in order to get any response on here you have to wait for the woman to contact you, and that only happens when you've got a "hot" profile photo or the girl is just desperate.
Really? My friends and I often email men. None of us have a really "hot" profile photo, and none of us are desparate. Is this sentiment shared by most men here: women who take the initiative to make first contact are desparate if they're not hot?
Why don't more women (the average sort without a hot profile shot and who isn't desparate) email men? Seems straightforward to me: See someone's profile you like, send an email. Why sit around waiting for a man to come calling???