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Why do guys LIKE to torture girls? Posted: 9/1/2006 8:52:14 AM
I don't know what guys you been with, I'm not anything like that. To answer your question, why do women torture guys who treat them like the're equal and respect them...and in the end the guy ends up getting hurt... Maybe that's why I have decreased showing much interest nowadays, unless a girl really shows me how wonderful she is ( kind and caring )

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Please help me. . . Posted: 6/19/2006 8:06:01 AM
Easy... But first how the hell do you get people's passwords like that ?, you're scary to be around in that way, I think you're a good hacker but you didn't need to take her password and read all the 49 pages to know she's deceiving you ! First sign : She agreed to take the five month break of not talking to each other...are you kidding me ??, if she loved you, this would have upseted her. Second sign: This guy leaves a message on the answering machine,,,if she had really split with the guy, she should have done it while you were around. Bro...she played you, she doesn't deserve your love. WHy would you marry someone who has hurt your heart, you're better than that. It'll take 2 years to fully get over it, but give it time, and soon she'll be forgotten..atleast the feelings aspect. If you don't turn away, you're wasting your time... you needed advice, so here it is.

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Do not Promote women to Girlfriend Status right away Posted: 5/1/2006 1:10:18 PM
@veedub447 Well I finally figured you out. I read another post of yours a while back about how you left a girl in the middle of a dance floor after her hair fell out and when she went to the washroom to fix it....you dissapeared into thin air. I read your profile, and saw that you're a comic, you certainly can put a smile on someone's face but not sure if you're real or making up things. Those standards for girlfriends, not a bad idea....but once she does get approval from the Governor General's Board of Directors Managerial Department Of Societal Affairs in North America, and she does become your girlfriend. She deserves respect dude, see what she has gone through to get the prize. If she eventually does become your wife, then certainly you should have a new Queen declared and demote the old one. Well that would also make the guy a King, wouldn't it ?, well it all works out fine, I like the idea.

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harper: media not allowed to cover soldiers return Posted: 4/25/2006 12:00:15 PM
@ ashley 1861 Our Prime Minister Harper is being criticized because the media thinks he's falling President Bush's path. The idea is the media is excluded to prevent the public getting too into the fallen soldiers, just to keep the mind off, so that when election comes around it isn't well remembered. This is exactly what the MEDIA thinks !! Now they're blaming Harper, saying he's copying Bush's way of doing things. Personally I think the fallen should be remembered but not the media, if you do want to pay your respects or really want to be a part of it, should be allowed in another way. I think PM Harper is doing a great job as a Prime Minister, I'm tired of the Liberals using our tax paying dollars and not even admitting it. Now as far as our troops go, I think they should be brought back after some time, not kept too long.

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What's Up With NO PHOTOS? Posted: 4/8/2006 10:29:01 PM
Xavi in here for the forums, not to really find someone on here. If you wanna know someone you always have the option to ask, not just sit and wait just because they haven't filled out their profile. Your pic means nothing if or when you have an ugly personality, so again like I said before different strokes for different folks. If you like posting your pics, be my guest, everyone has their own dating scheme.

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What's Up With NO PHOTOS? Posted: 4/8/2006 10:15:04 PM
This is a good post, people's shallow minded thoughts come through...which also helps in the selection process. 1) I don't think anyone needs to know how you look upfront, if you'd like to send a picture later that's fine. This way you really know what the other person is, all vanity sanity or girlfriend/marriage material. 2) Lets face it this is a dating site, not a modelling competition, not who wants to be a millionaire, not apprentice, not MTV live, not exposing yourself to millions of viewers so you get selected like a piece of meat. 3) People who don't show their pics, be proud, show it only if a person deserves to see you......and you can be the judge of that !

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Dating/marrying a Hindu Male. Posted: 3/20/2006 9:03:22 AM
Don't see anything wrong...I think you should back off and let your sister be herself. She's a grown woman and can handle herself. If she wants to see what he's like, let her take a 6 month vacation to Africa,,,,,,,,then decide. See what his intentions are that way. Yes be there when your sister needs you, but don't make any decisions for her.....that's wrong.

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any one here who has bipolar manic depression Posted: 3/5/2006 2:31:21 PM
Interesting, from what I've heard from drugs for depression..such as anti depressents, have side effects just like other drugs do. One of them is your sexual appetite, libido goes down. And what happens once you stop such a drug ?, do you return to your normal stage ?...and be depressed the same or more ?, if so I guess it's something a person has to take for life. The placebo thing doesn't make sense, could you clarify that pinaybarbie....your doctor said he would give you placebo ?, that defeats the purpose of taking a placebo.

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any one here who has bipolar manic depression Posted: 3/4/2006 1:46:45 PM
Hey ladies, stop attacking each other back and forth. I'm so glad to see that there are wonderful people here who want to give advice and give a heads up to people...having a disability makes it hard, yet with the proper care and attention we all can be and act the same and being a productive member to society. I'm sure both of you are mature women and have seen and experienced a lot in your life times....and one cannot compare with the other. Instead lets turn this post around and help the O.P, and give her some good advice that can help her with a stable life. The only thing I didn't get though from the O.P's post is, why would a doctor give a placebo and tell the patient he/she is getting a placebo....maybe the O.P didn't cleary state what she was saying. Anyway, people who have this disability enlighten us, tell us what it's about. What drugs have you tried ? do they work ? any exteme side effects ?

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Women should pay. Posted: 3/4/2006 1:22:57 PM
Well said 'sweettalkingwoman' and 'CountrySugar' I don't mind sharing at all, and been burned in the past for dishing out money on women and not realizing at the point how hard I had to work for that money. I barely spent money on myself, but spent like crazy on this woman chocolates/arabian sweets/nice delicasies....pay for all my dates, gas money. Guess what she left me because ......she couldn't give me a reason....I was heartbroken and later realized if only she had known how much effort and care I put into our relationship. Anyway learnt from my mistakes and now know sharing is the best, no way will I pay after the first date and not expect back on the dates beyond. That's being stupid I think, women don't have it hard anymore. So people talking about being old fashioned, that was in when women didn't have many opportunities as men....now it's all there, so get with the plan. I have no problems at all with sharing, if you care enough about me, show it too just as I do you !!

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POF has the most beautiful women of any dating website. Posted: 3/3/2006 4:14:38 PM
I am an accredited photographer. Photographs do not capture a person's real beauty...some people are beautiful to look at but are so ugly inside that they can't turn the ugly off. I have met thousands of people in my life time. I have met famous people and not-so-famous people and the one thing that comes to mind is "PERSONALITY". So, as somebody who enjoys being behind the camera making the "magic" for others I have to honestly say I don't think it is all about looks. I can make ANYBODY look good in a picture, but are they actually beautiful inside? Each person has something, but some people have something richer, more mysterious and deeper than the superficial. This special something very few people have. It's a charismatic attraction, it can be the way they "think, move, talk or just their lovely ways of doing things". Think it's all about the looks? NO WAY. I disagree BRAVO "dorkieyorkie007"....you read my mind, exactly !

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POF has the most beautiful women of any dating website. Posted: 3/3/2006 4:08:36 PM
Well said smith2267. The site is great because it's FREE, but women are the same everywhere. I think the subject in this forum is just an ego booster, and every woman that signs her name/comment here proves the point. As for me I've become used to it, I don't fall for it that easily anymore, looks are decieving, ....it's your ATTITUDE that makes you beautiful.

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Would you date a college drop out? Posted: 2/25/2006 10:32:43 AM
Funny how this question is mostly related to guys and doesn't specify women as much. Easy, No I wouldn't date a college drop out unless she has something going for her, not fair that I have to try to better myself and she sticks around not even trying to do something that could better herself. I would like something going for her, if she hasn't got a degree. By that I don't mean waitressing or being a dancer....lol, I mean a business woman or even a skilled office worker. An educated person tells me, they have a good intellect, someone by kids can also learn from. In our day in age, without college or university, it's harder to come up in life anyway.

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Bald Men Posted: 2/17/2006 4:01:26 AM
@ nomdeplume Well said "Follically Challenged and Proud" Let women who want to be picky with little things like hair/no hair be, because us guys can also start judging women on their physical...I won't even go there. By the way women with short hair look damn good as well, I enjoy all women, as long as you're fun and not Shallow that makes you really attractive.

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who should pay on a date? Posted: 2/5/2006 6:48:39 AM
Well I have paid for the first few dates and I think I'm wrong in this, because usually the relationship hadn't worked out and now I'm at square one with less money. That isn't fair at all. First date, a gentleman like attitude, pay but go on a small date. The next date you should start sharing the cost and the dates beyond....nowadays women have everything they want, as much as what guys can have, women have. So it's only fair both pay. If a girl is a poor, or a guy0 is poor, the one who is better off should help out when needed. Recently I dated a woman who is way better off than me ( rich compared to me ), and I barely had anything my pocket but I still offered to pay on the first few dates. At the the third date (she wastes 50% of the food ), then after the end of the date she tells me as far as a relationship goes we don't have much in common. How would that make someone feel ? I think the bill should be shared after the very first date. Plain and Simple !!

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BIGGEST TURN OFFS EVER..add it in.....first time for this turn-off Posted: 2/5/2006 6:31:08 AM
Yes Pretty Pink. I'm a guy and if I heard that from a woman, it would also be a BIG BIG turn off for me. I wouldn't pursue her for a relationship, because if I am able to control myself and find a woman after waiting....so can she. Now as far as picking this guy, if you try to get a guy who's all out there........then obviously without even asking how many women he's slept with, you should go your own way. If you're interested in a guy who is "so attractive" in your eyes,,,,,yet he has a wandering eye...do you think he's really intersted in you ? or prepared to use you ? Anyway my case and point, don't reject any guy just because he may not be attractive in your eyes when you first see him. Learn and discover him, he may be the cleanest guy you've met.

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What Women Want! Posted: 1/29/2006 11:26:30 AM
I really like the comment posted by "newhamiltonian"...she said it right.....that's what women want AND: DO NOT be a server or a womans slave, but be her equal, put her straight if she's wrong not compliment her for things that are not right. If a woman is into some odd superficial crap (i.e Jude Law)....let her go, don't waste your time, give her time to grow up. Because what a woman wants should be what a man wants, which is a well-respected partner. Once a man acts like a womans tail...and doesn't act like a man, he's already lost !! Forget what women want, be yourself and ask what you want...PERIOD ! That's what a woman wants.

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Men & Premature Balding Posted: 12/4/2005 12:19:13 PM
Go for guys with hair,,,,,,,but don't for a single second think they are any eter looking, cuz a bald man can rock any ladies boat High ! It's not sad that men lose hair young, it just happens...and no it's not necessarily aging either...it's gentics. Now if you women can stand by their man through that, you're not a woman in my eyes. Baldness is sexy.....I'll tell you what's ugly, superficial women...tell you why, this goes out to anyone man or woman........when you judge someone it's only because you're insecure about yourself !

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 11/29/2005 7:06:41 PM
Athiest or not, believe me you came from somewhere...you know that lil brain that thinks and makes ideas/comments had obviously a creator. Extra chromosome or two -- > what are you saying people born that way are less in value to yourself, got news for you, I don't see it that way. Interesting why you have your profile hidden.. You go ahead and pick who you want, no one will bother you with that, all I said is a person who is 5'3 should expect someone equal and not whine and cry about it....it's not a big deal, if we stop as a society thinking more like a sheet of paper, which is plain and draw what we believe the world should be, then I think our world would be a much happier place.

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 11/29/2005 6:01:26 PM
First point....fat chicks can lose weight, same as fat guys can.....in both cases 90% can lose weight. So this can be fixed if desired, no comparison there. Now height is genetics, just like a woman with a nice butt is a genetic trait. Inferior = no one is inferior genetically, every person has equal value no matter how you were made in God's green earth.

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Ladies: your take on short guys? Posted: 11/29/2005 4:12:50 PM
Wooow...looking at this post made me go "WHHATTT" except for 'prettytough' here, some of you women are completely out of your mind and which make people out there depressed more when they are find that women out there won't date them just for being 5'5 or below. I mean c'mon, forget what society thinks, be independent and have a mind of your own...one that being non-judgemental. WHat's wrong with a guy 5'3 dating a girl 5'3............that cute, adorable and if your rather focus on each other and see each others sexiness in a whole unique light...you'll be a happy person !! Everyone goes through life's struggle's, and have many stories to tell....in the end we are all different looking but same in mind and body ! By the way your attraction in a person = you can build a new attraction. My definition of short = doesn't exist, women or men !!

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women take time to respond Posted: 7/18/2005 4:26:00 PM
Yep that is very true, women just delete your message when they read it. I have written long messages, and no response...and no I wasn't even close to asking her out or anything, just very basic questions. Just tells you how polite people can be, you giving the time to write them and they treat you like dirt.....and no one can say that's fair when someone deletes your message just because they can't say no...atleast say something back, something nice and then sayI'm liking someone over here. The other reason is women get tons of emails from guys, so every guy is a number......now there are some very wise women out there who pick guys by quality, their realness, and want to get to know someone better. For the most part I have messaged tons of girls who are not only here to waste your time, but theirs as well. Be smart, that's all I got to say...happy fishing !

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I have a big problem............help needed please Posted: 7/17/2005 11:00:11 AM
EASY : First a guy with a 12 inch doesn't make any difference, as a guy with 4 inches can get it done just as well......only real women know that ( look into the scientific journals, size don't matter) Yep be honest with the guy you're dating, and if he says anything...show him the emails to prove it. Job done, if the guy you're dating choses him over you, he's definitely not someone you should be with...as a relationship depends on trust !

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 6/17/2005 11:40:51 AM
This is honestly a dumb posting, how can you judge a girls personality by hair. I knew a girl who changed hair color every single week. Everyone has preferences, so as far as blondes being 1% better than black hair, or brunnete hair having any more sexiness to it, is all ridiculous !

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