Cut me some slack. It happens to the best of us.

I knew this would be how this thread would go. Not like I actually expected some magic solution to fix everything.

this is beyond a forum; if you are that obsessed with someone you need to speak with someone professionally. You are trying to make out that this other relationship was so magical when in reality it sure wasn't to her.

You are not allowed to have the woman you love because she has a choice; and she chose to be friends. It's called life.

I'd get some help. Rambling in long posts on forums isn't going to help. Get some counseling and I wish you well.

That's why people get upset the most. They can't have that last word or parting insult.

But if you think she's a deceitful BSer, don't waste her time.

you want to know what a man's feelings about something is? take your right and left hand, cover both ears and look at his actions.

why do women constantly care what a guy says. His actions show his heart, his words are used to confuse you.

Are you the same on both sites?

Why not just ask him if you're curious?

Both would be great but hey, no one does either!!

Ecochick-it may well be different in Australia. I only know that here in the States, you aren't going to see the President with a tattoo. You aren't going to see senators with tattoos. You aren't going to see CEOs of Fortune 500 companies with tattoos. You are certainly never going to see members of the powerful historic families who run the country behind the scenes sporting ink.

Who do we see with tattoos? Prison inmates. Trailer park dwellers. Gang members. Am I saying that everyone, or even the majority of people, with tattoos fit into those categories? Of course not. But I don't see why people would choose to emulate the second list rather than the first.

ur profile reads very innocent and true... maybe that much honesty leads to ppl just interested in taking advantage of u.

I just think people read to much into what a guy is saying. Its really not that complecated, Theirs no hidden meaning, No secret agenda he's said what he ment take it at face value.

The funny thing is if you flip this situation around most guys would probably kill to have the same complements said about them as they dont get them. Thats why I think people dont like anyone complaining about it because it comes across as a bit ''Oh everyone loves me its so hard boo hoo'' to those people who never get complemented.

You're gonna have to get rid of Cheyenne and Bella if you don't want cute competition, is all I'm saying.

Be reasonable, Cheyenne's even got snow on his nose.

Ladies if you wish feel free to prove me wrong.

I can fish off shore and take it off the hook, sometimes.lol
DO NOT BE RUDE..IT IS NOT NICE!
I have one female cat and she is 8yrs old and my best pal.

If he
read my profile he should know not to approach me like that.
Now he turned me off from the beginning. Although he probably
thought it was a Compliment!!!! lol

Still at the end of the day its the meaning behind the words that matters not the words themselves, if it was ment as a complement then take it as such.

I treat it as a tell. ppl who dont trust you with no apparent reason are often committing the crime they are blaming you for. As you have stated.

it was a man in an army uniform

Perhaps what you needed to do was get a better feel of where was your relationship with this woman going. However by your response, it's obvious it will not go anywhere.

Have you seen the ones that say, "I hate writing about myself, so if you hav eany questions, just ask!"

Or, they do this, "Oh I need to write X amt of words here so it ll let me post it" then they fill the rest with "......................................................................."

As a guy - I think that if somebody adds you to their *favorites* list, it's an initiation in hopes that you'll email them. Viewing is simply viewing and isn't any kind of initiation at all.

I had a woman email me once to say that, "Well, you viewed my profile, but you didn't email me, so that must mean that you're not interested?"

I figure there are a lot of women out there that feel the same way. Vice-versa, as a guy, I don't expect an email after a view or interpret no email as non-interest.. so I might email if I'm interested.

I do stand up to him and tell him not to talk to me that way, but he does what he wants to do.

she feels weird about it and thinks that because his mother was willing to be a longtime mistress, that means that he has the propensity to cheat.

so my expectations for having a loving, fulfilling relationship is non/existent. The man I'm seeing is still married/separated for 4 years now.

YOu sound like you're backtracking now and defending her. First you say she told you that you don't make enough money and now she was just worried about your job situation. Now she's on here looking for "friends". She sounds like the type of girl who is looking for someone well off so she can be a stay at home mom and have a man support her. I think both of you should delete your profiles it will only cause more problems. I wouldn't stand for my girl to be on a dating site looking for friends, it's BS.

I think he likes mePage 1 of 1 Posted: 3/12/2012

This guy at my work, well I think he likes me. There are plenty of people dating at our place, so don't think it is much of a problem as long as it doesn't intefere with work

A boyfriend jealous of your catPage 1 of 1 Posted: 2/26/2012
Hi
Just wondering (not for me) if it's normal for your boyfriend to be jealous of the cat and say that you give the cat more love and attention than him (seriously).

Blocking is better than a disclaimer, as it doesn't send any kind of negative vibe out to those people you might want to hear from.

Hey little lady sand on coast or scooter ride get that dew stirrin

i don't understand why people get so upset when they receive a simple message saying "hi," hello," "how are you?"
c'mon, it's totally unrealistic to expect complete strangers to write you a conversation when they don't even know if there's going to be a response.

Personally, I'd be inclined to say 'Hi' as if they should know me, and let them figure out where they know me from.

you should message the other girl, she may not know about you either. girls got to stick together.

Unfortunately, you cannot block users from viewing your profile page but they can be blocked from messaging you. You can only block a user from messaging you if they have previously sent you a message. To learn more about blocking a user go to How do I block messages from certain users?

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