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Msg: 34 (view)

Strange situation Posted: 5/2/2008 7:42:50 PM
Read couple threads in the "ask a woman" forum, brutal ota---most forums and chat rooms have the Jerry Springer mentallity and we humans all of us think we know better and we are clarevoiant. See what we are taught from society, family friends tv movies, read the 4 agreements and learn a better way to act think live. See even I think I know the anserw. actually I just the book " The Four Agreements" as the best philosophy thus far to live by, but it does not have the end all anserw , there a re a lot of holes in it too. We humans are never satisfied and that's just how the economy likes us!

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Msg: 33 (view)

Strange situation Posted: 5/2/2008 7:35:07 PM
Moraima, I 'm with you ! Please step away from the Drama" but it seems to be true some people thrive on that kinda thing. and enjoy playing the victim, and thier the ones that allowed themselves to ignore common sense or trust thier instincts or even a simple red flag like a a flat out lie. Love is truly blind.

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Are men over 40 more afraid to approach women? Posted: 5/2/2008 7:21:27 PM
That was a real sweet comment . That comment alone , if read by someone paying attention and note it for a red flag that it is. How easy it was for you to put a woman down that you don't even know!

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Long hair on older women Posted: 5/2/2008 6:40:19 PM
Those that say women over 30 should not have long hair, are in the hair cutting business!!! It's a marketing ploy! Just my himble opinion. Now when your hair is long and you want it short you can always put up a very sexy French twist. Day or night. I think that is the sexist hair do on us women. When your hair is short you can never change your hair style , you always look the same. Long hair no matter what the age. I say Layerd Long hair is for women that feel and still think sexy thoughts. Grow hair grow, I just can't wait for my hair to grow back in. I cut it to do a cleanse thing along with no sex, and living alone with no influences. I will never cut my hair until I no longer want sex. I like my long hair always pulled up into a water fall, a curly water fall, many styles are avaible for long hair. Long hair is for styling new doos all the time not just to be tied up except if you have an outside job, that makes sense but for going out learn a new do. Do not cut it except mabye to layer it.

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What not to wear... Posted: 12/27/2007 6:26:49 PM
age appropriate clothing that is tailored for the specific body it is on.???You say, Dress your age? Well then Us 50 somethings wouldn't look younger than our ages if we wore age appropriate clothes? Oh and I suppose age apropriate hair do's too? Forget that ! I will still where what makes me feel comfortable and sexy. and I don't mean MTV RAPPER DANCER CLOTHES>>> jUST what makes me feel comfortable and sexy or classy, not prostituty and trASHY. i love leggin/s glad they are back .they are cozy, I love cozy clothes as much as I love skin tight clothes.

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Don't touch me there Posted: 11/29/2007 7:17:26 PM
Go ahead touch all of me

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Msg: 64 (view)

How does someone say they love you and miss you, three weeks later starts seeing someone else? Posted: 11/28/2007 11:00:14 AM
Someone says they love you then 3 weeks later leaves you? Honestly, they did you a favor...now get over it. READ READ READ books on this subject. I recommend the 4 agreements. don't just read it once. again and again just like you torment yourself about lost love over and over again in your mind and punsish yourself. YOu have to talk yourself into it as much as you talk yourself out of it. now hug yourseelf and learn that , the next time someone tells you or shows you that you are not appreciated, Refuse to give them the power to steal your freedom to be able to move on to love someone new with full knowledge that you are worth loving . You are aren't you? if not , start being someone worth loving. READ READ READ get those irrational thoughts out of your head READ READ READ. There are many ways to look and understand about things. swim in the deep end of more ideas about life and how to live it. Now I gotta read and do some reinventing my dream. I those smilies

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Cold hearted women Posted: 10/31/2007 11:50:00 AM
Hence the Shakespear saying. " Love is blind" in my humble opinion, in order to fall in love we have to be blind to some faults. None of us are perfect. We humans will always want to feel supiror over others we all want to be the one in control, Is it our protection or down fall. It's lonely at the top. . We forgot what we were taught while young and that is to learn how to share. At this point in my life all a person has to be is loyal to me and they can be wht they want to others. Just be loyal to me. That is what counts and if you get a whiff of any ANY Benedick Arnold traitor in them that is a true sign to kick them to the curb. just keep swimming just keep swimming

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Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash? Posted: 10/21/2007 10:01:07 AM
You can blame society for materialism. Status symbols. and the like. so don't go blaming any one sex! Or any one race, or any one person. We are all in this together. I think you are still swimming in the shallow end. Remeber for any one person that is sad there is someone happy. etc. Too bad tho , those that have it financially good don't like to share that . They are willing to feel more wealthy than necessesary knowing full well thier opposite is so far down the chain and struggling. Ever hear the saying meet in the middle. Throw some wealth over board even the scale a bit. and thier love life will flouish. keyofdeborah without a credit card? oh and get more sleep

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What is the best revenge scheme you have ever cooked up? Posted: 7/7/2007 1:04:40 PM
Yes if only those kind of things actually happen in the real world makes for a good funny story tho. I do not like passivr aggressives. I do not set people uip to deliberatly fail. And I know if some one sets me up and if I did not truly deserve their evil deed, I know there is a power out in the world that will bless me with a blessing disguise. tada deborah lee Lockard you read it here first , that is why bad things happen to good people. If you truly did not say hurtfull, hatefull words or cause hurtfull feelings angry passionate torture, to someone., you will be resolved , but sadly only after the fact...there is no protection from against evildors, only an antidote which will take time to be corrected by the Etertnal powerfull Time Master set's things straight in your favor, so do seek to act on revengfull deeds, Time master needs you to do it. ;but, be prepared to havr one done to you too. nothing is perfect. black or white, but redemtion for truthfullness to yourself and others gets it's reward in TIME QUOTE ME dEBORAH lEE loOCKARD 7-7-2007 pUBLISHEDF ON POF.COM

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Cold hearted women Posted: 5/16/2007 9:35:25 AM
Hi, You need to learn to put the breaks on when the red flags go up..Stop letting things slide when someone does something you know and understand as cold and heartless. I'll bet she showed you her true self more than once and you ignored , because you were thinking with your little head, Don't settle...move on when your instincets tell you to do so. Plenty of Fish ...remember.. just a thought , good luck ..ProFool...and that is the reason for my screen name...I'm a pro fool and I realize there is life after love...You will survive

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How does someone say they love you and miss you, three weeks later starts seeing someone else? Posted: 4/22/2007 10:45:37 AM
Sweetlips;;;;;;;I really like what you wrote. You are right on the money....I'd like to add, that we are all volnerable >>>lol....vonerable?? anyhoo...erven when we say we are inlove and that we love you...all humans arn't perfect neither is the one we say we love...love is blind... so when we say we love you..we are saying that I love you even if you have a cow lick, or wear too much make up, or you laugh like a jack ass, or your a poor sob, and only watch tv instead of a go getter ...remember your faults you do have and if someone comes along that is better than you...don't think because you have someone that says they love you with all your faults..You don't have to improve on youirself and keep both of you down ...we humans are never satisfied and one day your gonna wake up say..What happend...Don't take them for granted, We are what we say and do!!! Be good to yourself and to thyne own self be true.....Someone can love you for you ...let one catch you....

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when girls say they need space Posted: 4/19/2007 11:24:53 PM
You got it bad and sorry, she just isn't into you as much as you are for her...Now She is taking the cowards way out. which I prefer..it let's you down alot easier that way . All you gotta do is take the hint...let it sink in..understand if you crowd her and corner her to settle for what she knows now is not a good match it will waste too much of your time and her's for the one that is searching for you. Do not take it personally, { easier said than done, I know} but she is doing you both a favor... let her have her space and make use of her time away by getting a new suit of clothes and haircut and charm the pants off some lucky lady and go deep sea fishing

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Closure Posted: 4/19/2007 9:43:39 PM
Yes, Remeber we 've been rejected...We Are not Defective. ..Unless we mope and mope about it...We got to get out more . Smile and come on a big ass grin,,, Someone waits for you

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Closure Posted: 4/19/2007 9:37:31 PM
Your right Chip....But by being friends is torture...it makes me feel connected so...your right...I won't say NO, we can't be friends, I just don't call all thetime or answer phone calls...Thern he writes wondering why I havn't called...So I feel like a puppit on a string....No more movies or dinners ...NO more pals y walzy ...I got to get out more. that's all there is to it...

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If George W bush is doing so bad why is the economy doing so good? Posted: 4/19/2007 8:48:24 PM
[the one with cash on hand will rule the investment environment in the next 5 years.] Yes But is that cash hound smart enough to keep it hidden and not in a bank??? Remember the Bush family Savings and Loan Scandles....Sooo much for those IRA's Just when you go to retire, all of a sudden they loose money and taze yours with it...or Like ENRON and lock you out from selling stock while they rape and pillage ...I don't get how they did that???If you sell stock don't you need some one willing to buy it for what you sell it for???? ABOLISH THE STOCK MARKET

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Msg: 66 (view)

If George W bush is doing so bad why is the economy doing so good? Posted: 4/19/2007 8:36:55 PM
Here in the Bay Area California, The economy has been so hyped up and scamed so bad , causing an inflated price in real Estate and soooo much financial terrorism with so callled creative financing that has bankrupted a lot of familys . Corporate coruption running rampant. Corporations get soo many tax breaks and are suppose to trickle it down to the real workers doing all the work..but the workers never get a de cent raise so they subsodize their income by useing Equity from their homes and credit cards.....oh on paper the economy is doing GREAT We owe, We owe, We owe, so, off to work we go...

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Investigations are ongoing .. is anyone going to jail? Posted: 4/19/2007 8:23:12 PM
Is anyone going to jail? Corporate corruption is rampant and the liars, cheaters, financial terrorists stealing from the workers retirements, The president mass murdering useing an army , Apparently all of this goes on and on with the American Governments blessing..Profiteering, price fixing, etc. Who is going to jail..?Only the working class go to jail for breaking a manmade law that they call a crime when it truly isn't a crime at All. And the issue of late is " Why you do not beleive in a God or the Bible?" When we see over and over again. those in power breaking all the commandments, and lieing, cheating, stealing, killing,. They must not believe in God and certantly do not fear a judgement day from a God that is suppose to send you to burn for all eternity when you do such sinful things....Now they must know God does not exist, as well as Santa Clause and the Easter Bunny...I've been saying this for a few years now and it is being repeated by many more than just me ...It is in the air...God is a fairy tale . America does not exist either...It is Corprate America...

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I wrote this for YOU :) Posted: 4/14/2007 11:25:48 AM
Bravo....BRAVO...DO NOT FORGET AS REMEMBER COPYRIGHT IT OR REGISTER TRADE MARK IT SO NO ONE ELSE CAN WRITE EXACTLY WORD FOR WORD AS YOU WROTE...BUT we can never copyright an idea...anyone can write a story about two people kissing at a train station, however paragraphs and phrasings can not be used the same for the same effect... oh by the way..You , I rememberd...SINCE YOU PUBLISHED IT HERE ON THE INTERNET...IT ALREADY IS PROOF OF WHO AND WHEN AND HOW IT WAS WRITTEN..DON'T DELETE IT..MKAYY..JUST ALITTLE tid bit..FYI May all your days be the labor of what you love... Deborah Lee Lockard....hey mabye you can fix that last line I wrote in a way that makes a more creative saying...

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