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JustCallMeAmy

Joined: 3/12/2007

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Gone from texting multiple times a day, to barely replying? Posted: 10/24/2009 2:59:22 AM
You said if you dont text him, he then apologizes then replies to most of your previous texts. So how many texts are you sending him after he stops replying? When he stops replying, stop texting. It's that simple. Otherwise, you just become annoying.

JustCallMeAmy

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South Georgia anybody??? Posted: 7/22/2009 7:09:10 AM
Hey all, This is my first time posting on the Georgia boards. Was wondering if there was anybody in the Tifton/Albany/Thomasville area out there to hang out with? Just looking for some new friends! Any get togethers being planned for around here? Amy

JustCallMeAmy

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surprise inside... Posted: 7/22/2009 1:34:52 AM
So completely hypothetical question.... Lets say you are dating a lady....and things are getting pretty serious. So you are about to have sex. You slowly remove her clothing...and then you see it... A tattoo of Michael Jackson's face right on the cheek of her ass. Would this upset you? Be a major turn off? Only asking because of some silly thing I got on my cell phone...a slide show of nothing but Michael Jackson tattoo's....including one on that cheek!

JustCallMeAmy

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Do guys really like....? Posted: 7/7/2009 1:59:43 AM
Why do Peacocks have such pretty feathers? To attract the female peahens!

JustCallMeAmy

Joined: 3/12/2007

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Need guys point of view to figure this one out Posted: 7/7/2009 1:45:31 AM
It took 5 jail sentences for you to say you couldnt take it anymore? FIVE? Why in the heck did you wait so long? And then when you finally told him you couldnt take it anymore....he leaves. BUT For a year I supported him through AA, stayed by his side, we were working on getting our stuff together, while our romance stayed on fire still. So how is that not taking it anymore? You were still with him....you just werent living at the same residence! I know you want to be all Mother Theresa like and try to "help" him or even "fix" him....and you will probably claim to do it for the kids. But you can't. All your doing is hurting yourself....and you sure as heck arent helping those kids. Girl, you need to wake up. This man is no role model for those children. This man doesnt love you. This man probably doesnt know how to love anybody but himself. That kid he married did you the biggest favor! Let him go! Stop all contact with him unless it concerns your children and go find some self esteem. And then find a real man. Those children don't have a role model with him....let them have one with you. Stop being a door mat! Oh and one more thing....the next time you worry about what he says....remember that when he was sweet talking and professing his love to you....he was also vowing to love honor and obey somebody else!

JustCallMeAmy

Joined: 3/12/2007

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Why do guys play head games Posted: 6/26/2009 1:27:51 AM
You actually asked him to take time off from work just to spend time with you? And yet you don't see yourself as being pushy????? Come on. girl, wake up! You seen each other a couple of times. You had no right to ask him to do that. You weren't in a committed relationship....you were only dating. On the list of priorities.....your ranking is pretty dang low during the dating stage of a relationship. Careers, family, friends, pets.....they all rank above you somewhere. You just have to patiently wait...and eventually, if the relationship progresses....you move up that list. Judging by what you wrote....you do come across as very pushy. Chill out! If its meant to happen, it will. If he wants to see you, he will. And if not, you will find that connection with some other fish!

JustCallMeAmy

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Chubby chicks need love too! ;) Posted: 6/21/2009 4:41:55 AM
I keep changing mine. I'm not sure which one I am. They just need a weight selector. I'm 5'7 and weigh about 150. Save all the trouble of figuring out whats what.

JustCallMeAmy

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is he really over me? Posted: 6/20/2009 12:42:47 AM
I'm still stuck on it would seem like hes into it like old times then he wouldnt "finish" and all of the sudden just put is "unit" away and roll over and go to sleep.... One time, without explanation, and the virtual chasity belt would be locked in place!

JustCallMeAmy

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Meeting the man of my dreams Do you have advice? Posted: 6/17/2009 7:32:15 PM
How do you know its your voice thats making him hang up on you? It could be many other things....like a wife or girlfriend standing near by. I know there are shallow men out there....but if it truly is your voice....do you really want him? I mean think about it....if your voice is such a turn off for him that he cant stand to listen to you on the phone....what kind of relationship could you possibly have with this idiot? You guys are getting it on....\you say "Oh baby"...and he loses his erection? Move on, girl! This man isnt worth your time!

JustCallMeAmy

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Help I can't understand you guys..... Posted: 5/26/2009 12:06:12 AM
I don't think it was from lack of sex, either. When I read the OP's story, I didn't really get the impression that she was all that interested in him. It was all about what he did for her....and the text messages he sent her. What role did she play? She wouldn't even hold his hand. It's a hand....they sell hand sanitizer at every convenience store....who cares!

JustCallMeAmy

Joined: 3/12/2007

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Is this a valid reson for ending communication? Posted: 5/25/2009 11:42:25 PM
He sounds married or otherwise attached. Otherwise, who cares when you call?

JustCallMeAmy

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Am i making the right decision Posted: 5/22/2009 11:18:58 PM
Honestly, at the age of 20, I think you are too young to "start a life" with anybody. I know, we all dream about getting married and having little ones...and living in the cute little house with the white picket fence. But you have plenty of time for that. Focus on now. Focus on you. If Nick isn't treating you the way you feel you deserve to be treated, then move on. We don't always love the people that are good for us. But by not choosing Nick, that doesn't necessarily mean you have to choose Mike. If Mike isn't ringing your bell....then find somebody else. There are millions of men out there. These two men aren't your only options. You're young. I know you don't want to hear that, but you are. You have MANY years to make life altering decisions. Don't force yourself to make a life altering decision right now. And one other thing, I truly believe that if either of your men were "the one"....you wouldn't be questioning it. You would just know. There would be no doubts as to who to choose. Your heart would have already made that decision for you.

JustCallMeAmy

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Is he SHY, only wants FRIENDSHIP, or LEADING ME ON? Posted: 5/22/2009 1:05:28 AM
thats enough" and he quickly stopped...so then we ended up facing eachother and got extra close with our arms wrapped around eachother and I was playing in his hair(like always) and he kept telling me to get closer and closer..even though we were close enough....and Mishawn came back in the room and she felt like a third wheel and jealous...and under the covers he started rubbing my lower back under my shirt and rubbing the back of my neck....and i then started touching his upper back OVER his shirt...and when Mishawn came close we would both stop moving our hands...LOL.....And well Mishawn left after like 5 minutes out of jealousy...We both told her to stay (just to be nice..haah) but she left anyway....so we just fell asleep like that. That is the longest dang sentence I've ever seen! I think you should just ask him what's up. If you like his answer, cuddle some more. If not, find somebody else to cuddle with. According to the profiles on POF, a lot of men like to cuddle!

JustCallMeAmy

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If the girl you're in love with told you she couldn't be with you coz you're fat.... Posted: 5/22/2009 12:51:16 AM
If a girl stopped loving a man because he was fat....then she never truly "loved" him at all.

JustCallMeAmy

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What if? Posted: 5/18/2009 12:56:20 AM
Talking and being yourself isn't going to matter. You lied. How does he know the pic isn't all you lied about? In your previous post, you talked about the weight thing. If your weight is affecting your self esteem so badly that you resort to using other people's pictures...then maybe its time you stopped worrying about finding a date...and get up off your butt....walk away from the keyboard...and do something about it. Don't ever sacrifice your integrity to find a man.

JustCallMeAmy

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So I had a date tonight.... Posted: 5/17/2009 10:27:00 PM
I sent him an email thanking him and letting him know I really enjoyed it. He doesn't text...I kind of like that about him. And I know it hasn't been long...but the "I'll call you" thing kind of made me wonder.

JustCallMeAmy

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So I had a date tonight.... Posted: 5/17/2009 9:22:40 PM
My stepdaughter from my late husband has been staying with me since leaving her husband....and when I got home, I told her about my "date"....and she said to drive all that way he either thinks I'm something special....or he's desperate. LOL

JustCallMeAmy

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So I had a date tonight.... Posted: 5/17/2009 9:14:30 PM
I met this other guy on another site. He initiated contacted....and was always complimenting me. So we were supposed to meet last weekend, but I cancelled on him. So we met tonight. He made the trip...about 100 miles to meet me. We met at the local Walmart....then went to get something to eat and then to see the movie Star Trek. I thought the date went well. Dinner was good....easy conversation. We went to dinner and the movies in his truck and left my car at walmart. The movie was good....he held my hand a little or would put his hand on my knee. So after it was over....he took me back to my car....and was going to park near it....but couldnt. So he gave me a hug....and then he said those horrible words...."I'll give you a call and maybe we can do this again sometime" My phone isnt going to ring is it?

justcallmeamy

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PLAYERS - UNDERSTOOD Posted: 5/3/2009 12:48:36 AM
Well thanks for clearing that up for me, OP! Honestly, I would rather be alone...then just "make do" with whatever comes along. Get a cat for companionship and a vibrator, OP...and wait for the right one!

justcallmeamy

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When women are mysterious Posted: 5/2/2009 11:29:30 PM
Me thinks your coworker was on another dating site at one time. One where they have silly little flirts like "Your profile intrigued me". I used to get those all the time...and would laugh because they couldn't tell me what was so intriguing. I also consider myself an open book to some extent. That extent being, if you ask me, I'll tell you...but might not bring up certain subjects voluntarily. Not because I have secrets or something to hide, or even that it makes me uncomfortable to talk about...but because, in my experience, when I talk about those things, I think the other person feels uncomfortable.

justcallmeamy

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An ex boyfriend asked you to do him a favor Posted: 5/1/2009 9:37:49 PM
I've called my ex for favors. One afternoon, my car wouldn't start...I called him. I had a leaky pipe...I called him. It's not about sex...or being selfish or heartless. It's knowing that Ieeded help and asking him. He could have told me no...but he didn't. And if he called me cause he needed something, I'd help him if I could.

justcallmeamy

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im so confused Posted: 4/30/2009 10:30:50 PM
Maybe because you're still some other man's wife... You should be happy about it though...if his friends and coworkers dont know you, they wont accidentally stumble across your profile and tell him that you are still looking.

justcallmeamy

Joined: 3/12/2007

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Only leftovers? Posted: 4/28/2009 12:30:17 PM
So you're saying those turkey sandwichs you eat for a week after Thanksgiving don't taste as good because they're leftovers? I'm sorry but if you're friend had said that to me, I would have replied with... "Honey, YOU might be a leftover...but I'm the appetizer, main course and dessert"

justcallmeamy

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how many MEN like goodie- goodie women-aka PRUDES Posted: 4/28/2009 12:14:48 PM
I'm not a negative person...I can find the humor in every situation. But life happens and we can't be Pollyanna every day. Friensdship is about being there for the positive as well as the negative...and those that just want to be there for the positive, I wouldn't want them as a friend. I don't see how being a goody goody makes somebody a prude. For being such a positive person, like you claim to be, you sure do sound judgemental.

justcallmeamy

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Why wont he call part 2 Posted: 4/26/2009 10:21:55 PM
Do you REALLY want to pester this guy until you're sharing space in the freezer with pork chops, liver, and hamburger? Do you HAVE an off switch? We haven't heard whether or not he's a vegatarian. I think she's going to keep us in suspense till Part 3!

justcallmeamy

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Why wont he call part 2 Posted: 4/26/2009 10:10:01 PM
You seem too eager. He mentions his place and you decide to go see it right then and return to the club. I'm sorry but thats just weird. Was it everything you hoped it would be? Are you upset that he was the perfect gentleman? Why didn't you just plant one on him...because its painfully obvious that this man doesn't know you're interested. Seriously, I'm trying to figure out why you're so hung up on this man. Actions speak louder than words...and his actions have been muted. He's stringing you along...why are you putting up with it?

justcallmeamy

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Just wondering if its a guy thing ANAL sex Posted: 4/26/2009 12:44:28 AM
How do you get him to stop asking? Next time he asks, pull out the biggest dildo you can find...and say "on one condition, when were done, I get to stick this in your @ss"

justcallmeamy

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Guys, whats up with this?? Posted: 4/26/2009 12:07:34 AM
This line concerns me... From these conversations I can tell he has what i want. Do you mean "he is"? Has and is change the meaning of that quote completely. He has what I want makes you sound like a gold digger after his house, car and boat. I'm thinkining you meant he is what you want. And thats scarey too! You dont know that! People lie...and its not hard when you're just words on a screen or a voice on the phone. You won't know what he is or isn't till you meet face to face...and then some. Relax. Remember that actions speak louder then words. If he's really interested, he will not only tell you but show you. Good luck!

justcallmeamy

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Did I owe him more than what I did? Posted: 4/25/2009 9:36:19 PM
Some men are just crazy. You did nothing wrong. I had this guy...after a few emails, we decided to move to texting. Shortly after getting my cell number, it starts going crazy. he sent me 12 texts in a matter of minutes. I was busy so didnt reply back right away....so he resent every one of those texts. This ticked me off. So I chose just not to reply this time. So he sends another one saying I was rude for not replying. Then another one saying he was wasting his time and it was my loss. The next day I get one saying Hello Beautiful. Like the rest of it was never said. Nuts!!!

justcallmeamy

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just friends Posted: 4/25/2009 2:11:28 AM
How did you finally find out about the four marriages? Was it a lie by ommission or an outright lie? I know that a lie is a lie. But some men and women are open books when it comes to discussing their pasts...and some divulge information on a need to know basis. If you specifically asked him about his past and he gave you wrong information and intentionally misled you....I'd run the other way. But if you're upset because since you never asked and he never freely divulged the information, I'd start asking specific questions about each failed marriage. I guess what I'm saying is you can't really condemn someone for keeping those skeletons locked away in the closet until you can honestly say all of your closet are skeleton free. Everyone has things in their pasts that dont make us look good. Our pasts don't define us. Just stay away from that alter for awhile!

justcallmeamy

Joined: 3/12/2007

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married bunches Posted: 4/21/2009 11:54:10 PM
I think you need to find out why all of those marriages failed....before you do anything! Was he cheating? Abusive? Or just married for the wrong reasons?

justcallmeamy

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Are some men really this clueless.... Posted: 4/21/2009 11:20:31 PM
So I met a man on another site a few weeks ago. After many emails, texts, and phone calls, we agreed to meet...tomorrow! I live in a small town and not much to do around here...so I agreed to drive down to Tally to meet him. It's about an hours drive and the only thing that worried me is my tendency to get lost. GPS systems were invented for people like me, but unfortunately, the only one I own is built into my cell phone. So anyways, when I got home this evening, he sent me a text asking if I was ready for my trip. I replied with yes...but would need the address of where we were meeting so my cell could tell me how to get there. He replies with a street address. Until this point, I left the details up to him because he is more familiar with the area. So I asked him where this was. He replied with near the railroad tracks. I said we're meeting at some railroad tracks? He said No, at his sons house. I replied with Ummmm I dont think so. And he said Why? I told him exactly why and havent heard from him. I'm thinking my reply offended him...but I lack tact sometimes! But did I really need to tell him how dangerous it could be for me travelling to a city I'm not familiar with to meet someone for the first time? Are men really this clueless? Should I have made him come to me?

justcallmeamy

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Why would he say this and not know why?? Posted: 4/21/2009 9:57:14 PM
It was one weekend!!! I'm sure there are lots of men out there that are just as sweet, caring and share a lot of interests with you...so stop worrying about this one man that you spent one weekend with and get out there and find them!!!

justcallmeamy

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She says cant find phone charger but... Posted: 4/16/2009 11:51:28 PM
She could, like most people have a car charger and when she realized she lost the wall charger, charged it in her car. Or in that two hours, she could have went to her local Walmarts and picked up a replacement. She could have found her charger. She could have lied. Why not just ask her?

justcallmeamy

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Was This man telling me lies? Posted: 4/16/2009 10:33:25 PM
You have no right snooping in his phone. There might be a simple explanation for what you found...but if you ask him, he'll know you were snooping. So you are forced to come to your own conclusions. My ex did that to me. For months he thought I was cheating on him because of a text message giving me somebody's number...an outgoing call where I had called this number...and an incoming call where this number had called me back. Had he asked me about it, he would have discovered it was a simple work related thing. But he never did. So I never knew he even snooped till he tried justifying his cheating with my supposed cheating and admitted he snooped. He needs to spend time with his kids...deal with it, princess or date men without children. Any man that would choose a woman over his own children isnt really a man you'd want!

justcallmeamy

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why do guys want 3'somes? Posted: 4/16/2009 12:05:37 PM
My guess is he thinks you and your roommate do more then just live at the same place. And he's hoping you'll let him play too!

justcallmeamy

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Would it bother you if a woman never iniated sex?? Posted: 4/16/2009 11:27:57 AM
It's fun! You really should try it. You don't have to come right out and ask him if he'd like to have sex...just grab his hand and lead him to the bedroom. He'll get the idea!

justcallmeamy

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Poll: How do you feel about nonromantic messages? Posted: 4/16/2009 11:07:12 AM
Oh dear! I'm supposed to write romantic messages to men I haven't met yet?????? So that's what I'm doing wrong! How the heck am I supposed to do that? "I love gazing into your eyes...especially when I enlarge your picture" "I have your picture set as my wallpaper...it's so cute when I catch you looking at me from across the room" "I love the way your fingers carress the keyboard when we're in IM"

justcallmeamy

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What size is considered a BBW? Posted: 4/16/2009 10:23:57 AM
Thin = Size 10 or lower. Athletic = Size 10 or lower and involved in regular exercise. Average = Size 12 - 14 A few extra pounds = Size 16-18 BBW = Size 20+ At what height? I'm 5'7....and wear a size 10. In some clothes, a size 8. And I wouldn't call myself thin. I have a few extra pounds checked on my profile. And the more I read these BBW/fluffy threads...the more convinced I am that I'm one of them.

justcallmeamy

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too good to be true? Posted: 4/12/2009 11:55:04 PM
Cast your line back into the pond and keep fishing. If he's interested, he'll swim your way again...but in the meantime, you shouldnt stop meeting new people! And please get rid of that line on your profile about wanting a man to take in you and your kids and make you feel welcome!

justcallmeamy

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Cell phones and sex? Posted: 4/11/2009 1:41:21 AM
Wow! I don't think I understand what the reason for the question is. I think its all pretty clear. Well to everybody but you! He treated you like shit and thats okay with you? Is the sex really that good that you would let someone disrespect you like that? If that were me, I probably would have taken the phone and shoved it somewhere so he would get f%#%ed in more ways then one! Or is this, like your headline , a pathetic attempt for attention? Not all attention is good!

justcallmeamy

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Maybe you can help... Posted: 4/10/2009 4:11:28 AM
No matter how many times I rewrite my profile, to me, it always sounds dumb. Is it too long? Not enough info? Does it sound like every other profile out there? Can you guys help me? Thanks! Amy

justcallmeamy

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Girly Home Decor Posted: 4/10/2009 2:51:44 AM
And I like toweling my man bits with a great big kitten-soft towel. The floral scent afterward.. Well, just depends on if there is a need for that particular area to be smelling nicer than normal. I think I would be a little worried if a man smelled like he was rolling around in a flowerbed.

justcallmeamy

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Did he, or didn't he? Posted: 4/7/2009 12:04:41 AM
I didn't say what she should say to him when he calls...thats up to her. I just don't think she should go chasing after him declaring her feelings either. If he gave a toot about her feelings, casual relationship or not, the little bar scene never would have occurred. At least not in front of her!

justcallmeamy

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What would you do to date Posted: 4/6/2009 11:33:32 PM
I dragged my late husband out at four in the morning the day afte Thanksgiving to go shopping right after we got together. Crazy crowds...a long day...and horrible traffic. He never muttered the first complaint. So a month later, I dragged him out shopping on Christmas Eve. Again, he never complained. I knew then he was a keeper!

justcallmeamy

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Did he, or didn't he? Posted: 4/6/2009 11:09:52 PM
I wouldn't call or text him...infact the next time he was at your club I'd treat him like any other drunk guy there. Cause he'll call....they always do.

justcallmeamy

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I don't understand was this the big blow off Posted: 4/6/2009 10:50:57 PM
Your friends dont want to see you hurt...thats understandable. But have they ever actually met this guy? My friends and family dont want to see me hurt either but I dont run around telling innocent men "my friends think you are going to hurt me". I'm a big girl...I can make decisions for myself...if I get hurt, I learn from it and move on. No big deal. Dont you think at the age of 49 its time to grow up and think for yourself??? And apparantly you've made some bad decisions when it comes to men. But he isn't a man from your past...and you or your friends can't make him pay for whatever those men did. It isn't fair to him. I dont blame him for bailing on you. You messed up. And the fact that he took the time to write you an email speaks volumes about his character. And your behavior...your not in high school anymore, princess...speaks volumes about yours!

justcallmeamy

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How do I win a guy's heart? Posted: 4/6/2009 10:31:17 PM
You make no mention of engaging in the conversation yourself. According to you, they talk and you listen. They tell you to call and you do. But yet YOU get bored! What do you bring to the conversation? If somebody called me just to hear me do all the talking...I'd stop answering my phone too...and just talk to my dogs if I felt like talking. At least they do that cute little head to one side thing every once in awhile!

justcallmeamy

Joined: 3/12/2007

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Date advice for a newbie Posted: 4/6/2009 5:19:23 AM
Trust your instincts. If something about the guy is making you leary...don't chalk it up to just being nervous. If he seems too good to be true...then he is probably feeding you a bunch of lies. Woman's intuition is a powerful thing...use yours!

justcallmeamy

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Way do guys say they want more when all they really want is sex? Posted: 4/6/2009 2:04:35 AM
Because if he told you that was all he was after, you wouldn't give him the time of day! It's not rocket science!

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