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Joined: 4/9/2007

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why do women shy away from guy that doesnt drink?? Posted: 5/30/2007 4:17:05 AM
Good for you and stay just the way you are. Ive been around for a bit and ive done the bar thing for lots of years, and i choose today to remember who im with and what im doing. That downt mean i have anything aginst drinking it just a ch oice ive made for me and it seems youve done the same. Stand by your convictions and i agree, i watched my husband die at 38 from drinking...life ist oo short and there are woman out there who will appreciate you values. Keep looking you will find the one!

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help Posted: 5/28/2007 7:21:38 PM
tell him to hit the pike!!Go on with your life , life is too short to waste on a pig. I know!!I had a wonderful husband, after 3 tries............2 jerks and then wow he was the best...and he died at age 38 suddenly without a seconds notice...and here i am trying to figure out why but i do know one thing...I MAY NOT be here tomorrow and when i die i want to know i did everything i could to make me happy and did NOt waste my time on a man that was a disloyal piece of crap so get rid of him... FAST

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Guy I met online keeps asking for money Posted: 5/21/2007 4:30:51 AM
This is something that has been happening for a while, not just on this site but on my space as well. i have had several emails from men and their profile says they are in one part of the United States but when you start talking to them they are in Nigeria doing either some type of Road work donstuction for a time or working in the oil fields. They start off by just being nice and friends and then you are their solemate and then after a period of time they hit you with something........its usually something bad that has happened and they always ask for money to come home and its always 500. that they ask for .....not alot just 500. Now i dont know about you but ive looked at the airline tickets and i cant get a ticket from upstate new york to california for 500. There was a show on Dateline or one of those shows that showed these men sitting in an internet bar and that is all they do all day from Nigeria is talk to women in the US and try to scheme them out of money. They target usually women that are overweight or in some way have a problem or so it seems, you know like me I am a widow. I have had one man say that due to the poverty situation that these men came in a robbed them at gunpoint and took all their belongings and hurt him and that he was using the Computer at the hospital that belonged to the doctor to try to find a way out of there and asked for 500. to "come home" as he said. Beware! I atold him to go fly a kite and so should you. It is either a way for them to scam money or they are subsidizing terrorism which in either case i dont want to be involved. I had one woman who saw that i was on the friends list of one of them, email me directly and she told me this guy i was talking to tried to scam her out of a lap top computer and that he was emailing ehr for months telling her he was in love with her and that she was his soulmate and she actually gave him her address and he sent her flowers and 2 money orders that valued 2100. and asked her to cash them and keep 1000 and send him the rest and the 1000 was for doing him that favor as he could not cash them in that country for one reason or another i am not sure what it was. She claims she took them to the bank and them to the FBI and i never heard what the outcome was but im betting they were frauds and he expectred her to put them into her bank accoount and send him the money and then after a few weeks that it would take to figure out they were no good, she would have been responsible for the money to the bank and would have been out the money she sent him. Be very careful and block him from sending you any further emails..that is what i did. It is very sad but we need to beware of any men on these sights!

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