP, the apps that are most successful with "broadcasting" are very popular with a certain group of people.

Since you are interested in women, you more than likely would not be interested in the app I'm referring to.

The broadcasting apps that have been made for straight people have not caught on very well, or at least not with women.

If enough women would like broadcasting, this would catch on and maybe POF could incorporate it in their mobile platform.

I don't see that happening. Broadcasting is pretty much a big sausage party.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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would you rather?
Posted: 7/19/2012 3:11:10 PM
Women should just block & delete, if they're not interested in a man

don't even think about it

Just hit that block
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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I choose to work a job with little pay......
Posted: 7/19/2012 2:37:08 PM
OP is 6' 2". Women care most about height (when it comes to online dating)

everything else is secondary or can be negotiated

If the OP was 5'2", and made triple what he's making now, do you still think he would get dates? No way!!!!!!!!!
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Vanilla Sites vs. Adult Sites
Posted: 7/19/2012 11:35:44 AM

why did I get so much attention on an adult site


Maybe the ratio of men to women on adult sites is even more skewed than on dating sites. For example, the adult dating sites have something like a ratio of 99:1 men to women
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Am I really that Undateable?
Posted: 7/19/2012 11:08:42 AM
The screen name can be changed at the bottom of the edit profile section on the website
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Am I really that Undateable?
Posted: 7/19/2012 9:15:25 AM
Is OP trolling??

If he has really been on here several years, surely he would have seen the forums and profile reviews before.

Something doesn't seem right
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Viewing my profile daily
Posted: 7/19/2012 7:04:28 AM
Just go on a date with her, and then she will stop looking your profile

Take it from someone who knows
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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keeps creating new profiles to message me
Posted: 7/19/2012 6:56:10 AM
In case I wasn't clear:

block block block block block block block block block blockblock blockblock block block block block block block blockblock block


That is your new mantra for POF

Everyday when you wake up, it's not how many messages you will read on POF, it is how many retards you will block today.

Get your block list into the high three digits
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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keeps creating new profiles to message me
Posted: 7/19/2012 6:53:47 AM
64 people in your block list, holy crap

I would seriously consider going on a subscription site, where members have to pay to message you. I imagine you would get more quality people messaging you than POF.

Since you're in the top 10% of women who get something like 2/3's of all the messages sent by men, I'm not sure there is much you can do to avoid this problem, as long as you're on the free dating sites.

Maybe if you kept reporting the guy, they could IP block him, but then he might get around that too.

You could just keep doing what you been doing, and just keep blocking people wholesale.

Just get in the habit of blocking men right away, don't even bother reading the message if you know from the profile you will not be interested. I don't think there is a limit to the number of people you can block. 64 might be even a too low number for you.

Just block, block, block, block, block. Just keep doing it until you don't have to think about it, like "muscle memory".
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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soo what do u girls like to talk about
Posted: 7/18/2012 5:13:02 PM
A good ol' "how are you" always gets them going

:p
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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thinking too much?
Posted: 7/18/2012 5:50:23 AM
Hey Plantman, stick to your own garden
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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I can’t talk to women.
Posted: 7/18/2012 5:04:55 AM
talk to ugly women and work your way up

you have to crawl before you can walk
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 92 (view)
 
Sex with a M2F post op female is as good or better then a real woman.
Posted: 7/17/2012 7:48:09 PM
I think some of you men are afraid that you will find a transgender woman on here that you'll be attracted to.


What are you going to do? Question every woman's gender on here?

Get over yourself.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Sex with a M2F post op female is as good or better then a real woman.
Posted: 7/17/2012 7:28:58 PM
I would feel obligated to put it on my profile in the interest of fairness so any potential date can make up their own mind whether they wish to see me of not



Everyone has something that they choose not to reveal on their profiles for fear it could be a dealbreaker. Nobody is putting all their cards on the table here. I don't think it's fair to ask transgender women to reveal more about themselves on their profiles than we are willing to. At some point it's going to come up right? They have to make that judgement call as to what and when they choose to reveal.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Why is it so important for you know when we had sex last?
Posted: 7/17/2012 7:21:01 PM

One of the thing I do do, is avoid serial daters.


You must avoid something like, 90% of the women on POF then.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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No messages replies, Why?
Posted: 7/17/2012 7:19:06 PM

Oh and the biggest reason you aren't getting return emails is you are 5'7".



Then some of you are like, "all women don't care about height". Yeah, that's true, maybe 2% of you don't really care about height.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Why does it take men so long to ask for a date?
Posted: 7/17/2012 4:39:11 PM
These men are wankers, that's why they haven't asked out the OP yet.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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What's the best way to go from friends to more than friends?
Posted: 7/17/2012 4:05:38 PM

What's the best way to go from friends to more than friends?


You don't.

You move on, find someone else who wants to be more than friends with you.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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No messages replies, Why?
Posted: 7/17/2012 3:40:27 PM
OP kinda looks like a douche

I'm dead serious, that's not to be mean at all.

There's like a stereotype of what a douchebag look like, and the OP fits that stereotype

That's all I'm saying, not trying to hate on the OP or anything. Maybe he's a nice guy and all IRL.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Job type and relationship needs
Posted: 7/17/2012 3:32:57 PM
I should have clarified; blue collar people aren't necessarily dumb

It's just that dumb people in general have more babies

Just go to an area where a bunch of educated people live, and then travel to a trailer park or a housing project

Then tell me which area has more children
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Sex with a M2F post op female is as good or better then a real woman.
Posted: 7/17/2012 2:40:55 PM
Some of ya'll are just being haters

It must sting to know that the transgender ladies ITT are cuter/way more attractive than the women who are harping against them
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Virgin at 24
Posted: 7/17/2012 1:00:12 PM
Female virgin at 24: It's okay, you can wait

Male virgin at 24: OMG, WHAT A LOSER! DUDE, GET YOURSELF LAID!!!!
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Girls, is it time to move on?
Posted: 7/17/2012 12:55:57 PM
OP, you don't need her, you're on POF now

Go to profile reviews and get your mack on
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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VIEWED ME
Posted: 7/17/2012 11:00:32 AM
I PAID FOR THE UPGRADE

SO WHAT

I SUPPORT POF


I GET ALL THE VIEWED ME'S I WANT

I CAN TELL WHEN SOMEONE HAS VIEWED MY PROFILE MORE THAN ONCE

CAN YOU SAY THE SAME?
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Non-virgin sexual camels
Posted: 7/17/2012 10:33:59 AM
I was thinking of Involuntary celibacy

Sexual Camels, that's a good one

It's hard to imagine choosing to go without sex.

Sometimes, it's just hard to get laid.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Sex with a M2F post op female is as good or better then a real woman.
Posted: 7/17/2012 10:23:46 AM
Hell, call me whatever, but I would totally do lucia and TaureanQueen

they are super duper pretty
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Are tattoos and piercings like going out of style??
Posted: 7/17/2012 9:55:58 AM
When your parents start getting tattoos, like my Mom did

it's no longer cool
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Buying Themes problem
Posted: 7/17/2012 4:16:10 AM
You're better off getting the upgrade if you want themes. Another thing to consider is that many, many, people use the POF mobile app, which as you know, does not display themes.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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should i be so critical
Posted: 7/16/2012 5:37:14 PM
If the OP wasn't picky, I would question whether she is really a woman on an online dating site
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Advice on when to get and give personal info, please.
Posted: 7/16/2012 3:44:08 PM

(2) Buy a prepaid phone to use for dating;


That's actually a really great idea, and its not expensive either
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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How to be less shallow?
Posted: 7/16/2012 3:04:11 PM
MountHeartbreak, that was some good insight there. (Seriously)
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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How do I say this nicely ?
Posted: 7/16/2012 2:54:44 PM
OP, Women are not nice about wanting tall guys, or guys within their race, why should you give the same courtesy?

I say, stick it to them

If women can say, "I don't want a short guy!" and the other women say, "You go girl!"

then heck, you got every right to say you don't want fat chicks, especially since you're in shape yourself.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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How do I say this nicely ?
Posted: 7/16/2012 2:48:13 PM
You could word it in your profile like women do with height requirements:

IF YOU HAVE A BMI ABOVE _____ DON'T WASTE MY TIME!!!

SORRY, I DON'T LIKE FAT GIRLS, THAT'S JUST MY PREFERENCE!

THIN GIRLS ONLY!

CALL ME PICKY, I DON'T CARE, I ONLY WANT WOMEN WHO ARE IN SHAPE

THIS WILL MAKE ME SOUND LIKE AN A*HOLE, BUT I WILL NOT DATE FAT GIRLS, SORRY!!
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Long distance love?
Posted: 7/16/2012 11:38:53 AM
OP, I would consider using another site to meet bisexual women. The site I'm talking about is smaller than POF, but it lets users identify as "bisexual". The site has Ok and Cupid in the name, and it's more LGBTQ friendly than POF.
You can also hide your profile from "straight" users on that site.

Google that site, and check it out for yourself
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Advice on when to get and give personal info, please.
Posted: 7/16/2012 11:33:09 AM
background check too?

Good lawd, maybe you can check his credit score and ask for references in the meantime
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Pictures of pets: A womans perspective..
Posted: 7/16/2012 11:05:19 AM
Me and my ____(dogs, cats, babies, turtles, etc.) come first, and if you can't handle that, then F you!

Wait a minute, that' s not on the OP's profile
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Age-->Response-->Dating?
Posted: 7/16/2012 11:00:13 AM
Older women respond more?

Who would have thought?
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Job type and relationship needs
Posted: 7/16/2012 10:59:26 AM
dumb people tend to have more babies, you know, like in the movie, Idiocracy.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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How to be less shallow?
Posted: 7/16/2012 9:42:16 AM
Hey, if a woman can reject a man who is otherwise perfect because he is a half-inch shorter than her when she's wearing heels, then by golly, overweight unattractive men should be able to go after all the hotties they want!!

Preferences can't be unreasonable at all, right??

Surely, there's enough 6'2" tall guys to go around for all the ladies! Right?

Just like there's pleny of women who are 9's and 10's who want to date 3's and 4's!

Yeah!!!!!

So what I'm not getting the dates I want?? I never settle!!!! NEVER!!!!!!!!
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 15 (view)
 
why do some.................
Posted: 7/16/2012 9:28:55 AM
You ain't got enuf swagga, dawg
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Send another message?
Posted: 7/16/2012 9:20:31 AM
Maybe you shouldn't be messaging the women that get 90 messages a day (you know who they are). Do you really think your "how are you" message is going to get noticed among the 50 other guys doing the same thing?

Come on now.
 TheLongSpring
Joined: 1/29/2012
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Friends now or noting later
Posted: 7/15/2012 8:12:17 AM
Being friends with a woman is like falling into black hole. You never get out.

That's what the friend zone is
 
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