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Joined: 2/12/2005

Msg: 175 (view)

Spray me, degrade me? Posted: 8/3/2006 12:32:25 PM
"I find that cumming in the face is just plain degrading?" Some people enjoying being degraded. I think it's fine so long as it works two ways - he lets you degrade him in some way - and you both treat it a game to spice up sex a bit.

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Why do guys give cell phone numbers instead of home numbers ...is that a clue they are taken? Posted: 8/3/2006 2:09:39 AM
Cell phones are mobile, which is great for me since often I don't tend to be home that much! And text messaging is a great way to chat, slowly, over the course of day.

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Myers-Briggs Personality type...if you know it? Posted: 8/3/2006 2:06:16 AM
I think I was INFP. But I haven't taken a test in a while.

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Definition of Love???? Posted: 8/3/2006 2:04:29 AM
Love is complex! It involves attachment, commitment, being close, passion, depression on separation, jealousy, sometimes increased heart rate and bowel movement(!), a mutual feeling of trust, security, and support, ...

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What else would you like to know? Posted: 8/3/2006 1:47:16 AM
Thanks guys, that's been useful. I shall have a wander around and see what I can see... D x x x

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Men or veg... Posted: 8/2/2006 12:38:10 PM
Are cucumbers good kissers? :-)

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What else would you like to know? Posted: 8/2/2006 12:11:04 PM
Just remembered, I wrote a bit more elsewhere http://forums.plentyoffish.com/4781519datingPostpage2.aspx "Well, I'm looking for someone who's passionate about something - anything except the latest TV programmes. Volunteer work, literature, science - anything, really. I have to feel that she has a cause which keeps her going, that she can explain to me with passion. Also I want someone who will listen to me when I rant on about my research. I want someone who's easy to be with. For me I guess that would include the ability to skip over small talk and get to the interesting stuff. And of course physical attraction, kissing, and the sex are all crucial too." Who am I - that's a good one. How do you really define who someone is? By what they do? What they think? How they look? What sort of people they like?

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What else would you like to know? Posted: 8/2/2006 12:01:36 PM
Not really sure what to write on my profile - tips? Questions?

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Would you leave him if he didn't go down on you? Posted: 8/2/2006 12:56:03 AM
Have you tried talking to him about it? Showing him what you like? I know it's an obvious question, but sometimes people need to be told the obvious :-)

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Msg: 91 (view)

Duration of intercourse Posted: 8/2/2006 12:50:49 AM
Cheap Trick Fan wrote, "I don't call ten minutes a quickie. I've rarely had a guy last longer than five minutes....sometimes less than two!!" She's right. The guys just lie about duration as well as size. The researches show less than 5 minutes. What research? Please do share the the references. If by "sex" you mean concentrated fast thrusting by the man in the missionary position until he ejaculates, then 5 mins is probably accurate. If this is your sex life, then you need to open your mind a bit. Personally when I have sex I like a lot of foreplay, kissing all over, oral, varying the speed of penetration, changing position. Each of these things make the feelings build. Usually I make my partner cum using oral sex (most women can't cum otherwise) then concentrate more on penetration, since it seems to feel nicer for a woman just after she has cum... I didn't mean to make that sound so mechanical - it was just an instance. What I'm saying is, sex can last as long as you both want it to. Cues like, "I want to feel you cum inside me" or "I want to cum inside you" or "make me cum" can help! Communcation, even if just a few breathy requests or moans, makes a big difference!!!

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This may sounds dumb but.. Posted: 8/1/2006 2:24:29 PM
Pretty simple - skinny girls are considered hot at the moment, probably mostly because of the media. Super skinny + madeup = almost look like the models that are in magazines. That doesn't mean that the guys who gawk won't also be deeply attracted to more curvaceous women though. Fake women generally aren't so good at conversation, and it doesn't follow that they'll be any good at making love....

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Msg: 64 (view)

Am I a prude? Posted: 8/1/2006 1:30:58 PM
Sometimes we do need answers that we think we already knew, though. I don't think it's unfair to ask for a sanity check.

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Am I a prude? Posted: 8/1/2006 1:20:38 PM
When you write, "he started pushing me to talk about sex," that suggests to me that you weren't at all happy with what he was writing! I don't think you overreacted at all - what happened must have been unpleasant, to say the least. I guess one thing you could have done would have been to say, explicitly, that you're not comfortable with him talking that way, to see what he does. That's if you really wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. But there's no guarantee that he didn't just message you for cybersex. Sorry that was a bit rambling, but I guess the central message is - no you didn't overreact.

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Women who make more money than men Posted: 8/1/2006 11:43:16 AM
I'd love for my girlfriend to earn more than me. So long as she shared :P

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Msg: 91 (view)

men don't listen Posted: 8/1/2006 11:36:43 AM
Do women listen to men? What you write seems very one sided - the old fashioned style, "Men, learn how to seduce women: step 1, listen to them, step 2, pleasure them the way they want, ..." Doesn't seem to me to be a very balanced way to begin a relationship, sexual or otherwise. Surely an important part of a conversation is ensuring balanced speaking and listening.

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Msg: 68 (view)

Boyfriend is Accusing me of cheating Posted: 8/1/2006 11:33:15 AM
Have you tried asking him why he thinks you cheated on him?

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