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Joined: 2/10/2005

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Looking for threesomes on the net? Posted: 4/11/2008 8:46:34 AM
Sorry it took me a long time to reply! I am a truly bisexual woman, I started liking girls around the same time I started liking boys. By wondering whether a bisexual woman with a man is really bisexual - you could say the same if they were with a woman, maybe they're really gay. Bisexuality doesn't automatically make one polyamorous. I'm more monongomously wired, and the particular person that I fell in love with has a penis. That person could have just as easily had a vagina, but that's not what happened. I do know what you mean though, especially those bi-curious types, are they just doing it to keep or please their partner, or to have some social status - that they actually "did it" and now can say they did, while often hurting a woman who possibly had some feelings for them and might have wanted more than to be a bed-post notch.

Joined: 2/10/2005

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Looking for threesomes on the net? Posted: 1/16/2008 10:40:37 PM
I don't recall saying anything surprised me. I think I said it annoyed me. The question was "is anyone ever successful" at hooking up for threesomes through the net, not whether you have. Thank you for your reply anyway.

Joined: 2/10/2005

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Looking for threesomes on the net? Posted: 1/16/2008 10:10:43 PM
I've noticed in my time here, while looking for female friends, dates, as a female comes up with 90% of couples looking for a third. I wish that couples looking for thirds could have their very own category, because it really clouds my search, which is definitely not looking for a couple looking for a single. I want to know just how many of you that actually posted ads for a single woman to have sex with you and your spouse actually get responses, and if any have actually led to an encounter or experience? I can't see myself ever, regardless of my status, looking for and hooking up with a couple from a personal's ad. I have had several threesomes in my life, both FFM and MMF, and each time was with a friend/friends that I knew from regular life (as opposed to Internet) and (usually during some alcohol induced adventure) ended up getting it on with them. Sometimes it was me with a couple, or a friend with my partner and I, and other times - just three friends. Once, it was with two friends, all of us attached, none of us to each other. I have no problem with having or wanting to have threesomes, obviously, but it seems kind of trashy to me to request out of the pool of the general public a toy for you and your spouse and I wonder what kind of person would actually respond to it. People asking for couples (swingers) don't seem to bother me as much as those seeking a third for sex, at least that seems to be a fair deal to me. I don't know, any one else feel the same way? (The better one is "my husband will only watch - I'm sure there are tons of girls hopping on that bandwagon - would you do it?)

Joined: 2/10/2005

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Who Loves Aggressive Partners Posted: 4/6/2005 8:29:32 AM
It works if you want it to work. I make my partner fight for his control, if he wants it, then he's going to have to take it - not expect that I give it to him on a silver platter with my eyes cast downward uttering master. If he wants it, he has to BE it, not just proclaim himself the boss and expect me to readily agree. Then, he enjoys the fight to dominate as much as I do. Sometimes I do top, and I send him to outer space. Other times whoever is leading at the time is whoever is struck by the urge to do - and both of us can certainly "be the boss" during one session, or scene if you prefer. Other times, I'd just as soon lie back and let him do all the work, and other times he would rather do that, and therefore it is that way. People are often far too ready to lock themselves into one role that they are missing a world and wealth of experience and pleasure in other areas. It's a shame really, all those bdsm people thinking that they are better than all those vanilla people, all the while sticking limits on everything - especially their roles. Silly.

Joined: 2/10/2005

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Female cum Posted: 4/6/2005 8:20:56 AM
You have to stimulate the G-Spot. Stick your finger in, but rather than poking in and out like it's the pilsbury dough boy, move your finger like you're clenching your fist, or telling someone to come here. :-) Pull upwards always. It will work every time if you do it right. Don't be afraid to use pressure, the more, the better - or at least I think so.

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