Any man willing to sleep with another mans wife has no morals or self confidence. "Not man enough to find one of your own?" Losers!

I'm digging these forums, it really shows me just why some of you are still single and projecting statements onto another person that you do not know clearly shows me some major issues going on, which bottom line means, do NOT make me pay for your past failures and your x's past failures. I will address one point clearly here, I absolutely am not the type that thinks my woman should stay at home, barefoot in the kitchen, in fact, I encourage them to find interests on their own to have something to share with me and to help them with their own identity, but man, if she's hanging out at the bars, she's not expanding her venue, she's just going back to the single life and will bore and frustrate the crap out of me in short order.

I'm not a trucker, but I'm in sales and travel frequently. This is a deal breaker for many women and forget it if they have kid(s) already, in my experience. Plus the fact just about every women I was ever with thought that sales = "you lie for a living" and you lie to me and bang women on the road.

I'm NOT seeking help, thank you. I've already done my work... it's the reaction of a man that worries me.... "used, soiled, dirty"...those are words that have been thrown around by some very superficial men out there.. was asking for some advice, Thanks!

"Please correct me if I’m wrong, but I was under the impression (after reading many of the threads here) that, generally speaking, women value emotional intimacy on about the same level as men value sex - as far as relationships are concerned.

its really hard to get - theres documentation of a guy who bareback humped an aids infected woman for years and never got it. cuz her fluids arent entering him.
last night on pbs they talked about how some people cantget aids atall! they r descendents of europeans who survived the plague and u can inject em with aids blood and they'll never get it

What I am learning though is that alot of women can't really quantify what it was that turned on their love response because they are responding emotionally

On a side note, it is a major turn off to see pictures of someone out and about with a drink in their hand. Particularly a woman in a mini skirt, on the street, with a bottle of cheap alcohol in hand.