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Joined: 1/30/2005

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Always getting ur the sweetest guy, which always ends up in friend mode Posted: 6/12/2005 10:00:25 PM
I am a very outgoing person and people always tell me I am really easy to talk to, fun to hang out with, etc. I always become the "good/great friend" or the cool guy to hang out with but relationships never seem to pan out, I think I am doing something wrong, it would be too easy to blame it completely on my disability (even though sometimes thats clearly the case) I just think I am missing something that is needed to take the next step. any advice would be greatly appreciated thx for reading my thread

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a little advice/ differrent veiwpoints could always help Posted: 6/12/2005 9:32:25 PM
I see you have your hands full with a ton of replies but if you have time I would appreciate if you could review my profile if you cant I understand u are busy thanx very much for your time wuzzi23

Joined: 1/30/2005

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a little advice/ differrent veiwpoints could always help Posted: 6/12/2005 9:32:20 PM
I see you have your hands full with a ton of replies but if you have time I would appreciate if you could review my profile if you cant I understand u are busy thanx very much for your time wuzzi23

Joined: 1/30/2005

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a little advice/ differrent veiwpoints could always help Posted: 6/12/2005 9:32:10 PM
I see you have your hands full with a ton of replies but if you have time I would appreciate if you could review my profile if you cant I understand u are busy thanx very much for your time wuzzi23

Joined: 1/30/2005

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how to ask out a good friend Posted: 2/2/2005 9:18:03 PM
I have been going to school with this girl I have known for many years, we have hung out at parties and things all through highschool. Now that we started University together we have been spending more time together carpooling and hanging out. The problem is I think she is the sweetest women I know we have lived down the street from one another all our lives and now that we are getting more exposure to each other I think I wanna ask her out. However there are three concerns bothering me #1 is we have been good friends for many yr. (hung out etc. no the family) and I dont wanna complicate things if shes not on the same page. #2 I am midly disabled and if you were to see/ and hang around with this girl she could date someone so much better I am afraid that If I ask her out and she isn't interested she would still feel obligated to say yes, also I would be nervous about holding up my end of the relationship (physically) b/c no one wants a boyfriend that needs a hand to get up the steps when there are other guys out there. #3 Since the dating scene is a mystery to me I might be missing alot of signals and such and I am pretty inexperienced in all aspects of dating (could this play a factor) I am a mess, all I know is I love this girl very much (I think about her all the time) and I need some advice on how to proceed. Any advice positive or negative would be greatly appreciated. Help PLEASE

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Disabilities and dating.... Posted: 1/30/2005 8:32:25 PM
I here you man listen I am a guy with a disability and I know where she is coming from its a hard path to travel (wether on foot or with wheels) and she just isnt in tun with herself, but to be totally honest neither am I. I have thought about dating alot but I don't want to put a girl in the position where she cant say no (to be nice) its a tough spot and I am just keeping my eye out to see what I can do. I ahve to say I have lots of experience being a good friend but when it comes to a physical relationship I want to make sure that whoever I am with can have as much fun as me because being a burden on my partner would be the worst. anyway I figuered I would toss in my two sense. Ps- if anyone in the windsor ontario area wants to hang out, I would be glad to here from you.

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