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WastedTalents

Joined: 2/8/2005

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Non-Religious Person dating a Jehovah's Witness Posted: 7/2/2006 8:01:08 AM
I am not a "witness" but a believer in Jesus Christ and THE heavenly Father God , creator of all. I only said that because what I am about to say might come off as if I am defending "their" faith or beliefs , which is not my ententions at all. Being unevenly yoked is a serious matter and that goes for all, believers and non-believers alike. The bible, speaks on not doing it because it will not work. That is it. A protective warning. When yourself and another personality begin to get to know each other, the relationship (be it romantic or not) WILL suceed or fail based on the COMMON beliefs verses the NOT in common traits of the 2 folks. Some issuses in this life are WAY to deep to be fighting against the ones closest to you while going through them. When lifes slaps come at you , you are better off with "supporters" near. One last comment --- "bad company courrupts good behavior" --- we 'rub off on' people we are near while they 'rub off on' us -- just another plain fact of life -- and a good rule to think on while choosing weather or not to yoke yourself to a particular individual. If one doesn't know God and REALLY wants to keep it that way they should NEVER date a believer , that is for sure.

WastedTalents

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Interacial dating accepted by Blks & Whts only, how come? Posted: 12/22/2005 7:11:22 PM
Thre's only one answer I can come up with: Tradition Have you ever seen "Fiddler on the Roof"? It's not all make believe. Some cultures cannot let go of tradition, and respect it more than anything else. I was thinking VERY much along these same lines. To many "non-American" culters, it is deep seeded part of the way that there are raised. And for that matter, "religion", more often than not, is a key player also. IMO- "Fiddler on the Roof" shows this subject's truth the most crystal clearly. Just change the culture and or religion to any other in our world. His Word says (I'm not quoting-btw) that we should couple ourselves with another of like kind. The misunderstanding lies in the interpretation of that. There are 2 huge points,...Lions should not mate with rhinos, nor elephants with giraffe, nor humans and non-humans, would be the first and secondly,The TRUTH is God sees only 2 races of HUMANS, BELIEVERS and NON-believers, these are the races whom should stay away from each other in that respect. So that it would protect the believer from being dissuaded from their belief. It is said as Jews and Gentiles but in Bible times that was the the most commen decription of believers of God and the alternative. I also believe that to a person whom realises the truth (ooops- I mean is already open minded about interracial relationships), the "nationality"-races of the couple is not a factor. To those who believe the opposite, well they also are not concerned with which races mixed just the sheer fact that there was a mix instead of "a more pure bloodline"/culture. Of course there are adceptions to that as well, for example, the 1st "half-breed" in my family was my maternal great-grandfather. He was half American Indian and half Irish, in that day this was one of the worst. There are other mixes in my family since his generation of our family but that is just for the sake of stating. Today I know a very racest white family, whom believes it is ok for anyone else as long as it isn't their family and at the same time completely ignore the youngest granddaudhter's marrage to an almost full blooded American Indian because he doesn't "look it", he blends easily as a "white guy". It is not SO obvious, not to mention it seems as though "everyone wants to find there claim" to the plight of the Indian because we live in the benifit today of their suffering, period. (Sorry another subject) SIDE NOTE: IMPORTANT to any PARENTS whom might not normally even attempt to watch this movie (which probably includes most folks born in generation X and after), but want to have some crystal conversation with your kids about your own standards on this subject and there feelings ..... it is an amazing conversation tool for the young ones. My daughter is almost 12 and she and I reciently both watched it for the first time (yes together at home). She fought it for a long time (it looked to be 'old' of a movie tobe intruiging in any way- AND a musical gee, what a draw- LOL) until I pointed out to her that Gwen Staffani's not so recient hit 'If I were a Rich Girl" was derived from an original version in this movie, then she was more willing. Anyway, the movie is entertaining enough that we both know it narratum'verbatum and have had many great meaningful conversations that deal with lasting, REAL LIFE impact on her future. I recomend it highly.

WastedTalents

Joined: 2/8/2005

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Is Love just a feeling or is it....... Posted: 12/18/2005 1:32:22 PM
Decision itself is based on/comes from what we believe/think. With that it is still possible for a rollercoaster ride to happen. Simply depends on weather or not you believe and know truth. EITHER WAY- feelings will be a factor and will carry weight, in the end.

WastedTalents

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If God is on Earth, NOW, where's this collection money? Posted: 9/8/2005 9:12:05 AM
It doesn't happen instantly but, through kharmic law, it will happen. --(posted above) It is God's law of sowing and reaping. (hmmmm same law, titled and accredited differently) Either way, it applies to everything that goes outward from self--good and evil.

WastedTalents

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Religion? God? Life? ...Confused? This may help Posted: 9/8/2005 8:40:12 AM
Depending on your pov of course. I worship the LIVING Son of God Jesus Christ! Same person that you refer to differently, hmmm .

WastedTalents

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The point of tithing Posted: 9/8/2005 8:28:33 AM
"Well I'm with you fellers" -(O Brother Where Art Thou) -lol Tithing- not about what is done with the funds, at it's root it is about stewardship, everything that I am affilliated with and afforded (abilities included) was created by, came from, and still belongs to God. He only asks me (demands as is stated in His rules) for the 1st 10% of my treasure. (And the 1st 10% of everything else might I add, ie: my time and my tallent) Where your treasure lies there also lies your heart. Look in your checkbook (if you still use one) you priorities are revieled-- what is important to you is obvious by what you spend your money on. It is a tool, a test, and a trademark. If you put God first He'll take care of the rest. It is an issue that is completely between God and myself, no matter what "the church" decides to "spend" the tithes on. For now in my life, it is about what He told me to do and that I do it. (I supose I could say that I have the luxury as well of trusting the appointed leaders of the place to which I tithe, but before I choose this place for my tithe I choose to tithe to a christian radio station-- the important part being that my 1st 10% went to God's work and His work at that station was more than obvious to me) I have never once tithed and lacked, EVER. And how about this.... if I will.., God will. I follow His rules and so does He. He told me through His Word that what I sow I shall also reap. In a selfish humans mind that means that I can give it away because it will still come back to me. Interesting part is, that when you reap anything, after sowing (planting), it has grown (as in it is much more than you ever gave to start with). And the big thing is , IT IS TRUE. Let me stop now..... tithing: my choice I chose according to a particual set of standards with my free will (ability to choose for myself how to live).

WastedTalents

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Help! --Conspiracies... NO, just HELP! :) Posted: 9/5/2005 9:52:27 PM
My first thoughts after reading all of the arguing are that this one gaiess has the FIRST correct answer, and secondly, ... why ask this question in the first place. ? ... Judge not lest ye be judged. I believe that every person involved there has some "gut" feelings about "why" it happened to them, and each will rationalise in whatever manner that they normally think (God's involvement vs. nature and random selection). Again however, why ask the question? Is there some way to "learn" from "their mistakes" or EVER prevent such an even from happening to ourselves. I do not believe so. The answer is somewhat irrellivant. What happened last week was not just one large storm event but thousands and thousands of individual experiences where each human sat where they were and wondered, felt doomed, fought for their lives and loved ones, tryed to get HOME, tried to get away from home, prayed, or didn't pray. All just happened to have no choice but to go through the storm. Being as that I have lived through simular (not AS devistating but simular) circumstances, I tend to believe that the only difference between the non-believers and the believers involved, is peace of mind, before (while waiting for arrival of impending possible doom), durring, and after the worst. A believer, would be calm in the "knowing" that their Father God will protect them and see them through the storm-- all the way through the storm. For a person whom believes in God there is ALWAYS hope. And hope IS the oasis in the desert for your soul. There are signs and miricles everywhere, some are NOT meant for normal Joe christian, some are meant to direct the leaders or the nations. Likewise, in each of our individual lives, things do happen for our eyes to see and our ears to hear, so that it might help lead us each to our OWN determination of what we choose to believe. Anyway, now for most the question is not so much why? but where?. Where do they/we go from here? I have a suggestion but that, I'm sure is probably predictable.

WastedTalents

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Best friends Ex Posted: 7/25/2005 12:03:47 PM
True friends can agree to disagree, about many issues, in a lot of cases this is why friendships end up lasting. If you value your friendship with you "best-friend", and you care genuinely for his ex then deal with it ....UP FRONT AND PERSONAL, then go with your heart. All will work out.

WastedTalents

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Just wondering about this one? Posted: 7/25/2005 11:50:07 AM
yes they do and to some fools it makes you all the more an attractive fight

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..Can a heart only be broken once..? Posted: 7/25/2005 11:48:45 AM
more than once no doubt

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Military Men Posted: 7/20/2005 8:24:01 PM
Well said!!! Army Girlfriend!

WastedTalents

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are family law courts sexist Posted: 7/20/2005 8:02:36 PM
Yes the courts are and I haven't been a victom of them in any way shape or form. America, love it or leave it, well depending on the type of injustice that you must suffer here maybe leaving is an option, maybe not. However it is all we have for the time being. (BTW, I hate that saying and it was said with that in mind)

WastedTalents

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Her feelings ARE important.... Posted: 7/20/2005 7:55:30 PM
Sincere thanks to all for your input. No she was not lied to, ever, there was a point when these adults were JUST friends. And as for what is she being told.... well I understand that the 'other' parent is filling her head with "since they have abandonded me they have abandonded you too". So I'm thinking that professional help is quite possibly the ONLY recourse. I think that making a little one feel important IS extreemly important but to the point that the child ends up with false views of reality is out of hand. We ALL WISH that the world (including in our own households) revolves around us and it simply does NOT. Thanks again

WastedTalents

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What do you do when your child is against you dating? Posted: 7/20/2005 7:41:58 PM
Some people very close to me are going through the same sort of mess. (Thread: Her feelings ARE important) I tend to think that talking to the child OFTEN about the subject, is the only recourse. Communication, about these tough subjects--especially, is the only thing that brings understanding to each party involved and with understanding comes compassion. I, 100% believe, that if you give the little one (same age age the female child in the senerio that I speak on) an inch she shall take a mile--(human nature). If you allow her to believe that she CAN rule everyone's feelings AND actions, which is simply untrue, then you shall have her growing up with major expectations of the world that will not be fulfilled. Infinatelly difficult, yes, but not unsolvable. No, none of us here are fit advisors to bank on, but, we all seem to agree from info given that it is a gut reaction on her part to the father's treatment towards her since his remarrage. Therefore, I would think that adressing THAT issue first, upfront, and with a bit of hard cold truth (reality) compassion will come. When she begins to understand the selfishness that was on his part verses the FACT that you very well could have decided to do the same during her 12 years, she will realise that you have sacrificed for her love and that it makes you a fair bit of unhappy to CONTINUE to do so. And one more thing, she LOVES you, she doesn't want you sad and unhappy even for "her benifit" and therefore with understanding and compassion from her all will work out just fine. Speaking all of the truth all of the time with her is the key! Good Luck to you. God's love be with you.

WastedTalents

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Her feelings ARE important.... Posted: 7/18/2005 3:25:57 AM
Where do you draw the line?, when?, and how? Mom and Dad have been divorced for more than a couple years, one of the two is in love and ready to "move on" in their life. The little one, (pre-teen) WILL NOT adcept it in any way, shape, or form. The new relationship is close to the point of marrage and the little one WILL NOT even "tollirate" the mention of the significant other's name. (Obviously, this IS a major factor in dalaying the ceremony.) And it is fact that, this is not personal dislike for the person but only that she will not adcept another person for her parent adcept the other parent, because when she believed that the parent and the fience were ONLY friends there was a wonderful friendship shared between the fience and the child. The little one, has also pretty flat out given an ultamatum, which is unspoken, (but very loud in the silence of the night) that she has no problems with excluding herself from life (as much life as possible) with the respective parent if/when the relationship with the new love is a factor. In other words, major, teen-aged type silent treatment to the parent who is "moving on", and even though that sounds childish , well she IS a child, and the pain cause to the parent is deep. There is no more face time what-so-ever, between the child and the future new step-parent as it simply is 'too much' and painful for her to "deal with" at this point in her life. This word even -ultamatum- it is being used and at her age it is impossible for her to understand all of the reprecussions of a decision of that magnitude, and noone seems to be telling her that it isn't really ok to possibly waste time on hate, and don't force a fight that you can't win. The parents are divorced, for the second time now and there is no chance even without another party involved that they will EVER be together again. Now, the fience has been patience and loving and understanding in this entire matter and at this point holds no ill will towards the child but is in doubt somedays, as to wheather or not their patience (and understanding and tollirance) will hold out on such an important love and issue. It is common knowledge that some children (no matter at what age they were when THE divorce happened in their family) some NEVER adcept another into the family. So at what point? This is an infinatelly difficult matter. Advice..?..comments..?..

WastedTalents

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Your opinion please... Posted: 7/13/2005 9:54:10 PM
no comment really just a bit of agreement here , you are not the only one on this planet that thinks that way , some mistakes must be played out though even though you get to sit and watch the trainwreck happen unfortunatelly, being as that you have said all that you can really

WastedTalents

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What do men feel about Gemini women? Are we too much? Posted: 6/16/2005 6:01:55 AM
Oh My Goodness. No arguments there.

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What do men feel about Gemini women? Are we too much? Posted: 6/15/2005 10:32:18 AM
Halo all! :)There IS only so much to this entire astrogoly issue, but from experience I would have to answer yes, too much, too intense, too talkative (espicailly when toooo knowledgable), too opinionated, too much a people person, I could continue but shall not. Even the strongest male personalities I've know have had issues with more than one of these aspects of a female gemini. And I find it odd that male geminis are so quiet and subdued in comparison.

WastedTalents

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read my profile before you read thread Posted: 6/1/2005 7:55:02 PM
I think I know of what I am about to speak, well enough to make you think , ....at least. This relationship that the Catdude is involved in is a very tight bond, love will sacrifice, real love will sacrifice selflessly. His beloved is given a huge slice of love through sacrifice since she can not "do" some of the things that she would prefer to NO DOUBT, be loving and enjoying WITH him herself, she simply , loves him enough to not want him ( ~doubled edge sword aleart~) to suffer with her. A deep dark truth about the feel of real love though is that (revealing the other side) he is supose to 'want' to suffer with her (sacrific is the highest form of love). We all want to find it , but don't notice that it IS give and take , in love both sacrafice back and forth in different little things (life throws some huge ones in there sometimes too though and they can't be ignored just cause they are huge). But as a human, every day in life one makes these hard choices, and it is an ongoing battle in love. (ie: the fact that deep love is the most excruciating pain paralleed to the pleasure that which is just as extreem). We all find the lines to cross, in different ways, to 'share our love/sacrafices' with one another in all of our relationships, while we ARE selfish animals we have a general nature of wanting to please those that we care about the most. There has no doubt been much discussion in this relationship for this agreement to have evolved and it will likely be an ongoing discussion for them for a long time. For we change our minds as we grow older, things are viewed differently and modifications are made. And friends are made that shall stay friends for life actually, as well. The normal fish doesn't believe, hasn't seen or touched real love, some not on the giving end, ever , ... and for a vast majority , if they ever had it comming in their direction they either didn't desire it from that individual or didn't truly recognise it for lack of familuarity. Life is difficullt enough without all of the attempting to judge others for THEIR lifestyles, come on get the tolite paper off of your own shoe before u tell me bout the spinich in my teeth, yours is more ealily seen anyway, you can only see mine if I smile. TeeHee

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Re: Ever see someone you KNEW on the personals? Posted: 5/13/2005 6:58:40 PM
This is sooo funny, that is EXACTLY the reason I ended up joining a sight that in the long run led me to this one.

WastedTalents

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Very Odd Email.... Posted: 5/11/2005 9:06:18 PM
Same words, different names...recieved it often , (always different names) and so have a variety of my friends

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Love can't over come bad sex Posted: 5/11/2005 8:33:57 AM
Hmmm- good point Simon- I think that is a higher love that survives an event like that- a love that most of us forget can exist

WastedTalents

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Hurt, Pissed, Scared?...What?! Posted: 5/11/2005 8:23:52 AM
Help her understand her self worth and to love herself, A) if she had this to start with she might not have ended up pregnant so early in life B) those 2 prescious comodities are worth more now to her than ever, for everthing ahead of her is going to make her feel the opposite, as well as she will need all strength and love possible to mold a new little human IMO- this is the REAL problem with babies having babies (and that goes for adult bodies with immature minds as well)

WastedTalents

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Love can't over come bad sex Posted: 5/11/2005 8:03:12 AM
NO, of course it is NOT. But does often play in the game. I more than once have heard (with my ears, in person) one person tell another in the relationship...."You used to be hot,(and or) you let yourself go, it's no good in the bedroom anymore for me, you just don't get me going". understood? btw - that is just one example of my point.

WastedTalents

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Love can't over come bad sex Posted: 5/11/2005 7:36:16 AM
I don't think that you are wrong. And I'd like to add that while everyone seems to bash a lot on other's physical preferences, that is one of the reasons that those preferences are important in the long run.

WastedTalents

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Well isnt this interesitng! Posted: 5/10/2005 12:42:49 AM
sweety, relax, Cause #1 - you just voiced what most of tha wounded ones feel and never say out loud. Thing is there is no answer to your confusion, no really, there isn't. You vented though, and that is good! Just know this, you are not confused alone. Soooo many of the rest of us here are too. These choices that you make though (in confusion, when there is no way to UNconfuse or educate yourself) these choices, are what make the difference between living and sorta living, see, if you CHOOSE something then you are living and feeling. Do not just let your self be molded, mold yourself.

WastedTalents

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women of p.o.f. what does the word friend mean to you in reguard to dating Posted: 5/10/2005 12:15:53 AM
LOL yup sometimes it means that too!

WastedTalents

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women of p.o.f. what does the word friend mean to you in reguard to dating Posted: 5/9/2005 11:01:01 PM
Yup Fud- or "You're a great guy but , so far, not enough physical attraction to make you my bf" (OR spark or whatever that thing is that happens)

WastedTalents

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What Physical Qualities Do You Look For In a Mate That Are Absolute Musts? Posted: 5/9/2005 10:49:09 PM
So far as I can tell here, Super is right, not enough people can see it (the hints, the clues, the hidden truths) Worse, not enough people care enough to look for it, or often disreguard what they see that they do not like, but he's right. And gees that's funny to here a dude say, 'read between the lines'!!! Grey area, it is EVERYWHERE in life! LOL Ahhh!- but this thread is actually about physical and not all of that other good detail.

WastedTalents

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women of p.o.f. what does the word friend mean to you in reguard to dating Posted: 5/9/2005 10:14:04 PM
It is an odd thing to me that soooo many of us find ourselves on the same side of the truth fence. And even more odd that we continune to find more liars that truth tellers. Fos, I wasn't firing at you, I promise.

WastedTalents

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would you marry for money? Posted: 5/8/2005 9:50:43 PM
No!

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What Physical Qualities Do You Look For In a Mate That Are Absolute Musts? Posted: 5/8/2005 9:47:47 PM
Kim- ooooop

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What Physical Qualities Do You Look For In a Mate That Are Absolute Musts? Posted: 5/8/2005 9:43:42 PM
Gee I tend to think that with the physical issue I find out when my eyes land on it and they decide first , for they can not control themselves...LOL so do I measure up?, well, LOL ask someone else's eyes. LOL a lot

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Welcome the NOOB Posted: 5/8/2005 9:30:48 PM
Absolutelly NO rudeness intended, introduce yourself in the introduce yourself here thread. That way ,,....well nm OH but Halo and welcome. As I've been known to say before .... this is the best pond in which to take a dive. Feeling froggy? Jump!

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Happy Mothers Day Posted: 5/8/2005 9:26:52 PM
Hey maaaan !, Thanks! And to all of the single father's as well,,,TeeHee... Happy Physudo-Mothers Day!... opps a little late aren't I ? o well!

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women of p.o.f. what does the word friend mean to you in reguard to dating Posted: 5/8/2005 8:23:34 PM
true nuff, but, how many adults are relly logical (even with what they think that they understand about themselves) ?

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How long does it take ??? Posted: 5/8/2005 8:19:40 PM
Oh my!.... The only true answer is a long time , because no matter how long that long is, it is too long to the one that feels most wounded. You know, a hour of pain feels like an eternity in comparison to other emotions. I will not go into my pain, story, history, etc. but, sometimes it is worth the wait and sometimes it IS NOT! I had a relationship that was not worth it but sapped much from me and the left over pain took many years to heal from, however, I've also had a sorta simular situation as Cin and yet I had no problem thinking that ...this pain, this particular pain might just be different and worth my love and sacrifice. What is it that they say...?... Life is not summed up by it's amount of moments but by the moments that mean the most. (or something like that)

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Do women really want a nice guy? Posted: 5/7/2005 11:07:55 PM
LOL and gee that reminds me of something else we've both spoke on once, anyway.... OOOOOOO mmmmmmm Did it work!!!?:)???!?!!!

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What Do Men Prefer????? Posted: 5/7/2005 9:51:03 PM
Yo females!,,, Ya' think that the redheads are getting a bad wrap on the temper thing? I mean we all have one pretty bad at some time or other. I wonder if maybe it is because guys relate pms with the color read....LOL

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How much does your past baggage after your new relationships Posted: 5/6/2005 12:51:21 PM
Merv ain't on any longer ,...?...Is he? LOL

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How much does your past baggage after your new relationships Posted: 5/6/2005 12:15:53 PM
My baggage doesn't get checked at the door but rather the other way around , it gets checked IN at the door. No surprises in the future, besides I have been well formed into who I am by these 'past experiences', and someone will know more about and understand me more by laying it out no matter how I've dealt with it , or how far past it I may be.

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Is it o.k. to date your best friends former boyfriend or girlfriend when he/she still cares for them Posted: 5/6/2005 11:58:49 AM
NO!!!

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True Happiness....reality or a disillusioned fantasy Posted: 5/6/2005 11:56:17 AM
Cin- it does exist and I sorta think that you know already where to start!

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What Do Men Prefer????? Posted: 5/6/2005 10:55:55 AM
Wow look at that, society has done some little flip in all these years, hmmm... We went from 'blondes have more fun' to....? LOL if ur changing it gurl then make the first try temporary, find out and do what u like , that is ,I think, what they really like.

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REVIEW: Top 3 things you've learned from this site Posted: 5/6/2005 10:49:13 AM
KJ- boy did you get a glimps, so sorry but that took you way farther than most men will understand about wemon. BTW- some of us chicks are just as jaded by each other. ooops - nm - another thread!

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Do women really want a nice guy? Posted: 5/6/2005 10:38:29 AM
Ya might not buy this one but I'm beginning to think that we really do not know what EXACTLY is a nice guy. So then when it is said it is really only in reference to "not one that will treat me like the last jerk", "now I at least know that he wasn't nice". "Geeeee, all I really want is a nice guy"...LOL What is that again!?!

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It's Ok to do Posted: 5/6/2005 10:25:36 AM
Character and Caring not weekness IF... You KNOW that you were wrong , you MEAN it when you apologies , and you truthful try not to cause the same pain again therefor just to repeat the whole cycle- then it is see through and meaningless , and shows weekness.

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WHERE WAS I ? Posted: 5/6/2005 10:15:42 AM
So you're still not tellin huh detroit?

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REVIEW: Top 3 things you've learned from this site Posted: 5/6/2005 10:11:32 AM
#1- I am not alone. #2- Many are confused (and #3 might explain why) #3- Why did God have 2 lines one for brains and one for humor? It is a serious rarity to find both traits in the same individual (myself included,not very funny...lol)

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Joined: 2/8/2005

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women of p.o.f. what does the word friend mean to you in reguard to dating Posted: 5/6/2005 5:48:51 AM
caffein- interesting but I think yes a lot of times , but there is always such confusion in females trying to communicate and besides we are females, we rarely make our minds up solidly (boy I'm gunna get it for this...lol) and we change or minds way too often. Gavin- I looked , you put 'friends', what is your deffination cause there is defiantelly more grey area in that than just a female opinion and a male opinion.!?! Afterall I've know of people taking the approach of everything starts there and so I will get more response by seeming to not want so much (always however having a huge hope still that it will end up more).

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