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evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

Women with women Posted: 9/19/2009 5:15:01 PM
" Also, people forget that lesbians can't wear condoms... they're a big part of the spread of STI's and so forth...." Dude, it's called a dental dam and...lesbians spread FAR less diseases than straight couples or gay men (assuming it is strictly lesbian women, who havn't caught anything froma man.)

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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bi sexual men Posted: 8/29/2009 6:19:51 PM
It is not considered not being monogamous, he split with her and wants to try gay sex. It would be different if he tried it while still being with her. I can relate. I mean, I am in a heterosexual relationship now, but I am bisexual. I wonder, if we are together for the rest of our lives, will I ever get the chance to fulfill my fantasies of being with women? I have only had a few sexual encounters with women and they were fantastic. So I can see why, after 6 years, he would want to explore. It's like someone who splits with their first love because, they wanna know what it would be like with someone else. It's just curiosity. And you gotta respect that. If it's meant to be, he will come back.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Are preferences dealbreakers? Posted: 8/18/2009 4:25:22 PM
Some of my preferences were just preferences, and some were deal breakers. For example, I cannot be with someone who does drugs. I tried it once and even thought it was just pot, I did not like it at all. But my preference of my smokers was just a preference obviously, because my current boyfriend is a smoker and it doesnt bother me mainly because, he smokes outside and for the most part, not around me at all. Sometimes you compromise when you meet the right person.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 163 (view)

fess up to your favorate wierd sammy Posted: 8/4/2009 5:29:13 PM
White bread. Hashbrowns or french fries cooked in a frying pan and cut into smaller hashbrown sized pieces (Mccains spicy fries are the BEST for this) put the fried potatoes between the two slices of bread. Add lots of caesar or ranch dressing. Enjoy.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Sex and Dating topic gone.... Posted: 7/30/2009 3:50:46 PM
Yea, I was just wondering that too

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 56 (view)

Major emergency Posted: 7/1/2009 10:42:19 AM
When my boyfriend went to his ex's house to get his stuff, I went with him. We agreed that I wouldn't go if she was there. It would have been way uncomfortable. It was bad enough that his ex's 17 year old son was there. I felt so awkward.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Much needed advice Posted: 7/1/2009 10:34:42 AM
I tried this with my boyfriend and a friend of a friend a few weeks ago. We were drunk and im bi, so me and her were flirty and my bf's rule is that I can't experiment with girls unless he is involved. He has no problem with it. There was really no planning. I don't remember if he kissed her or not. I remember thinking when he was having sex with her I was fondling her at the same time) that I felt a tiny bit jealous, then remembered that I was the one who came up with the idea, and he was not jealous when I was making out with her/playing with her boobs/eating her out so hey, who am I to be jealous? I would defenitely try it again, but maybe next time plan it out a little more. It was a spur of the moment thing. We are lucky. I am not a really jealous person. So I guess that makes me unique? lol

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 338 (view)

How to tell if a woman is horny?? Posted: 6/27/2009 8:46:09 PM
"i had a boyfriend who told me i 'smelled horny'....i have no idea what he was smelling and he said it was a nice smell, but this was even before the clothes were off... maybe you need to learn what horny 'smells' like..." lmao my boyfriend told me that once, that I "smell like horny" I have no idea what "horny" smells like lol, but apparently I smell like it.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 131 (view)

Men Shaving... Posted: 6/24/2009 2:14:26 PM
Zebra Circle: "I challenge anyone to go back to the thread in question and read my comments. NEVER once did I ever make a comment about freedom of choice. If anything, I PROMOTED it. I promoted one's power to make a PERSONAL choice -- not one dictated by society or ADVERTISERS/MARKETERS. My whole thrust was to get people to just stop and question if they really NEED to shave." And when someone says they shave for themselves, not for the sake of vanity or in any way because of advertising, you tell them that they are only doing it because of advertising, weather they know it or not. I shave the pubic area once a week. I wish I could do it more often, but I get razor burn. I looove the smooth feeling after being shaved. Even one day after with the stubble you can only feel and not see is annoying. I would never grow it out for anyone. If my boyfriend wanted me to shave, I would refuse. I do it for myself. I also shave my legs, armpits, arms etc. I just love being smooth. And I don't care how much people say that it doesn;t make you any cleaner. I am cleaner when I am shaved. It is a personal choice.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 109 (view)

Waking your partner for sex! Posted: 6/22/2009 4:41:26 PM
I love being woken up for sex lol. My boyfriend is always up before me, we can;t help it. It just always happens that way. But one night we decided to try spooning, he penetrated me and we fell asleep that way. About an hour after falling asleep I woke up and we were having sex. I loved that I had been actually engaging in it without even realizing it, and not even being awake! It was the best way to wake up.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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To those who've been in threesomes: WAS IT WORTH IT? Posted: 6/2/2009 4:07:08 PM
Yes I have done it. Me and my boyfriend with another lady friend. I would say it was defenitely worth it. And No I defenitely did not do it "hesitantly" because my man wanted me to. I wanted to! It was my idea lol. He knows I am bi and said as long as he is in on the action, he's ok with it. It was awesome and I defenitely would do it again.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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how would you react if your son /daughter told you they where gay 2 Posted: 5/30/2009 6:08:47 PM
Ford_Fairlane Thats the best response ever coming from a guy. I don't mean to sound sexist but, in my experience, mothers will say it doesn't matter wheather they have a gay son or daughter, but a man will say "If I have a gay son, I'll disown him" You're awesome.

evilmelmo

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When eating pu$$y Posted: 5/25/2009 6:44:24 PM
And Truthiness, that is EXACTLY what my bf does. Its hilarious

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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When eating pu$$y Posted: 5/25/2009 6:42:28 PM
Well thats like me too most of the time. I am so sensitive that Its like after about 5 seconds im like "ok ok ok! STOP!" Sometimes it just depends on how rough it is. The rougher it is, less time he can keep going after the O. After he finishes oral he will be touching there and if he rubs my clit by accident I jump.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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When eating pu$$y Posted: 5/25/2009 6:31:07 PM
when a guy is eating you out, and you orgasm, does your guy stop right away or does he keep going? And guys, which do you do? My boyfriend keeps going more agressively and it makes me go crazy! (In a good way of course!)

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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question about interracial dating ... Posted: 5/25/2009 4:47:32 PM
"So, why is it ok for someone to say they prefer tall/short or blonde/brunette or slim/large or anything else along those lines, but not to say you prefer black men/asian men, etc.?" there is a difference between having a "prefererence" and refusing to date someone because of a small insignificant reason. How many people have you heard say they would never date a tall/short/blonde/brunette?

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Tattoos on the breasts Posted: 5/25/2009 4:24:35 PM
like when i'm 80.. and my boobies are hitting my knees (god i hope that NEVER happens).. i don't want it to look any worse with a blob of ink on it LOL.. exactly.. Um...if your 80 and your tits are sagging to your knees, it can't get any worse. A faded blob of ink won't make ANY difference at all.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 51 (view)

threesomes Posted: 5/24/2009 5:05:53 PM
Nah, MY fantasy is FMF :D

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Looking for threesomes on the net? Posted: 5/24/2009 4:47:23 PM
Just because a woman says "husband will only watch" does not mean the man is trying to convince the woman that she is bi. I would do it that way because I am bi and love women. But my guy loves to be just as in it as me so it would not just be me. And not all couples looking for a threesome is a "drooling guy" convincing his girlfriend to go along with it. I was the one who convinced my guy to do it, although he wasn't doing any objecting to the idea in the first place!

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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threesomes Posted: 5/24/2009 4:40:45 PM
Just tried this for the first time, FMF. It was awesome. My boyfriend said that he has only done it two times before and he didn't really get to participate much. He said after this experience, he is much more open to it, and defenitely willing to do it again. Which is good cuz I loved it. I am bisexual and so being with him, I still have the urge to be with a woman. It's like an itch I finally got to scratch :P He was worried cuz we had been drinking and hadn't had time to talk about it before doing it but it ended up going really well and was not awkward between either of us or the second woman involved.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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waking up to sex... Posted: 5/21/2009 3:23:36 AM
It's funny cuz I was gonna start a thread like this. This happened two nights ago. My boyfriend woke me up around 1am spooning me. I was so asleep that at first I thought I was dreaming and I kept drifting in and out of sleep. The best/strangest part was I was actively ****ing him lol but I was asleep! when I finally woke up and realized it was not a dream, I was like wow this is amazing. He asked me when we finished "So, are you awake?" Can't wait to do it again :D

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Piercings Posted: 5/17/2009 2:26:46 PM
Not being a man, I have no idea. But why would you get a tongue piercing just for that? No wonder people think women with tongue piercings are whores. I am not saying you are, but some people (myself included) did not get our tongues pierced because we thought it would feel better when giving a blowjob. Piercings are a form of self expression. And if you think they look good, then who cares of some guy doesn't. If he is the right guy for you, he wont mind.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Fantasy/Role Playing Posted: 5/17/2009 2:23:03 PM
I really have no idea why someone would fantasize about being a prostitute. I would not want to feel like one, that's for sure. But it is true, a lot of people don't know why they like the things they do.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 496 (view)

why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 5/11/2009 3:29:31 PM
Its funny cuz guys I have gone out with dont look at hot women walking by, or not that I have seen. But my boyfriend always catches me looking at hot women :P I don't think it bothers him. I have told him multiple times, I dont cheat, and I am happy with him.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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2 years and is ready to stand up to the plate? No more dicking around :) Posted: 4/3/2009 7:04:21 PM
Wow some of you are being pretty condesending. Yea, they may be teenagers but. There are a lot of people who married their high school sweethearts and are still together. Im not saying it happens all the time but it does happen.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Dating a Coworker Posted: 4/3/2009 6:22:56 PM
Bumping it up i guess Im in a similar situation now. I say as long as you can handle the consequences, go for it. My work has no policy that I know of against it. I work in a restaurant. I am a supervisor, almost assistant manager. The guy im starting to see is one of the kitchen staff.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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GF won't stop hanging out with EX's!! Posted: 4/2/2009 9:59:31 AM
Wow dude, your an ass. Seriously. Giving her ex a haircut? They might aswell be ***ing on the bathroom floor. Give me a freaking break. There is obviously no trust in your relationship and you are too paranoid. If you were my guy. I would have kicked you* to the curb by now.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Wheelchairs dating and sex Posted: 3/27/2009 7:14:52 PM
It wont let me message you, im not old enough I guess haha. Anyways, I wanted to tell you that you have an awesome sense of humour, I was laughing to myself while reading it. There are a lot of women who would go for you, im sure. To make someone laugh is a great bonus.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Review for me? Posted: 3/27/2009 6:12:48 PM
Actually, I did just message someone yesterday and I got a response from them saying they would love to chat with me, but they were racist. But I get what you mean about the list. I actually thought it would be better cuz when I wrote paragraphs, I was kind of random so I figured a list would make more sense. But yea I'll look into that. And what I mean by stereotyping is, looking at someone who is say, pierced and tattooed, and assuming they are a criminal, dope addict, all in all bad person. That's how people looked at me when I used to have a ton of piercings.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Review for me? Posted: 3/27/2009 6:39:12 AM
Yea at one time I had listed a bunch of bands I liked and it was long lol but just a few for someone to get the picture and your set. And a few hobbies like say, playing pool, skydiving (lol) or other stuff is all good. And thanks :) Your not too bad yourself lol

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Review for me? Posted: 3/27/2009 6:27:40 AM
Good point lol. Your looks good. But I would add more pics. Also, you say "Interested in anything and everything" maybe specify which things your interested in? And music aswell. Maybe list a few types and artists you like.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Review for me? Posted: 3/27/2009 6:17:17 AM
lol body modification as in tattoos and piercings.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Review for me? Posted: 3/27/2009 6:00:56 AM
I am intrested to know how my profile comes off to other peoples so...here goes :D Any suggestions are appreciated. Damn, 200 letters. What else can I say? All I want is my profile reviewed! This is getting silly. Why do I have to write so much in order to get my profile reviewed? LOL ok I seriously dont know what to say, other than I recently added newer, cleaer pics so...that should be good aaaannnddd....recently updated the writing portion of it but I usually do that like monthly lol cuz I am obsessive compulsive and have to change everything often.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 134 (view)

Racism in Dating Posted: 2/11/2009 4:07:52 PM
Just because he is getting these very rude comments from some people, does not mean he is only interested in caucasion women. He could be sending emails to women of all different races and still get these responses. It really infuriates me that some people would say these things. I have a tattoo that says "There is only one race, the human race." I get customers at work who read it and agree, and it makes me glad that I am not the only one who thinks racism is horrible.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Anxiety on certian dates Posted: 2/10/2009 4:30:19 PM
Yea. If the other person likes you but your not that into them, you can be yourself because you really don't care if they like the way your acting/the way you look. But if you like the person your on a date with, you don't want to show your bad side, so youur nervous.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Have you ever lost someone to the drug life style? Posted: 2/9/2009 7:27:14 AM
Yup. My best friend. Havnt seen her in a few years now.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 132 (view)

Woman that talk dirty during sex ? Posted: 1/21/2009 6:17:33 PM
I never thought I would be comfortable enough doing it, but then I found the words just coming out and im like wow, where did that come from? lol. It was hot.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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hun...condesending? Posted: 1/12/2009 8:43:25 PM
"How do you feel if another woman calls you hun? as in...another gal said to you....'I know how you feel hun?' Is that condescending as well?" Yes. But not always. I had a best friend in high school who did this...she would say hun to a lot of people when laughing and trying to make fun of them. Pissed me off.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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hun...condesending? Posted: 1/12/2009 8:39:59 PM
It was two different guy in the last week who said something like "Hun, that's not how it works" and it seemed to me like they were saying it in a way that it sounded like, "how can you be so naive and stupid as to think that? Silly woman." I dont agree that hun and sweetie are patronizing all the time, and defenitely not lazy, street level slang. They're just terms of endearment, and can be sweet and romantic. Maybe sometimes I overanalyze things.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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can non-pot smokers handle pot smokers? Posted: 1/12/2009 5:54:52 PM
I prefer a non smoker. Meaning, no cigarettes and no weed. BECAUSE I hate the taste of kissing someone who has smoked recently. If they do it when im not around, and/or brush their teeth before kissing me, I dont care. I dont like being around smoke of any kind either, I really hate it. So as long as im not around, dont care :)

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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hun...condesending? Posted: 1/12/2009 4:53:12 PM
I have found that when a guy calls me hun, it's usually when trying to explain something to me, and they do it as if they are trying to explain something to a child. I find that they seem like they are using a condesending tone. Guys, do you mean to do this? And I know this is supposed to be "Ask a guy" but girls, have you noticed this before?

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Starting to get turned off with shaved women Posted: 1/11/2009 7:13:35 PM
I shave. Because for me, it feels cleaner. Plus, I like the look of having no hair there.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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rude emails that spoil your POF experience Posted: 1/11/2009 3:32:46 PM
I had one guy message me and said something like "You are yummy, id like to butter your biscuit" and im like who the hell are you, and...wtf??

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 132 (view)

what is with everyone being bi-sexual? Posted: 1/11/2009 12:32:07 PM
From what I understand, bisexuality is when you have been with a woman and a man and you are interested in both. bi curious on the other hand is when you are curious about being with the same sex,, but have never tried it, therefore your not yet bisexual or gay. I do not agree with this though. Before I was ever with a woman, I knew I was attracted to the same sex. I fantasized for years about loving a woman. Nobody can tell me that I am not really bi or gay, just because I had never been in a relationship with one at the time. That's like saying to a straight person that they are "straight curious" and they are not technically straight, bi or gay if they have never been with anyone before.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 127 (view)

what is with everyone being bi-sexual? Posted: 1/10/2009 7:16:04 PM
I tried telling myself I was gay, but im sorry....I still like guys lol.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 103 (view)

Women kissing after oral sex Posted: 1/10/2009 6:50:40 PM
Its not something that I would even think of. There was one guy once who didnt want me to kiss him after, and I thought it was wierd. Nobody else since has cared, and I wouldn't care if someone went down on me and wanted to kiss me. Meh. Some people are wierd lol.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

Msg: 127 (view)

Bachelor food Posted: 1/8/2009 8:05:31 PM
Im totally into the quick stuff these days. I have to start cooking again. Its mostly Michelenas for me.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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Til Death Do Us Part completely unreasonable? Posted: 1/8/2009 7:55:09 PM
Yes I believe some people dont really think about it enough before they get married. And some people dont take the time to figure out what is wrong in their marriage, and are not willing to fix it.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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are looks important Posted: 1/8/2009 7:52:42 PM
To a point. I must be at least a little bit attracted to you. A minor thing such as a cyst under your eye would be no big deal for me. completely unimportant, and any woman who would reject you for it is not worth your time.

evilmelmo

Joined: 3/31/2007

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SNORING?? Does it really matter ? Posted: 1/8/2009 7:34:09 PM
Im a really heavy sleeper so I wouldnt think it would bother me, but if the person was already asleep before me, and if they snore as loud as my mother does (Who has sleep apnea) I may just have to push you to wake you up and pretend to be asleep hehe. Then hope I fall asleep before you do.

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