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 Author Thread: How old is too old
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 216 (view)
 
How old is too old
Posted: 6/15/2005 1:36:15 PM
210
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
The Perfect Female
Posted: 3/1/2005 3:51:57 PM
Wram & Breathing.

Not Necessarily Both
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 15 (view)
 
The Answer (I Think)...
Posted: 3/1/2005 3:34:18 PM
Nice Guy or Bad Boy? Just go with what you want and who you love
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 75 (view)
 
WHAT IS THE ONE MOST ATTRACTIVE FEATURE OF A MAN OR A WOMAN AND WHY?
Posted: 3/1/2005 3:29:01 PM
EYE'S
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 75 (view)
 
WHATS MORE IMPORTANT BRAINS OR BEAUTY??
Posted: 3/1/2005 3:27:59 PM
A Good Loving Heart
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Mistakes Women Make When Making Love with Men
Posted: 2/28/2005 6:26:44 PM
O.k. No Laughing
And I dont care what you say Jim dose not sound like John
And stop yelling more, I only have 3 Friends
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 228 (view)
 
question for the bi females
Posted: 2/28/2005 6:21:21 PM
Hay I've many woman gay and no one ever thanked me.
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Just wondering a Question For Woman
Posted: 2/28/2005 5:17:48 PM
WOW, you are Beautiful, I am sure there will be a ray of sunshine where evr you walk, should be easy to spot. (How was that!!!!!)
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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If you loved your boss
Posted: 2/28/2005 5:09:07 PM
This is the guy that gives us all a bad name, you did the right thing by leaving, but you should have made it clear to his boss why!

Also a man or woman who cheats, be it on a wife or girlfriend or whatever is not capable of understanding what love is! Its about trust, careing & devotion. And you deserve better then what he had to offer. And so dose his wife & Kids.
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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How Soon To Meet Your Internet Love..?
Posted: 2/28/2005 5:02:03 PM
It's best to wait until the second parole hearing

(just kidding)

Follow your heart, and tell a friend, local police, FBI, CIA, NAACP, SPCA, UPS, USCG, DCS, NCIS, CID, ect.
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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Like me or not?
Posted: 2/28/2005 4:57:58 PM
Communication,
Communication,
Communication,
Communication,
Communication,
Communication,
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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looking
Posted: 2/28/2005 4:49:41 PM
That was a good question missmissy. Are you Rockyone???????
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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Finish this sentence....
Posted: 2/28/2005 4:39:55 PM
Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,Words,
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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Just wondering a Question For Woman
Posted: 2/28/2005 4:32:07 PM
Hi, Candlelighter, that was pretty insightful stuff, I will try some of the advice you gave me and post a follow-up.
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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Just wondering a Question For Woman
Posted: 2/28/2005 4:22:54 PM
Thanks for the input Stubobb, yea I quess your right that is kinda funny
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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Just wondering a Question For Woman
Posted: 2/28/2005 4:21:21 PM
Thanks Sweetberries, That was very nice. Tell your dog I said hi.
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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Just wondering a Question For Woman
Posted: 2/28/2005 3:38:18 PM
Just about everyday I walk the lonely streets of Hawaii. I have been home now for about a month after being away for some 16 years, yea I know a long time to be away from family & friends but sometimes you gotta do what ya gotta do!. Anyway I've lost contact with all of the people I went to school with (all 3 of them) as well as everyone who ever beat me up, (that’s the good thing) Anyway my question is, I see beautiful woman everyday all shapes and sizes and they are all beautiful everyone one of them! I want to talk to them, you know say hi or something intelligent, but I don’t know what to say and trust me I always say the wrong thing! I don’t know why I just do. So ladies please, help a guy out what do you prefer a man (who in some circles could be a lost cause, but you don’t know that yet, that’s what dating is for). What for the love of god is it that we should Say! Because you look at me I see you looking, but you won’t say anything so help me out what should I say.

I appreciate any help. And yea I know you’re probably saying my god this guy is 40 yrs old and still needs help approaching woman. Yea, I obviously still can’t get this relationship thing right I am on here aren't I! And also I am 40 something that’s 26 in man years.

Thanks for the help, And guy's don't say anything stupid you’re in the same boat Or you wouldn’t be here either.


Aloha
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Love of my Life is Dying
Posted: 2/18/2005 3:22:35 PM
Hi Jennifer
My Name is john, I don’t know if I can be of any help but I am going to give it a try. I early June of 1982, I was a U.S. Marine Sergeant Stationed at a Nuclear Submarine Base in Bremerton, Washington. I was 22 years old and in the best shape of my life, on that morning like many other mornings myself and 40 or so of my fellow Marines where participating in our morning routine of a 5 to 6 mile run, midway thru that run I began having some very bad pain in my lower stomach & groin area, I was a tough Marine and though nothing of it at first, And just ignored it and continued on as usual.

Needless to say, it got much worst. I did see a doctor, and as it turns out I was diagnosed with testicular cancer, I was devastated! I had been married at the time for
About 1 1/2 weeks and did not know how to tell my wife, I loved her very much and we had just began our lives together. I was more concerned about her at the time then myself, all I knew about cancer was that people did not survive and the treatment was difficult to say the least. So I decided to wait until I was sure I had cancer, and was seen by other doctors to confirm the diagnosis, and it was confirmed. I wanted to kill myself! I still don’t actually
Know why I chose not to. Anyway I had no choice but to tell my wife. She left me the next day. I still hold no ill feelings about her leaving, it was a very difficult thing to deal with, and we were both very young at the time.

I was dealing with allot of emotions during this period, my family being thousands of miles away here in Hawaii and my wife leaving, I did not have the mental strength to fight this fight
However I was not ready to leave this life, although for many reasons it was not necessarily
A good one for many reasons other then those I have shared. I endured several surgical procedures and months of therapy, the bottom line is I survived. Sure I have some residual
Problems like the inability to have children and other less major problems but I survived.

My point is you are still there and you love this man for all he is and all he will be, right now I assume he is scared, and needs you and your love, but this is not the end this is one of life’s many challenges just be there for him and get help with what you are feeling from a professional, just remind him from time to time that he can beat this and you are their to help
Him and love him.

Again I don't know if I helped in anyway and I wish you and your family the best. No matter how bad it may get don't give up.

John
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
What the freak should i do?
Posted: 2/18/2005 2:21:37 PM
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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I am going INSANE!!!!!!
Posted: 2/18/2005 2:05:34 PM
Sometimes (more often then not) we reolize just how much someone means to us, and what a relationship means to us when we are at the point of loosing it. although you had the "lets see other people" converstion before. men tend to (please understand I am speaking for myself, not other men) we become complacent in our relationships, and don't talk or express of feelings,desires & dreams, instead we (I) create reasons why we should be somwhere else
when all we (I) really are feeling is confussed about what we are feeling. In short I think you should ask him these questions and tell him what you are feeling, you may be surprised but what he tells you, because when it comes right down to it the only person who can answer these questions for the both of you is him. My only reason for writing this is that I am that fool (yes fool-for no other reason that he could loose a woman who loves him) because he is unable to express what he feels because he dose not understand it. On the other hand I could be wrong, but I learned this the hard way by loosing a very good woman because I was too MAN to put it all out and take a real chance, we are not as strong as we like to believe we are, its because society and our peers preasure us to be brick walls of strenght, when in reality we want to be loved just like everyone else, so if you really love this guy let him know he can take down the walls, and you wont us it against him. That is taking a chance at love!
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Are Good men Invisble
Posted: 2/18/2005 1:44:04 PM
Yes we are Invisble
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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The Value of Women. East vs West
Posted: 2/18/2005 1:12:33 PM
Woman are PRICELESS For all the things we put them thru, and somehow they still love us
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
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I REALLY WANNA KNOW THIS
Posted: 2/18/2005 1:00:34 PM
I just worry if I am ever going to get a woman in bed
 ibgonzo
Joined: 2/1/2005
Msg: 31 (view)
 
No Love
Posted: 2/18/2005 12:44:25 PM
Those men still dont understand what love is, and beleive me you are a beautiful woman and the guy who will love you for who you are is out there searching for you and he will find you.
 
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