I've said it before, I'll say it again.....
I have never once had a man complain because I might stop for a minute every now and then and cum on his face!
Nor do I complain if he pauses, it means I'm doing a good job!!
For me, that's part of the fun.....seeing who can make the other lose concentration first!!

If anything, the average woman will use oral as foreplay to her ultimate goal of intercourse - oral in and of itself is not seen as the "true" sex act.

There is nothing wrong with licking a womans ass, as long as she is showered.

I'm sorry folks, I'm going to take a alternative tack here; the bottom line is that if she was worth a f*ck, HE would have been more interested! Obviously, he wasn't a Don Juan himself, but, even so, she WASN'T keeping his interest, much less, motivating him to take a more active role. Honestly, if it was ME, and my date was that bored, I would KNOW that I had some serious work to do.

That's pretty bad. I hate the TV to be on during intimate situations even if it's just kissing. It's like having other people standing around talking garbage while you're trying to be romantic. It's always off when I'm focusing on someone else. I find women can't even concentrate on a kiss without watching the TV if it happens to be on. I HATE that, so it's always off.

i never said that about her. whats wrong with you? You dont say that to a woman who is in a relationship with someone else. Thats just wrong....

of course you dont persue sex with someone who is in a relationship with someone else.

always think that oral should be less of a deal than full sex, but I can understand those who see it as being just as intimate.

It's bedtime...he's starting the "I want some" cuddle moves...

The last times we've had sex, he finishes and leaves.

Sorry, but I'm not in the "leave him" batch of answers.

It's bedtime...he's starting the "I want some" cuddle moves. Quietly but firmly tell him that you haven't been having orgasms of late and you really, really, really like orgasms...so if he wants to keep having orgasms with you, he needs to focus on you having at least one before he blows his load and rolls over.

His response to that simple statement will direct the rest of your life. Some guys won't get it and hell keep going the path he's been on...some will realize this is the wake-up call and there is a lot of room left for romance and mutual enjoyment.

And frankly, if he can't help you achieve orgasm now but your physical love life hasn't changed much, then maybe you need to see a counselor about why the spark is dying in your relationship. You're 26...it's not like things don't change emotionally, intellectually and physically at this age...but if you're both not enjoying the ride, talk to someone together who can offer some insight. We get less than 1/2 the story here.

I've been with him for so long, I'd be nervous to be done with him..
In the bedroom is the only place that he doesn't satisfy me... and I realize thats a lot of a relationship..

Maybe you aren't very exciting in bed and he's tired of doing all the work.

I have been with my fiance for about 5 years now.

Lately we haven't been having any sex. Except when he wants it. (I give in because I don't know when I'll ever get it again... lol)

Is it wrong of me to expect he finishes me off when he is done?

The last times we've had sex, he finishes and leaves.
I've discussed with him how it makes me feel, and that its ultimately demeaning. But I get nothing in reply.

Would it be wrong of me to retaliate, and get off right away and then leave him there unsatisfied?

What do you think?

I love it when she grabs a handful of my hair and slams my face into her heater...then starts grinding herself onto my face...makes me feel all tingly inside..

And I normally grab her by her pony tail....pony tail is a dead give away that a girl is a semi-pro or pro head giver...they're the ones that hate hair in their faces and can't stand the distraction!

so that's a big YES! to hair grabbing!!

Truth, I really like to get in there with both hands, really FEEL it-TruthinessInc

If all else fails stick a finger up his ass!!

In case anyone was looking for the video in question...

http://www.uselessjunk.com/article_full.php?id=13359

Yes, there is such a thing and it can get painful after awhile. Educate the poor man and let him know what it takes to get the job done for you. Attitude is everything.....

He preformed oral on me at the start, and I on him, both before and after his climax. However he just then wanted to lay there, and not continue. He used his fingers to stimulate my clit, but it was just rubbing in the end not stimulating. There was no more passion, no more desire. I would try and coax him into a different position, but there was no willingness to follow.

Got another question to go with this, which I think I know the answer anyway, but would like some imput, does physical fitness affect a persons performance. He is a smoker, and not into the gym, where I am not a smoker and go to the gym three times a week.

Beth, my last lover through the toy aside and said save that for when I am not here. He was amazing, and its ashame that his troubles got all to much for him. But sexually he was an equal if not better, and I guess it was a competition in away to see who could outlast the other one. There was desire and passion everytime, and climax's, well you just stopped keeping score

There is a significant percentage of women, in my experience, for whom orgasm is difficult, and takes a lot of time and attention. More than 1/2 of women don't orgasm, at least not usually, through intercourse alone.

I am quessing, that though we like each other well enough, and that we are good friends, sexually we just may not be compatible. And from past experience, if the sex isn't there at the start, its not going to get any better with age, no matter how much teaching is involved, some old dogs just can't learn new tricks

If you can't TALK about it, then you shouldn't be doing it. - no_1_bby

While good in theory, it doesn't always work in real life, no_1_bby . Lots of people are uncomfortable talking about sex, but most of us manage to have good relationships anyway.
And I think it's too trivial a characteristic to doom oneself to permenant celibacy/ singlehood. JMO

Désolé. Je serais une lesbienne que vous aurais près de moi avec n'importe quelle partie de vos vêtements de. lol

I've never had pain during anal. I think if you're in pain, you're not doing something right. It is a little uncomfortable at first, but it shouldn't be painful.

that's is the third post you made here...so i thought i would take the time to let you know... i did not find any of your comments informative or funny... but just in case you are are wondering why i took the trouble to post....


Are you just talking to yourself or someone else?

I now ask the very first thing when starting to chat...ARE YOU MARRIED?

Stop trying to validate your worth by dating other men..wait until you are legally single before you drag another into your screwed up situation.

It's not ok with me..sorry..anything but leagally single is still married. You have no excuse I will believe anymore...not for insurance, money or the kids..that is total BS.