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Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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what do you view as clingy? Posted: 5/22/2013 3:02:01 PM
jason88packers just give some examples please? When she comes out of the toilet and you're stood right there at the door waiting.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Unusual sex question Posted: 5/22/2013 2:59:18 PM
A thread where a guy is advertising himself in Ask a Girl and dressing it up as a question? Not unusual at all.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Is the meet me feature the most pointless thing ever? Posted: 5/22/2013 2:56:01 PM
I'll tell you what's not pointless...the "search" feature.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Guys...all hope is lost for internet dating Posted: 5/21/2013 4:42:38 PM
honeyguitar It's impossible to avoid sounding arrogant in this thread, and I will no doubt receive some disapproval for posting it. I have read a lot of posts about guys complaining that only a tiny fraction of women respond to their messages. The common male idea about internet dating is that women on POF/Oasis Active only respond to the profiles of 'rich, incredibly attractive guys'. I'll make no bones about it. I think I'm a very good looking guy + I work as an engineering headhunter in the mining industry. However, I only make connections with a tiny minority of women, most of whom are single parents, extremely unattractive and unemployed....... with a few exceptions, but nothing to write home about. If I am finding this site tough.....what chance do most other guys have? My heart goes out to all of you genuinely nice, decent guys who must be having an incredibly rough time out there. Do you even lift?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Why do employers use recruitment agencies? Posted: 5/20/2013 12:49:57 PM
The theory is that the job agency saves the employer time by advertising the job then weeding out the unsuitable candidates, and sending the employer a selection of quality CVs. However as you have found to your cost, the reality is very different. Job agency staff are commission based and simply don't care...they just want to fire off as many CVs as they can and just hope that one hits. Trust me, the employers are often frustrated with this process too which is why when an employer finds an agency that does what they are paid to do, they tend to stick with that agent and don't use anyone else.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Safe Dating? Would You Think Me Out of Order? Posted: 5/19/2013 3:08:03 PM
I agree. It's a well known fact that rapists, serial killers, and general weirdo psychos don't have newspapers. Stay safe out there folks....he got no Sun, then you run. He got no Star, he'll not get far. He got no Mail, then you bail.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Just Curious Posted: 5/19/2013 3:03:42 PM
You've only been here 4 days though, the link has been missing for weeks. How did you even know there were forums?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Just Curious Posted: 5/19/2013 2:38:24 PM
I'm curious how you found the forums...

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Interpretation and Translation Posted: 5/19/2013 7:05:14 AM
SpiderCatcher Im glad this took off! In the words of Conceited...slow it down, I just dissed you.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Great sex without orgasm - sounds weird, but anyone experienc this? Posted: 5/19/2013 4:35:47 AM
All of my sexual encounters involve no orgasms. Wait....we're talking about her orgasm? Right?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Interpretation and Translation Posted: 5/19/2013 4:33:31 AM
I like nature reserves – dogging is my ideal third date I work hard – I have no time for a relationship with you, but you can drop by for sex if you want Want someone who likes new experiences – must take it up the wrong 'un Don't suffer fools gladly – I'm an aggressive jerk I don't have a type – I'd shag a fag burn in a fur coat I go to the gym – it has a wicked café I am spontaneous – I do things without consideration for how it might affect others

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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STRANGER OR NEIGHBOUR NEXT DOOR ? Posted: 5/18/2013 9:28:33 AM
Thanks to Sarah's Law, I'm glad I don't have to talk to my neighbours.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Prom Night Posted: 5/17/2013 4:31:56 PM
Got laid at prom many times. It all ended when they sacked me from my teacher's job :(

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Justice at any price? Posted: 5/17/2013 4:27:02 PM
Who judges that the defence isn't plausible enough to be valid? Do we need some kind of court case to decide?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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The foibles of the sexes - what either can get away with :O) Posted: 5/15/2013 3:04:15 PM
I don't get it. I thought this thread was going to be about p***ing in the street.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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It's Saturday - what are you up to? Posted: 5/12/2013 5:06:17 AM
maxwelllovitt Well its now Sunday morning and I've just bashed one out !! Just the one?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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It's Saturday - what are you up to? Posted: 5/11/2013 6:45:31 PM
I'm doing the same thing I do every night...try to take over the world.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Why do women only want these men? Posted: 5/11/2013 4:02:53 AM
So you're basing your argument that women only like douchebags on the fact that 80% of the women you know are with a douche...and you only know three women? I know plenty of women who are not going out with the types you describe. In fact I don't know a single person who is. Does your frustration actually stem from the fact that pretending to be a "nice guy", and investing your whole self-worth in "being nice", even above developing an interesting personality, isn't getting you the women you feel you are entitled to? Is your frustration and indignation actually jealousy?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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texting dropped to zero...significant? Posted: 5/10/2013 3:20:15 PM
Put on your big-girl pants, manda, and read up. He lost interest because he thinks you're a prude and he won't get anything via little effort. His "slowly" text was him verifying if what he thought was right. As it was he has moved on. Since you've taken such effort to set up a second date he is going along as he thinks there is still a shot. If you don't put out on this date you'll never hear from him again. If you do put out, you'll never hear from him again. If he was interested in you as a person he would be setting up the second date himself regardless of how the "goodnight kiss" went.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Does anyone actually want a giant cock? Posted: 5/8/2013 4:31:51 PM
ibakecakes If you had your wish, what would you put up there???? A giant c*nt. Tony Blair.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Does your attraction go down if a woman messages you first? Posted: 5/8/2013 4:26:52 PM
AndreiShadows Hope on the horizon :D Yup...women say they don't want the D ;)

Kentish-Man

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Guys and sleeping Posted: 5/8/2013 4:24:15 PM
I work with 5 women, we all do the same job, but as I get paid more because I'm a man the extra effort of carrying my wallet home just tires me right out.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Trying to understand...I know stop right lol Posted: 5/7/2013 4:33:07 PM
peaceful_pisces I seldom drink on a date and if I do no more than 1, they hit me fast I don't talk about exs, politics, religion... I listen, ask questions and contribute I do the "check dance" when it comes and I don't text/call/stalk Well I have no idea why you're not getting second dates. When I go on a date, the above is all I am looking for. I don't need to feel attracted to the person, feel chemistry, like their sense of humour and world views, like how they present themselves, feel our lives would be compatible in any way....I just want her to not drink, not not about politics, listen, and pretend she is willing to go half on the bill :) BTW I'm a nice guy and all the girls on here say they are looking for a nice guy...why won't they date me then?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Please review, honesty appreciated! Posted: 5/6/2013 4:47:19 PM
Well....I guess someone has to point out the elephant in the room? You're 28 and you have a 5 year old child. A lot of guys your age just aren't looking for that kind of relationship. Your profile is actually pretty good, and you're cute, but being a single mother drastically cuts down the range of potential partners so you're just going to have to be patient and wait for the right one to come along.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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a good book on online dating advice? Posted: 5/6/2013 2:13:40 PM
In my opinion, this is the only book you need when it comes to dating in general: "The Manual: What women don't want but you give them anyway " Ara Pist

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Women, your opinion of guys that dont drink? Posted: 5/6/2013 1:25:15 PM
So many people who don't drink and want a partner that doesn't drink....you think it's a coincidence you're all single and on a dating site? ;)

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Why do girls do this- what was the point?? Posted: 5/6/2013 4:01:29 AM
Do I know what you had for breakfast? No? Then how can I know why this person deleted their account?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Cycle Path or Dog Path ? Posted: 5/5/2013 5:51:40 PM
013552 pedestrians, who say you should be on the road all the time, and road users who say should be off the road as not licensed The law says you should be on the road. You should listen to that.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Food based POF Events Posted: 5/5/2013 12:00:02 PM
Another issue is that there is no "mingling" at a restaurant. At a free-flowing event (doesn't have to be a disco, I also hate those things) people can talk to who they want. If I was to go to an meal and end up sitting next to men/women I don't want to get in a relationship with then I wouldn't particularly get anything from it.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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McDonald's? Really? Posted: 5/4/2013 6:13:14 PM
Methinks if a Happy Meal cost $100 you wouldn't be making this thread.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Welcome lucky escape Posted: 4/28/2013 12:33:17 PM
I hope everyone who goes on an unsuccessful date makes a thread about it.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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what do you think?? Posted: 4/28/2013 7:04:33 AM
At the top of the forum is says in red letters "This is NOT your Profile Review Forum !!". Post in profile review. As for the hairstyle, as with all of these questions, some will like it, some won't. Wow....whodafunk? Hope this helps.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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whats the worst thing you have done when drunk ? Posted: 4/24/2013 2:51:01 PM
xxDrStrangelovexx I can honestly say I have never done anything wrong in my life Really? If I had my way, resurrecting 6 year old threads would be a capital offence.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Would you date a guy with no car/home/job Posted: 4/22/2013 3:28:21 PM
My answer would probably be to use the search function.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Zipper Or Button ? Posted: 4/22/2013 1:47:35 PM
My jeans are a perfect mix of erotic button fly for sexy times with the ladies, and a zip for emergencies. Button fly at the front...zipper flap at the back.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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why do women put up with being called B*&^ch hoe and slut? Posted: 4/19/2013 5:18:02 AM
Can't be bothered reading this, can someone just tell me if it's another "I don't get any action cause I'm a nice guy" thread?

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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POF + AKAMAITECHNOLOGIES.COM = ATTACK SITE!!! Posted: 4/15/2013 4:47:10 PM
This is a common problem, google "GWF" http://www.catb.org/jargon/html/G/GWF.html

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Where's the forum? Posted: 4/15/2013 2:33:44 PM
Damn, forums are dead :( It's a big issue for me, as I'm wearing a blue shirt today and need to Ask a Girl if they would date a guy in a blue shirt.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Constructive criticism. Posted: 4/14/2013 2:46:19 PM
Typical negative, jaded profile that us guys see all day, every day, and skip past each time.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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what leads you to make this decision permanent? Posted: 4/14/2013 12:11:15 PM
She gave you the answer? You've included it in your post? Why have you even started this thread? What is the question that has not yet been answered? Seems to me you just want to make a thread to criticise women.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Would you date a Diabetic? Posted: 4/14/2013 6:22:45 AM
stereom1ke how many of you just browse the pictures and then base your decision on those images Quite a lot do. It's why you're not getting any luck.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Why do.. Posted: 4/13/2013 5:53:47 AM
People who have viewed your profile are ordered by the date they last logged in. It doesn't mean they are repeat viewing.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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How would you keep your man? Posted: 4/12/2013 10:15:22 AM
My girlfriend lost her vagina once, and as already said, "keeping her man" was the least of her worries. She spent her time pinning up pictures of it around the neighbourhood asking if anyone had seen this vagina and a number to call. She must really put it about as the phone never stopped ringing. It turns out it was down the back of the sofa.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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In need of a constructive profile review please Posted: 4/12/2013 9:13:32 AM
GenuineBrian10 am i overplaying the nice guy image Yes. Yes you are. Your name and headline are also bad and it wouldn't surprise me if many women don't even get down to the profile itself. As already said, it is too generic and lacks any personality, it's just a bunch of clichés that says nothing about you at all. You like to laugh but also have a serious side? Do your light switches function in both the on, and off, positions? PollyGraf you forgot to get your baps out, you know they love that shot! ;0) Yes. Yes we do.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Profile Pictures With Other Girls In Them Yes/No? Posted: 4/4/2013 5:49:36 AM
JohnfromAus But what people say and what they do are different things Exactly. Women on here like to give the impression that there is a set of intricate rules a man has to follow in order to gain their interest, and if a man is not successful on here it is because he is not following the rules. The basic truth of the matter is that if a woman finds you attractive then she will respond, regardless. You can see this in action if you read enough threads on these very forums. Studies have demonstrated that being photographed with attractive people does indeed make you more desirable, as would being photographed with a tramp make you less desirable. Of course you'll never get a woman to actually admit this, partly as it happens on a subconscious level, partly as they don't want to admit that, like a child, they simply want what other people have :)

Kentish-Man

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Oh fuck this should be good..... Posted: 4/3/2013 5:32:28 PM
You are hot. Your profile is terrible. That is all.

Kentish-Man

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Do we judge our 'date' on his/her car? Posted: 4/3/2013 4:50:51 PM
xxDrStrangelovexx The hardest thing to be is yourself, try it, you will find women will like you alot more then trying to impress them with bs, attachments, walter mittery etc. Thanks, I'll try that. To be honest all this hot sex I'm having with shallow women is getting kind of boring anyway, would be nice to find a woman that likes me for my horrible personality rather than my nice car.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Do we judge our 'date' on his/her car? Posted: 4/3/2013 4:38:57 PM
Bless.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Do we judge our 'date' on his/her car? Posted: 4/3/2013 3:54:22 PM
So let's sum the thread up. People without "nice cars" have all dated people with and without nice cars and the ones without nice cars are always nice people, and those with nice cars are all boring shallow jerks. So...by extension that makes those people nice people because they don't have a nice car? Riiiight. Well I have a few cars, and one is indeed something special for the weekend. Does that make me a bad person? How can a possession make you a bad person? The only thing that having a nice car makes me, is me...with a nice car. Are some people with nice cars arrogant shallow jerks? Yes they are...but the car isn't doing that. It's the fact that they are jerks that is doing that, the car is just their weapon of choice. A car is just something that gets you from A to B. Correct. Only mine gets me there twice as fast as yours and turns 10 times the heads while doing it. I like fast cars, I like nice cars, the attention is a side-effect, but does the fact that I enjoy the attention my car brings make me a bad person? No. Does it make me shallow, dull, pathetic, boring, whatever you people think a nice car turns people into? No. Am I going to apologise to all of you for having a nice car? Hell no. Will a date judge me on my car? Of course she will, and that might be a positive judgement or a negative judgement. She'll do exactly the same with my clothes, my watch, my haircut, my looks, my manners, my conversation. We are simply the sum of our parts, and if having a nice car means that my date sees me negatively then we simply aren't matched, but that's life.

Kentish-Man

Joined: 3/7/2012

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Holy Grail? Posted: 4/1/2013 3:07:27 PM
DaphneKitKat I'm searching for the male equivalent of myself. Average height and build, but scrubs up well. Intelligent and well rounded with interests in politics, art, current affairs and with some opinions and life experience to bring to the table. And able to enjoy some lively banter - is this all too much to ask? Wow.....that's totally me, send me a message!! PS I'm ugly.

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