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turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

not worth it Posted: 4/26/2007 5:21:44 PM
i was very sceptical about speed dating before i tried it,but everyone who goes along is in the same position,its really just like the pof meets but with strangers.if you enjoy meeting new people its great fun.many people make the same mistake of assuming that its got something to do with sex,maybe it will catch on in the usa also

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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is blocking people hurtful Posted: 4/26/2007 4:01:48 PM
some really good points here,but call it discussion,differences of opinion ,communication of ideas,brainstorming,getting a point across or debating,we can only learn through dialogue. rememeber descartes,i think therefore i am, before hitting the block button!

turbomonster

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is blocking people hurtful Posted: 4/26/2007 3:28:50 PM
ok,i have many faults,but i made a decision to never block anyone ,i think it can be very hurtful. if i have an argument with someone,i think it can be very constructive,surely we only block someone if we really think we cant win the argument.what do you think,is blocking just the easy way out?

turbomonster

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snappy one liners Posted: 4/26/2007 1:06:42 PM
as long as its not my dentist saying it!

turbomonster

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Why wouldn't an ESTJ want to date an ESTJ? Wouldn't we agree on everything? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:26:35 PM
well,if we were all psychiatrists it would be a real problem.for me,if my heart flutters that s enough

turbomonster

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Msg: 32 (view)

Polite ways to say thanks, but no thanks Posted: 4/25/2007 6:25:17 PM
well i guess that s where comfort sex comes in

turbomonster

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Guilt over a divorce Posted: 4/25/2007 6:19:17 PM
well i admire people for having tried,and more still for having the courage to divorce

turbomonster

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Msg: 57 (view)

What's up with all the camping and outdoor stuff? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:17:57 PM
be sceptical,to a lot of them this is the centre of the universe(im talking about the keyboard)

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

soul mates? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:16:56 PM
well,its a kind wat of saying you dont fancy someone(eg i love you like a brother)

turbomonster

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Msg: 67 (view)

spontaniously embrace strangers would you let your partner Posted: 4/25/2007 6:16:05 PM
i thought that was called a citizens arrest

turbomonster

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Don't we all want the same thing...? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:15:28 PM
some people want love because they are lonely,others to share their problems with,others because they like the sight of lacey underwear

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

Msg: 60 (view)

How can you tell if your in love? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:13:57 PM
well,imagine them in their socks,if you laugh your not in love

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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What is the difference? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:13:03 PM
well ,when youre in love you give someone a lovebite

turbomonster

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Msg: 60 (view)

WHat to do in a sex less mariage Posted: 4/25/2007 6:11:34 PM
dont put all the blame on yourself will you

turbomonster

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new contacts Posted: 4/25/2007 6:09:23 PM
its true,this happens a lot,i guess thats one reason this is a great place to make friends but a poor place to find a partner

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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Is marriage near impossible nowadays? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:07:28 PM
so in a nutshell,the church is in decline,phew! what you dont mention is the lawyers circling in the water like sharks ready to get their teeth into the property!

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

Msg: 27 (view)

need a few opinions on my situation Posted: 4/25/2007 6:04:43 PM
life is always about giving people the benefit of the doubt,take a chance on him

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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Are relationships essentially simple and straightforward? Posted: 4/25/2007 6:03:19 PM
they should be,but people here can play with your brain,just check they are single

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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Knowing Thyself Posted: 4/25/2007 6:00:38 PM
well theres a lot of arty farty nonsense about this,if you look at a lady and it makes you go hmmm,thats all you need to know

turbomonster

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need advice Posted: 4/25/2007 5:56:20 PM
time is a healer,maybe in 10 years your attitude will change.you really cant win because there are plenty of 30 somethings who would be very envious of your position(young and with child) the decision is yours but always keep your options open sweetheart

turbomonster

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To Sue or not to Sue Posted: 4/24/2007 7:46:36 PM
well maybe if youd said you d dated him a few months...

turbomonster

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sex - the best exercise? Posted: 4/24/2007 7:44:13 PM
that stepsersizer on the shopping channel is pretty good

turbomonster

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Msg: 264 (view)

Is kissing cheating...? Posted: 4/24/2007 7:42:40 PM
well eskimos kiss by rubbing noses,so if i scratch my nose im guilty of infidelity,and if i scratchthe above posters nose its adultery i guess

turbomonster

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the ex Posted: 4/24/2007 7:36:40 PM
well theres always sign language,2 fingered salute may help

turbomonster

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To Sue or not to Sue Posted: 4/24/2007 7:32:14 PM
but surely your own story validates the notion that std s are a byproduct of promiscuity if you slept with him just after meeting him?

turbomonster

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sex - the best exercise? Posted: 4/24/2007 7:18:03 PM
staring at a ladies hooters for 10 minutes raises the heart rate burning as many calories as a one mile run.a calorie is a unit of energy sufficient to raise the temp of a litre of water by 1 degree celcius

turbomonster

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Msg: 42 (view)

10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 4/24/2007 6:25:29 PM
ok ,im thinking that maybe geeks are submissive and a lot of ladies (here )are dominant,so makes a great combination, but if she tells you to wear her high heels show her the door

turbomonster

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To Sue or not to Sue Posted: 4/24/2007 6:13:31 PM
make a direct call to toll free 14u and ask them to reverse the charges

turbomonster

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Odor that will stop you dead in your tracks Posted: 4/24/2007 6:11:02 PM
i think body odour contains pheremones,people say they hate body odour but we all smell!a persons natural scent doesnt bother me,

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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How do you take it when someone asks for MORE pictures, including full body ones? Posted: 4/24/2007 6:04:19 PM
we try to deny it but we are all sexual beings one way or another. if you dont give the pictures maybe it is you who is being secretive?

turbomonster

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not worth it Posted: 4/24/2007 5:38:19 PM
i have always been a multiple dater and am very honest about it,to me speed dating is actually less emotionally harmful to others because the wider the circle of friends the less the dependence (im only talking about friendships here,because i dont agree with sex before marriage)

turbomonster

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Married sex Posted: 4/24/2007 5:29:06 PM
variety is the spice of life ,its time to improvise

turbomonster

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Msg: 26 (view)

I love sex with you.. but can you let me sleep!!! Posted: 4/24/2007 5:27:50 PM
the problem is that if you do indeed reject him coldly rather than talking it through rationally you may lose him altogether.remember that if its an important thing for him it should be an important thing for you

turbomonster

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naughty but nice! Posted: 4/24/2007 5:22:35 PM
not giving any names,but i have heard that the mile high club is very popular.

turbomonster

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Msg: 25 (view)

Naked Checkers Posted: 4/24/2007 4:59:42 PM
i guess the question is,is it lewd to be nude! not sure about chess on a first date

turbomonster

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not worth it Posted: 4/24/2007 4:49:49 PM
what a great question,im afraid you cant make an omlette without breaking a few eggs and peoples feelings may get hurt along the way

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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Tired yet want to date Posted: 4/24/2007 4:47:50 PM
nobody seems to have mentioned is that you are probably not tired of relationships but tired of dating,groundhog day all over again

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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Did you ever leave someone because you weren't good enough for them Posted: 4/24/2007 3:57:42 PM
well,someone told me that i was dating outside my league,it was sassyaquarious i think

turbomonster

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what accent does it for you Posted: 4/24/2007 3:28:39 PM
i really love american accents,and american ladies seem to be very warm hearted.

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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Any 'westerner' had a relationship with a chinese girl? Posted: 4/24/2007 3:14:18 PM
theres definitely a culture barrier to overcome because china is a third world country even if this is the 21st century(above) let me give you an example.i was chatting with the ceo of a chinese joint venture company and he said to me,my greatest ambition in life sir is to learn to drive.he didnt even contemplate owning the car!ladies occupy a subordinate role so you can guess the rest!

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

Msg: 26 (view)

why wont some ladies take no for an answer Posted: 4/24/2007 2:30:46 PM
it has been mentioned that i can block people,but i think everyone has a right to be heard.whats the difference between prejudging and prejudice? i get between 30 to 40 messages a week from married ladies,most will argue til the cows come home that they are really single,and that the certificate is just a piece of paper. on the topic of the title,they really wont take no for an answer even when i say sorry and good luck,they come back with im not really here for dating anyway,so you really cant win can i just warn single people here to wach out for this `its just a piece of paper ` trap,because if it was they would already be divorced. another reason i wont block people is because if they really are getting divorced that is an entirely different situation,a case in point being the learned member,imjustmekevin

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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why wont some ladies take no for an answer Posted: 4/24/2007 1:03:00 PM
a lot of married folk use this forum on the pretext that they are just here to chat,well why pick a dating site,there are loads of other sites. one thing really does lead to another all of you who make out im such an idiot are in denial,and if youre single and think im an idiot then youre naive

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

Msg: 105 (view)

Those relationship testimonials on our profiles Posted: 4/24/2007 12:09:07 PM
not sure about the testimonials,i always insist on a credit reference

turbomonster

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Msg: 28 (view)

Advice needed on new relationship Posted: 4/24/2007 12:06:46 PM
give him a great big smack on the lips!

turbomonster

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Msg: 26 (view)

Married sex Posted: 4/24/2007 12:04:23 PM
maybe costumes would help break the ice

turbomonster

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Msg: 28 (view)

Does this even happen to u? Posted: 4/24/2007 12:00:37 PM
5iron,youve really got problems if you wake up to find youve got crap that needs deleting

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Noise, grunts and sex, why? Posted: 4/24/2007 11:44:20 AM
the most important thing is to be yourself,otherwise it isnt tennis

turbomonster

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too much pleasure Posted: 4/24/2007 11:41:31 AM
when people say,as ttawny does above,about how we should all be the same and that what is normal for one person should be normal for another,i have to disagree. have to ask do people here really use viagra,just curious,what effect does it have?

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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do or dont: Posted: 4/24/2007 7:54:46 AM
well,if your single knowing the physical dimension to a person is a good clue as to how you get on,but whats wrong with simply snogging

turbomonster

Joined: 3/26/2007

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why wont some ladies take no for an answer Posted: 4/24/2007 7:47:21 AM
well to most people apathy just means cant be bothered to get divorced.how many single people really want a relationship with someone who cant be bothered to get divorced when people say they are only married on paper,its like people banned from driving saying to a policeman,well,on paper ive got a 5 year ban but it doesnt need to stop me the bit about needing to trust being more important doesnt apply because anyone on a dating site while already married shows they cant be trusted,divorce isnt that hard or expensive

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