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can anyone shed any light on this situ for me Posted: 4/28/2008 3:10:20 PM
Just enjoy his compamy...PERIOD!!! But, know that the door is open for YOU to explore other avenues. YOU SRE STILL SINGLE...don't limit yourself to this guy. Obviously you are great company.

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Racism Posted: 3/19/2008 8:27:36 PM
How about both stupid and ingnorant. I think that it is also generational, that eventually it will die because there are many people that are more that one race...it's hard to decifer which race a person is anymore...especially in the United States. I bet if you look on anyone's family tree, these last two generations or so, you would find some race other that the original. Besides, it's getting old. I say each one teach one!!!

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Am i over analysing..? Posted: 3/19/2008 10:19:15 AM
I honestly believe that men and women CAN be friends with thier ex's...I am. My 'baby-daddy' is my best friend...we just, well...got hot one night and...well, now he's my 'baby daddy'...too! Anyway, we are STILL best friends. No sexual attraction, whatsoever! I think that when we see this kind of situation, we tend to be a little envious. Don't ler your insecurities get in the way of a good thing...maybe his close female friends can be your close friend too.

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When you want to let yourself go Posted: 3/19/2008 9:14:43 AM
In my experiences, men are much slower in developing those 'feelings'. Women, I think, are much more in tuned with thier feelings, and would , more often than not, act on them. Just enjoy being happy for now. Finding someone compatible these days is getting more and more difficult to do. Remember, your feelings are YOUR feelings. We can't expect anyone to feel somthing that they are not ready to. If this guy is a GOOD ONE, by all means, enjoy the companionship. Maybe, just maybe, he will be where you are emotionally...real soon. GOOD LUCK!!!

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Where the hell is my Mr. Right? Posted: 1/8/2008 8:53:55 PM
your attitude aways come through.. be aware of that! work on it. when it's your turn it will happen for you ... be patient.

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Once you have her phone number after new years eve Posted: 1/3/2008 12:43:14 PM
YES! CALL HER...THER IS NOTHING MORE ANNOYING THAN GIVING A NICE GUY YOUR NUMBER AND HE DOSENT CALL. YOU DONT HAVE TO BE THE RICHEST GUY TO SHOW A WOMEN CONSIDERATION, RESPECT, AND MAYBE ALITTLE AFFECTION. INVITE HER FOR COFFEE AT YOUR HOUSE. OR MAYBE JUST A WALK IN THE PARK OR ON THE BEACH..I.E.. NO OUT OF POCKET COST. USE YOUR IMAGINATION.

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Is he interested or is it just a game?? Posted: 1/3/2008 12:32:50 PM
I DON'T MEAN TO BE HARSH...BUT, IF YOU FOING TO SELL YOURSELF...MAKE SURE THAT YOU GET SOMETHING IN RETURN. ALL MEN LIKE FREE PUZZY! START USING YOUR BRAINS INSTEAD OF YOUR PANTIES TO GET MEN. THEY CAN SEE EASY MUFF FROM WAY OFF...

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change of mind or run like hell? Posted: 1/3/2008 12:28:45 PM
JUST MOVE ON...THERE IS NOTHING THERE TO PERSUE.

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Dating more than one person on here? Posted: 1/2/2008 3:03:45 PM
THAT'S WHAT I THINK DATING IS...Fealing out diffrent personalities. If you really have to explain yourself to these total strangers...tell them what I do ..."I'm just dating".

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Will Someone Please Explain Posted: 1/2/2008 3:00:42 PM
Patti... We women need to learn how to just move on, instead of disecting every incident that happens in our dating world. Have you ever thought that you were just too much for him? Because alot of times we just ARE... and they cant admit it!

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Would you marry an illegal alien? Posted: 1/2/2008 2:56:04 PM
OK ... that's it...I am moving to CANADA!

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The Silent Treatment......ughhhhhh (lol) Posted: 1/2/2008 2:53:44 PM
For me it would mean that the other person should find somthing else to do untill I can figure things out for myself.

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meeting the kid... too soon? Posted: 1/2/2008 2:16:23 PM
I am a single parent too, I never introduce my kids to a gentleman unless we have something established. It is important for me as a single parent to be a good role model for then. Besides, they get confused too easily.

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My exwife's new boyfriend bought my daughter an xmas gift! What the hell? Should I be pissed? Posted: 1/2/2008 2:11:59 PM
I believe if you want your EX to be happy you will embrace everything that is positive in her life. How thoughtful it was for the boyfriend to include your daughter by giving to her also, the boyfriend is pretty cool to do that. Maybe you still have feelings for the ex. UNDERSTAND THAT YOU CAN'T MOVE FORWARD IF YOU KEEP LOOKING BACK... There are some great women on this sight...get busy!

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Box Cake Cookies Posted: 1/2/2008 2:05:48 PM
Thanks Sweetie!

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Msg: 34 (view)

worlds easiest peanut butter cookies Posted: 1/1/2008 10:01:54 PM
QUESTIONS: do you grease the cookie sheet? do you flatten the cookie b4 you bake them? do you bake them on 350 degrees? Thanks!

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Box Cake Cookies Posted: 1/1/2008 9:00:55 PM
Hello everyone... I am a single mother of 3, I need help finding a good, quick and easy cookie recipe made from a box cake mix (prefered)....or just quick and easy. I thought I saw one here before... Thanks All!

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Would it be cheating if your partner was having webcam sex with other people? Posted: 1/1/2008 8:33:14 PM
YES! Listen, my rule of thumb is if you are involved, and you use anyone other that your significant other to "get off"...it's cheeting...PERIOD!

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my ex is dyeing with cancer what do i do Posted: 1/1/2008 8:29:47 PM
Cancer is a very devistating illness to have...and there is obviously more to the story... Why do you feel responsible to take care of him? (just curious) cause with children in the house...you have your hands full already. Where are your priorities..ask yourself. I can tell you that I would not subject mychildren to an alchoholic - period!!! He is making choices that are not healthy for himself. Are you obligated to take care of someone that is not trying to be healthy for himself? SUGGESTION: LOVE THIS PERSON, SUPPORT HIM FROM AFFAR, AND PRAY FOR HIS SOUL ! and that's it!

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left feeling used Posted: 1/1/2008 8:17:18 PM
I am so sorry that happend to you..being a counslor, you should have notices that she had lots, and lots, and lots of baggage. Use your intelligence next time, one should not need 'worshiping' from anyone its's a sign for desaster, because you loose your self in trying to be all you can be for someone else! Relationships cannot be very healthy if one of the two has unresolved issues that unresolved, especially relationships. That should have been your first sign to save yourself from all the BS that you've been thrown. With all that you say she has done to you...where does the LOVE com in...what could you possibly LOVE about the person you are with. How satisfying is the relationship you are in. Listen, we all have choices, you made a CHOICE to be eoth this person...now chose to chalk it up to experience and move on. Tere are soooo many good women that have thier own life established and would love the addition of a nice, caring affectionat man such a yourself... So, what are you soing tonight... (JUST KIDDING)

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betrayal online: is this cheating or fun? Posted: 12/30/2007 3:01:46 PM
IN YOUR HEART, YOU KNOW YOU DID THE RIGHT THING ... LISTEN, YOU KNOW THIS GUY WAY BETTER THAN YOU THINK YOU DO. YOU SAID HE HAD DATE AND TIME TO MEET...HELL YEAH HE WAS GOING FOR IT...THINK OF IF YOU DIDN'T KNOW ABOUT IT...I BELIEVE IF HE DID IT THIS TIME...HE DID IT BEFORE. ...WHAT ? WAIT TILL YOU CATCH HIM IN YOUR BED BEFORE YOU WISE UP? YOU ARE A VERY SMART WOMAN TO SAVE YOUR HEART BY LETTING THIS SMOOTH TALKER GO. NOW HE CAN CHEAT , LIE AND MANIPULATE SOME OTHER WOMAN...OR MANY OTHERS FOR THAT MATTER. MEN WILL BE MEN, SOME ARE HAPITUAL LIERS, CHEATERS AND DOWN RIGHT SCANDOLOUS... I WANT TO SAY THAT ALL MEN ARENT DOGS. HER ARE SOME BEAUTIFUL MEN OUT THERE THAT IS READY TO HAVE ONLY YOU. A QUEEN! CONTINUE TO TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF... BIG UPS TO YOU ...

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A question for the women Posted: 5/20/2007 9:59:04 PM
HI.. Listen, most men, would do somthing really STUPID when they are unsure of themselves. First of all... don't take it personally. He has just shown you that is no definately not a "keeper". And second, PLEASE, don't allow youself to be accepting of these types of behavior. Like this website is titled - THERE'S PLENTY OF FISH Don't stop trying.... Call the Girls and have martini night.

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To find a woman you need time and money Posted: 5/1/2007 12:26:37 PM
your ideas about women, time and money are W A C K !!! find a blow up doll !

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What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 4/20/2007 8:44:38 AM
my favorite kind of sex is the kind that make you wet and ache the NEXT day when you think about it and call a brotha' for more...(game 2)

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What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 4/20/2007 8:39:28 AM
STUNNA.. KEEP BLINGIN MY BROTHA...LET THE HATA' HATE CAUSE THATS WHAT THEY DO ...ESPECIALLY IF THEY AINT PACKIN' -- smooches

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Profile pet peeves Posted: 4/6/2007 1:30:16 PM
U SAID IT SISTER !!! and u covered all the bases. very smart of u. KUDOES !!!

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I really like your profile, but... Posted: 4/6/2007 1:26:49 PM
hi... I feel u on that one, however, u got to just keep it movin. it's his loss, right? we are some excellent catches and there are 4 hundred million guys (ok i exaggerated) that are waiting for us to make that initial contact. we (i say we, because i feel the same) just have to have some "stick-to-it-ness" and be alittle more aggressive in our search. i have also found that when i modify my search to the "mood of the day" i get diffrent replys. i bid u good luck

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