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rocky_returns

Joined: 4/6/2007

Msg: 11 (view)

traffic light system Posted: 9/7/2007 1:26:38 AM
I was actually thinking of the women that keep mentioning abusive emails from guys to be honest << this actually sparked off the traffic light idea.

rocky_returns

Joined: 4/6/2007

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traffic light system Posted: 9/7/2007 1:21:18 AM
Ok, hold on tight people!! I mean when you have countless emails in your box and you cannot be bothered with viewing their profile to reply you hit the red button. If you want to think about it then you hit the yellow button. If you are up for a chat then you hit the green which would maybe take you directly to the profile and you send your message. No more abuse from men for women that dont reply No more misconception when someone does not reply A lot more easier then having to sift through every email and responding to each one Where is the problem in suggesting these things. I tend to get the drift from posting various forum topics that there are alot of people that miss the point, have to psychoanalyze something way more then is needed, look at this post for example you two above me are discussing chimps and peoples intelligence and in no way did I set out to result in such replies it was a question that required a simple yes or no. My next forum topic is - 'When on a first date do you wear a shirt or a casual but smart t-shirt for comfort' - then you lot can start discussing how much washing you have to do

rocky_returns

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Msg: 26 (view)

Sex with a Man who Can't Finish Posted: 9/2/2007 4:17:51 PM
From a 'one minute man' to a 'damn he went all night man' Flippant is todays word tut tut and, altogether now, tut

rocky_returns

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Msg: 6 (view)

Ladies, can a man cheat on you and still be in love with you? Posted: 8/28/2007 4:13:15 PM
salome2 - what if the man is as thick as sheeeee lol

rocky_returns

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Msg: 22 (view)

partner sleeping with someone else during break Posted: 8/28/2007 4:09:10 PM
It is obviously worth it because you ARE back together but, but, but, but If you cannot put all that stuff behind ya then it IS time to move on another two pennies

rocky_returns

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Msg: 133 (view)

How do you ask a girl is she is a shemale without upsetting her. Posted: 8/28/2007 3:58:22 PM
In my opinion Stop procrastinating and ask her! If it was me I would be off as it is not my thing - in all fairness she should have mentioned this to you right from the start! Keep it jigger

rocky_returns

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Msg: 33 (view)

Your longest break / being single Posted: 8/28/2007 4:56:42 AM
I did not expect so many people to respond but thank you for taking the time out to do so !!

rocky_returns

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Your longest break / being single Posted: 8/27/2007 2:32:20 PM
I have been single for over 2 years now - have had a couple of dates spread well apart - I really could not be bothered with emotional investment in anyone after my engagement broke down and it seems that I am going in the opposite direction now and am willing to find someone. 1/ is this a normal thing not to want anybody for so long 2/ what is your longest break from the dating / relationship thing

rocky_returns

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Msg: 64 (view)

just how the hell do you do it Posted: 8/27/2007 2:27:19 PM
life moves in one direction only and I find it is best to go with the flow

rocky_returns

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How do I handle a deeply insecure woman? Posted: 8/22/2007 1:57:48 PM
You cannot right her wrongs - she is who she is! But I also understand that you both had a wild time so this would make you want to find answers as the time you had away actually meant something to you and her by the sounds of it. On the other hand - the behaviour coming from that of a grown adult woman who should know the difference between treating someone well and treating someone badly, especially when the person it is aimed at has done nothing to warrant ill treatment, she obviously has issues. If a guy was to react like this to a woman he would surely be kicked to one side, a woman would not stand for this coming from a guy so why should you coming from this woman? There is an unhealthy balance on either side of the arguement/discussion where the bad outweighs the good in my opinion. Then again I could always be wrong and with me saying that it kind of makes my post seem pointless > it is all down to you buddy

rocky_returns

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traffic light system Posted: 8/21/2007 3:13:36 AM
Not sure/convince me = read Well alot of people do not bother deleting their messages as I have discovered and basically it gets to the point where you could be seen as harrassing someone by sending them repeated messages. My point has been missed, would be much easier just to be able to send an autoreply without having to navigate through the site - view profile - send message - back back - to inbox type bizness - ya get me bro

rocky_returns

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SUGGESTION: traffic light system to show interest Posted: 8/17/2007 4:35:17 PM
Ok how about a traffic light system ? red is for - no go amber is for - not sure convince me green is for - hell yeah this could be opened with new mail to instantly send the member something back and when it is red the mail and member name is blocked from any future online user list that they see. just an idea peeps - who got my back - that sound serious dunnit - what am i like

rocky_returns

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From one to another............. Posted: 8/17/2007 9:37:03 AM
People who jump from one relationship to another, constantly, without giving a thought for the last one they just finished. This could span over all their adult life. In my opinion this is an unstable person that craves attention or some sort of security from the feeling or need to be with someone ALL the time. Was wondering what people in here thought ? (Im fast becoming a forum addict when I sign into this site... lol)

rocky_returns

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Msg: 115 (view)

is being single so bad? Posted: 8/17/2007 9:28:29 AM
Well I have already responded to the OP's question but it seems the opinion above me is quite a bad picture of a man. I have never treat my woman in the way it has been described above and I mean no offense to anyone in my opinion here but if a guy carries on like that of above then he needs a good kicking, or, to possibly go back to live with his mum! I had a longterm thing with a woman and two children plus one child which was/is! mine and I used to come home and tidy up, do the washing up, cook everyones tea....and that is after a 12 hour day! this for me got to a point where I felt like I was having the pi55 taken out of me in all honesty which is one of the main ingredients to the nasty breakup we had amongst a list of other things. We are still friends but it is not just MEN that treat women like dirt!! If that makes me one of the so called modern men then that is what I be My whole outlook is based on a mutual decision when being in a relationship and it is not the easiest thing to find in a person.

rocky_returns

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Msg: 112 (view)

is being single so bad? Posted: 8/16/2007 9:52:02 AM
Being single allows you to have full control of your own life without having to consult the other or take the other persons feelings into account granted....... but There are times that I wish for the passion, contact, soft moments, romatic stuff without having to go out for a one night stand!

rocky_returns

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Hey la, Hey laaaaa, my boyfriends back!!!!! Posted: 8/16/2007 9:18:08 AM
There has been one woman in my life where I still wonder, on rare occasions!!, where she is, how she is etc....................I would probably get back in touch to see how she was but would not expect anything to come of it in all honesty

rocky_returns

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Stab proofing of school uniforms! Posted: 8/14/2007 4:10:34 PM
I would hope that metal detectors would eventually be introduced in schools as they are in the states and anyone found to have a weapon on them would be excluded and their parents heavily fined or imprisoned! Stab proofing is a good idea If the government were to place more money into education providing schools with enough funds in order to protect its staff and pupils (security) then this problem would not arrise.

rocky_returns

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Msg: 155 (view)

Name the artist you feel was the most infulential in RockNRoll Posted: 8/14/2007 3:59:19 PM
I thought Little Richie & Chuck berry were the main people in this genre I know that Elvis DID NOT write his own songs

rocky_returns

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Msg: 112 (view)

Saw My Wedding ring On My X Husbands New Girlfriend! Posted: 8/14/2007 3:46:20 PM
I have never heard of such a thing and in all honesty if he gave her a ring that belonged to you then, in my opinion, it goes to show how much he thinks of his current wife and maybe she should be told......but, but, but this may be seen as a way of you breaking them both up cus I imagine she could be quite pissed with it (excuse my language) then it might open up a whole load of things like calling you a liar and twisted, why should she believe you when you are his ex......un necessary grief maybe ? It really is quite sad but he knows it was yours and he has to live with the lie - let it eat him up and you move forward with your life

rocky_returns

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Msg: 27 (view)

non attentive stubborn sports mad boyfriend...advice please Posted: 8/13/2007 5:33:59 AM
If he makes you feel like shit then quite simply move on regardless of feelings - when that love thing becomes torture it is a lost cause in my opinion and from experience. Just explain to him why you are splitting and maybe he wont be such a twat with his next girlfriend.

rocky_returns

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Eyes closed?? Posted: 8/13/2007 5:26:28 AM
I was under the impression that if you look into each others eyes whilst making love the whole thing becomes more sensual and intense. Personally, I would be worried if my partner closed her eyes all the time and did not look at me.

rocky_returns

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Msg: 184 (view)

Men-does it bother you if a woman's legs are not shaved? Posted: 8/11/2007 7:05:33 AM
I can forgive a day or two stubble but if I lay in bed next to woman and we brush our legs together it is kinda like 'WHOA........' It does not grose me out totally but it is just the initial shock of discovering this and then you have to explain why you did what you did, then she is worried and feels the need to go to the bathroom within the next 5 minutes :D and all because she has mans legs ........... oh oh

rocky_returns

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DATING EXOTIC DANCERS!!!! Posted: 8/11/2007 7:00:22 AM
I have dated a string of exotic dancers in my time

rocky_returns

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Msg: 92 (view)

why do people on these dating sites get scared when its time to meet for real Posted: 8/7/2007 12:14:14 AM
Totally agree about not taking the chance, you may miss out on someone perfect. Although, I think it is so easy to just message someone, that when it does come to the crunch, meeting is a nervous and confusing thing for some. For the people that find it scary actually meeting someone in the real world and eventually refusing to meet up at all it may be why they are here in the first place ?

rocky_returns

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Msg: 107 (view)

30 and never married? Posted: 8/7/2007 12:06:59 AM
I was engaged to one woman for four years and am so glad I did not tie the knot cus when things got out of hand and the relationship hit an extremely difficult faze, I asked her ' If we had been married would this be divorce ' to which she replied 'Yes'. I never had the need to look elsewhere, did not pay attention to other women when out that noticed me (she would always notice), I never really expected to be single ever again and when it did go down the pan, figuratively speaking, it was one hell of a drop! I always said to myself that even if I decided to get engaged then it would be to someone I really had no doubt about. She is now married by the way. HEY no regrets though!

rocky_returns

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Msg: 190 (view)

Height/Size Contridiction? Posted: 8/6/2007 4:06:21 PM
But everything is right when you lay together - awwwwww

rocky_returns

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What the hell is with spontaneous Posted: 8/6/2007 4:04:41 PM
When a woman mentions spontaneous, it would send a signal to me saying that she is in need of some serious fun and maybe (possibly even) sexy times, excitement bordering the 'I dare you' outlook. Hell, lets go is what I say!

rocky_returns

Joined: 4/6/2007

Msg: 438 (view)

I caught a women I've been sleeping with inserting my used condom inside her Posted: 8/6/2007 3:58:54 PM
Yep she doing that - the next thing will be a call about visiting the doctor with a positive pregnancy test -

rocky_returns

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Msg: 56 (view)

Whos The F*cked Up One Here? Posted: 8/6/2007 3:56:26 PM
Well cant say much for the guy but I would definately be round alot earlier than 1am

rocky_returns

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Msg: 27 (view)

What do y'all think of... Posted: 8/6/2007 3:54:12 PM
It is a guy called Keith and is not really a woman Whoa man

rocky_returns

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masturbating neighbor Posted: 7/31/2007 3:58:42 PM
I used to have a neighbour (couple = man and woman) who used to bang away at certain times and believe me you could hear it in the flat I was in - I just used to shout 'GO ON MY SON, GIVE IT TO HER' As far as your situation is concerned ya wanna be careful you do not get arrested for plugging your ear to the wall

rocky_returns

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Msg: 27 (view)

Asking for money Posted: 7/31/2007 12:12:41 PM
On the real - and that is how I like to address things If he thinks coming round your house everyday, eating the food YOU make and take time in doing so bearing in mind you also have 2 others to look after, is acceptable then he is dead wrong. How about this guy offer to bring some ingredients round to YOUR house to make YOU something special and maybe alternate this from time to time but on a regular occurence. I think that way you could possibly find a happier balance as money talk is a pain in itself and there will be an element of romance other than feeling like a meal ticket. (Of course it depends on what others have said and how you really feel about this guy its way too easy for me to say kick him to the kurb as you may like him despite his downfalls)

rocky_returns

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Msg: 228 (view)

WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 7/31/2007 11:52:37 AM
Im dyeing my hair grey, gonna buy me a grey pin striped suit and spark up a cigar

rocky_returns

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Msg: 122 (view)

The myth of doggie style Posted: 7/31/2007 11:47:51 AM
Oh and an excellent opportunity to give her arse a good slap - that is if she does not mind

rocky_returns

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Msg: 121 (view)

The myth of doggie style Posted: 7/31/2007 11:46:50 AM
The style you speak of is a good one and NO I do not do it to avoid seeing her face - If I thought that to start with I would not be with her in the first place - misguided is the word!!

rocky_returns

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Msg: 64 (view)

my date told me they were kinky but it was too much Posted: 7/31/2007 11:44:38 AM
I reckon she was probably laughing about it with her girlfriends the next day

rocky_returns

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I have my own house Posted: 7/30/2007 3:52:44 PM
Ok this might come across as a strange question or it might make total sense ? People that have been part of a divorce have gone through the court business to get their fair shares and sometimes not so fair shares from the marriage. I was speaking with a woman that found it incredibly weird that I do not own my own home (mortgage) but after talking to her I learnt that she was divorced and had two children, with this she also had a huge house in a very well to do part of the country but this was through a divorce settlement. She had not worked during her marriage but more or less had a well off husband prior to the divorce. I found it a nerve for her to judge me on what I did own and did not own in a material sense when she had simply found a man that had his own business, kept her and the children in everything they needed. He left her and the kids everything even though she did the dirty on him with another guy ??? It strikes me as very ignorant and I wondered if anyone else see's what I am trying to get at and what are your thoughts on someone that comes across like this ?

rocky_returns

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Msg: 215 (view)

Is there such a thing as a man lasting too long? Posted: 7/30/2007 9:29:35 AM
If she dont have a stopwatch going or an alarm clock nearby and ya making her feel good then the time should fly anyway, surely

rocky_returns

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Have you toured Europe ? Posted: 7/28/2007 5:24:37 AM
I am thinking of going backpacking across Europe as I need some sort of excitement in my life and something that I can maybe reflect on in later years, as I do not wish to be someone that has done the same mundane thing. My question is how do I go about backpacking across europe and other countries, what would my first step be to do this, how would I go about it, do I need Visa's should I decide to work somewhere etc.............. Help would be greatfully appreciated

rocky_returns

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Msg: 46 (view)

Shaved pubes and PAIN Posted: 7/26/2007 5:40:25 AM
One word which comes to my mind is 'Velcro' (not sure of the spelling)

rocky_returns

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Pierced Clitoris Posted: 7/25/2007 3:33:05 PM
I do believe it is the hood that is pierced and not the actual thingy majig (typed like that cus I dont want clitoris printed on my profile :D

rocky_returns

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Msg: 167 (view)

Has a girl ever tried to stick a finger in u? Posted: 7/25/2007 3:30:27 PM
Winter sparkle sounds like my sort of girl

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Fake ID's Posted: 7/22/2007 10:23:57 AM
I do not think that is too bad ..... kids out in town are going into clubs at the age of 16 and sometimes 15 OMG!!

rocky_returns

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Do people want what they ask for ? Posted: 7/22/2007 7:53:01 AM
I was recently in conversation with someone who lived quite close to me and had the title 'Dating'........we spoke for a couple of weeks and the conversation seemed to flow quite well.........when it came to the crunch of meeting, and I mentioned it, she was off like a leopordess with a poker up her jacksy and we have not spoken since.... It leaves me with the question of asking ' Do people really want what they choose to ask for on a site like this' ....... Personally with myself I prefer to use the ' talk/email' title therefore opening up chance of conversation ..... and if it leads to meeting it will not be because I have suggested it

rocky_returns

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Men are the players......you think Posted: 7/22/2007 7:39:58 AM
" current structure " = the way things are today in the dating world in comparison to what it was like 5 yrs, then 10, then 15 then 20 and so on ..............

rocky_returns

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Men are the players......you think Posted: 7/22/2007 4:24:58 AM
Ok peeps how many more threads am I going to see about the guy's always being players, messing around with the womans head all the time, only looking for sex...............blah blah Recent times and the current structure of the sexes would imply that women are just as much the players, therefore, I come to the conclusion that we are all as bad as each other.

rocky_returns

Joined: 4/6/2007

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The ' viewed me ' button Posted: 7/22/2007 4:15:28 AM
Hi peeps just wondering if the viewed me button is lying as I do press it to see who has visited. 9 times out of 10 I have either messaged these women visitors and they have quite clearly checked me out to see what the story is. What I find confusing is the women that have received a message from me, a couple on many occassions, do not reply back but then tend to visit my profile repeatedly over a course of weeks. Is the ' viewed me' button something that pushes someone to maybe feel the urge of contacting them again because you see this woman viewing you all the time so, in my logic, she is interested in some way ? The no reply or correspondence to my message would lead me to think this is a false part of the site that just encourages pointless messages being sent that are never reciprocated, although to the user it would be assumed they are showing interest by viewing me ..........

rocky_returns

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Msg: 16 (view)

What does the status Other Relationship mean? Posted: 7/22/2007 4:03:14 AM
I thought it meant that the woman was looking to beat a guy to submission while he was tied up in a dark room specially made so that no one can hear his screams

rocky_returns

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Msg: 16 (view)

Why do women do this? Posted: 7/20/2007 2:15:52 PM
I would have probably replied to her response with " Just let him down gently, ring you at 8 and I will pick you up " or " are you looking to be owned or could you do with some fun " One response is cheeky and the other could get you a slap

rocky_returns

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Would this scare you? Posted: 7/20/2007 1:45:28 PM
Did he mention anything about a bottle of Chianti

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