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 hardyharharhar
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
she is thinking of ex boyfriend
Posted: 10/28/2008 10:52:10 PM
Thanks for the input everyone. I'm always surprised that people are so quick to suggest 'moving on'. A bump in the road doesn't always mean there's a cliff up ahead, though it may be a possibility. Sometimes it's worth taking the risk.
At any rate I've got a lot to think about. Thanks again for the input!

Someone judged this was a pity thread? What the?
Jabberwocky - please it is obvious that my profile is not up to date. I'm sure you can tell from the sexy pictures and witty descriptions that I am out to pick up.
 hardyharharhar
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
she is thinking of ex boyfriend
Posted: 10/28/2008 7:49:08 PM
I am in a long distance relationship at the moment. We met in my city where she was studying, dated for a few months, then she returned home. We have been distance for 8 months now, during which time I have been able to visit her for one three week period.
Last night she was a little worried and said she had to tell me something. She told me that sometimes she gets lonely and she thinks about her ex boyfriend.
What does this mean?
Of course it hurts to be told by someone you love that when they get lonely they aren't thinking of you, but of someone else. I'm not sure what to do.
She assures me that she loves me and that nothing will happen between her and her ex. Yesterday she also bumped into him on campus, I think that is the reason for the "confession". He is also in another relationship.
So I think, obviously I'm not satisfying her needs. Either I need to remove the distance from our relationship quickly or she will go where she can get what she needs.
Anyone want to offer a viewpoint?
Much appreciated..
 hardyharharhar
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 144 (view)
 
Why Do Women Care when a Man dates a Younger Woman.
Posted: 11/15/2007 3:16:56 AM
Yeah i agree it goes both ways, of course.
Seriously if two people are happy to be with each other what more do they need?
 hardyharharhar
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
what do i do soo confused please help
Posted: 11/15/2007 3:02:16 AM
You should just marry her, that's what superman would do.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Do you tip?
Posted: 11/9/2007 4:22:52 AM
Hey finne you are in Melbourne and you tip? I didn't know it was common in Australia. I never tip... ever..
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
No drugs---Are my standards too high???
Posted: 11/9/2007 4:18:14 AM
I've never been drunk or had more than 2 standard drinks in one evening. Now I don't drink at all, literally (alcohol). Never smoked cigs or weed. Succumbed to peer pressure and experimented with red cordial in my wild, younger prepubescent years but now I'm 15 years clean. Never any 'hard drugs'.

Your problem is probably your circle of social influence - that demographic of people from which you are likely to choose potential partners. If a lot of your extended family and friends are drug users... you will tend to only be meeting those who are the exact people you are trying to avoid.

I suggest getting some hobbies that attract the healthier members of society. Maybe a gym, sports club, rock climbing club, library, chess club, book club, walking club, etc/ whatever. Maybe enrol in some night school classes in something you're interested. Perhaps here you will find a myriad of people you didn't know existed, and I'm sure some of them will be hot guys looking for a nice lass like yourself.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
What would your reason be for not kissing your bf?
Posted: 11/6/2007 6:21:14 PM
nah Mormons at least can kiss.. commitment or not. And the level of passion in the kiss can be quite high.. the line is drawn at breast or genital contact, but individuals may not hold so strictly to the rules and may have their own limits (or lack of), despite professed religion.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 148 (view)
 
If You Could Fix One Mistake
Posted: 11/2/2007 9:55:16 PM
I wouldn't have asked her to come home with me that night.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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Is it worth it?
Posted: 11/1/2007 5:23:57 AM
lol that is classic..
"if you love something, set it free... if it comes back, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was..."
being said by a dude portrayed by the overly masculine image of a flexing bicep.

but seriously it is so hard to set them free.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 76 (view)
 
How much do you love yourself at this moment?
Posted: 11/1/2007 2:41:30 AM
I love myself all the time...
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 90 (view)
 
What is it about looks?
Posted: 11/1/2007 2:40:45 AM
The answer is simple. Marry the unattractive nice guy and fool around with the malboro man on the side. There, problem solved .
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 44 (view)
 
how do i convince her i'm not a 'player'?
Posted: 10/31/2007 8:05:34 PM
lol at shieldvulf. i actually know of some people who were engaged after 2 weeks. still married 25 years later i believe.

i was never talking about sex. i nearly left her because her actions were messing with my head and, as it was early stages, i thought it might be better to get out now rather than invest anything more emotionally.
am i a player because i want sex? h3ll no. of course i want a physical relationship, what guy doesn't? but i also want an emotional relationship with commitment. if you bash guys for wanting something physical from a relationship, you are moronic.
and frankly i can't see how i am a player at all. i have only been honest with her; i am only dating her, although we are not officially exclusive. i think some of you are automatically assuming i am the big bad wolf come to steal innocent little red riding hood away, when that is a totally unfair assumption.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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how do i convince her i'm not a 'player'?
Posted: 10/31/2007 9:06:16 AM
i will move the relationship as fast as she wants. if she wants to wait for sex, fine. if she wants to wait for anything, fine. but to give out then hold back is very confusing. we're talking KISSING. nothing else.
the last week has reeked of mind games, which confused me and, since the relationship was early stages, i was concerned it was a sign of things to come. there are plenty of fish in the sea and all that jazz; i can find another who doesn't play these games.
ok i say i feel like a 'sucker' because if she is playing games then i am waltzing along to her tune.
after speaking with her tonight, however, i have discovered more of her reasoning and her particular worries, so i am trying to approach this in a mature fashion.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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how do i convince her i'm not a 'player'?
Posted: 10/31/2007 8:57:43 AM
good points. my thinking was basically the same.
it's just the withdrawal of some affection that has thrown me. if she'd held out that's fine, but i've been struggling with the fact that last week i got this much, now i get less. it was my basic understand that relationships should be somewhat progressive.
i think i've decided to just step back myself and date her without the physical side of it. like you say, i will find out how sincere i actually am.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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how do i convince her i'm not a 'player'?
Posted: 10/31/2007 8:41:39 AM
Question is in the title. How do I convince this girl I've been seeing for 2 weeks (yes only 2 weeks) i'm not a player and am not after a short term, physical relationship?
relationship was originally progressing quickly. make-out sessions were good and progressive. then she must've taken a step back and thought it was going too fast and decided to put the brakes on. now she won't even kiss me, but is still affectionate (like.. hand holding and touching my face).
it is very frustrating for me, i'll be totally honest. i have nearly ended it twice now but i'm a sucker and am sticking around for now.
because i originally picked her up at a club and go to clubs sometimes (once a week, i got a place i like), she is suspicious i am a 'player'... obviously if i was i would've hid my game from her and she'd never be suspicious.. but she doesn't think like that.
so how do i convince her otherwise? what're the opinions out there? trust issues are a red flag yeah?
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Do Girls LIke the Guy who Dacnes beside them at first or Guys who Go right up and start grinding etc
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:36:30 AM
At clubs just have fun with your friends, find a girl you like the look of. Walk over to her and say hello. Keep talking and take it from there. If she's interested, she will keep you included and you can proceed to have a fun night with her. If she's not interested she'll exclude you from her 'zone'. At the end of the night, tell her you had fun and you'd like to see her again some time. Get her number and leave. Easy.
Call her the next day, tell her you had fun last night with her and you'd like to see her again when it's convenient. Plan your first date and go with it from there. Easy.
You CAN meet nice girls / guys in clubs / pubs and you CAN have a healthy, long relationship with them. Like that other poster said, you'll find what you're looking for.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 290 (view)
 
The myth of doggie style
Posted: 10/30/2007 2:13:43 AM
Yeah if i wasn't attracted i'd probably be pummelling away until we were both raw.

I love being able to look at her back, bum and legs during doggy; real turn-on.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
kissing mind games?
Posted: 10/28/2007 1:46:24 AM
lol.................... .......................
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
kissing mind games?
Posted: 10/26/2007 11:17:28 PM
I was frustrated mainly because I couldn't understand why the sudden change in her. I had assumed making out was enjoyable for her and not a result of effort, hence I never considered it a mood thing, rather the result of a decision on her part. I did have mints and I offered her one.
I think I'm going to take a few steps back and have a few slow dates, just nice evenings etc etc. I'll only try to kiss her at the end, and only a short goodbye kiss.
Yeah I've seen her 5 times in a week. Thursday night, sat night, mon night, wed night, fri day. Every second day. No consecutive days.
Thanks a lot for the posts everyone, they've been insightful.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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kissing mind games?
Posted: 10/26/2007 6:05:32 AM
yeah specific advise might be too hard to get from here anyhow, the variables are too great. my big issue with it all is that 2 days ago we were fine and fooled around for hours, then today, with nothing remarkable happening in the meantime, it's like she's scared she's going to catch some saliva borne disease..
regardless of the census i'll see her a few more times and see what happens.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
kissing mind games?
Posted: 10/26/2007 5:53:18 AM
ok so i've been dating this girl for only a week. seen her five times though, every time substantial. intimacy has progressed steadily; long make out sessions every night after the first; no genitilia involved yet.
so today we spend the day together, but she won't kiss me at all. she still cuddles up next to me, strokes my arm, looks into my eyes etc etc. we even fell asleep holding each other but no kissing.
when i'm about to drop her home we are talking in the car and i turn the conversation to this. she says she's not certain she can trust me. of course this frustrates me incredibly. i have done nothing wrong that i know. i'll add that an exboyfriend of hers (7 years ago i think she said) cheated on her before she found out and broke it off. she has had other relationships in between, the last one she broke off for other reasons.
of course i am confused and frustrated by this.
any ideas or comments from anyone? anyone recommend what i should do? does this happen often in the early stages of dating? never happened to me before..
i like the girl and would like to keep seeing her.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
is harder for men or woman to find true love
Posted: 10/5/2007 10:14:08 AM
this is a hard question.
women generally only have to react in the early stages of relationships: judging and choosing from potentials. men, on the other hand, have to act; we have to approach the woman, talk to her, etc etc. if our game is bad we generally lose out. but while you've got the men with no game, you also have the women that don't attract guys.
really your perspective will depend on who you are. a confident, tall, dark and handsome type guy will of course think it's easy to meet women. the shy, introverted guy in the corner will probably think it's so hard to meet women.
and surely our chance for falling in love is somewhat dependent on how many people we actually mix with and how desirable we find each other.
so, really.. i haven't answered the question at all :P
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Does this insult younger men?
Posted: 10/4/2007 2:27:08 AM
Guys brag about getting with older women so much more than girls their own age. It is on my 'to-do' list...
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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Going to dance clubs.
Posted: 10/4/2007 2:22:43 AM
I got a mate who is constantly looking for quick fixes and sex-buddies. That's his sole purpose when he goes out, and he views it as a bad night out if he doesn't get anywhere.
I go out to dance and to meet people. Of course I am looking to meet girls when I go, but looking for potential longer term rather than one night stands. I really struggle to find places to meet girls.
While I'm not LOOKING for a one night stand, doesn't mean I'll ignore opportunities.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Guys and the passion for sports.
Posted: 10/4/2007 2:06:00 AM
People remember and recall what they're interested in.
I'd be into no-rules gladiatorial combat: brutal, bloodthirsty and competing for the right to survive (obviously with massive financial rewards for the victors). But frankly I just don't get into any of the sports of today. I can appreciate the excitement of watching a game in person every so often, but I can never see myself following the season. Just doesn't float my boat, but each to his own.
I know there are many girls who know more about various sports than I do.
As for fitting in with peers, I just don't really join into sports conversations and don't go to pubs to watch games.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Did I make a mistake.
Posted: 10/4/2007 1:59:31 AM
if you have to ask the question, it usually is.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Searching for love in prison...you kidding right?
Posted: 10/3/2007 9:24:20 PM
I am not ashamed. My above post (msg 30) illustrates my views, views which I make no apology for.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 84 (view)
 
Saving yourself for marraige!
Posted: 10/3/2007 10:35:37 AM
I know some people who were engaged after knowing each other only a couple weeks (2 or 3). Still married 20+ years later...
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Saving yourself for marraige!
Posted: 10/3/2007 10:14:51 AM
nice poem magickman. i think i'll get it tattooed.

ok my only question relates to the OP from 2 years ago...
He reckons his parents waited til they were married before they had sex. He is 23, and his parents have been married 17 years? so when exactly were they waiting? wtf? am I missing something here? News flash: babies don't drop from the sky.

My family was (is) very religious and I was always going to wait until marriage. Gave in one day and haven't looked back since. Now I'm just saving kids for marriage.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Have you ever tasted male ejaculate?
Posted: 10/2/2007 10:12:21 AM
hahahahaha... weasel i plead the 5th on that one.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 99 (view)
 
Does a guy's job really matter?
Posted: 10/2/2007 9:52:24 AM
Well here's the interesting thing HappyGilmore.. we've had single income families for centuries. It's called LOVE. It means you were two and become one. You support the other and work together with them to achieve common goals. It's the fact that you can't work together unselfishly that is driving the wedge into the relationship, not the fact one earns more than the other.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 88 (view)
 
Have you ever tasted male ejaculate?
Posted: 10/2/2007 2:04:02 AM
When money gets a bit tight and I need a little extra nourishment, I know I've always got my personal protein factory on standby.

Yeah I've tasted it, don't remember why, but I have. And it's awesome kissin a girl who's just gone down on you or vice versa.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 106 (view)
 
Ultimate Guy Question
Posted: 10/2/2007 1:59:21 AM
In the past I have frequently been going at it for an hour or more without orgasm, still with an erection but we're both so buggered we just stop. Still get her to orgasm of course.. that's generally the easy part. If I had problems getting an erection I'd just use hands and tongue, of course.
Sometimes if I am tired and / or had an exhausting workout at the gym the little man can't be bothered standing to attention. Murphy's law that's the night she wants it.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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Would you date someone knowing they had at some point in there life been a prostitute?
Posted: 10/2/2007 1:04:00 AM
the fact that someone was once a prostitute would have no relevance to my decision whether or not to date / continue dating them.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Searching for love in prison...you kidding right?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:58:46 PM
No, A_New_Adventure, I am not kidding you. Murder and theft are not universal wrongs. You believe murder is only justified in self defence and defence of property because that is your culture and the social framework within which you operate. I am certain there would be others on this website who believe murder is only justified in self defence, and not in the defence of property. That alone would show that you are wrong and that there is no universal moral code.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Searching for love in prison...you kidding right?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:55:21 PM
Yeah finneganne you're right the women do have low self esteem and it would perhaps be a wiser decision for them not to become involved with many of these men. I was merely responding to the harshness of your original post; the way you seemed to dismiss them as not worthy of life.
I explicitly stated I wasn't speaking of whether they deserve punishment or not. I am not condoning behaviour under the excuse of childhood problems. I am simply saying you should be more understanding of circumstance and realize that you could've ended up like any of these people.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Does a guy's job really matter?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:48:18 PM
Many of the things on your list you simply should go and DO. The expense is mostly in your head. NOW is the time to do the things you want, tomorrow is always too late. Travel from a developed, western country is very cheap. Why do you think hippies backpack the world? Think they've all got million dollar inheritances? It's because they want to, so they do it. Swimming with dolphins? How expensive can that be?
Sure, go to law school. But only if you're sure you want to be a lawyer. If you're going to go and earn $200k+... why is it so important for your husband to have similar financial ambitions?
Wealth is mostly about money management, rather than income. Actually, wealth IS money management.
Of course nice homes in nice areas can be expensive. But I'm just hoping communism comes about before I'm looking to buy
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
Searching for love in prison...you kidding right?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:35:27 PM
My apologies Thrums if I have insulted you. My views are thus: conflict in defence of human rights is heroic and right. Conflict for any other reason, or deceitfully under the guise of such defence of human rights, is criminal and abhorable.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Does a guy's job really matter?
Posted: 10/1/2007 10:23:19 AM
this thread has been a very interesting read. i am glad that some people realize stereotypes are pathetic. one of the most intelligent and interesting people i've met was a production line worker in a leathergoods factory. another man i know, an inspirational figure in my life, was once a bum living on the streets of manhattan. he is still poor, but that doesn't change the great man that he is.
when it's all said and done, we'll all be 6 feet under. sometimes people should step back and question how they're spending their years.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Searching for love in prison...you kidding right?
Posted: 10/1/2007 9:48:59 AM
Sorry finneganne you're still missing the point. Leave to someone else to rip me apart? Oh spare me.

Criminals are in prison because they deserve to be? They are in prison because the ruling portion of society judge their actions to be criminal and would prefer to see them locked out of sight. There is no universal moral rulebook that dictates what is deserved and what punishment is dealt. It is a social thing, something that is flexible and relates to the culture and balance of power in which the individual finds themself. Many crimes stem from property relations. In our societies individual property is accepted and generally praised as the right way for things to be. In other societies this is not the case. Murder? Different groups have situations where murder is allowed - take the military for example. Civilian deaths are a part of war, we accept that.
Fine, so you say the criminals know what is proper behaviour for their society? Think about it this way. An individual finds themself trying to stay afloat in the turbulent sea that is life. They see a life-boat with a big sign on it that says "do not touch". Either they cling to this life-boat or they drown and die. Of course they shall take their chances with the lifeboat. The man who feels he will die if he doesn't get his cocaine fix? Of course he will go to lengths to get it. The businessman who embezzles the investment funds of stockholders? An act of greed, because he felt the risk was worth the gain he may receive based upon a social view that individual wealth is great. They accept the risk, and must accept the consequences of such an action, as dictated by their society. But does this make them an inherently evil person? One not worthy of compassion? One not deserving of love? One not worth consideration? Of course not! They found themselves in a situation and chose to go one way rather than another. It can happen to any of us.
I am not speaking of whether they are deserving of punishment or not. I am simply saying you are too quick to pass judgement and dismiss those in prison as less than human.
My reference to the military was moreso directed at the institution rather than the individual members who do the legwork. I am sure many are honourable and brave men and women with real convictions about their work. However, this doesn't stop me questioning what motivations lay behind the various machines of war that have scored their gashes throughout history.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 116 (view)
 
Do a lot of women expect instant chemistry?
Posted: 10/1/2007 6:57:51 AM
Attraction is a part of chemistry. So you make eye contact, she smiles, you smile.. you walk over and talk to her - you don't click at all. You had chemistry for those moments you were making eye contact, then it fizzled. We're arguing over the meaning of a word, irrelevant really.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Does race matter?
Posted: 10/1/2007 6:36:52 AM
Yes I agree with ewopper2. I know my mother wants me to settle down with a nice australian (by that she means anglo-descent). I have dated both from my cultural group and also dated some asian girls (chinese and korean). No preference, although generally I find the asian girls more visually appealing.
If we click we click, that's how I see it. Culture differences have never been so big we couldn't work them out with a little understanding.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Do a lot of women expect instant chemistry?
Posted: 10/1/2007 6:29:04 AM
Instant chemistry is important. And I mean instant. You look at her, she looks at you.. bham. Then the reaction should proceed as you continue spending time together until it either fizzles out or it becomes something wonderful.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
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Searching for love in prison...you kidding right?
Posted: 10/1/2007 6:18:03 AM
This is going to sound brutal but I think that was Natural Selection. Anyone so dumb and with such low self esteem that she's got to pick up a convict deserves to be killed before she can pollute the gene pool. I think it's insane that women want to write to men in prison and marry them, when they've committed crimes like murder and child rape, etc. Someone that pathetic deserves what they go looking for.

If a guy committed a crime and went to prison - no way in hell would I wait for him. It's a different story though if he was military and we were in love and he was deployed. Then sure, if I really loved him, I would wait as long as it took.


You have no idea what leads people to certain actions or emotional states - I am referring to both those who find themselves in prison and the women who you have referred to. Some people, to put it quite simply, do not fit into our social model. Somewhere along the way their psychology rejects society. To what seems normal and obvious to others, they find themselves confused and bewildered - lost in a maze of social rules that make no sense. There is need for understanding, not condemnation. Of course we cannot have wanton killers and child molesters wandering freely amongst us, but by no means do these two types fill the prisons of the world.
And, quite frankly, military is not so far removed from criminal either.

Something about your post really grated me.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
GUYS, do you like seeing ur girlfriend masturbating??
Posted: 9/27/2007 4:01:07 AM
If I was watching my girl masturbate I'd quickly go crazy.. it would be a massive turn-on, with strong undercurrents of incredible frustration that I wasn't doing it for her. So I imagine I would very quickly be naked and substitute myself for herself.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
TURN ON FOR A GUY??
Posted: 9/27/2007 3:55:11 AM
redundant subject? pfft.. although it could be in the 'Ask a Guy' section.. considering she is.. well.. asking a guy.
I'm 24.
I prefer sweet and patient type, but mischievous, that misbehaving look in her eye.
I prefer quiet orgasmers who make soft, sexy as hell noises and moans. i don't like girls who scream during sex.
Clothing? I think it is the outfit rather than how much is showing that determines if it is sexy or not. Girl I met at a club this past tuesday was completely covered, wearing a nice black and white jacket thing (yes, that is its technical name) and other clothes that I can't remember. Looked damn sexy.. Last night the same girl (yeah i've been stalking her) was wearing a white mini-skirt, a sleeveless top and high heels. She was still gorgeous but I think she was sexier on the first night. Flesh just makes it easier to oogle.. which isn't nice.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 242 (view)
 
Sleeping naked
Posted: 9/27/2007 3:20:35 AM
i don't sleep well naked. prefer some clothes. when alone i'll wear shirt and boxers, with a lass i'll remove the shirt.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
make him chase....
Posted: 9/26/2007 3:46:00 AM
nothing wrong with having to chase a little. just don't play emotional games, ie, don't play hot and cold or anything stupid like that. if you like him, show it; if you don't like him, hint it. try to be consistent..
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 137 (view)
 
Why are so many middle-age men in the online-dating-world into motorcycles?
Posted: 9/19/2007 9:53:02 AM
some people have mentioned bikes as a symbol of wealth? huh? what? that is ridiculous. if you're single and generally only travel around by yourself, a nice bike is a much more economical answer than the comparable car. and you save decently on fuel. haven't you heard about global warming? the environment matters ya know! all those motorcycle riders are simply doing their bit for mother earth.
you don't need to be a rich man to own a nice bike.
 lifeisfree
Joined: 3/21/2007
Msg: 676 (view)
 
Men on a Marriage Strike
Posted: 9/19/2007 9:29:50 AM
yeah there are a lot of benefits to not wearing the "ol' ball 'n' chain".
basically you can do whatever you like and only answer to yourself. spend money however you want, eat as cheap as you want or as expensive as you want, drive whatever car you want, splurge on a motorbike just for the hell of it.
but of course none of these can replace the comfort of a woman at your side. i think it is nigh impossible to truly be happy without a companion, despite our attempts to convince ourselves otherwise.
 
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