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fluffybrain

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women? Posted: 11/22/2009 3:59:20 PM
this is a classic example of people deceiving themselves. people are not intimidated. it's an excuse for lack of attraction! anyway, ladies, never fear, the older guys will ultimately have to "settle" for someone their age! (seems both genders are delusional!!)

fluffybrain

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Searching preferences Posted: 11/21/2009 1:50:59 PM
op, when i search on people, i'm very specific. if i decide to date, i'd look for close proximity, physically appealing, close in demographic characteristics (age, kids/no kids, etc), and someone with something on the ball. i imagine the men do the same thing in the sense we all have our definite preferences and that's what we're gonna search on. the exceptions are people who aren't all that serious about dating and also those who, for varying reasons, choose to go outside of their ideals.

fluffybrain

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Conscience Bothering Me Posted: 11/21/2009 1:45:56 PM
OP, why reopen it? If it comes up again, just casually mention you were in for a limited time and leave it at that. Think you're making way too much of this. It's really a non-issue...it was just meaningless convo (meaning it has no effect on dating potential...yours or his).

fluffybrain

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Realizing ALOT! Posted: 11/21/2009 1:41:37 PM
My dear, at least you know your weaknesses, so you're you're in a better position to mitigate it. Basically, you just have to remind yourself to relax and let the pace develop naturally. Bottom line is some guy is either going to like you or not, so what you do in the interim isn't going to affect his feelings one way or the other. All you can do constructively is whatever it is that makes you feel good about yourself. Usually, that involves carrying on with your own life in constructive ways with full knowledge if he's interested, as long as you have given him some encouragement (i.e. haven;t given him the impression you won't date him), he'll be on your doorstep if he wants to be there. Might as well just relax, hun............

fluffybrain

Joined: 3/11/2007

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What a man over 45 looks for in a relationship. Posted: 11/21/2009 12:31:52 PM
I'll tell you what they look for: they still want a hot babe...but they forget how old they are & look...everyone is younger in their own mind's eye. not saying the old guys should give up, but a little more realistic might help. Think I'm preaching to the choir...

fluffybrain

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Whats it like being single over 30? Posted: 11/21/2009 12:20:28 PM
It's all relative. I see a theme here. People 28-35 worried that they're getting too old and married life has passed them by and then the over 35's who have been married and now feel a real sense of freedom in being able to live life as they see fit. To the first group: committed or married relationships are not all they're cracked up to be, plus you'll be very surprised how your thinking pattern will change over the next 10 yrs (nothing to do with relationships either...you just start viewing things differently...what seemed so important almost seems silly, definitely seems insignificant, and you feel like you have a whole new wonderful knowledge & life...so just relax, nothing is passing you by...the best is yet to come). To the 2nd group, I'm right there with ya!! lol

fluffybrain

Joined: 3/11/2007

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why is he leading me on? Posted: 11/11/2009 10:00:11 AM
OP, it's pretty obvious you're thinking about a dalliance with the guy. What exactly do you expect to get out of it?? Even if he eventually divorces, odds are slim to none he's gonna stay with you - they never stay with the mistress. Kinda wondering about your values too. Irrespective of all that, it's a no win. Get out before you get hooked in. You'll only regret it.

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD Posted: 11/8/2009 9:30:44 AM
and umm quit whining u old guisers were able to go after ther younger chicks for eons before old hags were allowed to go after young male meat Funniest quote I've see all day (ah, but the day is young - young, did I say young?!!!) I think I'm opting for young male meat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD Posted: 11/8/2009 9:25:38 AM
Well, because we older chicks are tired of seeing some chubby, balding dude our age thinking we're too over-the-hill to date - chubby, bald guys thinking we're too old - what's up with that?! This ain't rocket science. Oh yeah, well, uh, the young guys look better! Hey, hun, cougars are in vogue, haven't you heard?!!!! OK, it's really a non-issue. Date whomever makes you happy. Did I really need to tell you that?!!!!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Why do hot girls never give a chance to an average looking guy? Posted: 11/8/2009 1:15:09 AM
OP, same reason hot guys don't want avg looking girls!! Why should they if they can get better? It's all about he/she who has the most to offer reaps the greatest rewards! Sometimes that's money, sometimes it's career, sometimes it's looks, sometimes it's... - or a combo thereof. Whatever it is though, if you wanna play with the big boys, you gotta get a bigger stick! (That was a bad pun - yikes!)

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Mixed Signals, could use some decoding... Posted: 11/8/2009 1:09:30 AM
"J" sounds like an attention whore. Ah, so succint - and so true, OP! I had a guy do the same thing once. It's all about the attention & ego. I guess you could ask her once more & call her on it. Seems she's already blown you off a number of times though. When you think about it, she's not overly concerned about how it might affect you - you're obviously bothered, maye even hurt, yet she still pulls it. Find someone a little more sincere and a little less self-centered, Hun!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Should we HELP others with their profiles here? Posted: 11/8/2009 1:04:16 AM
Hun, it's called marketing!!! You buy "Kleenex" and "Coke" dontcha? What's the diff online?!!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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the guy who hangs back Posted: 11/7/2009 2:03:09 AM
You might as well flirt with her too. She's going to pick the guy to whom she's most attracted. If she's not attracted to any of you, she'll just have fun eating up the attention! If you feel like you want to stand out, the guy who said send her a drink from afar had a good idea. Or, at least, if you're going to hang back, flirt intermittently - just enough to pique her curiosity. If she likes you, she'll be intrigued. The key is to give her enough to encourage her, but not so much as to seem easy. HTH!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Is it harder to fall in love after you reach a certain age? Posted: 11/7/2009 1:48:45 AM
Didi, I don't think age has much to do with it other than people aren't quite so idealistic & sometimes they don't think a relationship is worth all the work - but, yeah, they still feel the same old butterflies as they always felt!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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what if he doesnt want to kiss? Posted: 11/7/2009 1:43:35 AM
Hun, move on. Usually, when people like you, they WANT to kiss you. That's not exclusive to women - applies to men too. You're young & cute, so I imagine you won't have a hard time finding someone who's really into you! Also, as the poster above says, even if he's just not a kisser, it's a problem for you, so unless you can accept that, it's going tp remain a problem; which, doesn't bode well for a relationship.

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Married Men on POF Posted: 11/7/2009 1:34:34 AM
Let me also add: that kind of thinking is very typical of people who embark on affairs. It's the "poor me" - my spouse is so bad - he/she drove me to this point. No one drives you to any point. As any psychologist would tell you: you're making excuses & rationalizing your own bad behavior - and you're blaming the victim (yes, the person who gets cheated on is the victim) too. It's cowardly and dishonest. It speaks volumes about your character - or lack thereof. Some of you need to take RESPONSIBILITY for your actions. People like you will never make good spouses for ANYONE - quit deluding yourself! (I'm almost sure you've convinced yourself this is situational, out of character for you, and will never happen again. As I said, you're delusional - and so is any "new" woman who buys into your notions. Then again, if you find some woman who buys into it, she's probably just as void of decent values as are you - birds of a feather...)

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Married Men on POF Posted: 11/7/2009 1:21:05 AM
Some of us married men have a valid reason to be searching in we are planning on seeking a separation & divorce, due to trying for many years to make the marriage work. I have been trying significantly hard to restore the relationship, but I've been at the end of my rope over and over at some point I want to move on and start a new marriage with someone else, so looking for someone to help me through. I"ve never cheated on my wife and have more determination than most men to make the relationship work, and I think a woman would value these qualities in someone. I would carry on my qualities into my next relationship, so just talk to the quy before you just think everyone who is married is plain out to cheat. Well, you're obviously not determined to save your marriage NOW, are you? Clean up your mess with your wife or wait until you're divorced before you start trolling for women. Talk about bad values. No wonder your marriage isn't working! I'd be very interested in hearing your wife's side of the story too! At least I don't see HER on here trolling for men behind YOUR back! You said a m0uthful when you said "so looking for someone to help me through." It's obviously all about YOU! Buddy, go save your marriage! Naw, nevermind, your wife deserves better than you.

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Permanently stuck in a rut Posted: 11/7/2009 1:03:40 AM
OP, This is an interesting post. I don't really know what the answer is. You're a decent looking guy with a decent career. All I can think of is maybe you're shooting way too high - as in the gold digger types who won't settle for less than a very wealthy guy or something. Are you? I don't mean that offensively. I would think you'd be able to get a fairly attractive woman who has something going for her careerwise too. Also, at your age, there should be plenty without kids. I also think some of the women who aren't objectively all that great, sometimes think they're better than what they really are. (I'm sure it applies to some men too, so neutral there.) If someone, say a 6 or 7, gets a little attention here or there, it can sometimes inflate their heads into thinking they deserve no less than perfection in every realm. It's possible you're running up against that assuming the women you choose are cute but not stunning, decent job but not great, etc. I've even seen people with bad (or no) jobs, lots of kids, etc. (i.e. lots of baggage) who are just cute enough (but, again, not great) to get some attention, yet reject guys that have a lot more going for them than do the women. I've seen the same thing with not so great guys too. Basically, if it's not you aiming wayyy too high, then it's the latter that I mentioned. Not sure if there's really a solution for it. I don't blame you for not wating to lower your standards - you wouldn't be happy with that for long - or if at all. Not much help, I'm afraid, but at least an attempt at an explanation. The only other thing I can think of is you do come off as a little sensitive, so, as one of the other posters mentioned, you might seem a bit too eager around some of these women. That can put you up or down a notch or two. Try to relax and not be so concerned about the impression you're making. (LOL easier said than executed!)

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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what is everyones opin on tattoos? Posted: 11/7/2009 12:42:24 AM
The main thing that runs through my head about this is: what the heck are these people going to do when they get older??? It's going to look very odd. Same thing with breast implants. The idea of a shriveled up body with torpedos bolted on strikes me as very weird, indeed. I guess people can get rid of them later. If too many tats, they're going to be all scarred up when they get them lasered off, though. Not a pretty scene!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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hairdressers Posted: 11/6/2009 9:59:01 PM
With hairdressers, wait staff, or anyone on tips, you need to be sure you're not misinterpreting their desire for good tips and regular customers for attraction. I guess you just have to ask her out. You'll find out pretty quickly, that way. Let us know!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Gold Diggers, or someone of that ilk Posted: 11/6/2009 9:56:06 PM
^^^^ True, Stacey, but those guys who go for GD's know what they're getting into. They don't mind the trade off. Anyway, if they're both happy, then so be it. Although, I suspect men who do this would prefer the woman really liked him. He's not quite "enough" to really attract the woman he wants, so he uses his money as a lure. The woman involved often isn't all that into him, but she can't resist the lure. I'm sure she would prefer a guy with money to whom she is genuinely attracted. When people can't get exactly what they want, they will go for the next best thing. Maybe, every once in a while they both are really attracted - hopefully, anyway!

fluffydogs

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/6/2009 5:10:16 PM
The thought of it isn't appealing in any age group. If you're going to do it, I'd prefer not to hear the gory details! Kinda disgusting. LOL

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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What Do I Do Now? Anything? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:54:48 PM
Send one last message. If she doesn't go for it, move on. If she goes for it, but pulls anything questionable in the future, it's means you're just her back burner guy. If she likes you, she'll never do this again.

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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if they say you're down to earth Posted: 11/6/2009 10:18:01 AM
E, it could mean any of those things. The meaning is in the context. Usually, that becomes apparent over time. I suspect you're asking because you want to know what a specific person means by this. I can only tell you: (1) it will become apparent over time, (2) the fact you're asking means you have some doubts about the other person.

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Answer to the "intimidated" question.... Posted: 11/6/2009 10:10:58 AM
I have seen a lot of posts where people ask is he/she intimidated. I'm pretty sure the answer is: (1) Yes, they are intimidated if you're good looking, (2) No, they're not intimidated if you're not cute. I believe some of the people who ask are looking for validation that people aren't contacting them due to intimidation rather than lack of looks. Does anyone else agree? If not, what's your theory on this subject?

fluffydogs

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Men 35-44, are we in the sweet spot? Posted: 11/6/2009 10:00:43 AM
^^^^ After reading some of these posts, I have arrived at the conclusion it about both looks and money - one without the other and no go!

fluffydogs

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women? Posted: 11/6/2009 2:39:31 AM
I get the feeling a lot of the women are hoping this is true. From what men say on the other boards, it doesn't seem to be intimidation - it seems more to do with what the woman looks like and from a lot of the posts, it appears the men equate youth with looks. I'm not sure why people have a difficult time discussing this.

Ihatestudying

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Would like to know.....?? Posted: 11/5/2009 11:48:32 PM
What would possess a guy 16 yrs younger to flirt heavily? I think it is crazy, but the guy just keeps going on. Anyway, I wasn't interested, but he finally piqued my curiosity, so i figured , yeah, OK, I'll hang with a younger guy for a few months. So, then I responded with my own (light) flirting. What does he do?...he blows me off. So I figured, OK, I'll forget about it. Well, a few days after I backed off, he started up again. So, I figured, OK, fun time again, so I started up again too. Well, then he backs off again...and then I back off. Then he starts up again...then...well, same thing as before. Anyway, it's been going on & off like that for almost 2 months. What is going on with this guy? I'm thinking it's mainly ego for him. Am I right?

Ihatestudying

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Shaving or trimming your privates at our age? Posted: 11/5/2009 11:40:16 PM
I am not sure I really want to know who does this. This is info best kept private (all puns intended). Really, please, TMI!

Ihatestudying

Joined: 3/11/2007

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What to say? Posted: 11/5/2009 11:36:25 PM
Puppy called that one right. Go for it, OP!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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looks or profile, what attracks you first? Posted: 11/3/2009 1:29:34 AM
op, they go for looks first, and them personality and all the rest. you gotta pass the looks test...and that will varying somewhat from guy to guy.

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Why is it such a stigma to be an older bachelor? Posted: 11/3/2009 1:27:15 AM
i don't think women put bachelors down. i guess maybe if you bypassed them, maybe some are feeling the sting still. they'll get over it and so will you!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Gold Diggers, or someone of that ilk Posted: 11/3/2009 1:24:11 AM
miracles, no he won't get half of her looks...nor will she...they don't split until either he runs out of money or she loses her looks!! who knows, maybe they'll even last...but i'm not a wagering chick lol

simplymeee

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Gold Diggers, or someone of that ilk Posted: 11/3/2009 1:20:12 AM
yeah, teenwolf, there's one called sugar daddies (or daddy). i know a guy on it who has hit on some pretty hot mamas! good site & caters to a very specific crowd. they're all getting what they want and they all know what the score it. they're all happy...and that's what counts!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Are older men sometimes intimidated by older sexy women? Posted: 11/3/2009 1:07:41 AM
well, i think that's what older woman are hoping lol hun, if you're a hot mamcita, try a toy boy for a while. why am i dwelling on this? hmmmm lol

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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What kind of guy do you want to marry? Posted: 11/3/2009 12:54:07 AM
op, i thought i married someone like my dad...instead, i woke up next to what could have been a russian spy. i have no idea who the guy is...and i've supposedly "known" him half my life. mainly left with a weird, surreal feeling...that and something finally snapped in my mind (well, clicked, actually), so i really just feel pretty neutral about the guy...but will never be able to explain the weirdness. twilight zone music! anyway i always thought my dad was the ideal guy...still do even though he passed... all i ever saw was a man of great strength & integrity. i like to think i'm a lot like him...and my mother. but the guy with whom was i living for all those years (my ex)...will probably never know. kinda would like to be able to put some sort of meaning to those years since they consumed so much of my life temporally. just one of things i have to accept to which there is no answer................................. neer neer neer eerie eerie eerie............

simplymeee

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Gold Diggers, or someone of that ilk Posted: 11/2/2009 11:02:43 PM
op, a lot of people just don't care. if they're having fun and they like the looks...that's all it takes! i find it baffling, but i cannot foist my values on other people...lol as much as i'd like to do so! people develop certain mindsets over the years... for better or for worse. did you see the thread about the cheating wealthy guy?! i can assure you that guy is quite happy with his lifestyle. he is beyond any normal type of thinking. he has gotten into a place in his mind where it doesn't even seem wrong...he most likely feels entitled by now. that's precisely why you see so many politicians, etc cheating, doing corrupt things, etc...over time, and little by little, they get so accustomed to it, it begins to seem normal to them...and they even get so carried away that they almost look down on the "little" people who don't get their paradigms. i've seen too much of it. not easy to explain it, but i know how these people think. it's literally almost like they're off on some lifelong manic high, but they don't see it that way...they mainly feel entitled...it's just a normal, expected perk to them. same kind of mindset prevails in the types of guys who go for gold diggers. to them, she's a cute piece for now...and who cares if she's digging...they have the money & she makes them happy. ...but she's expendable and if she becomes a wife, she may face multiple affairs to keep her position...either that, or if she has a good lawyer, she will take him to the cleaners...on the other hand, these types didn't get where they are without having the ability to screw people financially, so the gal could end up with nada. then you have the shady lawyer with whom to deal ... he/she takes takes them all to cleaners! (good possibility of that, btw.) so what else is new?!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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My ex-husband cheated = The sex was bad Posted: 11/2/2009 9:59:30 PM
I have ALOT to offer, and I'm not being **** or arrogant , just confident and very happy with how I developed and grew over the years. I privide a great 5 star plus body and look, and so should she!!!! all fine & dandy to feel that way, but you're not gonna make it in a marriage! lord, are you people really that short-sighted?? did any of you really think your parents, aunts, uncles, or grandparents were having wild monkey sex all the yrs they were married (assuming they stayed married)? why on earth would you somehow think your marriage would be the exception? if you're gonna get married, you better have enough character to stick it out through thick & thin (no pun intended)...or just do not marry....repeat after me.....!!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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My ex-husband cheated = The sex was bad Posted: 11/2/2009 9:51:17 PM
guess the crack addicted slut upstairs in our building was variety after all she had a variety of men in her bed every night. i know it's a somber subject, but that line is hilarious!! (i got to use the icon again!!)

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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My ex-husband cheated = The sex was bad Posted: 11/2/2009 9:41:52 PM
where are people's values?!! the person who actually crosses the line is making a conscious decision & rationalizing. no matter what happened in the relationship, certain things are just unacceptable. these include cheating, abuse, stealing, beating on kids, murder, etc. point is: there's really never an excuse for certain things. people who cheat are truly lacking something upstairs...usually a conscience...that's the very def'n of a sociopath, btw! they may feel somewhat guilty, but not enough to deter them. geez...it's just plain wrong!! i just wonder why on earth some people even get married. they must know things might (will probably) change over the years, yet they still marry. they basically are saying their "i do's" with the real meaning of "as long as you make me happy...then i do" why even marry then. just live together and call it what it is!! some of you folks need to take responsibility for your actions! sheesh! i think some of the posters find a certain level of comfort in finding so many fellow cheaters. nothing but more rationalization along the lines of ..."so many people do it, so it must not be that bad." it is that bad. geez oh geez...i will never get certain mindsets. i think if people started murdering, some of you would find a way to rationalize that too. bad, bad, bad. :::shaking head::::

simplymeee

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Asking for a close up picture Posted: 11/2/2009 9:04:02 PM
lol op...this one is fairly evident, i think!!! just be sure to remove your glasses and meet in a dark bar!!! (dang, i was looking for an excuse to use that icon!)

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Does the number of people a person has had sex with matter? Posted: 11/2/2009 8:55:36 PM
hun, enjoy it while it lasts...before you need variety!!!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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does size really matter in an engagement ring? Posted: 11/2/2009 8:37:13 PM
op, you're making de beers one very happy company! it's like anything in life...if it's 10karats, you'll become used to it.... everything tends to the middle over time... good and bad!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Married Men on POF Posted: 11/2/2009 8:33:29 PM
uh...op...uh...the lying to you about their marital status is the least of the probs! the status itself is the bigger prob ... and i mean, their willingness to break their vows ... once people cross that line, it's a lot easier with the next person! i'm sure they convince themselves it's situational & it'll never happen again, but once that taboo is crossed..............................................

simplymeee

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Successful Coffee Dates? Posted: 11/2/2009 8:28:38 PM
op, agree...but you need to try to view it differently, nevertheless...else it might become a self-fulfilling prophecy...

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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cheating Posted: 11/2/2009 8:25:53 PM
once you start toying with the idea...you get a little more used to the idea...toy with it a little more...and you get a little more used to it...toy with it some more... you get the drift. if you don't want it to happen, you gotta cut it off very early...it's one slippery slope...

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Careers that Drain Your Energy Posted: 11/2/2009 8:21:50 PM
yeah, a job can be draining, but it's gotta be done. no real answer. you just get used to it.

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons Posted: 11/2/2009 8:14:47 PM
prose (in deference to Shakespeare hehe)...ok...pros: feeling of freedom and doing exactly what you darned well please. cons: disease and not really knowing what motives are on the guy's part.

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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Texting while on a date Posted: 11/2/2009 8:12:10 PM
not great...if it didn't go on for too long, then maybe not so bad...maybe the guy was nervous? either that, or he just didn't give a sheet what you thought...hmmm...back to not so great!

simplymeee

Joined: 3/11/2007

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I Want Someone Like ME- is it too much to ask? Posted: 11/2/2009 8:09:07 PM
brandon, you sound exactly like my ex. he's going through the same thing. has a lot on the ball & cute, yet not getting very far with 7's (or even 6's) who don't have his level of ed or anything else. it's just plain weird. at first, he went for younger gals, so that might have explained it, but now he goes for gals closer to his age and it's STILL happening. weird, just plain weird. if you figure it out, let us all know! the closest i can figure is the gals don't have enough going for them to see what you are. if you're choosing cute women but with boatloads of kids, no jobs, and the like, then you have to expect a certain mentality. they're gonna be easily dazzled by anyone clicking his fingers & posturing. that kind of explains it, but not really... who knows???

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