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Joined: 4/11/2007

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What PlentyOfish has done to me? Posted: 11/6/2009 4:50:19 PM
Ehh hello, why dont people on here read deeper into what some one writes instead of just giving their half penny answers.. Its obvious from what this girl wrote that her life at home was boring to every extent, it must of being when she had to resort to a dating site to express her feelings as she said in her own words (I needed someone to tell me they loved me and show interest in me) where was her loving hubby then?? Of course this other guy gave her everything she wanted to hear, when you dont hear this from your so called lover you tend to look for this some where else and us women fall prey to a bit of attention... Dont sit and blame yourself for this for the rest of your life,, maybe it has just awakening something in your marriage and if it hasnt my advice to you would be to stop beating yourself for your husbands lack of communication & sit yourself down & think about your future and who you are spending the rest of your life with. In a marriage we are supposed to feel loved its not someting we should be seeking from other men when your own man is sitting beside you..

Joined: 4/11/2007

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my Irishlover Posted: 11/1/2009 11:46:19 AM
Hey girl, first of all disregard the nasty comments that certain individuals wrote,, as for being desperate well we could say the same for every one on POF after all everybody is on here trying to find that some one special coz it obviously aint working for them in reality. You sound like a genuine down to earth decent kinda woman, your still young your family is reared so my advice to you would be to grab a friend an come book yourself a holiday in Ireland. As you said you are American lady of Irish descent and very loving of it, so come on over and see what it's all about. You never know what life has in store so when you are here you can get to socialise with all the Irish Guys!! Also i should point out there are certain things in life that some of us prefer , I always had a thing for Military American Men, ask me why, well who no's its just sometings in life that attract us. So you go for what ever makes you happy & please dont spend your time explaining yourself to some silly individuals on here that are having such a great life that they have the time to come on here an answer your heart felt story,, I wish you all the best in what ever decision you make... x

Joined: 4/11/2007

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cant get over it Posted: 3/27/2009 7:54:45 AM
I agree with Irish Eyez,, this is what ruins most relationships,, jealousy & insecurity is a major problem,, you say she was your best friend, you say you use to lye awake at nights talking for hours, you had all this & yet you let it slip just because she was talking to other people... Well if one good thing has come out of this, its that you have learned the hard way,, next time round think beofre you act,, i do believe the people that point the finger in this life at others & acuse them of things ,are the ones with the problems, not the one your pointing your finger at..

Joined: 4/11/2007

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I don't know how to forgive someone and I think it's killing me a little bit day by day... Posted: 8/4/2007 2:48:14 PM
Hi girl, im posting u this thread from ireland...... Ive read with interest ur story & felt, like i was reading my own life story, from start 2 finish... Every sentence of ur story, almost every line i have read, relates 2 me in simallar ways... 1 thing i have 2 admire u for is the way u have put this down on paper, well not exactly paper on here, but almost the same... U have done here wat my counsellor advised me 2 do always, & that is get ur feelings down on paper with pen & wen finished rip it up & bin it... So good on u for coming on here & telling ur story... Only difference i can see with me & u is i have moved on, with great difficulty but ive gotten there in the end... It's not easy girl & it doesnt get any easier, but from wat i have read u are almost there... U have already risen above him but just 1 ting u just need 2 let it go.... Some people's comments on here dont make sense reason is they can give u there advice but they havent been in the same situation & i do believe that the only advice u can take is from some1 who has been in ur situation... Ive just come back from my 1st girlie holiday "EVER" as i was never allowed 2 have one wile married 2 him... I also went 2 a Tatoo Artist & had ((1 Life No Regrets)) enscrolled on my hip, people say are u for real i say yes coz the only regrets i have are the ones i didnt commit.... I could go on & on here all nite telling u this that & the other but i wont bcoz as far as i can see u have it all 2 gether anyway... U got a lot 2 be happy for hun... Uve beaten him, even thou u may not realise it yet, uve beaten a long term illness just like myself... u got ur son the pride & joy of ur life, an as u said wats he got Little annie Orphan... u shud see who my monster ended up with, gives me pleasure just looking at the 2 of them... Well suited, & i am well rid of him... So i will leave u on this note... Keep ur head up as high as u can, walk down the street with pride, u got a lot 2 be proud of bcoz u have just removed the most unbalanced thing from ur life & that was.... HIM>>>>>>> I wish u all the best in the future hun, take good care of urself & ur child...xxxxxx Kaytana..... Ireland

Joined: 4/11/2007

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HELP....! I'm not catching enough fish... ladies opinions please Posted: 7/18/2007 4:50:05 PM
Hi.... I think there's only 1 way 2 be in this life & that is 2 get straight 2 the point... U asked for opinions well here goes... U need 2 delete the 2nd picture in ur profile.. The full face 1 of you. Reason, ur a nice looking guy, but 2 nd picture does u no justice... Secondly, ur profile is sweet, i have read it, & wat u done letting ur son fill in the parts was nice... BUT.. An theres always a but..lol... Not all women tink like me... I can tell from ur profile that ur a caring loving dad, but 2 be honest hun, most women reading this would just stop after paragraph 1... I think ur son has inheritted your gift of the paragraphs..lol... bless him.. Nothing wrong with it, but personally if u wana go fishing i think you should redo ur profile again... & just a tip leave out the bit that says, u have pretty women eating out of ur hand...lol... Ok hun, good look in the future & i hope next time we speak u will have read these comments, and all the other ones, & something has changed for u... All the best Kaytana... xxxxxxxxx

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