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Joined: 3/16/2007

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Do guys get the wrong idea when a woman lives on her own? Posted: 10/19/2007 12:16:18 PM
What about talking about the movie(s) that you just watched and just having a good time. Here is the way that I see it: If a girl has sex with you the first time then I guess I have a question as to why. That question would be this: How do you know if you ever get into a bad argument or fight or on a break or whatever that they aren't gonna do that to you once you are involved? That brings up another topic: What is their definition of involvement? I have found in my experience that it can and does vary depending on the whether you are dating (???) a Lady/Woman or female/girl. That leads to yet another question: What is the difference between the TWO? That's my reply Take Care and God Bless Peace

Joined: 3/16/2007

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why would he call now? Posted: 5/3/2007 5:20:48 PM
I just went through the same thing! Believe me I understand, but you will make it through the woods but in order to do so; you have to get into the forest so you can see the forest through the trees (the Big picture). I don't know much about your sitn. yet but I can tell you that things Do and Will get better for you AND you will be stronger and happier with yourself after it's all said and done!! it may take a while but not that long for ya!! Hopefully this helps ya a bit! If ya wnat to talk I am here for ya bud! TC and GB lion

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What do you think of a peron committing suicide over a broken heart?? Posted: 4/24/2007 4:52:14 PM
i CAN TELL you from experience several times over that when it comes to those thoughts; that means you Sonshine is Right around the corner and that which is trying to stop you knows it and is pulling out the big guns and then bam you've been shot! Knocked down, BUT NOW!!!! it's up to you to get back up bec. that was their Best shot and it JUST WASN"T GOOD ENOUGH! WHy? Bec. you are STILL HERE!! Proof Positive I rest my case. Keep that Attitude and you WILL BE JUST FINE!! You'll actually be better bec. you will see yourself starting to Shine!! That spring in your step will start to come back until BAM you're jumping for Joy and ya don't even know why! Yeah you do Bec. You ARE STILL ALIVE!!! It's a choice but Do Not be Deceived!! Fight it and sending it packin' back to mama whenever ya get those thoughts again is my advice or my take on it!!

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Is There a Man Out There That Can Give Me Advice?rE Posted: 4/24/2007 4:41:12 PM
No you are not crazy at all for thinking that. You should listen to your instincts/gut feeling on this one. It's just not right. I mean even your crutches you have to get rid of sometimes right?!! Well it's sounds as if that's what you are to him is a big crutch. If he really wanted to get the bus. going he would let you in on every detail. Esp. after you are footing his bill(s ). As far as the movie thing: Yes and No bec. my ex played that one on me until I tried it one night with some friends and lo and behold there she was on a date. How do I know bec. I acted like nothing was going on and she was very nervous! To make a long story short: it Never happened again bec. I didn't let it. Sometimes you got to let things go so they can learn to earn you back or earn you in hte first place. It also teaches you a lesson in honesty: How to tell if and when they are or not!!! Don't fret just listen to your instincts and in this instance they won't let ya down bec. it seems as if "the writing's on the wall." Email if ya like and I'd be happy to talk about it with ya if ya need someone to talk to. I am a firm Believer in: You can NEVER have too many friends. However, I AM talking about Real, True friends. It makes a great network. Think of it this way: S.I.N.! STRENGTH IN NUMBERS!! iw

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Is anyone else now just at the point where they are flat out ticked off?? Posted: 4/23/2007 8:45:23 AM
aLL i CAN SAY IT amen!!

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How does someone say they love you and miss you, three weeks later starts seeing someone else? Posted: 4/18/2007 8:45:45 AM
Hey I just ran across this from a friend of mine that is going through some marital problems. How ironic huh? Anyway,, I just thought you might be able to get something o/o it for your sitn.: Here it is: Forgiveness Is Not Relieving the Other Person of Responsibility Day 298 Forgiving someone does not mean you are letting that person off the hook. The wrongs that have been done to you and to your children need to be righted, but it is not your responsibility to bring that about. God is a just and righteous judge. He is the only one who can judge and condemn a person for an unrepentant heart. This is not your job and should not be your job. Doug Easterday explains what your responsibility is in forgiveness: "Forgiveness is getting your heart right with God. The people who have wronged you are still responsible before God for what they've done. You're not alleviating them of their responsibility. You're simply transferring it to God where it actually belongs. If you require them to answer to you, you have just the same amount of problems they do." Harold Graham shares how his pastor once explained forgiveness: "When you forgive, it seems like you're taking that person off the hook. But what you're really doing is taking him or her off your hook and allowing God to put that person on His hook. As long as you have that person on your hook, you block God from that person and you also block God from you." Your job is to be right with God, and not seek vengeance or retribution, or hold on to blame. You must let go of that person's wrongdoing so you can be right with the Lord. "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven" (Luke 6:37). Take Good Care Ciao

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How does someone say they love you and miss you, three weeks later starts seeing someone else? Posted: 4/18/2007 7:54:11 AM
Hey monkeygirl! That was hilarious! I never have seen the drinking face like that. Absolutely hilarious! I am glad to see others caring for others on this site. That is another reason why I like it so much. POF Rocks! Becca: Here's a mssg for ya! You are better than that and you deserve someone way better than that! PERIOD!! Peace Ciao li

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How does someone say they love you and miss you, three weeks later starts seeing someone else? Posted: 4/18/2007 6:57:06 AM
Newsflash for ya Sweetie! It's women with the same problem too. I have dealing with it over 2 yrs now! I had to let it go because otherwise you are just enabling them. See if they really Love you like they say: then they will change and be willing to change. BUT you have to stand your ground bec. as long as you enable them; they will reel you in (for us guys it goes somehtin' like this: "Boy that woman sure does have ya by the d ki chain huh?!" Anyways, they will walk all over you like a doormat. You are better than that and you deserve more in life. I am open to chat with anyone bec. I realized that I was her enabler. She is gone now but she will be on the road to recovery soon. People like that will not accept Accountability for what they say and do! Bec. when they do it means they have to admit guilt. I would like to help you with your situation if you like. So if you would tell me about it maybe I can help. I will also give ya my pers. e-mail if ya like. all ya have to do is ask. Hopefully this has helped you out some.! A Brother In Arms lion

Joined: 3/16/2007

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Ever had the feeling you are being lied to? were you right? Posted: 3/25/2007 6:55:23 PM
Yes and it happened several times! It was about unfaithfulness and it was with several people! I was mad! You gotta understand something though; a rel. is based on trust and honesty. If there isn't that then it will disolve. Maybe slowly or maybe quickly, but nonetheless it will wither and ide idf not changed. A lot of times you can't change a leopard's spots! Hopefully that helped you out some!

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