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Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

Aids test Posted: 6/4/2007 4:38:29 PM
Hey Chitchat I've checked out those websites, it throws the whole concept of HIV and AIDS up in the air doesn't I don't think anyone is sure about it really

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 66 (view)

Aids test Posted: 6/4/2007 4:31:46 PM
Well meface This is a very interesting post, its a topic i've thought about myself However, some literature says that some aids tests can produce false negatives and some false positives A low immune system in people with a disease like TB for example has been documented to produce a positive HIV result even though they've never been exposed to the virus HIV is a very complex virus associated with poverty, disease, malnutrition, promiscuity, homosexuality, drug abuse, human neglect and abuse So yes i see your point but this test might not be as accurate as we might think, so it could be a dangerous road to go down I think the best thing to do is get to know the person,their private sexual history, drug use, general health life history and character. A person with good confidence and high self respect is unlikely to put themselves at unecessary risk. The only people not at risk are virgins and life long recluses who have never had any contact with anything or anyone Its tricky but if you and a new partner want to go ahead with testing and both come out negative thats fantastic, but will you both still be negative in three months later. However, what if one of you comes out positive and has never had unprotected sex or used drugs, then what, is it a true or false positive There was a programme in Africa a few years ago about two African prostitutes constantly being exposed to the HIV virus but never testing HIV positive. However, I believe both eventually died of AIDS and poverty related disease, so did they die of AIDS or just poverty related disease? Personally i think most tests are fairly accurate and would take one if i was with someone i loved and he asked me too, but i do wonder if we understand the true mechanisms behind HIV infection and developing full blown AIDS You do what you think is best for you, but I hope i've put another perspective on this topic for you Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 101 (view)

Stood UP on First Dates Posted: 6/3/2007 1:58:45 PM
Hi Viper I'm sorry to hear that you've been treated so badly, yes its very bad taste to stand someone up. You know how the saying goes 'what goes around comes around' so the chances are they'll get treated shabbily by someone if thats what they're doing to other people You deserve better so these ladies have done you a favour, carry on dating just put it down to experience or a bad run it happens. The next lady you meet could be the one Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

When he's got your number, but insists on emailing you anyway.... Posted: 6/3/2007 1:19:17 PM
Well interactive John Us ladies are told we're crazy, clingy wackos if we make any first moves towards men, so hey guess what we don't wanna be seen as clingy wackos so we tend to let the guys call Following me here well good, give us females a break we can't seem to do right for doing wrong, if we call we're clingy if we don't call we're cold fish, please tell us what we have to do Hope you see my point, guys with your attitude get right up my nose ,put yourself in our shoes and you might see the whole dating scene from a different point of view

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 28 (view)

POF Good Or Bad????? Posted: 6/3/2007 1:00:34 PM
Hey Scorpiomover i like your style I'm making this dating scene a lot harder than it should be because i WANT the right type of guy and haven't found what i'm looking for I don't think POF is any worse than bars etc, i think there are an equal number of good and bad people in all social scenes I work on the principle of self improvement to allow myself to attract a decent, likeable guy. The saying goes 'like attracts like' and 'birds of a feather flock together', so we can choose who we want to flock with My point is, likeminded people will flock together in POF chat, bars, chatrooms and anywhere public, its the law of attraction and can't be avoided, we're like magnets being pulled to where we belong. So yes POF is both good and bad but so is everywhere else

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 106 (view)

You wanted it...the WORST DATE in history! Posted: 6/3/2007 12:03:50 PM
Bloomin heck thats a severe date It just shows looks aren't everything. A weaker guy overwhelmed by her looks might have said yes maaaam no maaaaaaaam three bags full maaaaaaaaaam lol Good for you, i'd have done exactly the same I hope your next date is be pretty normal and i hope she's a stunner without the trimmings and demands

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

A few dates and then.....nothing Posted: 6/3/2007 11:50:50 AM
Hi Strykers Sorry to hear this happened to you but men do this sort of thing to women all the time, then they're branded as 'clingy'when they ask or wonder why so its wierd hearing a guy say it I think women on dating sites have got a lot of choice like men have, women are often more independent and can afford to be 'picky' Its probably likely that shes been dating other guys as well as you and maybe has found someone who she's developed a keen interest in. Either that or you've said something thats put her off a bit without realising it A couple of men have said things that have put me off big time without realising it but i just didn't have the heart to tell them because you don't want to upset them, so silence feels 'kinder' sometimes Anyway if someone rejects you its a positive thing because you are free to meet the love of your life, it means that there is someone out there more suitable for you Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 74 (view)

what info would send you running on a first date. Posted: 6/3/2007 11:26:08 AM
Hi Maryrachelle Anything that didn't feel right would send me running. One guy actually asked me on the first date 'are you trying to get a free meal out of me' i just said i don't want anything from you and got up and left there and then, the clever d..cks face was a picture lol But yes everything that every1 has said on here would make me run, i'm a quality person and would like a quality partner its that simple really

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 25 (view)

POF Good Or Bad????? Posted: 6/3/2007 11:15:00 AM
Sweetdreams i agree with your post I've put together a profile on here on purpose that is very forward about what i want so i minimise people contacting me who aren't suitable The ones i do get that i'm not interested in often don't take no for an answer and carry on writing anyway. I never unread/delete or read/delete because i think its rude that person had the guts to message you in the first place However , for those guys who don't get the message i send them a good luck final message and block them from contacting me again Its easier and sometimes necessary for all concerned Good luck every1

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

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When he's got your number, but insists on emailing you anyway.... Posted: 6/3/2007 10:57:05 AM
Good for you pleasuregirl If a guy doesn't suggest meeting very quickly i just disregard him pronto. My trouble is not being able to get rid of the ones i've got no interest in, because its not in me to be unpleasant to anyone so i find it very difficult to reject someone outright I hope you don't have to go through that one very often, to be honest its putting me off internet dating because i think if i don't like this one i'll have to reject him and i hate it So i think i'd rather wait to be asked put by someone i think wow he' s cute lol. I stay on POF because you never know Good luck hun

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

trying to figure out this guy.... Posted: 6/3/2007 10:39:20 AM
Hi Shimmy It sounds like you've done everything right. A lot of men back off a little after getting intimate for the first time I think if it was me and i'd been seeing him for a few months i'd drop him a line to see if he was ok. If you contact him and he doesn't reply then don't contact him again I think if he was only after one thing i'm sure he would have bolted soon after you started dating I hope by the time you read this he's been in touch, if he has bolted you've just been unlucky it happens Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

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When he's got your number, but insists on emailing you anyway.... Posted: 6/3/2007 10:30:05 AM
Well pleasuregirl I haven't come accross this but if i did i'd delay emailing back and when i did eventually email back i'd say sorry for the delay but i've been busy, that automatically makes them think whats she been up to If he's interested after that the chances are you'll get that call you want, if not sod him and move on quickly, just don't be too accessible keep men on their toes Good luck hunney

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

ok ladies ...orgasims....multiples or not ?what catagory do you fall in? Posted: 6/3/2007 10:08:30 AM
Hey Selina, I think there's a lot of exaggerating going on here. Its common knowledge that most women don't have an orgasm everytime they have sex, many never manage one at all. All of a sudden i'm on this post absolutely every1 appears multiorgasmic. Well i think not, because if they were they wouldn't be wasting their time on here As for me that side of my life is very private and its going to stay that way. However, my partner when i find him just might have the time of his life, but he's gonna have to earn it lol Have fun

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 282 (view)

Why do women find sex on a first date so weird? Posted: 5/31/2007 4:09:28 PM
Hey BC Dream Plain and simple women want the respect that comes with not being easy No respectable woman wants a guy that brags he sh....d her on the first date, its equivalent to a girl laughing at the size of a guys manhood in public Got it good 4u

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

how do i let go ..did he eva love me really Posted: 5/31/2007 4:04:10 PM
Hi Foxy Really sorry to hear how you were treated by this guy and from what you've told me no he neva really loved you or anyone else he was involved with at that time for that matter so he'll eventually hurt other women as well Men who love you will want to stay faithful and please you, they'll want to commit to you very quickly, they'll want to shower you with gifts and love. He doesn't deserve you thoughts, the best thing you can do but its difficult is forgive him and release the hurt and pain and let him go. Once you have neutral feelings about him you've won and can move on. While you're still feeling angry with him you're hurting yourself more than him and you can't move on Do yourself a big favour release all that hurt, anger and hatred because you'll be the one happy in the long run not him or those other women The best revenge if thats what you want is to show that guy that you're a confident attractive woman that he's a fool to have let go The ball's in your court, go girl !

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Why do nice ladies stick with bad guys? Posted: 5/31/2007 3:50:38 PM
Hi there I'm definately a nice lady and wouldn't spend a minute of my time with a bad guy Maybe the aura you're giving out is hey i want you as a friend but nothing else, you could be doing it subconsciously, maybe you're too laid back and blase and its mistaken for lack of interest Be honest have you met any1 yet where you think wow, if not, that could be the problem Its hard to say what you need to do differently because you sound so ideal. Maybe you should stop being too friendly and act charming but a little mysterious, it just might help you generate a bit more interest Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 72 (view)

Why Do women dump men who are nice to them. Posted: 5/31/2007 3:41:35 PM
Hi Scottish warrior Personally i couldn't be with a man who wasn't nice to me. I'm looking for a man whose gonna be nice to me who i'm totally attracted to I've met a lot of lovely men lately but i wasn't attracted to any of them so i think thats the key, women have to feel attraction first. Without attraction it doesn't matter how nice the guy is it won't work for her Very simple equation really

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 176 (view)

Friends With Benefits Posted: 5/31/2007 3:36:16 PM
Hi pink martini Well men who have had a bad experience in love generally are frightened of getting burned again but they still have physical needs You think a lot of men lose money, families, children and gain embarrasement through breakups and say no way can i go through that again. Therefore, having their physical needs met and a bit of intimate friendship here and there is better than taking a chance and getting hurt again The safe option is better than another failure Personally i'm an all or nothing person, i either go for a full commitment or non at all and couldn't put up with a friends with benefits scenerio

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 91 (view)

Excessively critical partner, or is it just me? Posted: 5/31/2007 3:24:44 PM
Hey Princess seeker You should have bailed long ago. I wouldn't put up with any critisism to that extent from anyone Its obvious she's a very negative, sad, insecure person who covers up her sadness by critisising others Find a happy, positive, confident girlfriend that you deserve Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

Should I feel bad I snapped? Posted: 5/31/2007 2:23:55 PM
Hi Bubba I can imagine you acted out of shock, i would have done. She was out of order and shouldn't have peed on you without your consent As for doing more no i don't think you should have done more, its a pity you couldn't have just shrugged her off without hurting her, but hey it was a bizarre situation and you acted instinctively Next time i bet you'll tell the girl don't you dare pee on me luv, then she'll look at you as if you're mad lol Its a crazy world

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 204 (view)

Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 5/31/2007 1:47:02 PM
Hey Cutelink Wrong, if i find the right guy there's no way i'll cheat and i know i'm not alone

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 202 (view)

Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 5/31/2007 1:31:30 PM
Hi SpongeEric You've hit the nail on the head, you don't trust women so your limiting beliefs say all women cheat, so you know what, all you attract in that mindset, is yes, you've guessed it, a CHEAT Change your beliefs in order to change the type of women you attract. From a female point of view, women who say all guys are jerks only ever attract jerks Start respecting yourself to the max and see the good in women, you might just attract someone faithful Will you tell me if i'm right provided you remember lol Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Is their any reading material on how to pick up women? Posted: 5/29/2007 4:44:34 PM
Hey jetplague Your guide sucks, i'd humiliate a guy into oblivion if he tried to pick me up like that and if he went onto his knees i'd flick his todger and probably laff at how small it was even if he had a whopper

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Is their any reading material on how to pick up women? Posted: 5/29/2007 4:41:35 PM
Hey Stonecastle Sorry to hear you need a book to help you find a lady. As a woman i will tell you to be yourself don't worry about what women think of you, relax, have fun and go out thinking if i pull tonight it'll be great but also think if i don't pull tonight i'm also gonna have fun. Don't have any expectations just LOVE YOURSELF, know you are a fab guy and act like one, remember like attracts like you attract what you give out Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 78 (view)

Does he have a secret? Posted: 5/29/2007 4:28:05 PM
Hey Naughtical You put two and two together and made four a long time ago, don't keep trying to come up with five There's no smoke without fire, his suspicious behaviour means get out and stay out you deserve better

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 82 (view)

Dating a women your not physically attracted to Posted: 5/29/2007 4:13:57 PM
Crickey GNK12 why would any guy date a woman he wasn't physically attracted to unless he wasn't getting any and thought any woman for a quick leg over is better than none, if so thats a bit sad If i had a blind date with a guy and wasn't attracted to him i'd be polite, see the evening out but that would be that no more dates

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 71 (view)

Looks vs. Personality Posted: 5/29/2007 3:58:23 PM
Hey Funnydatemail Love your post, your 1 and 0 system is spot on. Thats exactly how it works for me with guys as well I'm either attracted or i'm not its a simple as that

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 18 (view)

How do I get him back Posted: 5/29/2007 3:45:27 PM
Hey Sassy It sounds like you were a little over powering. I think if you start giving him more it might make him pull away from you even more If i were you i'd meet to talk, do not offer this man too much of your time and energy at this moment. Tell him face to face that you love him etc and tell him what you want from him. If he's still unsure about his future with you then give him time and space to breathe, live your own life for a while, let him wonder where you are and what you're doing Give him the option to call you but don't live your life for him. I've seen it happen so many times women try to make themselves the 'perfect' girlfriend and eventually get tossed aside for someone driving a much harder bargain. Men love a challenge So be one and keep him on his toes, don't stop loving him but love yourself enough to earn his love and respect for you. I hope you can understand what i'm trying to say here Good luck, i hope you get him if he's right for you

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 77 (view)

why is needy negative? Posted: 5/29/2007 3:21:41 PM
Hi Imrk32 Yes 'needy' is definately negative. Men are attracted to women who have an air of confidence and independence about them. To be 'needy' is to come accross as unconfident and unattractive everytime for everyone even beautiful people. Men have radars that are very sensitive to subtle clingy, needy behaviour and most of us are needy at times without realising it, irrespective of class, education and morals Showing love and affection is different to being 'needy', if a guy was all over you like a rash and came accross clingly and needy you'd be repulsed to some extent, but if that same guy was all over you like a rash but gave you the space and freedom to be you, you'd want him more wouldn't you Think about your behaviour do you think you were being needy? Be honest with yourself here

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 113 (view)

Someone Please HOW Do I CONTROL MY MAN Posted: 5/29/2007 3:07:37 PM
Hi Honey i'm in the mail Why on earth do you want to control your man. No one should try to control anyone, would you like to be controlled, i bet not The best way to keep your man happy is to make yourself so irresistable he won't want to be away from you for long, give him choices, let him be him and if you're irresistable to him he'll choose you and you don't have to control him at all, it'll be HIS CHOICE to be with you, he won't be forced or controlled in any way, he'll feel free and love you for it Have fun

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 69 (view)

Looks vs. Personality Posted: 5/29/2007 2:58:47 PM
Hittman how can you rate people 1 to 10. Your 9 might be someone's else's perception of a 6 and your 5 could be someones else's idea of 9. We all see beauty differently and we all appeal to different people Beauty is PERSONALITY. People are ugly with no personality. If i spot a fab looking guy and speak to him and he has the personality of a wet drip then to me he's UGLY I think you can see my point, that 7 or 8 with a personality would become a 2 or 3 without I hope this has given your topic another dimension

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

First first date in 15 years Posted: 5/29/2007 2:46:38 PM
Hey Peekaboo My trouble is not being able to get rid of them when i don't like them. If a guy told me at the end of a date 'i'm not ready for a relationship but i have you're number', i'd look deeply into his eyes and say 'well in that case babe don't ever call me again,because unlike you i'm worth more than a quick s..g'. After that i'd be off and well rid, he actually did you a favour, he admitted what a jerk he was before you had the chance to fall f0r him. Hang in there hunney, there are some good guys out there. I've met some but they haven't been what i've been looking for Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

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You are not to old for someone! Posted: 5/28/2007 4:52:03 PM
Well said cutenperky2 Something was definately probably off with her, especially lying about her age at that age He deserves better

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

You are not to old for someone! Posted: 5/28/2007 4:44:10 PM
Hi Its very common for people to lie about their age on dating sites, i've dated a few who have lied its very obvious when you meet them My motto is if someone has to lie about their age what else are they lying about, so be careful I've never and will never lie about my age, i'm proud of who i am and want someone as a partner who loves me for who i am I think we all should go for someone no more than 5 years our senior/junior. Same age relationships appear to work much better long term Good luck to you

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

These forums are scarring me!!!! Posted: 5/28/2007 4:33:13 PM
Hi there I see what you're saying but i feel as free as a bird, i'm single but have never felt better. I enjoy surfing the net being on dating sites and looking at the forums now and again I think i'm so content with myself i'm able to be picky and wait for the right person to come along, i can wait 1,2 3 5, 10 years it makes no odds to me. What is important is meeting the right person No relationship is better than a bad one Good luck to you and every1 else on here x

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

dating men that have been divorced Posted: 5/28/2007 4:11:42 PM
Hey there Yes i'm sick to death of men pulling their ex's to pieces on dates, when they start i think heres another one down the drain because i lose interest very quickly. I'm divorced but never dream of pulling my ex to pieces like that I want a guy with a good character who respects every1 including ex's. They're very thin on the ground but i'm still hopeful someone will measure up to my standards one day Good luck to you

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

What do you think is the ratio of dates you have to go through? Posted: 5/28/2007 3:42:30 AM
Hi there It depends how picky you are. I'm very picky because choosing the wrong partner can ruin your life so its a big decision I've had about 20 dates over the past two years, most are no hopers but a couple in between had potential. It took me a lot of time to decide with one 'maybe' so i saw him for three months last year but decided to end it when seeing him became a chore Funnily enough the one who had the most potential was the first date i ever had, we both seemed to be into each other a bit, but had a couple of small tiffs here and there. It felt as though things were moving too fast so we cooled it and decided to be friends and have stayed in touch. I haven't felt tlike that since but who knows whats around the corner So i think we must go with our instincts and intuition, if it doesn't feel 100% right it probably won't work long term Good luck everyone

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 34 (view)

should sex be talked about on the first date ? Posted: 5/27/2007 4:49:54 PM
Hey I think if a woman likes a guy and is interested for a possible long term then i think she should avoid talk of sex on the first date, men seem to like the unknown Guys if you're interested in a girl then talking about sex too soon might make her think you're after one thing and make her run But for two people after a good time as quickly as possible with no strings then go for it talk about do it woteva floats yr boat It all depends what you want really Regards

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 255 (view)

Deep Throating Posted: 5/27/2007 4:39:25 PM
Omg Jimfallriver, if she was soooo good why did you let her go? Don't think i could do it cos i do like myself lol. I think my swallowing reflex would win everytime So a guy for me can't have a fetish for deep throating otherwise i'd be gone in a flash Take it easy

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 79 (view)

How can you tell if a girl is interested? Posted: 5/27/2007 4:13:40 PM
Hey Sweetguy On the first date i definately know if i'm not interested but i don't always know if i am. It takes time for me to know whether i could be interested for the real deal long term, so if i feel that way i can imagine a lot of other women aren't always sure either So if a girl plays it cool it doesn't always mean she isn't interested it probably means shes not sure. If she accepts a second date its a good sign. A girl who makes excuses about not accepting a second date quickly probably isn't interested. I think the second date is crucial, i know within a few minutes of meeting a guy if i'm interested or not So the advice i'm giving you is, if she doesn't readily accept a second date move on, if she's genuinely busy and can't make a second date she'll be back in touch if she's interested and you give her the option to contact you Another thing that happens after a first date with me is i could feel a little interested but the guy will do or say something in the meantime that will put me off. I'm constantly observing a man's character because that is so ultimately important. A lack of good character is a definate no no Hope this info has helped Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Widowed father, two little boys... wouldn't mind some advice... Posted: 5/27/2007 2:08:18 PM
God bless you Peter You're a brave guy, take time to grieve and enjoy your boys. You'll know when the time's right to move on, your wife is with you in spirit and will help you to move on Take care Many regards x

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

Why do men lie about their age? Posted: 5/27/2007 1:49:09 PM
Hey I know exactly where you're coming from here. I'm 40 and told i look 30 which is fab but a lot of guys i've met say they're 40 and they look 50 plus when i've met them. Most guys do take 10 years off their age online, the poor sods are pathetic. Its put me off internet dating big time. I think whats the point of making an effort for a lying jerk I'll only date someone i know now, i stay on here because its nice to keep in touch with people and chat Hope a genuine 40 year old turns up for you hunney

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 85 (view)

How old is old enough to stay at home alone? Posted: 5/27/2007 1:25:19 PM
I totally agree with you, i'm shocked that some people on here are leaving nine year olds home alone, its criminal, they're asking for trouble

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 84 (view)

How old is old enough to stay at home alone? Posted: 5/27/2007 1:20:42 PM
Hey there, Children should not be left alone under the age of 12 unless an adult is present for any length of time in my opinion, just look at what happened to 'Maddie'. Nine is definately too young to be left with younger children. I think young teens can be left for a couple of hours after school while parents return from work early in the evening I don't think anyone under 16 should be left overnight anywhere without an adult because overnight housefires are always a possibility. However, children develop physically and mentally at different rates and some ten year olds can be just as mature as some young teens However, i never left my children alone at all until their early teens, my youngest is 14 so i leave her for a few hours here n there with my two slightly older kids So i'd say safety first don't leave them alone too young Take care

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Too many children? Posted: 5/27/2007 12:30:19 PM
Hey Alex On the surface 3 kids by 3 different dads does imply the mum was 'putting it about a bit'. However, she could be a gullable but decent girl who attracts jerks who break her heart, she also could have low self esteem with a poor background and doesn't see her situation as any big deal In my opinion most girls who put it about the most don't get pregnant as much as other girls because they make sure they're protected so they can carry on their promiscious lifestyles without pregnancy becoming a potential burden This girl could be just out there looking for a decent guy but getting it wrong. However, if i was a guy i'd be more concerned about a woman not respecting herself enough to vet guys and protect herself more. I'd also be concerned about her potential lack of education and settling for very little in life So yes i think you've got a right to be concerned but not for the reasons you've suggested, she's probably not promiscious just ignorant to the dangers and gullable I'd never go for guy who'd fathered dozens of kids by different women because in my opinion guys like that have no regard for women or the children they're producing Its a tricky issue but my gut feeling would be to avoid people who have lots of kids by different people Hope i've put another perspective on this for you All the best

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

The marriage talk... Posted: 4/9/2007 9:15:38 AM
Hey I appreciate your opinion but if you did some research you'd find me absolutely spot on right Most people who meet and know that they've found the one will be married within six months its a dead cert Those engagements that drag on mean the two people involved aren't really meant for each other Sorry you don't agree but if you're ever hit by cupid, meet that special lady and can't wait another day to get married, please think about this message and acknowledge me that would be fab Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 15 (view)

Why do some women do this? Posted: 3/26/2007 3:13:37 PM
Hey Squiggy i agree you do deserve an explanation. I'm sorry to hear about your experience, unfortunately it appears to be fairly common I personally would be honest, but i have a little story to share with you that might shed some light on why she ignored you I spoke to someone online for about three months on and off last year, i felt a connection so we eventually met. On meeting he spoke and acted differently, it didn't feel like him, i felt no connection. After the date he contacted me to go out again, i made excuses for a while because i didn't want to hurt his feelings. I was hoping he'd get the message and stop calling. He didn't so i had to be honest and tell him. I got a barrage of abuse, he accused me of being shallow and leading him on etc. The point i'm making is, its sometimes easier to ignore someone than the face the possibility of receiving nasty texts and emails from them when you tell them the truth I hope you can see my point, put it down to experience. The next lady you meet could be the 'one' Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

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The marriage talk... Posted: 3/26/2007 2:58:14 PM
There's a saying if he's not initiated marriage proceedings within 2 years of meeting, you must walk because he's not that into you I don't know how much weight this saying holds but i'v got a feeling there's a bit of truth in this. Men in love can't wait to marry you and they'll be the ones pushing for marriage not you Just keep this in mind I hope my philosophy turns out to be very wrong Good luck

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 58 (view)

If you saw your partner at someone eles house, would you knock? Posted: 3/26/2007 2:44:36 PM
No neva, neither of them would be worth the confrontation I'd have his bags packed at the front door and thats the last he'd ever see of me It'd either be a definate break-up and or definate divorce. I've got zero tolerance on infidelity in a marriage or girlfriend/boyfriend scenario Pretty harsh stuff i suspose, but thats my way of thinking on this topic

Tiga eyes

Joined: 3/19/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

scaring off men why do we do it? Posted: 3/26/2007 1:35:11 PM
Hey there Men aren't scared off, only BOYS are lol No seriously, i think some women can be a little intense when they like a guy, men pick up on it and think yikes. However, i think this can happen in reverse, i find overpowering men quite scary and tend to back off I think honesty is the best policy, if you like someone tell them, if he runs he's not worth worrying about and its best to forget him If a man's into you he won't run in a hurry, unless you do something major So stop worrying girls you won't get rid of Mr rite that easily

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