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joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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What do men really want from this site? Posted: 4/5/2009 6:26:44 AM
Men want different things. It's nothing to do with the site. Many men want to hook up but men who are looking for relationships want to hook up too. For a man, sex is part of getting to know a woman. Women often want to get to know before sex. It's a paradox. Today, many women behave more like men so that is your competition. The reason guys ask you over right away is because other women say yes. Most guys will have no problem meeting in public at first but will want to see you in private early. Short emails are the results of the numbers game on here. If you send a guy an email, chances are he responds. If a guy sends an email, chances are strong he won't get a response. After a while emails get shorter and shorter because who wants to spend time getting creative for someone who won't even acknowledge your existence. Also, email is kind of informal. What is the first thing you say to anyone you meet? Hi. Email is not a letter; it's a conversation. If someone says high to you, check out his profile. If you like it, say hi back.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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My location is too far so men say, what to do? Posted: 4/5/2009 6:19:28 AM
You don't agree to meet half way. You agree to drive all the way to his neighborhood.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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Hitting 30 in less than a couple months! Posted: 4/5/2009 6:17:21 AM
I pulled back from dating for the last couple years to pursue a Master's degree. I just finished it. I've never dated a girl over 29.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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Why are there more online daters who are workers? Posted: 4/5/2009 6:14:58 AM
Most of the people on top had to work harder than you to get to the top.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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Why are there more online daters who are workers? Posted: 4/5/2009 6:12:56 AM
I think most of the people who aren't working are under 18, over 60, or stay at home moms. As a man, I would not be looking for a girl if I didn't have a job.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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What is the best thing about beeing single at Christmas? Posted: 11/15/2007 8:12:18 AM
The best thing about being single at Christmas is it is easy to coordinate where you are going to spend it. There is less running from one house to another.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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question on sex and first date? Posted: 4/30/2007 9:13:54 AM
I just talked about this with someone I am seeing sometimes. I think it is well known that if you have sex with someone on the first date, the chances of the relationship developing are rare. What most people don't think about is that if you DON'T have sex on the first date, the chances are just as rare. I don't think it is the sex. I think if you have sex on first dates, you just get to have more sex. It doesn't reduce your chances of finding love. I have seen people find love when they were looking for sex. All that said, I think for some people, sex kind of turns up the intensity of the relationship early on. This could be a good thing or bad.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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Are their any guys left who like chunky gals? Posted: 4/30/2007 9:07:35 AM
Well the fact is liking chunky gals for being chunky is a bit rare. It is possible to be liked for your other qualities and have your chunkiness accepted to get the rest of you. Lets face it, half or more than half of all people here are chunky. Guys have to look past it sometimes or be one of the 75 guys trying to pick up the one skinny girl. You see that on here sometimes. If you click on an attractive girl, she has about 75 to 150 people who put her on their favorites list. Every guy wants a hot girl but most girls aren't hot. It shouldn't be hard for you to find one that realizes this. OK here is my advice. You can't go around constantly aware of your chunkiness. Guys can see you are chunky, you don't have to talk about it or how you need to fix it, or how you wish it wasn't so. Just be upbeat about the things you have to offer. If you are depressed, forget keeping someone new. It's worse to be depressed over your body than to have a body to be depressed about. If you feel that way, keep it to yourself. Maybe the feeling will fade when you are accepted.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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How to find a single girl who is alone? Posted: 4/30/2007 8:57:41 AM
You find them at the grocery store on the bike path or on this web site. I see girls the park alone a lot.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/2/2007 1:32:19 PM
Looks are an important part of attraction. Why do you have to call it shallow.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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Do Men put Papaya Creme on their Manhood? Posted: 4/2/2007 6:10:08 AM
OH, and it probably makes it slippery too. I friend of mine used to use secretly use flavored lube. She'd put in in her mouth beforehand and the guys loved it. Then she'd tell them.

joeintheburbs

Joined: 3/20/2007

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Do Men put Papaya Creme on their Manhood? Posted: 4/2/2007 6:08:45 AM
I've never heard of Papaya Creame but but I think that is food so I'd guess it just makes it taste better.

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