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sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 99 (view)

Why dont people learn to meet their own needs Posted: 7/27/2009 4:58:32 PM
Wow a question that answers itself , Let me pose one of my own. "Why do all of us have profiles If not to fill a need? " Hmmmm , might it be to fill a need within ourself ahhhhh lets jus say compaionship, the feeling of being complete , love.......( OMG I used the L word ). I'm sorry but in my thoughts your view of needs is actually a conflict of needs. Everyone has needs( you to) and I'm just spitballing but I'll say yours are met everytime while your partners needs are secondary and not important thats conflict. God I came from new york , I use to think like you do, what a sad memory that is. Shallow dosen't work for me anymore. Giving is just as great as reciving in a partnership and in a life mate choice. Wish you the best hope you find that someone who has no needs I'm sure He'll make you happy.

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 22 (view)

If he says he's into you, why does he still look at other profiles? Posted: 7/27/2009 3:56:33 PM
With out a doubt , sounds more like hes telling you " you'll do for now" and thats sad. Don't let this guy in ( your life) till he proves to you your #1. If not you will not have invested your heart on a loser. We are all worth more then a casual fling , We're worth total comitment by who ever we choose dont ever settle for less or you will be back doing this all over again. Who wants that!

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

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I want to met this girl,but have no money. Posted: 7/27/2009 3:45:42 PM
To the Ladies who actually want to help this guy and not bash him for a car. I applaude you all! There was alot of good Ideas you can use and she should be cool with it. Again GOOD LUCK!

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

I want to met this girl,but have no money. Posted: 7/27/2009 3:15:59 PM
OMG LMAO! its ashame you have to get advice like this. althou the car is a bit overboard for your pocket......there are girls out there that don't expect you to give up your car for them. Most would care more for you treating them with respect and making them feel special & desired. Everyone likes to feel special. If you care so much for this girl just always make her feel special......there will be time in the future to fix your short pockets. GOOD LUCK! hope you win her over.

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

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The truth and nothing but the truth ! Posted: 5/8/2007 4:24:14 PM
HUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHH???????????????

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

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The truth and nothing but the truth ! Posted: 5/7/2007 9:43:44 PM
HONESTY! hmmmm? have not been a member that long , but yet all I see is everyone looking for honesty......thought we were all old enough and tired of the games. lol guess not, everyone I've talked to on here is not looking for love there looking to fill a void , an empty space ( most looking for an upgrade).....y'all need to look deep inside cause if thats all you want buy a dog!................listen , I don't want to be your buddy, I don't wanna be your mattress pal , and I really dont wanna be your sugar daddy! The only thing I really want is to be the other half of somthing very special and know in my heart the other person feels the same way...........is that to much to ask for.You all need to look real deep. Start looking for what you really want. Theres way to many shallow people , selfcentered people....people of no content! Its sad to think that there are very few people substance on here...........please prove me wrong

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

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well this is way off topic matter Posted: 4/20/2007 6:16:32 PM
craz.. not a prob, had probs with isp disk just had to reload it.....there sending me a new disk. useing old disk worked but will happen again............go figure. but I'm seein people again not blurs....lol, thanks anyhoo......Willy G.

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

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well this is way off topic matter Posted: 4/19/2007 5:59:15 AM
mine is an input prob, my screen works fine till I get on the internet , then all video is destorted.when I'm on pof all the profile pic's ( well lets just say can barely make out that there human) can someone help maybe my setting got screwed some how , and I kinda need step by step help on how to fix.Am a geek in training looking for a yoda someone please help.....Thanks....WillyG.

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

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The Single Woman's Language Guide Posted: 4/17/2007 10:54:21 PM
you have a great wit about you , keep'em coming..........no need to translate( means very funny) lmao/

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

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wheres the love all!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 4/17/2007 8:47:06 AM
I've been on here a very short time , and may I say alot of youseem to know what you want in life. But I see alot of complaining about several topics, the topics are not important what is is that Ya'll seem to be talking at each other and not to each other, you will never find what or who you want until you start to communicate with each other . most or a good precent of us are on a second or third go round. News Flash!....We Didn't listen , we wern't paying attention( I for one think She who ever she might be , is worth that and moore.) I for one have learned this. And by the way Guys & Gals ,THEY ARE WORTH THE EFFORT!

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 146 (view)

Why’ll She’ll Never Message You Back Posted: 4/14/2007 2:49:09 AM
First , Zombie just read your profile and may I say , you are a great deal more mature then your years and hope you find that special somone. That being said your right to many people depend on looks and not substance and its a shame, althou I'm new to this site the games of yesteryear are all still alive and well and thats also a shame........would love to know when we all can start talking to each other and not at each other , and thats as serious as "aids"

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 43 (view)

My b/f of 6 months is still active on dating sites Posted: 4/14/2007 2:14:33 AM
RUNNNN FORESTTTTTT RUNNNNNNNNN! not trying to be unkind but, your a stop in a storm , ol reliable , that worn pair of jeans. think hun love is not somthing to give away easy you put your heart and soul into it, When you give it make sure the person you want to give it to deserves it.(sorry to say in this case "NOT"). DON'T keep moving foward.sit down together and talk.or move on , the longer you wait the more It will hurt latter.

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Should I tell him she doesn't like him Posted: 4/14/2007 1:43:50 AM
I agree some what with you , but it kinda sounds like stalking instead of romancing , but judging(judging is a harh word) neena , your feelings for him being known you might want to distract him and kinda ease your way into letting him know how you feel about him. Never know the next flowers could be for you............WillyG.

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 99 (view)

why are men so rude to women, judging them by looks Posted: 4/13/2007 12:05:39 PM
Hi , Kat...At first I was upset by this but you want to know your right BUT! it happens on both sides of the street women are just as guilty of this as men are I'm new on here and have had some people look at my profile and I've messaged some of them just to say thanks for looking and maybe we can talk some time and usally leave a nice coment about there profile.............hmmmmm guess whatmost don't even take the time to say thanks for the nice coment........never had a rude one yet but like I said I'm new on here I'm sure they'll come .......but you know what those that are rude.....most don't have room to talk have yet to meet j.lo here or barbie but then again not looking for either one of them in my life ....just looking to be happy , hope you don't let them bother you and find that right guy for you and by the way checked your profile your down to earth stay that way and don't let nit wits worry you

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 139 (view)

Why’ll She’ll Never Message You Back Posted: 4/13/2007 9:02:27 AM
OH My God! Why did I think this was going to be a help fourm for those of us who havn't dated in a real long time , and don't have a clue because of that reason. Players and D**k club members , there are those out here that do RESPECT! women and really do care to know How to approche or contect a women without offending her. Treating her with the most respect possible. Times have changed and We need to evlove beyond the caveman days. I care to know what makes a women happy , feel good about herself....ect. I truly feel women are worth the effort of constantly learning about..............We need to stop talking at each other and start talking to each other. Anyway I wish ALL warm summer breezes( hpe the critics will be nice just speaking from the heart)............sunset_romance

sunset_romance

Joined: 4/9/2007

Msg: 135 (view)

q for the guys--Tattoos on women--yes or no? Posted: 4/13/2007 8:23:03 AM
Hey! Becks, to tell the truth about my feelings on this I've seen some very stylish tats on women....butsome do take it to the extream. My feeling is If you feel comfortable with extream its all good after all in the end its on you. I've seen plenty of women look great with classy tats lacey , scroll work celtic...ect. its up to you.......warm summer breezes ay ya ........sunset

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