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people watchin Posted: 9/30/2006 11:08:16 AM
Gah.. Stalkers! The lot of you! jk, jk... Actually, as an avid people-watcher, I find you can learn alot about people without actually talking to them... Even when people you know walk past and don't know you're somewhere... Used to sit around the mall and see how people interact, kind of met one of my x's that way... She looked interesting so I kept an eye from afar, luckilly she didn't make me move so it wasn't stalking :P... Finally after watching for a bit, I asked her out :P. Worked out for a bit, and she was pretty much who/what I expected her to be... Disclaimer: Unfortunately you can't tell everything about a person

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what did you believe when you were a little kid? Posted: 9/30/2006 10:57:56 AM
I believed that chocolate milk came from brown cows and haha my kids now think that .....! Hehe, I got that one too! I still make it a habit when my father and I are travelling in the country to point out the chocolate milk farms from the white milk farms!!! I believed the CN Tower was a radio for talking to martians... I believed I could get electrocuted if I scuffed my feet on carpet too much... I believed if I changed the channel on the TV too often, I'd get sucked into a show and never be able to get back home... Didn't they make a movie about this one? Sigh, parents & siblings are so mean.... hahaha.

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Are We just kidding ourselves?????? Posted: 6/4/2006 4:39:11 PM
Generally I'm just here to confirm my suspicions that not everyone is in a happy "Make you puke in the park they're so cute" relationship... Once and awhile I'll send out a few msg's but not often. Although, I did see someone from here in town one day and asked them out in person laughs. Too bad they got all weird, thinking I was a stalker when it came out that I saw them on POF

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Give it to me... Posted: 2/24/2006 10:29:26 PM
Banadito - I read titties too..don't worry. OP - Saying you smoke is being honest. As a smoker, I realize I'm limiting the people who message me by being honest. I think as a non smoker (or a liar), Banadito sees that as missing opportunities. Perhaps he's right, but in my opinion, those opportunities were never really there unless you are prepared to quit smoking for someone. Good profile overall, but I think i'd take out the part about not liking to write profiles. I'm kind of a hipocryt because i think it is in my profile anyhow.

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PLEASE HELP ME, AND REVIEW MY PROFILE AND PICTURES. Posted: 2/24/2006 10:20:13 PM
Go read the post on writing a profile by bucsgirl. 2 things I noticed right away.. You're redundant, especially when it comes to you likeing film, filmmaking, or something to do with film. And although you seem to believe you're great at writing, you have no concept of paragraphing. =) Not bad overal, but not a profile I'd respond to if I was into dudes. haha.

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Bathroom Graffiti Posted: 2/24/2006 10:07:27 PM
at work (currently): This toilet paper is like Chuck Norris. It don't take sh!t off no one!

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I will review your profile... Posted: 2/24/2006 10:02:31 PM
So how am i doing? At least headed in the right direction?

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profile review Posted: 2/24/2006 9:35:51 PM
Anyone care to suggest @ mine... I just re-did it, in the hopes of getting a better response, and added some pictures... yes, I know my main picture sucks, and I'll fix it when i get my cam back! Lets focus on the writing part lol.

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Who are you in two sentences or less Posted: 2/24/2006 9:18:22 PM
hmm. You can't count can you. Thats more than 2 sentances no matter how you count it, lekika. Mine: "I am me. if you want to know more, you'll have to ask." There's my 2. Altho like most, my 2nd is just a filler.

Joined: 2/6/2005

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He is the one....only after 3 weeks Posted: 2/24/2006 8:50:45 PM
If its meant to be after 3 weeks, It will still be meant to be after 4. Wait 3 months, see if its still meant to be. Wait a year, and see. "meant to be" for now, isn't always "meant to be" for ever. Yes, it happens, and I fully believe its supposed to happen that way. but only time will tell, no amount of advice (good or bad) is going to help you know if its meant to be other than "Wait, enjoy what you have now, and see what the future holds"

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your not so good qualities? Posted: 2/24/2006 8:35:18 PM
i'm bitterly honest (i guess thats good and bad) i'm stubborn i'm a coffee-a-holic i have standards that far exceed my apparent worth because I consider myself perfect! there we go. Oh. And I am TERRIBLE with dates. I forget dates all the time... Don't expect a birthday gift unless you tell me the day before to go buy one. Ditto for valentines day, anniversaries, and any other gift-giving holiday.

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Do you girls message guys in this website? Posted: 2/24/2006 8:13:48 PM
what the heck is with that read delete thing. I sent a message to a woman a month or so back. I didn't get a response, but I had favourited her (figured I'd try again in another couple of months) yesterday, boom, she sends me a message out of the blue. Not a reply, a brand new message asking questions I would have answered in my origional message... Wonderful! Glad about the connection, not so glad that I was overlooked completely the first time.

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shepherd's pie. Posted: 11/6/2005 7:55:59 PM
The MOST important thing, I've found, is the preparation of the meat! This was, after all, poor folk leftovers... So the day after the meat's been cooked, and ate, break out the meat grinder to make your dinner~. It makes a difference using day old & doing it all properly, in my opinion :). Never used cream corn tho, I'll have to try that Asante :) Might be good!

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What are some of your favourite NON-ALCOHOLIC drinks? Posted: 11/6/2005 7:44:44 PM
Coffee, 2% Milk, or Sobe Dragon (herbal tea)

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Just a TAD bit windy out there or what? Posted: 11/6/2005 7:40:21 PM
got a digital cam? or would he get ticked if he thought you were having a little too much fun at his expense :)

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Just a TAD bit windy out there or what? Posted: 11/6/2005 7:25:04 PM
Trendy van... :) One of a kind, at least.

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Let's have a Hamilton-Burlington-Oakville area Party. Posted: 2/18/2005 10:41:40 PM
who's drivin'

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Let's have a Hamilton-Burlington-Oakville area Party. Posted: 2/14/2005 10:01:58 PM
Sounds like a good idea here :) Lemme know :)

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Valetines day Posted: 2/8/2005 10:16:49 PM
Hmm, k. Pass somea that valentine lovin my way :) Share share share alike heh.

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Who would relocate. Posted: 2/8/2005 10:15:56 PM
In a heartbeat, I'd relocate... With the internet, the world has gotten so small seemingly overnight. I'd travel to the ends of the earth, and back again, if that is what it took.

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Valetines day Posted: 2/8/2005 10:08:09 PM
I plan to ... wake up, shower, eat breakfast, work, eat lunch, work some more, come home, catch some TV and pass out on the couch. And no, sorry... No valentine here. I prefer them a little more female than you :)

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Male Victims of DV Posted: 2/8/2005 10:05:02 PM
Very little is unbelievable in this day of age...

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Why Do We Play Games? Posted: 2/8/2005 10:03:09 PM
nsalne: You think because you haven't had a woman in a while it's because you are nice... You assume alot. Just because I'm unattached right now does not mean I haven't been fairly recently... nsalne: I think you are more likely to hurt a 'nice' young lady than I am. I will be tell you right now I'm not a nice guy. I've emotionally hurt girls before and I'll do it again. Hurt has little to do with being nice... Pain is a risk of relationship. Every "NICE" person on the planet has, and will, hurt someone emotionally eventually... It doesn't make them bad people... It makes them nice, or good people in less than ideal situations. If you aren't prepared for a fire, you shouldn't play with matches my friend. nsalne: 'Nice' guys really do finish last. They don't seem to know what they want and don't seem to have direction. nice guys DO NOT finish last.. what they do is they just have to be a little more patient to find someone who is willing to execpt them as a nice guy.. I think that about sums it up. Nice guys set their heights, set their goals, and strive to achieve them. They don't lower themselves to make someone else comfortable, or give them what their used to. No, In fact, when a woman is with a truely nice guy, you can tell. She acts differently, the term "better half" goes both way in this respect, i think. nsalne: Then you can become the man that women want. I see soo many women dealing with sh*t from their men that they don't deserve. And many of them swear by these men. Some believe they can't do better, some are in love, and some just haven't realized what their doing. I can't stand guys these days, especially in my age group (early 20s). Their rude to women, on the whole. What happened to the days of opening doors, picking up the tab, flowers... And I don't mean once and awhile, all of those should be second nature. I have, and hopefully will, always treated my significant other's with the upmost respect. Always made them feel like they were the MOST important thing in my life... the ONLY important thing in my life. I think you need to rethink your attitude on what it means to be a nice guy. If what you mean by a nice guy, is someone who will never hurt a female emotionally, will never worry about whether to call today, or tomorrow...will be 100% honest (ie: Yes dear, you look fat in that dress)... then you're insane. You can not tell me that EVERY truth would not hurt some (well, all) females in some emotional way. Hell, one of my best friends, a nice young woman, got emotionally distressed when I didn't phone her (yes, I said I would) because I was in the hospital... You really need to re-read what you've said, and consider the hipocracy of it all.

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Male Victims of DV Posted: 2/8/2005 9:42:36 PM
Don't forget psychological abuse, or I guess you could say ego violence. It's not just women who get that either. I've been in a psychologically abusive relationship. I dropped below 110lbs (i'm 5'9) because she had me VERY convinced I would look "better".. there were other things, but that's one example... Looking back on it, I can't see how I could be so guillible, or stupid...but people do strange things... I went thru a period (2-3 years) of severe social anxiety after I finally decided that I could, in fact, live with out her. It's only been 2 years since I could sit in an auditorium, or go to the mall, without having to get up, go outside and take a walk every 20 minutes or so... I couldn't believe people could be so damaging, and lost trust for everyone... I'm slowly gaining that back, but it DOES happen, and is an issue that needs to be known just as much as domestic violence. Just my 2 cents.

Joined: 2/6/2005

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Men's Issues in the western world Posted: 2/8/2005 9:37:36 PM
eccentric: ...or say anything because feminazi's tell him to suck it up haha. First time I've heard the word feminazi's.. I like it... I think I'll remember that one. :)

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Why Do We Play Games? Posted: 2/8/2005 2:59:00 PM
Is there such a thing as a nice honest man? A man who purports to be a "nice guy" is just setting himself up to her the object of his affection. Nobody is perfect and nobody is an angel. Just play it real. You are an ordinary guy with "nice" tendencies.. Sure there are such things as Nice Honest Men... Problem is, they get worn out by the games, and learn to play along... Nice guys only stay nice for so long... True tho. No one is perfect... But who said Nice and Honest meant perfect? We all have our flaws. Nice doesn't mean never fights, arguements happen, deal with it. So I guess no man can be honest... but I degress, perhaps I'm reading too far into what you've said... A man who is sincere, and honest isn't necessarily just setting himself up as you assume. A man who is sincere and honest, who REALLY IS, is just that. Whether or not you've met someone who you could say was a true gentleman seems evident. There are real gentlemen left in the world. Would they not be considered Nice guys with "ordinary" tendancies? You can either learn to win the games or you can learn to communicate well enough that you can talk her out of the games. it's life[/quote This is well said... and exactly what I'm saying. If you're a nice guy, who either doesn't see the point in the games, or see's it as stooping to the level of these "ordinary" guys out there...you'll probably eventually break down to play her games. It saddens me that women who play these games because they can't be straightforward, get mad when their male counterpart won't communicate. meh. enough ranting. games bother me k? Nuff said.

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C'mon Single People, Fess Up Posted: 2/8/2005 9:45:11 AM
"Happy masturbation Day everyone! " ^^^ lol lol

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Vagina Size Posted: 2/7/2005 10:54:59 PM
"Kinsey reports that the "average" depth of a vagina runs 5 1/2 - 6 inches... coincidentally, that's also the "average" penis length. Funny how mother nature worked that out." I'm not sure if it's possible, but I'd believe this. I had a partner once who wouldn't let me completely immerse myself because I could feel myself hitting something, and she said it was uncomfortable. Not that I minded, I wanted her to have just as much fun as I was having, but I would believe that analysis of depth.

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Would you rather be rich or be with some one who Loves you Posted: 2/7/2005 10:45:59 PM
I'd rather be on the streets and with someone who loves me, than rich and alone.

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Is a man at a big disadvantage in online dating? Posted: 2/7/2005 10:20:43 PM
It seems men are at a bit more of a disadvantage than women... Since I joined Plentyoffish, I've sent out at least 15 messages. to a wide range of young women. I've been brutally honest, especially in my assessment of myself. It doesn't help that I'm not fond of the picture I put up (maybe I should take the advise here, and fill out all the pictures)... But, I think the pictures have ALOT to do with it. Fake pictures aside, it seems the more attractive a woman is, the less likely she is to reply. the one young woman I've spoken with was a year older than I, and quite attractive imo, but she wasn't on many "Friends" lists, and only voted around a 6. Honestly, I was surprised with her response, and alas, emails seem to be as far as this will go for awhile. Not being female, I don't know what it's like to have a female account on a site such as this...maybe I should open one with fake pics and see just how many messages they get ;) (kidding... that would be quite rude, and just add to the problem). But I have to wonder how many of the young men on here ARE being sincere, and honest. I've flipped through male profiles, with hopes for beefing mine up, making it more appealing...and many of these guys are full of it. I'd consider myself a hopeless romantic (and i've got the poetry to prove it), but many of the guys...ugh... Not too many college football players who have trouble stringing together a sentance, let alone a word longer than 5 characters, make it believable that their looking for more than a booty call... Yet, they seem to be on quite a few friends lists, etc. It seems though, on both sides, the honest but not top 500 pics croud are at a HUGE disadvantage. All I can say is don't give up. I don't plan to. If you're persistant (NOT ANNOYING), you'll get through... maybe not all the time... maybe not to the model type... but if you're honest, and witty, you will get some responses... Maybe 10% as suggested above, maybe 15%, maybe 5%...but those who get through, as long as you remain honest, will be worth the effort of all the turn downs. Keep it real

Joined: 2/6/2005

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WHAT'S YOUR BEST ONE LINER JOKE...AND BE RUDE AND CRUDE? Posted: 2/6/2005 2:42:37 PM
Every man wants a woman who's a virgin... and a slut.

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