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anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 50 (view)

Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/20/2009 5:45:17 AM
Hey I think the hubby did right he could have been mean and kicked her and the kid out.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/20/2009 12:53:13 AM
Acuddler might be a cold hearted man but thier is alot more cold hearted women than men out thier

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/19/2009 3:09:25 PM
I think he was a good husband he said ok to let the kid live thier with restrictions and the kid did not meet them and the wife did not back the hubby, so yes he did right was not going to be used as a door mat.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Contact,, what shall I do! Posted: 11/18/2009 9:03:53 PM
What is it with people dont the child have any rights, the mother said the daugther dont want to talk or see him dont she have a right to say what she wants.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Is dating during separation cheating? Posted: 11/18/2009 8:57:31 PM
Its still cheating no mater if you have been separated 20 years as you are still married, why would you want to put a SO thur your divorce when the time comes, it could be a bad divorce and do you want your SO to see that side of you.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Is This a Good Reason For a Husband to Leave? Posted: 11/17/2009 1:41:32 PM
I disagree the husband had all the right in the world he told the mother he had to go as the son is a free loader and a dead beat usless picse of you know what. he figured why leave the money for her to suport her son .

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

Emails with EX Posted: 11/17/2009 3:02:09 AM
you women are out of your mines if it was your BF doing the emails to an ex and they were saying I love you , you would be all over the BF like heat is to fire wake up and look at it if you were in his shoes. fellow you need to talk to her and tell her you read her emails and ask her what her BS is saying she loves him and if its not the answer you want to here drop her fast she is not worth your time. People can be friends with exs but for them to say that they love them and cant wait to see them should not be looking for a realtionship. men and women like that are players.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 11/15/2009 4:15:08 AM
I did when i was 24 and would do it again, now if sex is the only thing keeping you together in this realtionship its a shabby realtionship and wont last.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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is this normal when child involve or thats too much. whats your 2 cents in! Posted: 11/15/2009 2:01:58 AM
Thier is a fine line really here yes its great that deviorced people can and do get along but when a SO is involed allso they have to work or it will never work out for both of them. Sure your ex comes and picks up the childeen or you do and you are coragaile to each other, but you dont saty and have dinner and help the child with thier home work with the ex you do that with your SO or your ex does it with thier SO. Alot of people say nothing does or will happen but shit it does so why let your slef get caught up in the BS. Now if you really care for your So you would not put your slef into these compromising postions.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Possible for a man to love two women at once? Posted: 11/14/2009 1:46:04 PM
I dont think a man or a women can really love 2 people the way people in love do love each other. people are say sepsrated is ok but its not they are still married and no way will i belive any women that says she still married for fincial or medical reasons. Separated is unfinshed bussness and really cant comitte till they are divorced, why would a man or a women want to put thier SO thur thier divorce that should have been taken care of a long time ago. Separated is like STD as far as i care.

anyoneoutthier

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is this normal when child involve or thats too much. whats your 2 cents in! Posted: 11/14/2009 1:37:38 PM
If you are not with them than hell no she shouldnt be staying for dinner, is she the dersert.

anyoneoutthier

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Was I wrong ?? Posted: 11/5/2009 1:11:27 PM
I belive you did right, now its up to him to make his move. He will either get with you to fix the problem or wont either way you will know where you stand and get on with your life. People say that friends can stay in same house and nothing happens but a true friend would not put any dougth in thier friends realtionship.

anyoneoutthier

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Men, tell me whats the attraction Posted: 11/1/2009 1:04:53 PM
Bad boy, bad girl syndrome people dont really want the nice one that will treat you with respect and like human being.

anyoneoutthier

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My wife wants no passion. Help!! Posted: 10/30/2009 12:17:01 PM
20 years and you have cheated hell I know why she dont want no passion shit she dont want your STD'S

anyoneoutthier

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Best friend was hitting on your spouse. What would you do? Posted: 10/30/2009 12:14:38 PM
I agree that they should handel it but all so tell thier SO so if the friend keeps it up they can help put a stop to it, if you dont tell your SO and this person keeps hitting on you, your SO will wounder why you didnt say anything. Like you must have enjoied being hit on , hey it does pick up your ego some and makes you feel wanted but is that what you want your SO to think>

anyoneoutthier

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Best friend was hitting on your spouse. What would you do? Posted: 10/28/2009 11:53:16 AM
By not telling your SO you are invitimng more come ons from them is that what you want

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 10/26/2009 2:44:29 PM
how about when she ask you out, if you cant aford to pay for the date you shouldnt be ask her out.

anyoneoutthier

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SHALL WE TELL THE TRUTH? Posted: 10/26/2009 2:37:42 PM
If you l ied about your age what else will you lie about and when you do come clean and tell them they would wonder when you would lie again. For me if you lie you are gone why give a second chance to lie.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Obama spells doom for America Posted: 10/25/2009 3:45:23 PM
The thing is they seen into the future and seen what he would do, 11 days into his office he didnt do much and thier was alot that had done alot more. now with the peopple in the noble peace are making excues as to why they did it know they screwed up.

anyoneoutthier

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seeing the person you've just started dating on a date with someone else Posted: 9/29/2009 5:29:17 AM
Do you think you are a couple after a first date what was you doing thier with some one lese?

anyoneoutthier

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Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend. Posted: 9/23/2009 3:48:08 AM
If he was a true friend he wouldnt put her in that kind of a postsion where she puts her slef in a compromissing postsion.

anyoneoutthier

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Dancing With Another Man Besides Your Boyfriend/Spouse Posted: 9/22/2009 8:42:15 AM
Women can go dancing and dont need a partner, its called line dancing.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend. Posted: 9/21/2009 5:22:59 AM
If your SO was as serious about you as you are about her she would not get into that kind of a realtionship, sure men and women can be friends but to go away on a vaction together is w not what i would call respect for you. She is all about her slef and you will have a problem with her and this if you stay with her.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Dancing With Another Man Besides Your Boyfriend/Spouse Posted: 9/21/2009 2:45:51 AM
Its all up to every one how they feel about it and alot are saying its just a dance floor, and what can happen, well a fire starts with a spark. I didnt care if my wife danced with any one till some a##hole said to me that she shouldnt be dancing with me. Well after that statement she never danced with anyone, and yes she was a great dancer as she was in shows in the portland area and she prefromed for uso shows.

anyoneoutthier

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now I have herpes Posted: 9/4/2009 8:13:04 AM
Tell hin now if he cant handle it than its over, and you wont be hurt so bad, if you wait think of the commitment you could be in and he cant handle this . so tell as soon as you can.

anyoneoutthier

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Would you accept back your wife/gf who moved with another guy Posted: 9/4/2009 8:06:13 AM
gold digger is what came to my mind

anyoneoutthier

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What do you do when the step children are determined to hate you?? Posted: 8/29/2009 7:21:52 PM
When childeren have control of an adults realtionship why even waste some ones time, when the childeren are 21 or so they will be gone and thier is a dam good chance you lost the best one, and if you let one get by you dont derserve another chance.

anyoneoutthier

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What do you do when the step children are determined to hate you?? Posted: 8/28/2009 11:31:20 PM
What the 2 gentelmen said is so true but they didnt go all the way with thier statments, the mothers in a second realtionship has to go a set of balls allso.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Men with Trust Issues Posted: 8/15/2009 4:14:04 AM
I do belive that they do trust some what but 100% trust is something that has to be earned. People trust alittle at frist and the more they get to know you thier is more trust, I meet a lady for dinner and than asked her out for the next saturday and was taking her to an old type western town that had skits and than to dinner, well when we meet at a disanating parking lot the first thing she did was call her friend and give her my license number and told her my name and where i lived, why did she even bother going out well as the date wore on I got uncofortable as I didnt know if I was being cased to be robbed or what ever, when the date was over I told that I would not see her again as I didnt trust her.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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wife having an affair Posted: 8/6/2009 9:52:44 AM
Leaving for 3 months at a time would be dersation in my book, she is not thier for motherly suport being gone like that.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Is it fair to be friends with your ex? Posted: 8/5/2009 2:52:58 AM
Thier is nothing wrong with being friends with your ex and you have to be if thier is childeren . But it stops thier you dont need to be meeting and going out to dinner or anything like that allso you dont need to be going to childeren fuctions together it gives the childeren the idea that you might being trying to work things out and get back together. They are an ex you fell out of love and you couldnt live with or you wouldnt be with a SO, so why spend time with them.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Justifying Cheating? Posted: 7/1/2009 4:54:58 AM
What the hell did she do sit on her assw all that time, never made dinner for him or the kids, didnt clean the house, didnt do his laundry, didnt do the shoping so they have something to eat. i am sure he didnt get all of by himslef he sucks in my book. The only thing he has a right to is refusing to pay alimony. Now really look at it its is fair but every one is so dam greedy.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history? Posted: 4/24/2009 12:43:17 AM
How will you feel if or when one of her johns reconizes her and comes up and proastion her for a nother nite, and it could happen

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Is it ok for your GF to hang out with Ex boyfriends? Posted: 4/11/2009 6:35:29 AM
they are exs because thier is a flaw some where and you are looking for someone that makes feel like you really want to feel so why would you want to restrict your self with exs. that is like being sepatred thier is no reson that after 2 years its not divorce time. If you have to have an ex in your life than you are not ready for any realtionship.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Get that dog off the bed! Posted: 4/11/2009 6:18:40 AM
They have dog houses and doggie beds and if you think they will sleep in my bed you both can sleep in the dog house. I like doges had one most of my like but not in the bed

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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My Girlfriend is still Friends With her Ex-Boyfriend Posted: 3/12/2009 1:34:10 AM
Trust works both ways you want trust you dont get yourself into a postion where and can come up, and I do belive you have a right be concerned what else does she have with him that she is not telling you about. Is she spending time with him allso, as for her keeping her money in his account is just telling me hs has alot of control over her yet as she has not really separted yet. keep her if you want to keep having problems but dump her fast if you want a normal life.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Why do men want to meet after a 3 minute conversation? Posted: 3/4/2009 12:42:58 AM
Hey after one or 2 emails I would like to meet to see if thier is chemestry between us, before the dam computers came along you would meet people but now its the computer thing and thier is a hell of alot of palyers out thier and alot of them dont give a shit about anything but them selves. why would any one want to spend 2 or 3 months chating on emails than meet and thier is nothing thier. That is like sending a 3 or more paragrape email to some one that reads delite or dont even read it, its a waste of time.

anyoneoutthier

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He's in Iraq .. Posted: 3/2/2009 10:18:16 AM
I am n ot with you but I can see his point and I was in viet nam and seen the dear johns. If you want him to trust you than dont get yourself in a postion where thier can be cause to not trust you, like hanging with your male mates. but honestly your not my girl and from what i have read I wouldnt trust you, for sure you wount get hi9m to trust you with your actions even if you dont do anything.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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She needs financial help? Posted: 1/26/2009 10:08:34 PM
You want to help but loaning money can put a damper on the realtionship in one hell of a big hurry, I bet she would say any thing if you offered to come over and cook dinner for her and bring alot of food with you to cook up and of corase you have know room for left over and the stuff you didnt cook , go for a drive and use her can and fill it up its not alot but itt would all be apperacted I am sure.

anyoneoutthier

Joined: 3/19/2007

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Why do people say you have to love my dog/cat/animals Posted: 12/19/2008 2:27:22 AM
I like pets but if some one says love my pets, great I will love the pets but the person can go to you know where, its funny love has no bounders but people sure put up alot.

anyoneoutthier

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Is this an opening? Posted: 12/19/2008 2:24:22 AM
the ball is in your court so play with it I would say his intersited in you if he went that fall to email you.

anyoneoutthier

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new year in vegas Posted: 12/16/2008 12:10:41 AM
The stoneys that is out on las vegas buvld. is great the dance hall can hold about 2000 people and the dance floor can hold maybe 200 dancers. I have beewn thier about 15 to 20 times and have never seen any trouble they have a lot of securtiy, and I am sure they will have something special happing that day.

anyoneoutthier

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Is being turned down for sex even once, really a good enough reason to end a relationship? Posted: 12/10/2008 1:21:21 AM
If some one breaks up with you because you dont want sex you are way bettter off with out them as what they did is show you that they were just with you for the sex.

anyoneoutthier

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She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history? Posted: 12/6/2008 1:16:32 AM
Harvyj my big question is what will you do or how will you act or feel if someone she was with, sees her and hits her up for another go, thier is a good chance of that happening. Sure she might not be in the same town that this took place but ae and escort most of her johns are travelers and thier is a chance that they might see her. You have some kind of a problem with what she did or you wouldnt be asking here, so think hard about what you are getting your self into and what you can accepct.

anyoneoutthier

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My gf won't even let me touch her down there Posted: 12/4/2008 2:00:08 AM
Thier is a big difference in passion and just feeling her up like you stated she wont let you touch her down thier, 99% of the time if you are touching some one down thier it leads to sex. so keep your hand in plain sight and just hold her hands and maybe if you can treat her with the respect she derseves you might get some where one of these days. But honestly from your first post I still think you are a scumb bag.

anyoneoutthier

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Friends with and EX!!!! Posted: 12/3/2008 1:29:15 PM
I dont care if she is 54 show some respect just email her

anyoneoutthier

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Friends with and EX!!!! Posted: 12/3/2008 3:07:13 AM
helping people with communications is great but to critize and make fun of someones spelling just showsd howe little you really are, you want to help great do it with a tell but the way alot of you do it just shows how really usless you really are.

anyoneoutthier

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My gf won't even let me touch her down there Posted: 12/3/2008 3:01:35 AM
Good thing she is not giving into you as you are just wanting her for sex. Wasting your time BS you are wasting her time. Your the type that gives men a bad name that is will to hold off and not force her into sex.

anyoneoutthier

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Say something or keep my mouth shut? Posted: 12/2/2008 4:21:52 AM
this is a bad one to even get involde in but alot of people sasy to confront him and tell him he has so long to come clean, his responce could be that she knows and dont care, which could be the truth or a lie. he cheated before and he will contiune and is your sister thinks he is true she should know but be ready to but the bad guy or girl here. She is your sister and she may get mad as hell if you tell her and it breaks up her marriage, she is your sister and nothing can change that and she weill come around at a later date so I say tell her you can tell her husband and give him so long to come cleane but I douht he will and shge rerally needs to know. his cheating is talking money and companionship away from the famliy and makes her self estem worst.

anyoneoutthier

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Friends with and EX!!!! Posted: 12/2/2008 4:07:57 AM
This is funny as hell the women tell the men that if a women is freinds with thier exs its great but for a man to be friends with thier exs its a nono, why the dubble standered. A while back a feind was coming a long way to see this friend of 20 years and she asked her BF if it was ok if he stayied thier at her place and and evry one said that he was inscure.

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