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 Author Thread: A question for the bisexual girls...
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
A question for the bisexual girls...
Posted: 7/10/2007 8:32:15 PM

1) Have you ever been part of a triple? How was it?

I was in a triple for close to a year. We share a house, bed (king size) and parenting responsibilites.


2) Can you imagine being in a happy triple?

Of course I can. For the most part it was a good experiance.


3) Do you know of anyone triples? Do you know of any that have lasted?

I'm the only triple I know.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 105 (view)
 
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 7/10/2007 8:17:09 PM
u-nme,

The ppl I know who are into this type of relationship are lieing to one another - they are married or couples and have profest 'honesty' to one another and yet I know for a fact that there are extra activities going on.


I have to admit that this does happend, but it's an exeption and not the rule. Most people that get involed in alernative kinks develop a greater sense of communication , love and loyalty. It's becaue the act alone forces the communication. There would be no way that anything would happen if I didn't wan it tooo and visa versa.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
The roles have reversed!
Posted: 7/8/2007 8:08:45 PM

Yeah, I agree. What about if it went completely reversed. That might not be too bad of a gig really. Imagine, I stay home for my rich sugarmommie. I'll keep that house clean and cook her awesome healthy dishes when she comes home. I'll have that bath at the perfect temperature filled with bubbles and I always be ready to have sex with her for as long as she can take it. The next morning I would have her breakfast made and I would gently slap her behind as she went out the door to take on the world and bring home the paychecks. In between my chores of the day I would hang out with the rest of the guys in our neighborhood, all stay at home guys. We would form a club and toast a few bruskies back each day before the ladies were back. Ahhh...what a life!


Now that's what I'm talking about... lol. I have always said I'd make a damb good husband. Bring home the bacon, take care of my "wife", spoil my "wife" rotten, do all the yard work, take out the garbage, fix things around the house. I could soooo do all that. I just need to find that good "wife" to take care of the home. That would be my ultimate fantasy... ooo that and that on demand sex thing that you mentioned, I really like the sounds of that too. lol
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 96 (view)
 
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 6/22/2007 5:50:58 AM
U-nme, I'm glad that you can see you're own biases for what they trully are. Your own thoughts and opions reflecting on what morals you are placing on others.

I think that if there are consulting adults involved, who is to say if it is right or wrong. It might be wrong for you but not for others.

As someone that has had personal experiance with mmf/ffm/ffffffff/ffmm/fmfm I think that I can attest to the fact that it is possible to have a loving relationship with one person, someone that you want to be with for the rest of your life, and to have affectionate relationships with others that you want to play with in the security of an extention of your core relationship, as well as/ and not to disenclude the relationships that are for the pleasure of the moment. In a secure, mature relationship these other relationships wont disengrate the core relationship as long as honest communication is made a key factor.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Dedicated to those born 1930-1982!
Posted: 6/3/2007 8:07:14 AM
I remember when 50 cents gave me a choice of either buying a pop or going to visit my grandmother. Now I'm lucky if it will give me a sucker.

I also remeber my first bike, it had a basket, streamers, a banana seat (how I miss those) and a peddle that wouldn't stay on and I wouldn't trade that bike in for the world. Now a days, things are more disposible and children are not given the oportunity to learn the value of a dollar. It's cheaper to replace an item then to fix it.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 75 (view)
 
So what's your deal-breaker?
Posted: 6/2/2007 6:55:58 PM

But honestly I think the biggest deal breaker is when you realize that the person isnt able to exhist on thier own and are looking for someone to fix thier troubles instead of celebrate thier achievements.


I can totally relate to this statement. The way I look at it is sometimes the person is addicted to crisis, and no matter what you attempt to do for them they will sabatoge it for their additction. So, yes, this is a deal breaker for me too. My partner in life must be able to celebrate themselves in order to celebrate with me.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Compatibility Matching now Available
Posted: 5/20/2007 8:22:17 AM
well it's still fairly new, why not make the first move your self and contact them. Oviously some of the people on there have something in common with you. ;) Be brave.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
words that annoy...
Posted: 4/5/2007 5:28:10 AM
"I love you" when he has only known you for a week.

Why can't people mean what they say and say what they mean... for instance instead of saying "I love you" why not I appriciate, you make me laugh, thank you ect. I mean it has become where we are living in a romantic world when it is more difficult to say "I trust you" over "I Love You." Yest everyone knows that trust is the foundation for love. This means it has to be part of the feeling of the all mighty Love. I think respect, attraction, and a general desire to nurture the object of the affection has a part in it as well. I feel that we are living in a world where it is "love" is means to an end that we are all in a hurry to meet. Enjoy the journey, it's worth the wait...

and if that guy that loved me just after a couple of days of knowing me reads this.... see I told you so. lol. You can't love someone you don't even know.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
North Bay's Lucky 13 Party
Posted: 3/29/2007 6:10:31 AM
Thanks for the nudge... I didn't see the sign up sheet for this event... I was just going to show up. I'm going to see if I can't convience others to come out with me to this event as well.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Odds on Viewed Me
Posted: 3/25/2007 8:40:58 AM
I check out the viewed me section and I find that my "odds" aren't that good. But I like it that way. I'm a very choosey girl. The guys that are passing me up, I would probably do the same, for one reason or another. The way I look at is if a guy is too shy to msg me when he has viewed me, then he would definately be to shy to meet me. That's just a waste of time, at least for me. Happy trolling people.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
North Bay Events?
Posted: 3/24/2007 1:14:53 PM
ok guys, I know there are plenty of North Bay Fish out there that want to meet and greet. So far I've seen dances at the voyager and even a bowling night, but I don't know if these are regular events or spontanious. I'd like to know if anyone is running events of this nature on a more permanent basis, and if not could we? I'd like to see a night of biliards, something that is stressless, and people can consintrate on the game rather then comming up with something witty to say to their neighbour.

anyone else interested?
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
How do you start/enjoy your weekend mornings?????
Posted: 3/24/2007 12:59:09 PM

i am doing laundry and cleaning the house today like any good man should.


The trouble is finding a good man....

I woke up leseurly this morning, did my house work then relaxed to a pot of tea and the computer, I like surfing over the tv. But the relaxing has to end some time, and for me it's in a couple of hours, I've got people (about 20) comming over and I'm glad that it's here, but it's a lot of work to prepare. Wish me luck, maybe I'll get to relax all day tomorrow... too bad there wasn't foot ball to watch.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Second Date Who makes it?
Posted: 3/24/2007 8:32:42 AM

If you are worth it......me


If I'm worth it...........you....


See what happens in the middle...


I wish everyone lived by this principle, it's a commensense approach to dealing with people.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 142 (view)
 
Do you belive in ghosts and spirits........
Posted: 3/23/2007 2:35:14 PM

And what gets a soul,just humans?Or do dogs cats birds worms fish etc etc have them as well,and where do they go when they die,a "special heaven or hell" for animals or is it one place where every soul of every being goes.??


I've been a bit of a ghost buster growing up, not wanting have anything around me that wasn't "normal". That perception changed once I had a spirit acutally save me from an accedant. So once I started developing a respectful relationship with spirits I started seeing others, like cats, dogs and the odd the bird. I think you just have to open yourself up to them and they will come, it's just a matter of you wanting it. There are a lot of spirits that wont show themselves to humans because they are afraid of scaring us. But as far as I know, they are here to tie up some loose ends until it's time to move on.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Drum Circle
Posted: 3/23/2007 1:24:22 PM
I would love to be there, even if it's just to supply my own groove, my hips hold their own rythm, but I'd need to know when and where. Keep me informed.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
Shoving religion down my throat!! - Literally
Posted: 3/22/2007 6:06:10 PM

Golden apples could you please re-phrase your sentence. I dont want to jump the gun and say anything if I dont completely understand what you are saying. Im a Gnostic Christian by the way. Its a far cry from the normalized Christianity that you usually see.


I'm not sure which sentence you'd like clarification or rewording on. I wrote a few.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Shoving religion down my throat!! - Literally
Posted: 3/21/2007 6:00:37 PM

Anyone with God in their lives should be able to understand that we are all under one God, and who cares wether or not they are "shoving" religion down your throat. I think the person had good intention about getting the message out about the fact that there is a God, and there is more to life then what meets the eye


As a pagan that celebrates the glory of the Goddess, I think that this statement is very exclusive in nature. What you are saying is that those that have the Goddess in their life or other God besides the one depicted by Monothesim is that they are made to feel other then "normal". This is why it is so good to be Canadian, as a country we don't allow politics and religion to share the same bed, unlike our southern neighbours who use the bible still to pass laws. I find it unethical to bring religion of anysort in the form of a coupon as well as any political adgenda. I think this was done in poor taste.

I will not presume to tell you what you should do about the crackers, but this does bring up an interesting debate, is it ok to sell religion and are we not doing that already.?
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
What should a girl wear on the first date
Posted: 3/19/2007 8:32:22 PM
I think a woman should wear whatever reflects the power that is inside of her. If her power comes from frills and flowers, then wear it. If a woman feels power in jeans and a t-shirt then she should wear it proudly. But the common response would be resonating in what I'm suggesting here, it should be what is good and comfortable for her because portraying something else is false advertisment.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Who are your Heroes?
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:54:04 PM
My real life hero would be my mother. She was a teen age mom in the early 70's and still raised me and my sister with high morals and independance.

My mythical hero would be the Spartan Queen durring the time of the Persian invasion.

My commic book hero would be Cheetarah from Thunder Cats

My reluctant hero would be single parents in general that sacrifice their own lives to better their children. They understand that it is a thankless job, and their only reward is the smile on their childrens faces, and thats all they want in return. That is the ultimate reluctant hero.
 GoldenApples
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
BBW AND single mom... so hard.
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:36:20 PM
Peanut, I will not attempt to give you advice, but I do have a question for you.... It has been proven on this forum that there are some great guys that would welcome not only a BBW but also a single mom, what is it that you are trying to work out for yourself to worry about being single for only 5 months? It almost looks like you are using your size and status as an excuse for not meeting someone... what about just taking time for yourself? Only you know what is best for you, I'm just curious.

These questions are brought to you by a strong, independant, Hot, BBW single mom
 
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