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are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/14/2009 10:17:51 AM
and some women rock! Wear a jimmy and problem solved. For how many generations did men get off the hook by saying it's not my kid? DNA testing is a wonderful thing!! Maury..... Maury... Maury!! For those people that use their children to hurt the other...shame on your low life azz's ...grrr! If you can't put the best interest of your child first then you don't deserve to have them.

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I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 5:07:03 PM
I checked the OP's history.. I found this post from WAY back .. 10/23/2009 OP, I'll warn ya, you will get both sides of opinions on this. Some people think nothing of it, while others think it's a big deal. I had a similar situation with someone I was dating a while back, I had dated him about 4 months, he had asked me to be exclusive. I hide my profile and quit logging on. I got an email from an old friend so I logged on to check it and low and behold, there's my BF online! So, I started watching every few days and discovered he was getting on there regularly. I asked him about it and he said he was just looking for friends, posted on here about it and got every kind of opinion imaginable. But one poster said something that really made sense to me...She said "If you got an email from him and he said hi, I have a girlfriend and would just like to be your friend", would you have any interest in getting to know this man? That kind of answered the question for me. Joke ended up being on him. I broke it off, he still wants us to get together, as friends, because he's never found anyone else! Oh well, that's the price you pay when you play!

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I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 4:51:58 PM
Sounds to me like the OP is the one that might be juggling men around here. Maybe a slight bit controlling? Why can't people have "friends" of the opposite sex again? Insecurity's????

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I don't care that he did, but WHY DID HE HAVE TO LIE? Posted: 11/13/2009 4:39:29 PM
Okay here is my take on this whole sorted deal....how many men actually get a reply to any mail that they timidly throw out there to Miss Random woman? Huh? What is that ?? Do I hear most of the disgruntled men of POF bellowing... NO REPLY NO REPLY ???!!! Never a fracking reply! He might enjoy the forum or you might be over reacting hard to say. But seems like a dandy time to communicate. Good luck!! PS <----Old fat and enjoys a free meal...

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Can you believe it ? Posted: 11/10/2009 8:20:30 AM
Free food and drinks? I am there! I have gone to many a holiday shindig with work mates. Of course ...dance on the tabletop or steal TP from the ladies room and stick it down your front just once. They never ask again.

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He lied about his age...only by two years....should i be concerned? Posted: 11/10/2009 8:13:55 AM
Only two years? Pffft I have been lying about my age for over thirty some years. When I was young I added a few years. Came in real handy when I got that fake I.D. Now my age is nunyo! But...... men should neva lie about that stuff. What gives??? It's evil I tellz ya! If you are an old geezer...deal!!!

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Is he stringing me along or is this goodbye? Or am I the ONE. Posted: 10/18/2009 12:58:09 PM
So Mr. Undecided got with the other woman.... and he thinks of pigeons because she shat upon on him. He wants you back because he doesn't want to be alone. And the ol' boy is a mess.... let him work on himself and get back to you in a year or two. Hopefully by then ..you will have a ood man who KNOWS what he wants and isn't afraid of a woman that treats him well!! Good luck and don't sit by your inbox waiting for that fathead because.... he is more than a piece short of a puzzle!!!

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Girlfriend or best friend??? Posted: 9/14/2009 6:26:06 AM
^ Yo Buddy... stay with the bird in the hand until you are firmly in the bush of the bird at work. Then leave the bird at home...she will be devastated but oh well she will take you back when the "friend" dumps you because you are lacking in character.

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DAILY QUOTES Posted: 9/1/2009 4:40:18 PM
.................“Men are like pumpkins. It seems like all the good ones are either taken or they've had everything scraped out of their heads with a spoon.”.......................................

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/17/2009 6:52:51 PM
From the initial contact, to dating, to intercourse, to marriage, our society seems to have designed things so that it's all up to the man. Is that fair? Nah! Sooo you want the woman to be more aggressive do you? Not gonna happen.... why you ask??? WOMEN CAN'T HANDLE REJECTION that's why.

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Why we do the people we do! Posted: 8/17/2009 6:40:40 PM
Why the hell did I do the fatheads that I did? Eww my taste sucked booty. The mysterious fathead walked in. I saw him... he saw me. Thunder..... Lightning..... Earthquakes..... Mmm . . . Dizzy. Dizzy sizes it up! Life is never the same again. Ack!

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Does not want kids! Posted: 8/17/2009 6:26:54 PM
So yes not wanting children or not being able to have children does lower your options. Eh.. at her age I don't think so. She has most of the options and in the right places! wink I can't tell you how many times I have read young men whine I mean write.... " How come I can't find a woman sans ankle biters?"

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Should men pay half of the expense of women's birth control? Posted: 8/10/2009 9:42:40 AM
Seems to me it would be cheaper than eighteen years of child support. I never could understand those men who think that birth control is solely the responsibility of the woman. Fatheads anyway!

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Does she need a girlfriend? Posted: 8/8/2009 8:32:42 PM
Is this what you hear when she wants to "talk"............. Why don’t you stick your junk in a vice and I will turn the handle real slow until stuff explodes from your no no zone. Hey Mister Notalottacommunicato... communication is key to any relationship ....... she is just trying to draw close to you, HER LOVER . What you fail to realize is that a little chit chat about her day and her thoughts go a long way towards that sense of connection. You sound a little Vulcan to me. What? Woman are illogical ask any man. oh and for the record...men use roughly the same amount words per day.

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Is This A Deal Breaker? If Not, then what now? Posted: 7/27/2009 7:32:01 AM
Your boyfriend is gay. I said it! GAY! What the hell once a month? Even eighty year old geezers get it on more than that. Men are so good at turning things around aren't they? Now stop feeling insecure about your body!!! Love yourself first and then you will have a person in your life who loves you!!!! This fathead is not treating you with respect. I hope all works out for you.

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what should i do ??? Posted: 7/27/2009 7:05:26 AM
This @#$% is stringing you along. She has you on the back burner. Don't let her play with your heart. You deserve a lady that loves you as much as you love her. But...... if you are bound and determined to win this prize of a woman back, tell her that you are madly in love with another woman. That ought to get the heifer trotting right back.

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Housekeeping --- Does a messy place turn you off? Posted: 7/27/2009 6:52:52 AM
How you keep your home is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself, my house is clean on the outside. DON'T look in the closets. To me a filthy house is symtom of depression.

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Want to hear both sides of this one.... Posted: 7/26/2009 2:43:40 PM
What the hell are you thinking? Is he that great in the sack???? Is this the kind of example that you want to set for your Daughter? Hey I know in your part of the world good men are hard to find. But really ....there are so many men looking for a home around here give one of them a chance.. will ya????

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forumeer to forumeer Posted: 7/26/2009 2:34:11 PM
freakin' forum snobs . Of course I have never looked for men from my area. Gotta be bottom of the barrel. When I joined here I was the only one except that young cutie from the bad side of the state. Wonder what happened to him?? He had a Harley too!

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Is she crazy or am I reading more into it? Posted: 7/24/2009 8:23:56 AM
I need more info..more info I tell you! Have you had sexual relations with this woman ...did you jump the gun with this crazy chica? If you did...were you a show off ...did you make this crazy woman fall crazy in lust with your mad love making skills? And is she great looking??? Because if she is hawt you probably can overlook her smothering ways for a bit longer. Oh wait I just thought of another question. Do you feel that you are not worthy of all this crazy adoration?

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why hapily ever after will never come for some women. Posted: 7/24/2009 8:11:44 AM
dumbassed twenty somethings anyway. Here is another thing girls are taught from early childhood. If little Johnny pushes her down and skins her knees or pulls her hair and slugs her in the head.....people tell her that he likes her. I gave up believing in Prince Charming when I got my first gander at Ol'Prince Charles. shudder Bonnie my arse!

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Why does contact fade? Posted: 7/2/2009 12:09:22 PM
soooooo, that means from a lot of post i read , that i should not have sex with anyone , unless im dating them like for 6 months it takes about that long to establish a relationship ...good one.... No... no... noooo.... just make sure that they invest a little something something BEFORE you invest a little something something!

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Please clear this up for me. Posted: 7/2/2009 12:04:20 PM
Gawd, if you go snooping ...you will find something! Every great snoop knows that! Your girl got what she deserved...do you think she goes through your wallet when you are in the shower??? P.S. I have great legs!

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who recovers faster after a breakup men or women? Posted: 7/2/2009 11:58:48 AM
Women recover faster because ...most drag out the breakup and mourn the relationship while they are still involved. She believes him when he says "it will never happen again' "I will change" Then one day she wakes up and says.."I'm outta here" "I deserve better than this crap" and the poor man is left wondering why he never saw it coming? the End

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Why does contact fade? Posted: 7/2/2009 11:51:31 AM
^^^I think he might be a player! Op : plain and simple he got what he wanted. Now the men around here will tell you...give it up! But the reality is most women don't just do it to do it...we enjoy the emotional chit that goes with it!

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nosy boyfriends mother. Posted: 7/2/2009 11:44:05 AM
What do you expect? You are dating (if you wanna call it that) a man that lives with his Mommy. What the hell don't they have a basement for him to dwell in? She sounds like a nutcase and in my opinion the nut don't fall far from the bush!

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looking for mr right Posted: 6/29/2009 7:57:20 PM
Commonsens I love you. You know I found Mister Right two or three times. He IS out there. The problem is I found MR when I was married and my husband wouldn't let me date....not that marriage stopped him, mind you! I found MR again when I was twenty years older than he was....fun but a bummer. The last one didn't think I was Mrs. Right.... what the hell is up with that guy???

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looking for mr right Posted: 6/29/2009 5:49:20 PM
and for all you women that are so busy slamming men for cheating.... remember one thing. they are not cheating with other men! Shhh.....some of them are! But it turns their pickle green.

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Fellas, how would you honestly react to this? Posted: 6/29/2009 5:44:49 PM
I took a gander at your pics and I think maybe the Hulk there squeezed your fuzzy bits off. Geez work on those snappy comebacks! She probably topped the next five dollar foot long to come through her line. Hussy!

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looking for mr right Posted: 6/29/2009 5:27:29 PM
How do we now as women that we have found the right man to spend the rest of our lives with? You might find Mister right for YOU. But that rest of your lives bullpuckey? That's not gonna happen. Unless maybe they lose their penis or something. Ha! When we do find that right one and then we as women find out that everything that they told us was a lie. Right after they sleep with you! I also want to know how come the older men are not as mature as the younger men under 40 and they also want more out of life. Men mature? Get outta here!

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What goes through a girls mind when she needs time??? Posted: 6/15/2009 9:08:45 AM
Sounds like a MAN excuse to me. Women are much too honorable to play that "I need my space" card. What did you do to piss this poor girl off? Hard to tell what is going on in that little head of hers......I know this is an off the wall thought but...maybe you should talk to her?

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How do you see this? Posted: 6/15/2009 9:00:24 AM
Just a gigolo everywhere I go people know the part I'm playing Paid for every dance selling each romance every night some heart betraying You better up your prices there dude! I think you are selling your services too cheaply.

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LOL.... Posted: 6/14/2009 4:56:23 PM
What a winner you are. But I do think you should give into your "lust" for your boyfriends best friend. As a matter of fact I think you should just leave your boyfriend for this other winner. And STAY together .........that way you won't be ruining two other families.

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Fickle Posted: 6/12/2009 5:44:49 PM
So now you are blaming the other woman? Unfreaking believable. rolling my eyes Whoa your last comment speaks volumes. Most people are talking with several "maybes". You never met him so no strike no foul.

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Fickle Posted: 6/12/2009 5:15:56 PM
Well second best isn't so bad. Ask the NEW Miss California. I can't remember her name ...darn I can't remember Miss America's name either? I guess it is all about looks and gay marriage. At least he was honest with you, no? Stupid yes.... but honest. Once you say you’re going to settle for second, that’s what happens to you in life. ~ John F. Kennedy

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Calling after being intimate on first date Posted: 6/12/2009 4:57:01 PM
you better have great references from ex girlfriends also. OP I hope he at least bought you dinner! Pity sex? I can't say I have ever gone that route? I normally make them wait ...and wait and wait. Although I DO expect gifts in that phase of the relationship. The calls just aren't that important.

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Love ya! oops! Posted: 6/12/2009 4:30:05 PM
Darn it cutieface! ALWAYS let the man say those three scary words ...FIRST. Eh at least you will see what he is made of. I only ever blurted that stuff out after mind blowing bestest sex ever. I don't think you can hold someone accountable under those circumstances.... can you???

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Well then, if this is the case.... Posted: 6/12/2009 4:24:05 PM
I read..... And stuff. Hello beauty I missed you!!!!! But seriously.....that stuff goes on. Men are nasty sometimes...they do things. OP rent or buy a few porno's and surprise your man. I read that they (nasty men) don't go out for hamburger if there is steak at home.

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So is he gay??? Posted: 6/12/2009 4:16:54 PM
Every man that is not attracted to me is gay! If you enjoy his company then what is the big deal? Keep the friendship. Friends are good! You are a pretty girl, I have no doubt that you will find a lover. Straight men are plentiful. I would even be willing to bet ......that there are even a few right here on good old POF.

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Well then, if this is the case.... Posted: 6/12/2009 4:11:41 PM
Well You better go check this place out....see for yourself If these rooms have glory holes. Did you check out his nether regions? Did he look chaffed? Oh wait In the higher class joints, the hole is fabricated with duck tape to prevent genital chaffing.

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Take off the mask Posted: 6/7/2009 8:34:02 AM
Fawk that!!!! I don't want to see what lurks behind the mask. If we knew what people REALLY thought about in their dark little minds.... We would stay in our tiny abodes..... with the shades tightly drawn..... playing on the computer day after day.

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So my Ex owes me money.... Posted: 6/7/2009 8:16:50 AM
sheesh...I am betting that as long as you were still getting a little something something the money wasn't all that important was it? I have "loaned" money to people in the past. NEVA has a man repaid the loan not sure whats up with that? The women have been good about it though. Makes you scratch your chin eh? OP next time get some colladeral or skip the needy chicks.

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girlfriends daughter Posted: 6/7/2009 7:22:21 AM
To words..................... military school! ALL teenagers are evil...they know everything and so did we at that their age! People with children should not date...period. Geezo people it's only eighteen years out of your life. seriously...who knows what or who this mother has dragged through this kids life. She may very well have good reason to act out like she is. The OP doesn't sound like he has what it takes to deal..so I suggest dating spinster cat ladies...I hear Susan Boyle is out of the loony bin and available.

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Lone Wolf or Not? Posted: 6/1/2009 3:57:48 PM
I say get your ass to church! What kind of a nice girl do you expect you are going to find in a seedy ol' bar? Find a smaller Cheers type joint. Get to know a few of the guys, then go out in a pack to stalk the young prey...I mean women. Wingmen don't leave home without one!! ....Or you could always just hang around out front at closing time. Drunk girls are easy.

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Serious Members Posted: 6/1/2009 3:46:30 PM
This is serious! Oh c deacon the man needs to know that women are a treasure. He's not paying for a meal. He's paying for our company. The pleasure of our company makes his meal sweeter. Or something like that! How many male members here? Umm male members. Hehe! I would guess quite a few more than women. Paying is not going to make that man/woman more attractive or look more serious. If it makes you feel any better.... I don't think we should have to pay for bottled water or Coors beer either?

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Sex as a weapon (or at least a tool) Posted: 6/1/2009 3:02:56 PM
What the hell? Are you a woman? What man cuts a woman off to punish her? I think you might be the only one. But I am not convinced that you don't have at least one ovary. Hire a maid and call it even.

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Serious Members Posted: 6/1/2009 2:56:28 PM
Why would a woman pay? Women don't pay for dates. Good gravy get outta here, women should be free. Now those menpeople should pay Does paying make a person look serious or desperate?

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but WHY do guys love it when a girl swallows? Posted: 6/1/2009 2:41:22 PM
Who the hell pulled this thread from the chaos of the old cosmogonies? Damn I used to tell all my secrets, must have been a newbie. I agree c deacon, sex is nasty! But somebody has got to do it!

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welcome to writin for losers 101 Posted: 5/31/2009 7:14:03 PM
Holy shades of Veronica Lake. Who is that long haired lushly coffed bairre ? What a fair haired, strawberry blond dumnonos. Mad Donna aint got nuttin' on you! Just doing my by yearly drive by! Smootchies Doggy!

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Why Are Over 45 Men In Love With Motorcycles? Posted: 4/28/2009 9:53:14 AM
Hell ya Jim. Do what or WHO makes you happy. You old folks don't have that many good years left to pull wheelies and do burn outs. I am in love with motorcycles.... what? Second gear IS alright!!!!!!

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