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 Author Thread: Can We Miss What We've Never Had?
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Can We Miss What We've Never Had?
Posted: 7/4/2009 3:47:23 AM
^^ my life is hard and unrelenting but i wouldnt change it for the world, dont get me wrong...this isnt supposed sbout to be about me lol just in general
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Can We Miss What We've Never Had?
Posted: 7/4/2009 3:41:06 AM
^^ I was pregnant at 16 so didnt really know what it was like but i understand what you are saying :)
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Can We Miss What We've Never Had?
Posted: 7/4/2009 3:07:39 AM
So last night..actually this morning about 4am, my 4 year old was on her i dont wanna sleep mummy tantrums. I started 'missing' the freedom most people my age have, but then got to thinking..I've never had it so can i actually miss it?

Wondering peoples opinon on this, can some one that for instance has never had a live in parnter etc miss that?
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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The Nolans Are Back!
Posted: 6/26/2009 4:07:41 AM
ok who the hell were the Nolans?.....i was only alive for 3 yrs of the 80's
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Regretted Dumping Someone?
Posted: 6/3/2009 3:34:40 PM
yes right now

2 weeks ago i dumped my guy


3 days ago he killed himself
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Naturally thin
Posted: 6/3/2009 5:19:41 AM
I've always been naturally thin and its hell, Im 5ft 1 and 6 stne, nothing helps me put weight on, didnt even put on any when i was pregnant. Te comments i get are harsh and unkind

but i am who i am those who dont like it can kiss my ass
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Sunburnt bits
Posted: 5/31/2009 6:12:54 AM
When i was in my teens me and aload of friends went to the beach and one of the lads fell asleep in the sun...so as you think is funny when your young we wrote *I Like To F**K Pigs* on his back in lotion and left him there....he walked round with that tanned onto his back for weeks

 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
KIPPEPS - Kids in Parents; Pockets Eroding Parents Savings
Posted: 4/16/2009 5:45:07 AM
I moved out at 16, but the brief time between leaving school and moving out i paid my mum £40 a week rent (or £20 if i was there less then 3 nights a week). I never grumbled and i certainly did my share of the chores.

My friends who still live with their parents annoy me with their ****ing about having to help around the house etc, I'm like they think its bad now, wait until they get their own place and have to everything, they wont know what hit them.
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Friends/hangout
Posted: 4/2/2009 10:59:28 AM
^^ and a packet of hobnobs
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Snowing Again
Posted: 3/5/2009 3:19:41 AM
woke up to snow here in Exeter this morning, i hate the bloody stuff
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Do you have any annoying bed time habits during the night?
Posted: 3/4/2009 6:12:01 AM
Me and my partner are arguing about this at the moment, he reckons i beat him up im my sleep and steal the duvet, apparently i also shout random stuff, one example being "get away you dirty skank wh*re" personally i think he is making it up...im an
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Seatbelts
Posted: 2/16/2009 12:51:14 PM
babys in rear facing car seats should NOT be put in the front seat, crash - air bag - dead baby
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Is it acceptable for the Education Minister to 'spell bad'?
Posted: 2/13/2009 6:24:42 AM
Rob I know it isn't spelt with an E

Just wondered how long it would be before some picky person would correct me.

Seems I didn't have to wait that long for it.

People seem to revel in other peoples mistakes, common practice these days jumping over other to make oneself feel good
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Is it acceptable for the Education Minister to 'spell bad'?
Posted: 2/13/2009 2:35:50 AM
^^ not for a personal blog
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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A dad aged 13
Posted: 2/13/2009 2:11:29 AM
At the end of the day you can talk until your blue in the face

but unless you can be with your children 24/7 you cant stop them

I had very good parents, always made me tell them where i was, who i was with and a number they could contact me on..... i still came home pregnant at 16
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Is it acceptable for the Education Minister to 'spell bad'?
Posted: 2/13/2009 1:56:36 AM
Christ almighty so hes a bad speller so what?

If he is bad at sports doubt that would be an issue yet P.E is part of the curriculem.

Some people just are not good spellers... it happens
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Broken Record
Posted: 2/12/2009 2:26:42 AM
Also liking Kevin Rudolf feat. Lil' Wayne - Let It Rock.

Which my baby girl is currently dancing round the room to hehe
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Feeling Sleepy
Posted: 2/11/2009 3:07:57 PM
I sleep WAY too much.

I can go to bed at 9 wake up 9 and still sleep the whole day if i wanted.

I do suffer quite badly with weight caused fatigue which isnt something i can change. Also have boughts of Anemia which doesnt help

My favourite past-time...sleeping
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Broken Record
Posted: 2/11/2009 2:02:54 PM
TM Kings of leon are one of my fav bands , also really like Sex on Fire but for some reason sounds like hes singing bout an STD...
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Broken Record
Posted: 2/11/2009 1:59:19 PM
So i recently discovered Kings of Leon and their song 'Closer'

I am addicted have got the single song on repeat and have had all day

My question is are there any songs you can listen to over and over without ever getting bored?
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Recent Job losses. A support group?
Posted: 2/6/2009 2:54:33 AM
Maybe instead of a support group, a website of information about different job sites.
Cv and covering letter help etc

I just think it would be more constructive then people sitting around getting depressed
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Have you tried to get to work today?.......or stayed indoors
Posted: 2/6/2009 12:47:31 AM
Gots loades here in devon, same a pretty much everywhere else. Schools closed(depressing), buses not runing etc

It took me 20mins to get to the shop this morning and its usually a 5 min walk.

I HATE SNOW!!!
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Is Apprenticeships good or bad for current/future job markets?
Posted: 2/4/2009 10:32:02 PM
Because, yes its cheaper to employ apprentices but you also need skilled workers to teach the apprentices. Plus in IT for example, its not much use to the company if its full of apprentices and someone rings up with a complaint that they have no training for. Plus even though its cheaper to employ an apprentice the time it takes to train them is months if not years in some trades so for most employers its more efficent to employ an already trained worker

Apprenticeships have been the way of the world for hundreds of years, its how people learn trades, i dont think it are a bad thing. Some people choose apprenticeships because its on the job training, and employers do not need to wait 5 or 6 years for uni graduates who they then have to pay a higher way for and still offer some training to.
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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£5 or less meals for 4
Posted: 2/2/2009 10:15:36 PM
So due to the current dosh crisis i thought some cheapbutgoalongway recipes might be a good idea.

Ill start:

Sausage casserole

Shopping List

8 reduced-fat sausages
1 yellow pepper, deseeded and chopped
4 red onions, cut into wedges
400g can chopped tomatoes
250ml/9fl oz vegetable stock
1 tbsp sugar
1/2 x 20g pack basil

PREP:
1. Heat oven to 220C/fan 200C/gas 7. Put the sausages, pepper and onion into a roasting tin, then roast for 20 mins.

2. Lower oven to 200C/fan 180C/gas 6, then tip tomatoes and stock over the sausages. Add sugar and most of the basil, season, then stir well. Roast for another 20 mins.

Leftovers:
Sausages will freeze for 1 month - defrost, cover and reheat in a medium oven for 20-30 mins.

Garlic and Basil Toast

Shopping List

400g bloomer loaf
25g low-fat cream cheese
1 tbsp butter
2 crushed garlic
Cloves
1/2 x 20g pack basil, roughly chopped

PREP
1. Heat grill to high.

2. Cut a 400g bloomer loaf into 8 slices.

3. Mix together 25g low-fat cream cheese, 1 tbsp butter, 2 crushed garlic cloves and 1/2 x 20g pack basil, roughly chopped.

4. Lightly toast the bread on both sides, then spread one side with the herby mix and grill briefly until melted and golden.

GOES GREAT WITH THE CASSEROLE
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Help with ideas for a play box..for a little 'un
Posted: 1/30/2009 12:28:13 AM
Unlike everyone else i would say STAY AWAY FROM ELC. They are extremely expensive and you could prob get twice as much at boot sales/poundland and other nik-nak shops for less then you would pay in ELC for one thing

I often buy stuff like this for my daughter, we goto This Is It. Not sure how common those shops are but usually each town has something like it
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Hair Do..........
Posted: 1/28/2009 6:43:43 AM
Only manage to afford a hair cut a couple times a year so it needs colouring aswell, on average it costs me £80-£110 but thats wash, cut blowdry, straightening and whole hair colouring ( i have alot of hair)
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Your crumble button
Posted: 1/26/2009 3:34:11 PM
My crumble button is my Mother...dont get me wrong i love her but.... when she starts going on about how this should be done and how i should raise my daughter or how im doing it wrong..........i just wanna smack her one

Edit: oh and the other one is when people assume because i was a teenage mum, i cant possibly have a good child that she must be a terror or that im a slag and obviously had a crap upbringing with no morals
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Absent fathers To Lose Passports & Driving Licences !!
Posted: 1/25/2009 11:05:20 AM
Yeah i have seen a few of them, but back when i was looking and came across them, the CSA said that i had to use one approvedby them which were the expensive ones. Also i wouldnt even know where to find my Ex now, the CSA rings me and ask me where he is... sure it's there job to find him?
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Absent fathers To Lose Passports & Driving Licences !!
Posted: 1/25/2009 10:59:42 AM
My daughters 4 and i have never recieved a penny.

Altho the CSA screwed me over, He wanted a DNA test (his way of prolonging not paying) which was fine, the CSA set it up, we both went together to get it done and the CSA cancelled it, no reason given and they then refused to allow another one. Private test being £300+ and the CSA wouldnt accept any of the pnes we suggested means i was screwed.
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Question for the men
Posted: 1/21/2009 2:43:32 PM
Personally i would wait until the babys born before you start dating as no matter what people say having a baby changes you and you attitude towards other people. Myself was in a relationship whilst i was pregnant. After i had my daughter i came to see that almost everyone around me seemed very immature, including my bf so we didnt last long

just a word of warning

take care and congratulations
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Some books should not be made into films!
Posted: 1/19/2009 9:47:57 PM
Eragon

Have just about finished reading the trilogy and the couldnt missed more out of the film if they just ran opening titles and credits.

Also hope they dont make the other 2 books as there is no way they could do the books justice, even if they made 10 films
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Food combinations that are just plain wrong!
Posted: 12/16/2008 2:13:41 PM
When i was pregnant i went mad for marmite and mushy peas on toast or egg mayo + tuna mayo + freshly cooked bacon toasty.....now i wanna chunk
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Would you hire a male babysitter?
Posted: 12/12/2008 9:49:13 AM
^^^and as a babysitter they are trusting you with thier children, i dont know many parents who would hire strangers for the job which in turn would make you close to the family.

*Common sense needed in aisle 9!*
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Violent Women
Posted: 12/12/2008 4:09:07 AM

There's something out of kilter about this. Is this guy really just a friend? What did they do about baby sitting on the night in question? Why would a possessive woman persuade her partner to go out?
There's no excuse for violence but I can't help but feel that this is not the full story.


Yes he is just a friend, not sure why you think otherwise?

From what i understand she left the baby asleep in the house when she went outside i think her sister was inside though not 100% on that, they live on the quay so the canal is practically outside their door.

As for why she said he could go, i have no idea. I dont understand how or why she does what she does. Im not posessive nor manipulative so i dont know how her mind works,
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Single Parents To Work Once Child Reaches One !!
Posted: 12/12/2008 12:42:18 AM
Income support vs childcare payments?

Ok for single child familys, i think that the government would pay out more per/month for childcare costs + WTC and possibly still helping with HB and CT then they would for income support.
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Strange Christmas present requests.
Posted: 12/10/2008 9:17:13 PM
Tip for men on buying women clothing:

Either check the label on her clothes before you buy anything

or

Find a sales assistant who looks about the same size and ask for help.

Sales assistant " What size is she"

You "about your size"

sales assistant picks out a size, you put it back and get one size smaller.

shes going to be flattered if you thinks she is smaller then she is but not if you think she is bigger then she is

hope that makes sense

xx
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Drinking measures and size of a glass
Posted: 12/8/2008 2:17:55 AM
^^ Glad to be of help

oh and dont know if you know but the recommended unit intake for men is:

3 units/day.... maximum 21 units/week
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Drinking measures and size of a glass
Posted: 12/8/2008 12:42:42 AM
Thought this may be helpful:

Wine

125ml glass Champagne (12% ABV, eg Veuve Clicquot) = 1.5 units

125ml glass dry white wine (12% ABV, eg Montana Sauvignon Blanc) = 1.61 units

250ml glass = 3.23 units

125ml glass red wine (13% ABV, eg Campo Viejo Rioja) = 1.63 units

250ml glass = 3.25 units

You can buy wine measurers here:

http://www.bargizmos.com/item.php?ID=732
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Sick Interest!
Posted: 12/7/2008 11:36:48 PM
Ok could just be me but when i was reading the OP micheal jackson didnt even come to mind.

Im quite often heard sayingIm off to neverland or asked where ive been i've replised Neverland. For me personally it intends to mean the same as 'Away with the faeries'
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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How much influence do we have on raising children right?
Posted: 12/3/2008 3:57:56 AM
I insist on my daughter using manners, she know that if she cant be bothered to say please and thank you then i cant be bothered to give her what she wants. If a tantrum follows she has to sit in one spot for quiet time until she apologises.

Havent had to do this many times.

She is very well mannered and now mostly always says please and thank you...now my boyfriend on the other hand..... is a pain in the arse
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Christmas Presents
Posted: 12/2/2008 3:45:47 AM
All trying to buy presents has brought me this year is the realisation of how little me and my partner (of 6 months) know about each other lol
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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New here, and dealing with depression
Posted: 11/25/2008 10:44:44 PM
I was 17 when I became a single mum, worked , the lot. Depression raised its ugly head but then its alot of pressure on one person.

4 yrs on I have a beautiful daughter, a new loving partner(not living with me...my choice)...finances are still tight but always expected them to be.

What im saying is it does get better, remember the little things that count. Treasure the moments that make you smile and recall them when things get bad
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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IVF FOR PRISONERS!!!
Posted: 11/25/2008 2:52:34 PM
other sources:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/3506361/Prisoners-offered-IVF-treatment.html

http://www.apho.org.uk/resource/item.aspx?RID=61185
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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IVF FOR PRISONERS!!!
Posted: 11/25/2008 2:38:27 AM
http://www.mailonsunday.co.uk/news/article-508003/Convicts-allowed-IVF-treatment-jail.html

Prisoners should be allowed conjugal visits and IVF treatment to help them have children while behind bars, a new report claims.

Academics claim that helping prisoners to become parents during their sentences will assist their rehabilitation, as well as respecting their human rights - and those of their partners - to raise a family.

The call follows a landmark legal defeat for the Government last month in which the European Court of Human Rights ruled that it was unlawful to stop jailed murderer Kirk****on donating sperm for his wife to use in IVF treatment as it breached their right to marry and raise a family.

To me this is disgusting seeming how many tax paying non-criminals area rationed IVF.

Views please?
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Funniest Line in a movie
Posted: 11/20/2008 12:46:19 PM
Some from snatch:

Turkish: **** me, hold tight. What's that?
Tommy: It's me belt, Turkish.
Turkish: No, Tommy. There's a gun in your trousers. What's a gun doing in your trousers?
Tommy: It's for protection.
Turkish: Protection from what? "Zee Germans"?

Avi: Eighty-six carats.
Rosebud: Where?
Avi: London.
Rosebud: London?
Avi: London.
Avi's Colleague: London?
Avi: Yes, London. You know: fish, chips, cup 'o tea, bad food, worse weather, Mary ****ing Poppins... LONDON.

Policeman: So, what you doin here?
Turkish: I'm taking the dog for a walk. What's the problem?
Policeman: What's in the car?
Turkish: Seats and a steering wheel.

Tyrone: I don't want that dog dribbling on my seats.
Vinny: Your seats? Tyrone, this is a stolen car, mate.

ok ok ill stop now way too many to list
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Celebrating an Achievement
Posted: 11/7/2008 9:18:12 AM
Have turned all my restrictions off....i think x
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Celebrating an Achievement
Posted: 11/7/2008 8:25:19 AM
2 weeks today, hes just got over the bad stomach and sickness, which is why i have waited until now, its going to be a couple weeks until i can do anything as i need to get a sitter.

Am liking the DVD idea as I cant afford to take him out and cant cook to save me life lol

Just want it to be special to show him how proud i am of him
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Celebrating an Achievement
Posted: 11/7/2008 8:03:22 AM
So a bit of backround, my partner is an ex heroin addict, he has just come off his methadone and subutex (sp?) program and is now clean of anything for the first time ina very long time.

Hes a bit apprehensive as its been his life so long, I wanna help him move forward by celebrating his achievement bu am unsure what to do. Its a very private thing for him so am wanting something for just the 2 of us.

Any ideas would be a great help

much love xx
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Latin Terms Banned By Councils !!
Posted: 11/5/2008 3:44:02 PM
Well if they start doing away with other languages that are incoperated into our own we are screwed:


English has been called a Germanic language with a Romance vocabulary. Estimates of native words (derived from Old English) in English range from 20%–33%, with the rest made up of foreign borrowings. A large number of these borrowings are Latinate, coming directly from Latin, from Latin through one of the Romance languages (French, Italian, Portuguese, Catalan, Occitan, or Spanish) or from some other language (such as Greek) into Latin and then into English.


Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Latin_influence_in_English
 tashie87
Joined: 4/3/2007
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Sleeping Patterns
Posted: 11/2/2008 1:36:36 AM
thanks for the replys

I might do anything overly strenuous but i do have a soon to be 4 yr old that tires me out, I do find that I usually get tired between 5 and 8 pm, but its not convenient for me to go sleep that early as 1. My daughter doesnt go bed until 7 and 2. I find if i go sleep to early i end up waking up at stupid o'clock in the morning unable to return to sleep, think a trip to the doctors may be a good idea

much love xx
 
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