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carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Why Men Love Bitches Posted: 11/7/2009 1:58:45 PM
Men only love ****es if they are stunning. Personally I find if i date one there is only one date and she is gone by my choice ! Life is too short too live with someone who only loves themself.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Girls making the first move??? Posted: 11/6/2009 2:22:16 PM
I have yet to be made a move on by a good looking woman ! I do get first messages from women but none i fancy. Sounds like I get the desperate ones ! Never mind, I would rather live alone than be with someone i didnt fancy.....

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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women who say i'm really busy or i have a finite amount of time... Posted: 11/6/2009 2:20:53 PM
This tends to be worst with women who have kids. The kids will always come first and the man a poor second. If a man cant deal with this then he needs to hold out for a woman no kids or kids who have grown up and left.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Why some men never want marry? Posted: 11/6/2009 2:18:52 PM
Marriage is a form of trap for men. Once in marriage he cant get out of it without losing half his wealth. I was happy to get married the first time becaus eneither of us had anything. Now I own my own house and car there is no way I would want to give half to someone who had never earned it !

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Married Men on POF Posted: 11/6/2009 2:16:51 PM
Its the good looking rich married men who stop the rest of us getting dates ! Of course its completely wrong to all parties involved if the man is married. He is cheating on his wife and the person he is dating.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 11/6/2009 2:14:14 PM
I tend to look for dark haired women. If they look good with dark hair they will be stunning blonde ! I married a true blonde and lived with her for 20 years. It doesnt seem to matter if they are blonde or otherwise they all leave in the end.....

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Gold Diggers, or someone of that ilk Posted: 11/6/2009 2:12:29 PM
I stop gold diggers by pretending I have very little ! Its not until I have known someone for a long time would I mention the house and car are paid for and I have a significant amount of money in the bank. Having said that I wouldnt be stupid enough to move someone in anyway !

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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omg that explains alot!! Posted: 11/6/2009 1:59:38 PM
There are many men who wont commit for numerous reasons. The reason for it is bad relationships, bad marriage, expensive divorce and men who wont accept the womans kids as part of his life. After dating for a round 5 years now I can understand why. I have met paranoids, alcoholics etc etc I have finally come to the conclusion that having a woman in my life is just not worth the hassle.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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STD/Mutual Testing Questions Posted: 11/4/2009 1:59:04 PM
Its not until you get an STD that you realise just how much damage they can do if not caught quickly. I believe there is one where the woman doesnt know she has it until her ovaries burst inside her. I caught a simple bacterial infection of a girlfriend and didnt know i had it until I started passing blood. I thought it was just a run of the mill water infection until after the thrid course of anti biotics it wasnt going away. I was then referred to a gum clinic and they found out I had got it from my girlfriend. Was my girlfriend rough and been around loads of men ? She said no. In fact she was a very well to do lady ! Sadly even though it was treated I am left to this day with a very weak bladder. They put a camera inside the bladder but could find nothing obviously wrong other than an infection. Sex should come with a warning, it can kill or serious damage your wealth !!!!

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Opinions and Honesty wanted!!!! Posted: 10/26/2009 3:05:20 PM
Sounds like he is just messing you around and picking you up when he wants a bit on the side. Whats sad is your messing around with that user while there are many men on POF willing to treat you like a Queen ! Will women ever learn ? Its seems the bad boy is so sexy to women......

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Why you will never find a perfect person for you: A statistician's approach :) Posted: 10/26/2009 3:03:05 PM
I reckon I fancy around 1 in 200 women on POF. Given 1 in 200 fancy me then the chances of me finding the right one for me where I am the right one for her is 1 in 40,000. Given there are less than a hundred within dating distance of me then I have no chance !

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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What to do when you meet an amazing man that is commitment phobic! Posted: 10/10/2009 2:02:52 PM
The reason he is the one is because he has never been married ! He hasnt had time to get bitter about women and relationships. Every relationship does fail in the end whether through circumstances or death. Some women seem to put more emphasis on marriage than just accepting a good relationship and being happy with that. If you push him for more you might just drive him away. Just go with the flow and see where it goes........

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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How much money does a man need to make to keep you interested in him? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:59:47 PM
It depends on the woman. I have met self sufficient women who dont want anything from me but attention. On the other hand I have met women who just want me to spend my money on them all the time. All other women come somewhere in between. There certainly are some golddiggers but there are also some women who dont care how much you earn.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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The 'I LOVE YOU' Bomb... Posted: 9/30/2009 3:31:53 PM
It should be at least a month or so before you get to know someone well enough. I had a date talking about marriage on our first date. That is very scary ! I suppose some people are mroe desperate than others to find a permanent partner.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Looking for perfection? Posted: 9/29/2009 3:17:12 PM
Its easy to sit in front of your PC and go shopping for a mate. Sadly unless your stunning its unlikely the one you want also wants you as well. I see the same old faces on internet dating month after month. So they are either not dating or far too fussy.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Dating while unemployed Posted: 9/28/2009 4:11:52 PM
I found being out of work was a psoitive when I was dating. It meant I could give my girlfriend the attention she required. It was only when I got a job that she cleared off ! Women want the attention and the money but they cant have both realistically.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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I am getting used to being SINGLE, which scares hell out of me. Posted: 9/28/2009 4:08:45 PM
I have been single for a while and its only now appreciate just how much a partner changes your life. I come and go as I like. I spend all my money on me. I go to bed when I like and watch what I want on TV without having to consult someone else. I fully own my own house and car. The longer i am single the more I like it. For the sake of sex and some company and the possibility of losing half your home its just not worth it. As time goes on women become more and more demanding and this is a huge turn off.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Let me give you the tour... Posted: 9/21/2009 2:15:38 PM
I suspect he was more worried his other owman would spot the hairs ! White carpets and floors sounds like a real bachelor pulling pad to me. Personally I would run for the hills................

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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I find this site disheartening.... Posted: 9/21/2009 2:12:33 PM
I find I get very few replies but thats not surprising as i live in a remotely populated areas despite being in a city. Its a good 55 miles to Newcastle and 100 miles to Manchester, Liverpool and Glasgow.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 9/21/2009 2:07:45 PM
You forgot the golden rule of dating and that is sex or any reference to it in the slightest is out for the first few dates. The game is you have to prettend to be not interested in sex. I usually let the woman decide when to move things forward as it saves a lot of embarassment.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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should I tell His wife he's cheating? Posted: 9/18/2009 2:50:45 PM
Revenge is sweet. She deserves everything she gets for being a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater and people have a right to know. Cheating is not jus twrong but also can spread diseases around. Shop her now...........

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Restless Legs Syndrome!!! Posted: 9/15/2009 5:52:20 PM
I sometimes get this when I go to bed. It doesnt hapen too often but when it does its hard to get to sleep with it. I think its to d owith blood pressure dropping when you lie down and the legs get starved of oxygen. I find it best not to exercise before bedtime and it doesnt happen as often.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Toilet seat up or down- Relationship downfall? Posted: 9/13/2009 9:49:11 AM
Its all about compromise. Personally i am happy to leave the sit up or down as its no trouble. The problem starts when the otehr person wants everything their way. Important decisions should be made together so both parties know where the ystand.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Loss of Interest Posted: 9/13/2009 9:13:22 AM
Sounds to me like you cant stand to lose control of a situation. This is far too selfish an attitude to allow a good relationship to work. Allowing someone else into your life means you have give up a bit of control otherwise you will drive them away. You really cant have everything your way, that really is a very childish and selfish attitude to life.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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X factor 2009 Posted: 8/29/2009 1:44:37 PM
X factor this time has been spolied by having an audience and background music effects while the judges are talking. I want to hear people sing not listen to an audience screaming and shouting. I was also put off by the rapid flicking of one sequence to anotehr it just gave me a headache, I know its to stop us getting bored but is x factor realing that boring ? A good show is being spoiled by poor proudction.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Has Dating Become More Difficult? Posted: 8/22/2009 2:37:28 PM
Previous bad relationships and expensive divorces put a lot of people off. Once bit, twice shy ! There are so many other distractions in life now and a partner can often be someone who stands in the way of what you want and want to do. I now own my own home. Should i let someone move in then they suddenly become half owners despite never worked a single hour to earn their half. Life is much easier on your own.......

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Why we do the people we do! Posted: 8/14/2009 4:10:06 PM
Jerry Springer is best. People have a good scrap and get all their agression and hate out. Then they chat and sort things out. If you want to be put off marriage/relationships for life then watch 20 episodes of Jerry Springer !

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

Msg: 113 (view)

Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 8/6/2009 4:44:11 PM
If a woman refused to cook and do the housework if not working while i was she would very quickly see the door ! A relationship is also a partnership and I am not a parent replacement for anyone ! Some people are just bone idle, it doesnt take that much effort to learn to cook.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Ever heard of the Gold Analogy? Posted: 8/6/2009 4:41:47 PM
But some people are simply drama queens, always looking to make something out of nothing. Personally I like the quiet life with as a little drama as possible. I have been out with a drama queen and she was really hard work. I just got fed up with her in the end and moved on.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Are all women nuts?/Where are all the good ones at? Posted: 8/6/2009 4:37:20 PM
Women tend to cheat when they are not getting their quota of attention from their man. It sounds like your away a lot and women are very social beings and like to be around people. I susupect your job is the problem, you need to find something where you are around more often.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Do you mind your SO talking to others about your relationship? Posted: 8/2/2009 6:11:06 PM
I think it is disgusting that someone should share personal information about you. Sounds to me like she cant be trusted. I think I would be having serious words with her and if that doesnt work look for someone a bit more discrete. I can only guess she cant think for herself so tells her friends everything to get an opinion.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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favourite fleetwood mac record? Posted: 8/2/2009 2:28:19 PM
My favourite is Rhiannon then the chain. I have learned to play a few of Fleetwood macs songs and never get tired of playing them. Great music never fades away. I have a few DVD's of Fleetwood Mac and prefer watching those to watching TV programs.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Adultery Posted: 7/22/2009 5:17:28 PM
Adultery is not acceptable. You should always finsih with one person before sleeping with another. Adultery is partly how disease is spread. I have certainly never committed adultery and wouldnt accept it from a partner. They do it once then they are gone. Once the trust is gone then its gone for good.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Turned 50 and it's different (shallow thread) Posted: 7/22/2009 5:14:02 PM
I have noticed a huge amount of profiles that have 50 as a cut off age. I think its the 40 somethings who cant think about being over 50 so they look for someone younger instead. However youth is beauty in most cases and a lot of people go downhill after 50.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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I need some advice please Posted: 7/22/2009 3:19:59 PM
You cant hurry love. Either the man is into you or he is not. If he is not into you then simply move on and dont look back. You cant force someone to love you and so you shouldnt try. I reckon I fancy around 1 in a 100 women on POF. If the opposite is true then I will click with someone 1 in 10,000 profiles. Sad but true.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Can somebody help? Posted: 7/22/2009 3:16:08 PM
I have had women do that to me. They insist they hate communicating over the internet and insist we talk on the phone straight away. Some people are just after quick easy sex and so that type can be quite impatient.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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When in a LTR is flirting with others harmless or hurtful? Posted: 7/22/2009 2:05:31 PM
How can flirting when your attached be harmless ? Its insulting to your other half ! Persoanlly when I am attached I never flirt because i am sensitive to my other halfs feelings. And why flirt if your happy with your partner ?

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Too picky? Just don't want to settle Posted: 7/20/2009 6:43:48 AM
There is one thing worse than being alone and that is being with the wrong person. I have high expectations too and wont settle for someone I dont fancy or like. I think all the best people are already taken and are being well looked after by someone. The rest are on dating sites or in pub and clubs waiting and hoping someone will pick them up.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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stood up on my first date. Posted: 7/20/2009 6:38:57 AM
You have to remember most blokes on dating sites are just out of a bad marriage or relationship and possibly a very expensive divorce too. On the one hand they want a woman but on the other do they want to end up bogged down divorce proceedings again ? You need to be thick skinned for the dating game, just chalk it up to experience and move on............. Who knows your next date might be Mr Perfect.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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How do you deal with finding out someone you loved is gone ie is no more Posted: 7/17/2009 3:41:28 PM
Once someone is dead at least you know they cant come back. I have been in a relationship where she used to just disappear leaving notes saying she wasnt coming back, then 3 days later she would return with her tail between her legs ! After three disappearances I told her if she went again not to come back. Two years later she finally went for good. Three months down the line she wanted me back but I refused........... So for me someone who comes and goes is worse than someone who is dead. At least you know where you stand with someone who is dead.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Said "Hello hun" and was accuesed of being forward and blocked ! Posted: 7/12/2009 2:44:26 PM
I just had probably the saddest reply to a message today. I said "Hi Hun, hows it going" and was blocked and the reply said I was being too forward ! A few of the women I have chatted to on here complain about naked men on webcams and men making sexual advances. I can only guess something else upset this particular woman about my profile. Oh well, you win some and you lose some ! I just found it very amusing....... So what do you think ? was i being inappropriate ?

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Why are relationships difficult lately?? Posted: 7/12/2009 2:26:34 PM
The second or third time around a lot of women become very very choosey about who they take on. They have lost control in previous relationships and now want full control. This is a huge turn off for a lot of men coz after all a relationship should be 50:50. Also a lot of women dont need a man in their home so get a quickie at the local pub/club and enjoy their freedom.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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how do u know if he's not a predator? Posted: 7/12/2009 2:23:20 PM
From my conversations with women on dating groups there are a lot of men just after sex out there. However its just the same at pubs and clubs. All you can do is take things slowly as they come and see how things go.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Online dating vs Social groups Posted: 7/12/2009 2:21:15 PM
The internet has the advantage of gettin gquite a bit of info upfront about someone, like their preferences and what they are looking for. Meeting someone in a pub is dangerous, they could already be with someone and just looking for a quick fling. I have been caught out that way a couple of times. A bored housewife looking for a bit of excitement. I prefer the internet and I chat to people for a good while before meeting. After all some people fall at the first hurdle by being smokers.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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How much do we blame on porn? Posted: 7/11/2009 4:43:04 PM
I think we have to accept that everyone is different. A good sexual relationship is where both parties get what they want from it. Having been with quite a few women in my time I can vouch that women are very different from each other. I have been with the frigid to the loosest of women.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Pink and other anti men songs ? Posted: 7/11/2009 4:40:26 PM
Anti men songs make women feel in control. From the mans point of view, who wants a man hater ? Relationships are about give and take and not about how much you can hate your partner ! "I will survive" applies to men too ! I too have taken enough rubbish from some women to last a lifetime but I dont any longer.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Father wants to see child after 11 years of no contact........ Posted: 7/11/2009 4:36:32 PM
I would leave it up to the child if they wanted to see him or not. If the bloke is paying for a kid then I dont see why he shouldnt see it. I was lucky and my sons were grown up before i got divorced.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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My worst fear.. go figure Posted: 7/11/2009 4:35:16 PM
Governments use our kids as cannon fodder. If it was the politicians who had to fight on the front line there wouldnt be any wars ! My son is in the RAF but is a technician and doesnt see much action. However they still get the odd rocket landing on their base.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Why are single moms so open to having additional children by another man? Posted: 7/11/2009 4:32:50 PM
The only problem I have witt this are the women who expect everyone to pay for their brood and wont admit to who the fathers are. It sounds a bit like women hooking men on a saturday night and getting pregnant to keep the man. The man doesnt care as he got his leg over anyway and probably didnt even fancy her. There are estates full of hosues with just a woman and her kids. While everyone else is paying this will go on. Remove the funding for kids and see how quickly these women get pregnant then ! A family is a mum, a dad and kids not a loose woman and her kids.

carlisleman

Joined: 3/24/2007

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Negative Postings Posted: 7/9/2009 4:09:05 PM
I must admit I have been horrified at some peoples profiles. To say they were men haters is a huge misunderstatement ! If men really are so bad why are they looking for one ? So come on girls drop the bitterness and play nicely.....

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