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Losing a loved one to death Posted: 5/10/2007 4:01:19 PM | | I lost my Father October 7, 2004. It was the single worst day of my life, so far. One way I have dealt with the pain is to keep his memory alive and talk about him. Don't keep dwelling on the fact that they are now deceased and there's nothing we can do about it. Fact is, that wont change. But as everyone has stated, time truly does heal all wounds. And as bad as it hurts now, it WILL lessen. But to be very honest, there will be little things from time to time that will just HIT you and you will break down in tears for no apparent reason. Let them flow... it's all part of the healing process. I found talking and blogging about my dad, his death, his occupation, his wit, etc all makes me feel better in the long run. Don't block the memories... let them flow and celebrate what you remember about your loved one and the times you shared together. Keep their memory alive and you will heal with a clear mind. God Bless... if you ever need a shoulder or an ear... I am only a keystroke away. Jackie | | | |
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