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 Author Thread: I'm confused
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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I'm confused
Posted: 6/17/2009 12:42:11 PM
Ok, heres whats going on.

I have a lesbian friend, we have been friends for some time, she's the stud type. Doesn't look feminine more tomboy, but recently I've sensing she's been a little flirty with me. I don't want to say anything to maybe mess up our friendship, she's a great female friend, with no possible hook ups.

Before we flirted as a joke, but she has never come on like this, is it me or is she possibly looking for more now. But she's gay.

Ladies, I'm confuse, what should I do?
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 11 (view)
 
A Girl's First Time
Posted: 1/26/2009 2:38:57 PM
maybe i should just post a picture of the hand written, from pencil i found in my high school year book. if you dont believe me
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 4 (view)
 
A Girl's First Time
Posted: 2/15/2008 10:32:19 PM
thank you i know you like every second of it
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 1 (view)
 
A Girl's First Time
Posted: 2/15/2008 5:39:39 PM
I wrote this a long time ago, roughly 10 years ago.


It's your first time.
As you lie back your muscles tighten.
You put him off for a while searching for an excuse,
but he refuses to be swayed as he approaches you.
He asks if you're afraid and you shake your head bravely.
He has had more experience,
but it's the first time his finger has found the right place.
He probes deeply and you shiver; your body tenses;
but he's gentle like he promised he'd be.
He looks deeply within your eyes and tells you to trust him, he's done this many times before.

His cool smile relaxes you and you open wider to give him more room for an ease entrance.
You begin to plead and beg him to hurry, but he slowly takes his time, wanting to cause you as little pain as possible.
As he presses closer, going deeper, you feel the tissue give way; pain surges throughout your body and you feel the slight trickle of blood as he continues.
He looks at you concerned and asks you if it's too painful.

Your eyes are filled with tears but you shake your head and nod for him to go on.
He begins going in and out with skill but you are now too numb to feel him within you.
After a few moments, you feel something bursting within you and he pulls it out of you, you lay panting, glad to have it over.

He looks at you and smiling warmly, tells you,with a chuckle; that you have been his most stubborn yet most rewarding experience.
You smile and thank your dentist.
After all, it was your first time to have a tooth pulled.

What were you thinkin'?
I know what you were thinking!
I know what I was thinking!!!
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 40 (view)
 
foreplay
Posted: 2/10/2008 7:41:01 PM
Well this may be a little off topic, but what if she is just a booty call.

Do you put in all the effort for just a booty?
Or do you hold back?

And back to the topic, it depends on the person, my ex would shut down after ONE orgasm. I mean completely, she would dry up, damn near go to sleep. So if she got one during foreplay, I was assed out.
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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Behind My Smile
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:56:04 PM
Behind My Smile

I really don't understand......
Every woman I have truely loved has turned out very bad.....
The last one I loved didn't love herself enough to not try to kill herself.....
The one before her just died.....

I am dystand to be alone.....
I am cursed to watch every woman I love die.....
I am to be at friends weddings alone.....
I am always going to be the extra person.....

I am glad that everyone has found that person that makes them smile....
But your happiness makes me sick.....
Why????
Because I feel that your love will last.....
Because thats when I know I am OUT OF PLACE.....

My love isn't strong enough for the sane......
This is my place......
In the shadows....
Always the unpaid bodyguard.....
Always the fake boyfriend.....


So I stand here....
Broken.....
Bleeding....
Scarred....
Alone....

........... with tears behind my smile..........
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Trash?
Posted: 10/24/2007 10:42:36 PM
haven't we all? I usually don't write any, i mostly read it. But it is a reflection of not just me but others
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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Trash?
Posted: 10/24/2007 8:16:25 PM
Trash?
Why?
Why am I trash to you?
Why can I just be put aside like that?
Why after all my friendship its over?

Was it worth it?
Did you find more happiness now that I'm gone?
When you fall, will you come ask me for more of your help?

How am I so easy to replace?
Is it really me?
What did I do?

My loyality means nothing...........?
My heart means nothing........?
My pain, my anger means nothing........?

I don't think I will understand your reasons behind the pain that you have caused me.
I'm not sure you will understand why it hurts so much.

But I will not let it destroy me.
I will learn from this and I now know, that the beauty inside someone can be fake as well.
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 135 (view)
 
Sending messages but not showing up in the sent message area
Posted: 7/30/2007 7:12:12 PM
I've sent a couple of messages in the last few days to people and not all of them show up, I don't copy and paste. Half the time I completely forget what I said in the message anyway. But I don't get an error or any message stating that I cannot talk to this person for any reason, there's just no sent message. I wonder if I'm not receiving some messages as well, is there any way to check that out?

Where is the post about the intimate encounters I have some thoughts on that and I would like to have my voice (type) heard (read).
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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Today April 19th
Posted: 4/19/2007 8:56:04 AM
Is my 27th birthday
i have no plans
no one to hang out with
cant play video games
and no woman

Only when i was a kid were birthdays fun
after you start to get old they loss that fun
at least for me

my 18th birthday i spent at home in bed, i was badly hurt a couple of days before
my 21st birthday i spent in a different country away from my family and i wasnt allowed to go out, i was in the military and we had to leave with someone and i got left.
my 25th birthday i was at school and then work til 3am.

only thing thats been good about my birthdays are i usually make it to the next one
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 43 (view)
 
I just FOUND OUT
Posted: 7/11/2006 11:12:12 AM
Thanks for replying
i couldnt answer to what happened because no one else posted just yet
the system is set up so i cant keep posting on my own thread.

but any way


Here is goes


I talked the guy into meeting me so we could talk face to face and get things out in the open, so we met up and talked. I didnt want anything to do with her after i found out, but he wanted to get even or at least put her out in front of a large crowd. So the plan was to for me to meet up with her as normal, and for me to just walk by him with her and i say hi to him like we've known each other for years. So when i meet up with her, there just so happen to be alot of people in the area and an added bonus 3 of her cousins were there. So when i walked up to him with her, the look on her face completely priceless, man i wish i had a camera. After she tried to walk off, and run into her cousins, then the best part. Her mom was showing her cousins around, so she hear all of it, you cant ask for anything better. I still just wish i had a camera.


But if anyone else has a success story like this feel free to share.
Or if you have the same problem and dont know what to do, post up here.

THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 322 (view)
 
Circumsized or not circumsized
Posted: 7/11/2006 10:50:53 AM
I am Un-Cut and Free
I am planning to die whole and not missing too many parts that i was born with
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
I just FOUND OUT
Posted: 4/26/2006 12:18:09 PM
Ripley
sounds like a good plan
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 29 (view)
 
I just FOUND OUT
Posted: 4/26/2006 12:02:40 AM
trust me im not emotionally attached to her, i just feel sorry for him

she cheated on him, that mean they have or had problems

but i dont know
i feel like ive wronged the guy

and Im trying to set her up for a fall like ~iice~ did with her friemd

nothing crazy just a really hard GOODBYE
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
I just FOUND OUT
Posted: 4/25/2006 3:40:55 PM
Im through with her but we've been thinking

What if they are more guys than just me and him

i want to get her back for this, but ive never been in something like this, thats why i put this post up
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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I just FOUND OUT
Posted: 4/25/2006 3:02:38 PM
oh trust me its not even an option to keep her around

its just i feel bad for the other guy, he has the title of BOYFRIEND

i was just some sex on the side

should we set her up or should we just bow out, I know im done with her
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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I just FOUND OUT
Posted: 4/25/2006 1:52:08 PM
I just found out that Im the other man, i dont know what to do.

i ran across her man online and i thought it was her
asked her about hookin-up again
and hes like "Who are you how do you know my girl"

Im like damn man Im sorry i didnt know

it feels bad being the other man

so me and him are trying to figure out things now

she doesnt know that we now know each other

what should we do

[moved from S&D/Dog]
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 2 (view)
 
SSX Trickey
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:59:15 PM
yup but SSX 3 is a good improvement of the game. MOBY JONES SUPERSTAR!!!!
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Joined: 2/5/2005
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Snowboarding!!
Posted: 4/1/2006 1:57:02 PM
ok, i went up to Big Bear and Snow Summit.

I now have a new hobby
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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Snowboarding!!
Posted: 2/5/2006 1:12:39 PM
for those that snowboard in California
which mountain is a good place to learn
I heard Mammoth or Snow Sumit
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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Snowboarding!!
Posted: 1/30/2006 9:52:11 PM
I wanna start snowboarding

Im from Los Angeles CA

is there anyone here in the Los Angeles area, wanna help me learn
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Joined: 2/5/2005
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Do I Qualify
Posted: 1/2/2006 7:32:18 PM
Do you qualify to be the man I need you to be?
Will you be able to recognize the things you
need to see? Will you be able to understand, that
I'm a good woman and in my life I need a good man?
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to fertilize my unproduced seeds?
Can you fulfill, as I can, all of our needs?
Can you put me in my place if you see I am slippin'?
Can you talk to me, wholeheartedly?
Not constantly trippin??
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be called all mine?
Can you leave the other women and temptations
behind? Can you come to me with your problems and
ot wait until it's too late?
Can you stand up and admit if you made a mistake?
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be the honest ebony man I
would want you to be?
Would you be able to look me in my eyes and
admit your feelings to me?
Could you take me in your arms and make love to
me all night long?
Can you be sensitive and still be strong?

Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be my friend as well as my
lover? Can you put our love before any other?
Can you cherish me as if I were Diamonds &
Gold? Can you make me feel like I'm the last
woman you'll ever hold?
Do you qualify?

Do you qualify to be called a good man?
If I have doubts can you reassure me and understand?
Can your love intoxicate me as if I were High?
To be in my life, I need to know,

DO YOU QUALIFY?

*****************************************************************************************

The Brother's Response:

You ask, do I qualify.
Can I fulfill your needs and become the man you need me to be?
My sister, are you prepared for what you've asked for?
Can you handle the responsibility?

Can you accept that, by GOD, I am the chosen
one, the authority, the comforter, and the head?
Will you submit and willingly follow my path?
Or will you fight with me instead?

If I am your King, will you treat me as such?
Will I get the best of your beauty and poise?
Or will I be subjected to an appearance
neglected, and checked with some serious noise?
When I talk, will you listen?
I mean whole heartedly and feel me?
Or will you rush me just to make your point too?
Can I be the man at all times? Even when it hurts?
Or is it just when it's convenient for you?

Can you love me for me, and not who you wish I could be?
Will you see the strong Black Man within?
Or will you always remind me of the all
the past brothers behind me and make me pay for their sins?

If I don't send you flowers the day your co-worker
received some, will you know that I love you still?
Or will my good name be uttered along with those other doggish brothers?
Will you question if my commitment is real?

Will you be patient and teach me to understand you,
and allow my knowledge of your needs to grow?
Or will you shut me out when I ask, Baby
what's wrong?
Or will you respond with, "Well a REAL man would know!"

When we first met, what was it that caught your
eye? Was it my mind, my heart, my personality?
Or was it my suit, or my job, or do you love
what I drive, instead of what's driving me?

Yes I can, and I will, make love to you from midnight to the dawning of the
sun.
But, if I tell you I'm tired, will you trust
I'm sincere or believe that there must be another one?
My sister, I love you and my heart can be yours. No woman could lead me
astray.
But like you, I have needs, so I beg of you, please, in this love thang meet
me half way.

In life's tough times I'll hold you, in the rough times I'll mold you;
your simplest wish will be my command.
My life is yours if need be.
Yes you can fully bleed me, and when hell comes, in your place, I'll stand.

A good relationship is a powerful institution that must be built on a
foundation of two.
So to answer your question,
YES sister, I do qualify.

Now, more importantly...do you?
 
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