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Joined: 3/14/2007

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Would you date someone shorter than you? Posted: 3/30/2007 6:17:39 PM
I'm harsh. No. I'm a tall girl. I like to look up to my significant other. It's an outdated concept, I know, but it makes me feel safe and protected. It's a mind set.

Joined: 3/14/2007

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How does someone say they love you and miss you, three weeks later starts seeing someone else? Posted: 3/30/2007 6:14:32 PM
It's funny, but my ex did something along those lines. The thing that I had to realize, is that he had been distancing himself from me for a long time, and I chose not to notice. I'm not in any way accepting responsibility for his actions, but I have to realize that I was drifting in a relationship that I thought was perfect, while all the time I missed the signs of imperfection. And I don't mean leaving the toilet seat up. So, in my particular situation, he had actually been gradually removing himself from the relationship for a while, and the ending that I thought was abrupt really wasn't. The fact that he started seeing someone else three weeks out (cause yes, mine did that too) drove home the fact that his feelings had changed. He was just to scared to say anything. He didn't want to HURT me. Yeah, it was selfish, egocentric, and it almost destroyed me emotionally. Now, however, I like to believe that he is enjoying what he threw me over for, because honestly, those two deserve each other.

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